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the sand and champagne pics look good.

gosh that eight week old fetus looks like an alien.

MsBliss:
It doesn't look suffer head to me o.I love grocery shopping . There's fun in writing your list.,There's fun in going to market where you would meet different people from all works of life from the high to the lowly. Then nothing come sweet pass doing aprico that is over prising the food and buying it less than you budgeted and then KEEPING THE CHANGE.

this is only fun in the village where their markets are swept daily and always clean with no air pollution. in the towns or city ehn. no go there o. agberos will make you regret coming.always clutching your purse so that no one steals it from you. lol

shaybebaby:
I think it depends on areas here, I may be wrong. Lol @ they are asking Le boo, Wetin you wan do strong man?

You think? A small woman can still do damage when angry.

babygirlfl:
As a woman, expecially a Nigerian woman, you can't win in the court of public opinion. So you just have to do what you have to do because whatever you do, you can't just win. If a woman reports a man that is physically abusing her, they will say you sent him to jail. When you die from his beating, they will say why did a grown woman not know when to leave.

Lol @court of public opinion.

shaybebaby:
Maybe she doesn't know how, information is power. In this uk again, the guy chop liver oooo!

Well I don't know how she can't know. Maybe UK is different but everywhere around here, you have numbers posted and signs with numbers which you can call if you're a victim of domestic violence.
The moment you pick up the phone, you will get assistance immediately.

Even when I go to see my doctor, the first question he asks me is "do you feel safe at home?" even if you say yes, they will still give you a number to call in case anything changes.
Le boo confirmed that they ask him the same because I was wondering if it's a sexist practice.

Chances are she knows. Just that The bond is strong and cannot be broken easily.

I feed myself first.
Then my children.

Jorussia:
you are absolutely right. One of my aunt oversea is a victim of this.

How sad. Some despite the protection they can get actually sit and wait until something irreversible happens.
Just because they don't want to lumped in with all those 'foreign wives' that send their husbands to jail.

When he was selecting his son as a partner in his entourage, that's when one had to know he's not serious.

Why some ladies don't report such anymore is because when they do,the man will be locked up and people will blame them for 'sending' him to jail.

2goodbobo:
I heart goes out to you Woman. I can only imagine what you are going through. You have done all you can to
be a good wife and a help mate but it seems he does not regard you. My advice is whenever he does anything to
harm you, report him to the authority so that he won't try such because if he does, he will face the full wrath of
the law. What kind of a man will involve his family in his marital affairs? He is just being selfish and stingy at the
same time.

And no joint account is not a must. you have the right to your individual account. Lazzy ass man>

Every other thing may be a non issue, but the beating you up is one you shouldn't tolerate.
And beating you up while pregnant? Girl you need to secure your safety fast as you can. You can even see he's not remorseful.
At least the fact that you went into a coma after that emergency CS should have been a wake up call for him to know how close he came to losing you. If he's still not changed after that, I'm sorry to say he won't change anytime soon unless he's fed up by his own attitude. Nothing you do will change him. He's the one that needs advising, not you.

But please for now, go to somewhere safe. Marriage must not end in death.

Abduletudaye:
Its over hyped abeg...Period....but i really hail women....

You weren't Feeling what she was feeling.
How would you know?

all4naija:
Ha! I read that correctly. There is some element of enviousness in that statement. You probably one of them as your bodyguard.

bodyguard? You betcha.

They must have spent a lot to get him to this stage now. Wow

Handsome bobos

MsPat:
So on point.....

very funny

Aww. What women go through sha.

successnwa:
Chai wonderful experiences

My first pregnancy was fun lol, I never threw up or fell sick. First trimester was sleeping, the sleeping levels fear my hubby. Before he goes to work, he will make sure i lock the gate before leaving, reason is that while sleeping even I was moved to the moon I couldn't know nor wake up.

As soon as he goes out, I will sharply prepare peppered noodle. I goes to sleep immediately with noodle, white agidi, bread and tea, pop corn cooked groundnut beside me. When i roll over i will help myself with some. I will sleep till hubby comes back and knock on the gate.

At second trimester the sleeping stops miraculously. It was then a new episode of mama blessing jellof rice, her place is very far from my house. I don't miss her rice every noon two plate with chilled Malta Guinness and our local drink kunu (aya) at a go.

I remember hubby and I strolling on the street at third trimester, I perceived the smell of cooked corn I stopped. Hubby asked what is it, is the baby coming . I ignored him,i start following and tracing where the aroma of the cooked corn is coming from. I stopped eventual relieved I have found the place, it was at a provision store. I greeted her,
She said wetin you wan buy
I told her I won buy cooked corn oo
She replied, I know dey sell corn oo, na my family night food oo.
I didn't know what else to do, meanwhile hubby was looking at me astonished, like is this lady OK God let her off load sharply.
I start begging this woman for the cooked corn even do is the smallest, or anyhow.
She laughed and gave me three at a go. I didn't waste time start eating it.
Hubby said you are not eating that on the street and follow me.
I laughed and said obim watch and see. I ate it like two months starved person, like my life depends on it.

I will come back with my second and third experiences.


One love

VictoriaBee:
That's a Canadian site not American.
I was shocked when people started mentioning America.
Obsession, I guess.

really?

Well it is true Nairalanders are obsessed with America. Even when GEJ or buhari fvcks up, they will blame 'the west' by interpretation America for it.

VictoriaBee:
You have a point.
I came across a polyandry in ireland(?) thread and saw how Nairalanders were spitting venom about "end time things".
End time things evacuates when it's polygamy.

lolz

onegig:
nairaland deosnt even delete. What was done was just to hide your name under a suffix anoynymous. Just check the leaderboard below on your birthday and you would be amzed to find you userid boldy written and guess what. That's the account you assumed you deleted.

Once it is online you can't just walk away.

then I put nairaland total membership at about 100k users at most.

Kimoni:
Today might just be all4naija's day judging by all his comments on people's food today. Just that nobody really cares, most people I mean.

Has nothing to do with all4naija, some things just never surprise me again

yea I guess

Amis:
Egusi with bitter leaf to cool down the thread...as FannySwindler adviced...everybody come and eat oo

very nice.

I want this one too.

Kimoni:
all4naija I pity you. And I don't think you know how to curse.

cococandy, you better come and drag this ur best friend all4naija from this thread?? Cuz he has said much more than what Fannyswindler posted initially on this thread but we all just laugh it off. All4naija will even quote your post directly. Those were the days of babyosisi though.

Even Efe knows how to handle him well without derailing the thread or cursing unecessarily.

I don tire for all4naija.

I've told him severally the day they will beat him,my hand no dey.

You're right he's even said worse. Imagine saying the background of someone's food looks unhygienic. He will even complain about your plate

All4naija stop looking for trouble o. I won't defend you when they whoop your ass.

Poor fannyswindler. He's even paying for all4naija's sins without knowing it. Lol.

But you did not see the whole thing, how do you know it was hyped?

I liked that his hair o.

mentorandfriend:
News reaching me now from my colleagues has it that this nice doctor is dead.
He had a head-on collision with his Toyota Corolla into an oncoming trailer.
He was two sets ahead of me in medical school. We trained in same University. I know him personally. Very nice gentleman.

Rest in Peace Dr Henry. This world is just worthless.

Lalasticlala, please find a way to let people know this, so the search and all the harshtags trending on twitter and facebook in search of him can end.

eya.

Really sad.

shaybebaby:
Oh I also followed that link to the website you showed me, cococandy. Loads of recipes there. I guess a trip to London to get the needed ingredients is on the cards.

you go girl

FannySwindler:
People should be sincere for once. Look at all my post. Check where people abuse me. I have never abused anyone. Even when cococandy was been attacked... I defended her and tried to pacify the other party. I didn't finger point or abuse anyone. Don't even know Cococandy..

Ewuro4... Picked on me..despite I tried to ignore... And I even joked about her passing me her reminant since am a low life. Jokingly said invite some of us for bfast, lunch or dinner rather than just posting.

How humble can one be.

Softysparky has spoken. That's it.

it's ok. Just Let it go.

Maybe you're new to this section but people tend to be edgy around here because some people know how to be unnecessarily critical. so we sometimes overreact if someone comes with any unwarranted criticizms.

I remember someone coming at me one time to stop editing my food pictures to appear colorful before I post
Why on earth would I do that? I explained to the fellow that I use iPhone6 so the pics come out like that naturally and all hell let loose. literally. She abused my family, my husband my life and everything in it for saying that. As in why should I say that instead agreeing with her that I edit my food photos?

Or someone else creating alternate accounts to abuse my food. Food o. No be say the food insult am. I can't deal.

So you can imagine why it's easy to misunderstand jokes.

I believe now you know. Next time, if it's not food picture. Abeg don't post. Make posters no visit the anger of last transgressors on you.

shaybebaby:
Thanks chick. I'll see what I can find on there. 7 different dishes, omo, I am going to be as grumpy as fvck at the end of the week.

why do you have to do 7 different dishes anyway?

If you're grumpy, he won't enjoy you o.

So instead of outdoing yourself,just do the much you can without being fatigued so that you dedicate the rest of you to making his stay enjoyable if you know what I mean.

Shaybebaby, why not also peruse this website?
http://www.nigerianfoodtv.com/2012/05/nigerian-food-recipes.html?m=1

I love it. So many ideas that you will be spoilt for choice.

SAMBARRY:
now I like this new cococandy

not the overajeboish suegbe doll

lol.