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TV01:
I think Vivaldiva99's analysis is closer to the mark. His sleeping around is forced - and probably encouraged by her to make it seem equal. She's the one who want's to slut around. He doesn't want to lose her, she doesn't care. Indeed, he lost her already, she has just artfully arranged things to keep it convenient and him at her service.


I would have said this was spot on - except for one thing. Feminism is not about "equality" it's about female privilige - to act as they like without consequence. Which is what she's got - along with a baby sitter she occassionally treats to sex.

And there's no such thing as an open marriage - by definition marriage is about fidelity.
Men always maintain higher status in your wifes eyes - attraction hinges on it and without it she is liable to stray.


TV

Vivalavida99:
Now my question is, does feminism has anything to do with open marriage? Not at all feminism has nothing to do with open marriages. It's about equality in a marriage, work, social environments, and parenting. Marriage is for the purpose of bearing children, which means having sex, which means she's out getting f'd! She's in a position to bear another man's child. How is that equality? It's not! It's her taking advantage of a dipsheet husband who's been brow-beaten into compliance so that she can get her way. She's getting free dinner and sex while you're bearing the cost and responsibility of her maintenance! Your relationship isn't based on any sense of feminism. There's no equality there. She's having her cake and eating it, too! And you're endorsing her lifestyle while she's out playing the field! Either end your sham marriage for the sake of the children, or demand devotion for the same reason because this relationship isn't a relationship. It's roommates with children.

thorpido:
The statement I got from the mouth of one of the police officers who brought the corpse was that the crime was committed by a group of young boys and that some of them have been apprehended.

Very young boys are doing terrible things now.You will be amazed what some secondary school boys re up to nowadays.

obiksam:
If some are witch how do you know. She is the one that is a witch, debolic and suffering from spiritual husband for her to be running out. She can't pray nor read the bible she will instantly fall asleep. I believe that it is the mother in-law prayers that is forstrating her. Because when he married her the mother in-law lost her husband after one year he lost his job after another a year and half she has runaway more than three times and keep coming back and the fool never care to ask and no why and where she have been running to until this last one. So please don't think that the mother in-law is a witch

thorpido:
Yea

I don't think it was a case of just being possessed.The head was cut off,the belly ripped open(don't know if he took out the heart or another organ)and cut off the privates.It must have been a ritual job.

edwife:
Low as you can get



So you think wrapper and boxer will save you hun?

What does it take to remove them?seat down there,even at that if you think being preggy will exempt you-you are on a long tin.....

Unless you have medical reason.

FannySwindler:
Amis. Your food is always inviting. Certainly a balanced diet. The type of food that nourishes body and soul.

Cococandy. Am salivating....that's what I call a nourishing meal.

Better than some Gluten Sensitive Enteropathy Food that is commonly eaten by backpackers as Breakfast Or that could inflame one's small intestine producing gas that smells to high heavens.

damiso:
Yes its like stew but made with green peppers.

edwife:
Time to get this thread back on track!

Efemenaxy your order has arrived....

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Those are what i call "avant gout" before the real deal.We still early in the day,we shall resume at night.

byvan03:
I for fear how I no go dey to rub your waist when nah my daughter you carry.

obiksam:
I Tire ooh, he is taking good care of the two kids by himself. I dont see any reason why she should sent such sms

SAMBARRY:
ok you mean asampete omalishanwa

Ehen I got it.I hear Igbo too

damiso:
So am not the only one with lethargy setting in ..

Still on day 17 and not returned to JM since Friday ..
Been running and jogging though and was able to clock about 50 km last week( I think it's about 35 km actually don't trust those apps)

Will move to level 2 this evening .. Woke up mega late this morning

Naija parties ehn and healthy eating are like poles apart. Let me report myself small sha Now I know God is delivering me small small I was quite busy with the children and eventually sat down to eat like 5pm my friend got me rice and ayamase and I told her Lai Lai can't eat all that she said I will eat with you . The oil was just making my tummy queasy I gave up after a couple of spoons I had puff puff sha managed it with water through out .you know puff puff is do filling but gosh I felt guilty through out.

I need to return to JM sharply I can feel the 5/6 puff puff(yes that many ) in my hips

bigboss80s:
Nice, but enough with the "diamond-encrusted." Do u know how much a single diamond costs? Those are at best Swarovski crystals.

Amis:
This looks good

troy20:
i dont have to take yourside always you know.this one time i'm for the op not making hasty emotional short term decisions she might wish eventually she never made.and yea how about you pursue more strongly the adoption of divorce courses in our school curricular.you seem to have a wonderful team behind you.

byvan03:
Wow!! Edwife I love the second one more .



Moca is that coco's baby?

moca:
Cococandy,
Welcome to the club.
Congrats.

For u guys.

babygirlfl:

My dear, the way most Nigerians reason would get any sane person frustrated. The frustration gets worse when you try to pass any message across to them. The most annoying part is always when women try to justify the rape or murder of another woman. This whole thing is just evidence of a dysfunctional society.