₦airaland Forum

Ewuro4:
Drastic times calls for drastic measures.

Congrats Cococandy. I hope you have a spît cup handy?

queenfav:
My lunch...vegetable sauce,spicy steamed fish and white rice.

EnlightenedSoul:
Lol, there's no correlation between feminism and polyamory.

But how ironic that people readily endorse polyamory on the sly (cheating) over an honest, and open polyamorous relationship?

chinma414:
madam oya tell us your team and stop peeping.

otiigba1:
Absolutely! But also picture this, some time ago i picked up a girl from a club had a good night with her she gave me kiss good bye the next morning we exchanged phone numbers.

A week later she accused me of rape, apparently her fiance found out she has cheated with me, instead of admitting she has cheated it was easy to claim she was raped, you sound like a well learned individual and i would highly respect your opinion on this.

Do you think i raped her? Be very honest, some women are evil you know?

senbonzakurakageyoshi:
Away from the whole distraction with ITalo's catholicism and denominational christianity and back to the main topic at hand:

I would like to think the main problem with modern African religion and the modern African religious construct is actually something ancient: fear. We are too afraid to question what we've been told. And funnily enough, that fear wasn't invented with Christianity or Islam - it was a part of the religions our forefathers adhered to. The gods in our traditional religions were swift, vengeful and ruthless. The chief priests held the people in awe of the gods' powers and threatened followers with punishment if they displeased the gods. And, of course, it was only convenient for those who brought us the religions we adhere to today to key into that already existing formula to achieve the same results. We modern religious adherents inherited that fear from our old religions and adapted it into modern religion. God is always hovering over our shoulders with a whip to hand out punishments whenever we default - especially when we refuse to believe in him. Which makes it no surprise that, in the same way our forebears had to offer sacrifices to keep the gods pleased and keep their blessings coming, modern African adherents have to sow seeds and make constant offerings to make God happy and keep his blessings coming. All this in spite of the fact that we still hold the creed that God is a benevolent, all-loving God.

Modern African religions, in my purview, are not religions in its purest form. It is an amalgamation of tenets of our old traditional religions (especially the use of fear to subjugate and control) and old European/Middle Eastern dogma all wrapped up in a modernist package. And till we learn to throw off that cloak of fear, that idea that God wants to remain hidden in a shroud of mystery and, as a results, we shouldn't ask questions, we will continue to fall victim to the negative aspects of religious beliefs.

jnrbayano:
You don change gender?

shaybebaby:
The op is a learner.

glimpse:
are you pregnant? because this your rice craving na assorted to the power of infinity

shaybebaby:
You don't want to know , you go fear!!!

milychocs:
I have refused to grow
I still have them

opella:
Day 12, level 2 day 2 done. First pix, day 1 JM workout ( 6 months post partum), 2nd pix Day 12 JM workout.

ForcefullBULL:
Most normal women dont fantasise about sex. Sexual fantasy is a man's thing. Any woman who fantasise about sex would be a nymphomaniac. Men can fantasise about sex with more women at a time. No sane woman would want to have sex with multiple men.

jnrbayano:
Fixed

bukatyne:
I think the wife brought it up first when she told him how she liked another man's kissing and wanted to go further?

Who has that discussion with a spouse they respect? (Except they are both into crazy things before)