₦airaland Forum

FrancisTony:
I wanted to quote that hypocritical comment but no time for his back and forth.

5minsmadness:
The man has told you he is married, yet you still go after him.
Then tomorrow you marry and pray the same won't happen to you.
If the women had more dignity I'm themselves and refused spreading thier legs inspite of financial gains offered then there would be fewer mistresses.

In the end society is to blame. In our wisdom we have gone far from God and morality. Baby mamas are now celebrated and those who castigated them are accused of slut-shaming. They are admonished not to judge. And society continues to rot.

If we can retrace our steps and return to our high levels of morality and shun western curruption maybe we can pull ourselves out if this quagmire.

olenyi:
Exactly my point all along. A lot of people are fooled and form an unhealthy misconception about marriage.

After reading all these thesis from western media's, they get married and the hubby or wife is not doing those things, they will come on here screaming that their partner is not loving and romantic enough.

It doesn't work that way. Every union is unique in its own way. Comparism is a bad thing in marriage. Its so unhealthy.


Regards.

AAinEqGuinea:
Why can't these achievements materialize in any progressive manner for Nigeria? I've always knew and respected that something was different about Africans, but as I'm "seeing" more of Nigeria via cyberspace it's troubling to see that their efforts has little to no gains for their homeland. Sure, African blacks have shown they can run as fast if not faster than everyone else but are you going anywhere? Have AA went anywhere? Individual Nigerians are doing well, but what about 90% of everyone else who suffers from 3rd world problems? What about the growing number of potential black Einsteins whose fate was cut short, added to BH's death toll everyday. With Nigerians being so goddamn smart, why did their 2015 president election come down to these two (GEJ and GMB) at this moment in history?? ( not trying to politically derail, but I often wondered)

If Blacks are playing this IQ game to convince white people and the world that blacks are just as, if not more, intellectually astute as every other race than Africa as a continent has achieved this goal predating slavery, continuing with African Americans, carried on by Carribeans and now Nigerians and other African ethnicities are running strong. At this point I'm of sick of it because it appears Black people's hardwork is done in vain. Are we prided by what we're contributing to the brain drain? If so, I honestly think this is another form of slavery.

olenyi:
@op are you married? Because all this copy and paste from western social media sites most times is not attainable here in naija.

I would love to see you do a write up from your personal experience not copy and paste.


Regards.

PAGAN9JA:
]NIGERIAN FEMALE-

NO BRAIN. ONLY BOOTY.

ONLY FIT FOR EXPORTING PROSTUTION TO FOREIGN COUNTRIES AND AT HOME.

AND other s.exual acts.

NO INTELLECTUAL DEVELOPMENT.

NO REPRESENTATIVE IN POLITICS. LITERATURE. RIGHTS.ETC.

ONLY SIDELINE CHEERLEADERS.[/size]


continue showing your a$$ and other body parts to the world. Make i clap for una.



71,345,488 males : 69,086,302 females

Yet not a single female governor in site. President is a far-cry.

Half the population of our nation is only concerned with displaying uwkwu. no other ambition.

shameful.


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MicroBox:
My babe got angry when I said the same thing to her....she's based in Ireland before her marriage,., it's more or less like you are telling them they have cancer.. they never take it likely especially the lazy ones that are afraid to hit the gym..Next time watch your mouth..She might even block you

o42austino:
thanks for understanding my point, I spoke with my cousin this evening, I told him about making a case out of it but, he said that he will wait still she done born many pikin for the man then he will strike, that a vulture is a patience bird.

o42austino:
u made sense but, we can not continue to be lawless in this nation, peeps should be made to be answerable to their actions, she may not get jail term but, she could be made to pay damages, that alone will show her to my cousin could bite also.

o42austino:
we want them to experience the pain his going thru, how can someone marry a woman that is married without asking her of her divorce papers?, I think the guy did it because he thinks he has money.

Sagamite:
You, your cousin and your prophet/pastor are all mentally ill.

Seeing a psychiatrist is the best decision you all can make.

Akposy:
What are they celebrating

Akposy:
Where is babyosisi..... Why did she deactivated her acct? Any alternate acct?

EfemenaXY:
What is the battered wife waiting for?

Opportunities like this are few and far between. She should grab it with both hands and press charges against the randy goat. File everything fileable, and press everything pressable against him. And while she's at it, she should take him to the drycleaners and empty his (stolen loot) accounts.

Or is she too blind to see that her deaconess prayers are finally being answered? All that dry fasting has really paid off.

She better be quick and not mess up.

NobleG1:
Those telling you to do nothing are nothing but hypocrites!

None of them here would want you to keep quiet if they were in the same shoes with your brother's wife! Cheating is a serious danger to any marriage/relationship, which could either destroy the marriage or cause serious damage to the kids or even cause death (the side chic could kill your bro's wife to takeover).

Your brother is a cheater, he's doing something terrible and if you keep quiet about it, then you're no different from him. Sit your bro's wife down privately and tell her what you observed and she'll be glad that you did. Tell her to investigate and confirm before confronting her husband. Don't fail to let her know the name (Henry) to investigate on her husband's phone.

And advise her to not involve you. She will do everything in her power to protect you while she goes into action mode with her quest. Don't worry about causing any problem, you're doing the right thing. It will change your brother for good and strengthen their marriage when the side-chick is no more in the picture. But if it causes their divorce, don't blame yourself, your brother has himself to blame for being unfaithful, cheating and disrespecting his wife, his kids and his marriage.

Even if you don't tell her, she'll definitely find out soon because cheating can't be hidden for long. And if she also finds out you knew and kept quiet, you'll NEVER be in her good-book.