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dinachi:
But you know I am saying the truth na.

dinachi:
On the contrary I try as much as possible to run away from trouble here. I only attack in self defence.

dinachi:

ladygogo:


As an Abeokuta woman I do all of that and more.

dinachi:
Chai this babe you wicked oh! Why you hate me like this Na?

Ishilove:
I know friendly banter when I see one, and what went down here was anything but friendly.

Anyway, how can someone as handsome as you are be such a rabble rouser? (assuming that is you on your dp)

dinachi:
So you want Ishilove to ban me e kwa? Dinachy is actually a nice substitute!

pickabeau1:
But u respond in bits,,...yes?

pickabeau1:
I don't know much about the Spainish peoples...

I know its also a big deal in Brazil

millionaireman:
When the river is muddy from its head, the rest of the river remains muddy. Has PMP declared as required?

pickabeau1:
This is also true
Even Asian ladies too

pickabeau1:
True

But I am sure its not every guy who spent on his girl that had the opportunity to sleep with the girl
Some women even tell you they are saving for marriage yet will be sleeping with someone else on the side

but it was done in the hopes that it would make her relax and open up.

Not totally true
I knew and know so many guys who are not getting anything yet they support their girls

ha. Ever heard there's no free gift? Guys as I grew up to find out don't give free gifts. I know you won't agree but when my mama was constantly telling us never to accept gifts from men, I personally though she was being paranoid. How can you accuse every guy of wanting something from you because they gave you things. Well it turned out to be true. In fact there's no free drink in that land. It's all building up to something and if it gets to 'relationship' level. Know that your body 'belongs' to the guy and it will only be a matter of time before he begins to ask for 'his right'

The so called movement you hear of is a result of guys saying NO To secondary virginity

whats wrong with secondary virginity? Anyway topic for another day.


You have answered the q

Girls see pocket money and allowances as an obligation
My addendum is that this holds true whether sex is involved or not yea. But I'd say some girl. I can't deny that to some girls, love is not enough and sex is always involved in such cases.

sonofananimal:
NIGERIA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS

NOW SHE HAS SUCCESSFULLY KILLED THE MAN,




NIGERIA WOMEN ARE LIKE BLACK WIDOW SPIDER WHO ALWAYS KILL THERE HUSBAND

pickabeau1:
Let the women answer you

Q: Is there a culture of obligation to provide for your girlfriend/fiancé in Naija and why does this exist

CC: edwife cococandy Kimoni freecocoa

dinachi:
I have asked !
Okay. Every individual defines their own version of the concept? Does this also apply to the concept of who a real man is?
Wow! Making sense seriously....So women attempting to define a real man may actually be following characteristics that match their perceived personality.
Feminists una don hear am? Stop trying to give us your universal view of who a real man is! There is no singular answer to that question.
OK. Now give us your own cococandy view of who a real woman is. We are waiting !

troy20:
oh i am shuddering and there is no justification for murder so this is insanity then.you enter into marriage with someone, sane and the only means to get out is this.if you arnt secured in such union where else would you be.i mean for something to do you this bad to choose a death sentence or live imprisonment... frankly this sh!t is really frightening. turning a man into a murderous beast takes alot of determination .

9niceguy:
It is Due to their experience o.
Like i heard that Abeokuta/Ijebus are wicked (pls pardon me for saying that, that's what I was told).
And more so, Once you marry their lady as a man, your wife will never allow you to care or even attend to any of your relation anymore. And if a lady marry their men, it is like he use her for money rituals.
........

As a priest; a husband subjects himself to Christ and opens the Word and leads his family daily through worship.
As a provider; the husband works hard to ensure that the family is well fed and nourished decently dressed and taken care of in all areas.

As a protector; he shelters his family from physical, emotional and spiritual attacks/harms. A godly husband the man of the house will stand up for his marriage and defend his wife and children and fight for his family's salvation.

troy20:
maybe its better black men and men taking wives from home just have a child or two out of wedlock just like its envogue with the whitemen.you settle with there mother to have full responsibility for your children.then find a woman to cohabitate with if and when you want to.the institution of marriage is even dying anyway.give it a few more decades.you look at the comments and lack of grace of women here even, am shuddering at the thought of getting married.maybe its the fear that has made me not yet married.

armyofone:
Good morning Coco,

Aha, leave Kabonic because I don't think he read that line well before he clicked the submit button. That was so funny and I just smh ummm o di kwa serious.
Good morning Kabonic.