Romance › Re: Mr Nairaland Interview (day 2) by cococandy(f): 8:01pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Awwww.  Don't worry we will all vote for you. Akposy: Thank you
I would make sure unequality is completely eradicated. I will also stop the assault and maltreatment of defenseless people.
My NL crush is Cococandy!! I love the way she cook and present her dishes.
My aim in life is to come into fame and be known for impacting positively in all aspect and endeavours.
Yes. I can! My mother would understand...opportunity comes but once. If i dont slap her, whe would pack me out of her house and stop fending for me |
Politics › Re: See What Some Streets In Lagos Look Like After Heavy Rainfall (photos) by cococandy(f): 6:57pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 5:48pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
bukatyne: Gerra way you 
You should have called me aww I'm sorry. Not.  |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 5:42pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Bukatyne how much do you have? I have the raw unedited copy |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Chillisauce: lol. Ok, the picture will be displayed on friday evening by 8pm Nigeria time. All participants should wear black gown 
failure to arrive on time, you pay a fine.
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 5:39pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
edwife: ahahahahaha  
From size 10 to 8 but i want to go back to 10 a little,Ed is complaining...  it is from size ten you won't know when you creep back to 12 and then 14  Pls Stay where you are. With little relent in exercise you will just go one or two size up without noticing. If you try to consciously do it, You will go 4 sizes up. |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 5:04pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 5:00pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
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Family › Re: I was Locked In a Room For 7 Months and forced to marry Him: Wife tells judge by cococandy(f): 4:56pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Psycho dude. |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
edwife: Ok come waiting....
Yawning......  yawning? Are you still feeling sleepy?  |
Family › Re: h by cococandy(f): 3:59pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
lovelymam: My husband is not a talking type he likes keeping it to himself and is not helping the matter. How can you know when things go wrong if he didn't open up. I'm not a lazy type. I had a business centre before it was demolished. I know I may b stubborn at early stage of marriage of which every newly married couple experience that but not any more. All my prayer everyday is God change my weaknesses. May b I'm giving him too much attention. All I want is to engage myself with something again but he refused that since I started staying at home with kids that they hardly fall sick. Yes he pays monthly salary but money is not my problem. Respect me a little please. All I want is a happy home. I want to work again, I want to be financial independent. Let me go out like other women instead of sitting at home everyday. I'm not used to this kind of lifestyle no one knows tomorrow as you know an idle mind is devil's workshop. I'm I asking for too much.
Note: nairaland is a faceless forum before I come here I believe to get the help I need of which if I keep on lieing it won't help me in any way because I know I'm doing myself. Thanks You're not a child. If you want to get something doing, then do. Just find a balance. After vexing he will calm down. And once he sees you're making it work he won't have anything to object to again. Since communication isn't working between you too, then he's left you no choice. Abeg I hate it when some ladies act like their husband is their father that dictates everything they can or cannot do to them. Fathers don't even do that. Ugh. |
Family › Re: h by cococandy(f): 3:55pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
What's all these 'he will not allow me to do this or that' Are you a baby? |
Family › Re: h by cococandy(f): 3:55pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Madam!!!
If you want nairalanders to give you their candid opinion/solution to your relationship problem just go straight to the point. Don't tell us that you married him when he had nothing. Nothing bores us like that statement........ Why does it matter what he had when you married him? 98% of Nigeria guys married their women when they have nothing yet nobody hears about it. Lol. I thought Nigerian ladies only marry rich or ready-made men. |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 3:44pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
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Crime › Re: Let's Join Hands Together To Fight RAPE! by cococandy(f): 11:29pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
50calibre: Exactly my point, so it was irrelevant for that idio*t to emphasise her age
he's not the victim here but his stup*idity could turn him into the victim real quick. This isn't about humanity, it's about an over zealous, eager to please sissy boy who takes matters into his own hands, matters which don't concern him.
Turning a blind eye in this case would be a bad idea, after all the owner of the house deemed it fit to leave a gateman at home alone with a maid... That was his responsibility, that was his cross to bear. The best the guy should have done was alert people close by.
This has everything to do with feminist propaganda, the thread heading reads " We must fight against rape"... This is a very popular feminist campaign used to destroy lives of innocent men & this sissy boy is ignorantly championing that campaign.
Rape is not worse than murder, I don't fall for the hype. Of course rape is not worse than murder. Would you encourage him to turn a deaf ear when he hears someone being killed in the next compound? Or would you say whatever happens to the killer is on his head? As if the killer is now the victim. Go figure. |
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 10:13pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Edwife  One minute sinceeeeeeeee |
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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 9:46pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
edwife: cococandy come o,you are the chosen one  I'm elated. What's in the goodybag |
Family › Re: Look Very Well Before You Leap,most Humans Are Pretentious by cococandy(f): 9:42pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Gaborone: I know violence is involved, but your string of advice championing divorce may be getting too long. I neither stalk nor follow you, but I know this much because 1 out of 2 of your posts I come across usually carry the divorce message.
Maybe you should tone down a bit. That's your business. If someone says her life is in danger my first advice will be to run. Always. And that's only when I say such. Not that I owe you any freaking explanation nor will I foolishly consider saying someone should work on a relationship where there is danger so that busybodies like you won't blab nonsense. But it's quite annoying and presumptuous of you. That you actually expect me to tailor my post to your reading pleasure. Maybe if it's a non issue I'll pass without commenting. So if you happen to always see only my comments that involves running away from the abuser, it means that's the only threads I deemed it fit to comment on. You could type your own suggestion instead of counting who's saying what. Lol OP pls stay and let him hit you with the buckets and rods he can find so until the baby falls out of your womb. That's not really what I want to type but I'm typing it so that Gaborone won't be offended  |
Family › Re: Look Very Well Before You Leap,most Humans Are Pretentious by cococandy(f): 9:21pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Gaborone: It's just so easy for some to crow 'Divorce!!!!'.
No suggestions as to counselling, trial separation, family meeting, nothing. Just...'Divorce!!!!!!'.
Cococandy, sambarry et al, you guys should form a divorce meet-up group already. someone is hitting a pregnant woman with objects and they should consider family meeting and counseling?  So that what will happen? They will get back together and he will finish the job Abi? It's easy to take life for granted until you die. Other things are salvageable but not violence. erm if you want to counsel on family meeting pls do, but ignore my post while you do. You can encourage her to endure it and hope she doesn't die in it, I don't think it's up to you to tell me to do the same. |
Family › Re: He Would Have Been 1 Year Today by cococandy(f): 8:58pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Pls accept my condolences @OP |
Crime › Re: Let's Join Hands Together To Fight RAPE! by cococandy(f): 8:17pm On Jun 10, 2015*. Modified: 8:46pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
50calibre: Stupi*dity at its peak! A 17 year old girl is little in your universe right? anybody can be raped. If they 17 or 50 doesn't make it less of a crime. Sometimes sef I dey wonder where you drop your humanity when you type some comments. I agree he took a risk but what do you mean by whatever happens to the guy is on his head. Is he a victim here? So you saying we should turn our eyes when someone is being raped to avoid pleasing 'feminista'. Color me confused. What has that got to do with the thread bikonu? |
Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by cococandy(f): 8:03pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Happy Birthday Edwife! by cococandy(f): 5:17pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
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