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So there is no argument for instances of temptation. So the woman should not exercise wisdom. Of course the act is the full responsibility of the man but the woman has to bear the consequences. That is why we wear seat belts even though we drive carefully. That is why we watch over our children though we bring them up properly. That's why pilots run a check list every flight no matter how experienced they are simply because in life there are no guarantees. If a home is run carelessly it can be hit with scandals.

so it is easier to encourage child labor than encourage self control in full grown adult human beings huh?

Would you also not hire a male worker to run some domestic stuff in your home if you really need to just because your wife could be tempted?

Seun, Where's the "rolls eye" emoji?

damiso:
I dey o my sister.

Allergic to plantain ke my best food. Trying to stay away from deep fried food ni so now have my plantain boiled or roasted.

one tip, you could spray the sliced ripe plantain with cooking spray,lay them on a flat oven tray and pop in the oven.
Or spray your regular pan and spray the plantain then put on your stove top at very low heat. To prevent them from burning.
Turn them on the other side when one side is cooked

It still comes out like deep fried plantain sans the oil. Takes a little while to cook too if you put it on low heat but the sacrifice we make for food we love huh?

That's what I do when I can't hold the urge anymore. I really do like fried plantain too.

Papyamanda:
Guys Guys! this question for you all,CAN YOU MARRY A LADY THAT CANNOT COOK? if she doesn't know can she learn?

the first two.

Damn.

babygirlfl:
Really, hire minors just because her husband lacks self control?

You might thinks it's funny but that's the mentality behind child labor in the name of housegirlism that's rampant in Nigeria.

Some women believe they are protecting their marriage by not hiring mature ladies who could 'seduce' their husbands.
So they go for children.

babygirlfl:
Why women leave men like tartarus to marry those horrible men is what I don't understand. Well done sir.

there aren't many of them like that to go round. Those of them like that are bullied to show some 'alpha' traits.

Maybe by poking anything with hole that comes their way. Who knows

Oga calm down.
If your wife cheats on you too she gets to blame you for it.

That way, none of you is at fault. Lol.

Pls don't take some deluded opinions you read on nairaland seriously. Where do you think the 21 million insane people in Nigeria come to express their opinions?

tartarus:
What the hell?? So if I cheat on my wife she is to be blamed?? What nonsense! Many Nigerian men have a terrible way of thinking. How would I leave my wife and then go and Zap my maid?? Why can't nigerian men have self control?? *spits*

Many of you saying why can't she do all the chores by herself, how many of you men can juggle house chores, babysitting and work?? Why can't u put yourself in her shoes?. So if I cheat on my wife I'll tell her I did it cos she couldn't do the chores herself?

sweatlana:
Woman sleeping with the gate man, who is to blame?

Some posts are just absolutely useless!

the husband

deejay2x67:
I thought you were being sarcastic

sarcastic ke?

For wetin na?
Everything is someone else's fault jare.

freecocoa:
So if I can afford a maid, I shouldn't, just so my hubby don't cheat? What sort of reasoning is this?

Don't be perplexed.

It's obvious some people's way of seeing things is very erm... I'll wait until I find a suitable euphemism for it.

0merta:
I'm surprised this is coming from cococandy.

I know you as a pretty, smart girl.

E be like say you don smoke igbo today!

The wife of any president is the First Lady.
Just like the husband of any female president is the first gentleman.

No one is asking her to have a constitutional office or run state affairs from it.

Smh

firstEVA:
I can't remember anymore.

Ok o

firstEVA:
I almost said something nasty, then I saw your dp, you are pretty.

thanks.

Lol. That shouldn't stop you from saying what you wanted to say.

freecocoa:
Sholly, does this happen everywhere with the Yoruba tribe? I need to know.

I don't think it does.
I've read some posters say their families don't care about such things.
I guess it depends on how traditional each family is.

If I wasn't married and I met a man whose family require that I call even junior ones (younger than me) aunty or uncle, I'd probably give all of them the middle finger and tell him to find someone else.

freecocoa:
Nothing. You are cute.

thanks.

all4naija:
But, do not you support something like that in your family. Is that clear?

Lmao.

It is clear sir

all4naija:
Can you explain why you hold on to that view?

I think a woman who has the intention of cheating would do that. The same thing can be said of a man..

Can it?
I figured we are in the business of blaming others when someone cheats.

#iamjustmessingwithyou

all4naija:
Are you serious?

yes

bukatyne:
Na real lol!

She is not a 'first lady' yet she uses the privileges and rights of the 'first lady' to achieve her aim.

I don't fancy eye service sha.
If she didn't want to be First Lady, why was she campaigning with her husband to win the presidency?

Pfft

bukatyne:
If a meeting of African First Ladies are called, who attends for Nigeria since we are first ladyless?

Instead of 'denying' the position, why doesn't she handle it the way she believes it should be handled?

Well, if she wants to unfirst lady herself so bad, let her divorce Buhari.

Reminds me of another tag.

Extreme humility is a form of pride.

false humility you mean. Lol

Mtchew

Phema:
The wife is to blame. . .


For everything.

Exactly.

Just as the man is to blame if his wife sleeps with their male help, gateman or driver.
How dare he employ a full bodied man in the house to do the heavy lifting and manly stuff when it could be a temptation to his wife?

*some retardded stuff on this forum sef

damiso:
I loooove sea food. I actually think that going meat free is now possible.

looks yummy

thanks

freecocoa:
Abeg leave me o.

wetin I do?

Mtchew

Spiritual

Pls tell her to go see a doctor.

Cantonese fried rice. With gizzards instead of regular chicken.

Ok what happened after he took the second job?

Let me guess he followed the teaching he was told that he could marry more than one wife?
That's what happens when you put your life in the hands of someone who's brain is located in his down below.

I can't believe I read it all