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naijababe:
Apples, they sweeten the veggies.

ok

naijababe:
# Cococandy

Mean green juice - 4 Celery sticks, 2 cups each of kale and spinach, an inch of ginger, 1 peeled lemon and 2 apples. It is so yummy! I cannot wait to juice Ugwu leaves, some oranges and maybe some papaya

that's one super healthy juice.
What do you use for sweetener?

My conversion to the healthy side is not yet complete as I cannot do this juice without a banana to help me sweeten it. #facepalm
I need help.

jnrbayano:
The bold must be at the right time that is when the mother start to discover that the adolescent child must have become curious as to the changes in her body or in the bodies of others (her sexuality)

Failing which the lesson I reckon will be counterproductive.

but of course

Phema:
This thread is not for virgins like moi.

Orgasm? Never heard of it.

if I hear.

Virgin phema

5minsmadness:
The bweasts have always been sexualized.
It is sexuality that has become overly sensationalized in this modern era.


Having said that, for goodness sake oga seun pls reconsider this your censoring. There is nothing wrong with the word B. R. E. A. S. T
It beats my imagination that a forum that is well known for the extreme rudeness and lewdness of most of its members will still be censoring a word as innocent as the female mammary glands.
Even my autocorrect now spells b.r.e.a.s.t as bweast.

Pls look into this sir.

Make up your mind. Is it innocent or a sexual word?

@bold, summary of my points.

The rest of your posts agrees with me that it was a gradual process. The breassts didn't become sexualized overnight.
From days when it wasn't sexualized to days when it became slightly sexualized to these days when it has become a taboo topic that even Seun's nairaland censors it. You can't even type breassts without giving someone a hard-on behind their computers.

It is not nature. It is nurture.

Operant conditioning.

5minsmadness:
@cococandy.

Have you read Buchi Emecheta's "The bride price"?
Or the novel " Hawaii"?
Both depict the typical display of female maidens' bweasts in traditional settings and among what we today may arguably call 'primitive tribes'.

In those days the beast of a young female was not just ignored, rather it was seen as a sign of maturity and feminine fertility. Sexuality was not as much of a taboo then as it is today . A young man could see a woman at the stream and compliment her on her beautiful big bweasts and she would accept the compliment without taking offence. In the evenings the men would play with the women and usually such 'plays' involved touching, holding and pulling the bweasts. So it was a sign of sexuaI attraction even then. However if a young man took his 'play' too far the girl or her brothers would show offence. If the family liked the boy they would tell him to stop touching for free and pay her bride price.

In the primitive tribes of the South Pacific,sexuaIity was regarded as a friendly gesture. A male would see a maiden with attractive bweasts and approach and compliment her. If all went well they would have Intercourse even in the presence of others. It was a free-for-all as men could sleep with thier daughters and women with thier brothers. It was this practice the English sailors capitalized on when they came to the Hawaiian Islands before Christianity came and introduced guilt and sin into thier lives.

My point is, even in tribes where the nippIe was blatantly exposed, it was still seen as a sexuaI object.

What did the baby do to deserve such foolish parents

taryour:
Nice one op,thanks for sharing.

@ cococandy. Don't understand the part of mothers not raising their not to have OrGasm. Please elaborate if you don't mind.

I think It is a mind thing first before being physical. Most of our African parents don't even like to talk about sex let alone give their kids especially the daughters the understanding that sex is nothing to feel guilty or dirty about.
After having grown up with that mind conditioning, it will be hard for a lady to let herself go enough to really explore her body and not feel whorish about it (even with the right person. AKA husband or fiancé).

I can't really say I blame them because many don't understand you can be free and open about sex to your kids without encouraging irresponsible behavior.

Ignore her.
But say hello whenever you see her.

You don't owe her fraternization.
Also beware of the person telling you what she's saying about you.

My ribs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1iuU_lF8i1Y

Nice one OP.

In addition,ladies if you can't have orgasms, pls don't raise daughters who can't have orgasms too. Most females are sexually repressed because of their psyche growing up to believe that sex is evil and something to be guilty or feel dirty about.
Teach them to embrace their sexuality (while being responsible about it.)

How about "he's an ediot with no sense of responsibility and all he wanted was the sex and nothing else"?

When will you guys begin to take responsibility for your thoughtlessness and xtupid randiness?

emperorchedda:
Not just a plate, a plate used by a woman. That's the apex of insults

Women shouldn't even be told before they do dishes, that's kitchen manners.

I don't know if I will blame parents for raising up young generation children this way or the media

you seem like the younger bro in question.

So women are such lowly creatures in your opinion that doing the dish used by a woman is the apex of insults?


Nigerian ladies deserve all the pity anyone can muster. I feel so sorry for us

So sad

I got this one for $110 (plus shipping)
I saw cheaper ones but I had this same thought 'the more expensive the better'

Maybe I'm just complaining for nothing.

I just hate to see carrot fibre wasting .

naijababe:
I currently use Rachel's, although has bad reviews on amazon, I am very happy with it. I bought it in 2010 and I have had no problems whatsoever with it.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Rachel-Allen-RA-WJ1-Wholefruit-Juicer/dp/B00275G0KU

The thing with juicers is that the more expensive they are the better they are especially for greens and soft fruits like blueberries.

The ideal Xmas pressie to myself this year will be this one as I tend to juice lots of greens as opposed to fruits

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00434JINO/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B00434JINO&linkCode=as2&tag=juice-recipes-20

Aww

She's so lively and such a pretty lady.

Steph is right. Not taking time to go relax is a big stressor in marriage. Phew.
Going out like that makes you feel like you're dating again and rediscovering each other.

edwife:
Look what i found online,Stephanie Okereke new reality show,i am not really keen on these stuff but this takes the cake.

The first episode is so lovely,you can feel the excitement of the lady(Ifeoma),i really liked this.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TBtdihVeoE

Such ladies always marry quiet guys,and she is so beautiful!The power of make up and money is everything.

naijababe:
Breakkie juice - 5 carrots, 2 apples and 1 sweet potato. I think the greatest and best change I ever made to my diet is juicing.

that your juice looks thick. what kind of juicer do you use?

I just got the jack lalanne power juicer based on all The reviews I read about it and how powerful it is.
It is great but I feel like half the fruits fibre goes to waste.

It is clear both genders are guilty of ogling.

But wait o. Did I count about four guys ogle and cat-call him?
OMG

I'd hazard a guess and say he probably found the guys more threatening. (if he's straight)

pickabeau1:
just got to seeing it

see the pervs

"its his knob",
"can I touch it",
"did you see he has long fingers...",
"it goes from here not there...",
"im gonna prod it, im tempted"


cococandy .. more links
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InUeOWlgebM

Thanks

naijababe:
Link to the recipe I always use below.

http://cooklikeajamaican.com/oxtail-stew/

Only daft ediots like the ones I see on nairaland will blame federal govt for the responsibilities of the state government.
In imo state alone, govt health workers haven't been paid for 3months and masses are suffering.
All they know is propaganda and talking bullshyte.

Tapout:
top cat is a new age cartoon na...I was expecting to see something like teletubbies, way back on NTA or RSTV...cant remember the exact tv station

i watched teletubbies as a kid.
Wasn't my favorite tho'

Tom and jerry will always take the lead for me. I carried my love for that cartoon into my adult life
Until tomorrow

Akposy:
Yes na....d orange and iru

ok

Jman06:
It's not your fault. Hw abt the white lady you were helping me to find?
have u seen her yet . becos these our Nigerian sisters huh

can you remember

oh yea. Chai my bad. Forgive me.
I've not found any o.

ladygogo:
Oh yeah it is. Real estate is very pricey there and sometimes this year it was the second most expensive city in the world.

Really?

Even Seattle graced the list last month.
Among top ten over priced cities of the world.

Somebody needs to do something about this.

Real estate, child care, healthcare.

Kimoni:
Is that chops sticks I am looking at? I just could never master it, my Chinese friends gave up on me. Even coming to my place to give me tutorials

There's a trick to it

Jman06:
u welcome. Remember me

Not really. I'm sorry

touchmeder:
Owambe jellof today. It was niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

PS: who knows what gives it that unique taste? Can anyone share. Someone told me butter and i tried it but i didn't get that particular taste.

that rice is bringing pleasant Saturday afternoon memories.

Hot afternoon weddings.

Akposy:
Dinner oooooo
Bread, egg fried with iru(locust beans), warm milk and orange.

Am learning to eat healthy too...lolz

so the orange made it healthy

Lunch at 'Sushi Den'

Meh. Trial and error.
Was surprisingly Okayish.

all4naija:
No, I am not! Just wanted to know where to get it in states. I like the way it looks.

you could get them in a few African stores but I can't vouch for the freshness. It is always better fresh.

Jman06:
Hi dear, how're u doing?

I'm good. Thank you

ladygogo:
Oh nice. Its beautiful but expensive. Enjoy your trip.

Thanks dear

I don't think it is expensive o.
Coming from over-priced Seattle, here's a relief.