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Family › Re: Zamfara To Spend N40m On Mass Wedding by cococandy(f): 5:30am On Apr 16, 2015
Odd world cheesy
Family › Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by cococandy(f): 3:37am On Apr 16, 2015
babyosisi:
Midlife crisis
Some Oyibo men change to woman when it hits
'Midlife crisis'
How did we think of the same thing.
Hehehe.
Family › Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by cococandy(f): 3:36am On Apr 16, 2015
babyosisi:
No be wetin make Sunny ade's former guitarist begin carry cocaine after retirement
When a grown man begin start new family at 50 and 60 why won't he
Some people's midlife crises causes them slight brain damage hence the irrational decisions like getting a new wife at 50 grin for no other reason than because they can.

Go there now his children in colleges and high school don't have their education finances sorted out to the end and he's embarking on a more life toughening journey.

Case grin
Family › Re: No Child Marriage. by cococandy(f): 3:30am On Apr 16, 2015
moreeni:
No sane African Woman will deliberately choose to miss out on the joy of motherhood. Those little bundles absolutely make a woman complete. The little hearts with the biggest spaces...I won't give up the chance for that for all the money in the world!
there may be a few who don't want kids. You can't really speak for everyone.
Family › Re: No Child Marriage. by cococandy(f): 3:29am On Apr 16, 2015
You may still find a lady who fits your requirements.
Just place ads in strategic journals and newspapers.
Family › Re: My Hubby Wants A Second Wife!! by cococandy(f): 3:18am On Apr 16, 2015
Leave his sorry assss.

If he wants to start his life afresh with a new wife, new kids and new responsibilities, good for him.
He will be old @ 70+ and still have kids in school that he will rely on his pension to sustain.

The way some people ruin their lives with their own hands.
Family › Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by cococandy(f): 3:12am On Apr 16, 2015
OP quit your job so that your siblings and parents will depend on him for fees and financial support. undecided
Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 3:11am On Apr 16, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Yes, but Eba / Pounded yam / Amala / Fufu / Akpu / Starch with soup? And using her bare fingers? How much "bush" can she get? There are certain things we do at home (like eating with our fingers) but to do it outside in full view of the public?

Cringe worthy stuff. sad sad
i think she was using a spoon or fork. Something like that.
Family › Re: Soon To Be Mother In Law Insists On Traditional Marriage!!! by cococandy(f): 3:04am On Apr 16, 2015
She's not wrong to ask you guys to have a traditional marriage even though ultimately the choice is yours to make but most people especially traditional folks will like to know the origin of their children's spouse and a traditional marriage helps do that just fine.
To them it is just like marrying someone they can't trace their roots and you know marriage is a big commitment. You need to know who you're getting into with as much as possible.

Maybe the guy is love struck for now and his mom is looking out for him. I'm sure your mom would be worried too if you wanted to get married to man who you can't trace his root.

What you can do is to have your trad in your maternal home.If you're igbo, you will understand that maternal roots are also considered as good as paternal roots. Or just do it where you are based like someone suggested. I heard that's the trend now. just give them something to hold onto.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 1:31am On Apr 16, 2015
grin
OMG. This thread
Stillfire:
God also gave humans the wisdom to make life easy for us through modern technology. It has made it possible that what we want to eat is just a click away, all of us don't have to do the farming and tilling of soil, going by the curses to the man. So also modern technology have provided me with epidural and anesthetics. Yeah, I will indeed send you a video where I will be lounging and sipping cocktails while giving birth. Curse has been liftedddddddddddddddddddddddddddd!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Boohoo. tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 3:53pm On Apr 15, 2015
You're right.
You can also help teach your boys because boys tend to emulate their dads more.
If you only watch their mom do stuff without helping out, if she tries to teach them, they may not be so open to learning.

hahn:
I agree with this. Most times I watch my wife do home chores and honestly its not easy. From sweeping to washing plates, cooking, cleaning, washing clothes etc, women really need men to assist in the house. If we really are stronger than women as we claim then we should be able to handle having a job and still assist with the home chores. I believe the main problem is most guys aren't taught how to take care of themselves. I've lived and squatted with a lot of dudes and most guys can barely cook, clean or take care of the house. Its always war trying to figure out who'll take the responsibility of cleaning or washing plates.

Women should also endeavour to teach their sons how to do basic home chores. If every man is able to do that, it will be easeir to become involved in the house chores during marriage
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 3:44pm On Apr 15, 2015
FrancisTony:
My name everywhere. cheesy
Now playing - GODWIN!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWrVSpaxJQ8
grin
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 3:44pm On Apr 15, 2015
I hope your ancient 'wisdom' will help you stay afloat in the modern world.
lezz:
cococandy; your moniker is sweet, you also are intelligent and knowledgeable but you do not have wisdom.

A man or woman going to school isnt about making money or necessarily practicing what you had read. Education is about enlightenment, having a better world-view and taking a positive and critical apprpach to life. if you crave money, then get into business.

alright, that being said, let me equip you with this facts

the office only takes 2nd place to social media in infidelity-----FACT.

A wife working 8/5 is part of the moral decadence and decay in spciety today. a wife goes off to work and spemds 9 solid hours of her most energetic and productive time working for the government or private firm. she comes home after the day's work sweaty and mentally and physically fatigued. mean while junior and princess came from prep/nursery/primary school is 12pm and they are either left with a nanny or neighbour till mother or father gets bwck from work.

you ever wonder why the rate of female infant rapë is on the increase? mom is chasing after money like dad.


When a man comes home from work battered, sweaty, exhausted and tired or even angry, the best gift anyone can give to him is the hospitality in his own home, by his own wife. never the house help.

When the man and woman leaves home by 8am and return by 5pm tired, you realise they both are spending the most viberant and energetic part of their days apart and in company of colleagues.

the woman only begins to realise when she stands at the threshhold of menopause and old age that family upholding is her first ministry.


nb.... do not resort to subtle insults and cover them with lame appologies. i can give as good as i get as a swift glance over my posts will reveal.

let's keep it inpersonal.
Family › Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by cococandy(f): 6:05am On Apr 15, 2015
Take one kiss @ OP
Better pikin.

He wants to open medicine store for you to sell paracetamol without license.
The way people think they can dictate the destiny of others angry

Maybe he thought if he mentions marriage you will drop your life and follow him.
Family › Re: My Love,my Life And My World by cococandy(f): 5:11am On Apr 15, 2015
It's the girl that I'm even feeling sorry for. embarassed
If you marry her,She will be the strange woman who can't do anything right for a long time to come.
Inter tribal marriages are hard enough on their own. adding lack of parental consent can cripple it.

OP sorry. Just do your best to convince them.
But if at the end you see you will only be bringing the poor girl over to suffer, just let her be.
A broken relationship they say is better than a broken marriage.

But it is important you get your parents consent to marry her.
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 3:58am On Apr 15, 2015
Truckpusher:
angry

When last dem give you backhand? undecided
na death dey call you so as that thought fly enter your head.
Just rebuke it in Jesus' name.
Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 3:56am On Apr 15, 2015
Old post.
Oatmeal with fruits and French toast of wheat bread

Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by cococandy(f): 3:55am On Apr 15, 2015
Chillisauce:
Patate purée
Cereal. Whole wheat and strawberry


I blended the cereal, then added to my puree and I made strawberry eba.

filling and low cal
chillisauce shocked
Strawberry eba?
Heee

Biko tell me how you did it.
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 3:53am On Apr 15, 2015
Truckpusher:
Now she's accusing me of doing drugs. sad

Kontinu, Ya'll believed caracta - I pity una
grin
shocked
She accused you of same?
I wasn't even aware of such a thread.
Now that two people have said it. Mmm lipsrsealed
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 3:07am On Apr 15, 2015
dearpreye:
You're on point. I also believe cheating comes down to CHOICE. Once a person is determined not to cheat, I believe they can make good their promises. ...
100%
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 3:07am On Apr 15, 2015
Truckpusher:
Bia , I no assume anything oh cheesy

na talk we just dey talk na.
Wetin make my talk too dey pepper you like gbogbonise?
grin
That reply was for dearpreye.
On second thoughts I thought you should read it too before you begin misyarn.
You know when you smoke that thing your posts no dey straight again. grin
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 3:02am On Apr 15, 2015
dearpreye:
A lot of the women folks don't believe a cheat can change. ..
Well.:.
If someone is a cheat, chances are they will probably do it again especially if they have the upper hand in the relationship and know that the other person can't leave easily.
At least any change would be when he or she decides to change and not because the victim was fasting and praying in red bra and pant or boxers grin
That's why I won't blame anyone who decides to leave after the first time but if they asked me, I would say if the offender realizes he or she has done wrong, then forgiveness should follow.
But of course a second offense means the first apology was bogus. Some people have experienced such hence they won't even consider forgiving a first offense if they move onto another relationship.

That's why I get pissed when some try to excuse cheating as nature. That's just making excuse for bad behavior and an implication that it can happen again or should be accepted as a norm or natural part of a marriage when it happens.

@ truckpusher too, read and learn my opinion.
Don't assume
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 2:50am On Apr 15, 2015
Gosh I'm just seeing this post.
So 'real' men whose wives work 8-5 don't find them attractive?
That would make millions of men out there who aren't finding their wives seductive anymore.

Jeeeeeeeez! Bro. No offense. Are you high? grin no offense pls I beg.

Where do you live That the men are all so rich their wives can afford to work 8am - 12 noon everyday?

You think a woman having a career or a job she does to support her family or does simply because she loves it is about power hunger?

I shake my head for you bro.

Make sure you don't educate your daughters so that none of them will make the mistake of trying to be a doctor or nurse or lawyer that would require her working even more than 8-5.
You know so they won't pay for such 'foolishness' in future.

#i thought I'd read it all grin


lezz:
The ignorance of feminist is mind blowing. I have never seen a group so intelligent in ignorance and lacking in wisdom.

Virtually all carrier driven and power hungry women have paid away their children and husbands as a price for their folly.

Which unaltered man with a healthy, uncompromised testosterone will find sexy and eternally seductive a woman who goes to work by 8am looking her soft best for her colleagues and returning home tired,exhausted to the husband. They both arrive at home by ,say, 5pm , both looking tired and worn out. This isn't the way it is meant to be.

possible out comes, the man gets a secret young mistress who is always soft, clean, strong and waiting. Someone whose the very natural disposition is unalterably opposite of his testosterone driven nature. He will lose his power and money to that woman.

The carrier freak wife is going to toil hard and get older,maybe one or two flings with a colleague and she's going to return home old and alien to her husband and children. Then her wiser counterparts whose mothers told them the way around a man's heart will be happier with their children and husband.
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 2:38am On Apr 15, 2015
dearpreye:
But your folks shout ONCE A CHEAT, ALWAYS A CHEAT. Now you're giving him a chance. ..That's pretty good...
who are my folks?
And who am I giving a chance.
Politics › Re: Diezani Allegedly Refunds $16million NNPC Stolen Fund by cococandy(f): 2:36am On Apr 15, 2015
Naira dollar blog spot dot cum grin grin
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 2:33am On Apr 15, 2015
A cheat only deserves a second chance if he/she is really sorry for going astray and never does it again.
Second chance.
No third chance.
Family › Re: Can A Relationship|marriage Survive Infidelity? by cococandy(f): 2:30am On Apr 15, 2015
@bold shocked

Hehehehehe
plaetton:
But men and women are different in many many ways. Women, being the stronger sex, are molded by nature to be patient and resilient in the face of great odds.
Women are the backbones of the home, who can always pick up the pieces to mend and rebuild when the man's libido threatens her home and family life.

Therefore, whenever the woman decides to stray, the moment the thoughts come to her mind and she follows through, the home is finished from the moment, even if it takes a while for the man to find.

That's why by the time the man finds out, he knows he realizes that his home is already broken.

Its pointless trying to forgive a woman for infidelity, because, women go through many different emotional stages before they taken that leap. One of those stages is demonize and condemn their husbands, justifying to themselves that he deserves to be dishonoured.

That is why it is nearly impossible, and not advisable at all to forgive an unfaithful wife.
Family › Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by cococandy(f): 2:27am On Apr 15, 2015
Because men don't like to deal with other men's kids.
Tsk tsk
Travel › Re: 12 Great Cities To Retire To In Africa (photos) by cococandy(f): 12:30am On Apr 15, 2015
BlackLeopard:
On another hand, maybe people go fly from 'so ugly' cities and we'll have more space for enjoying them. wink Seeing the glass half full.
well smiley
Travel › Re: 12 Great Cities To Retire To In Africa (photos) by cococandy(f): 12:17am On Apr 15, 2015
Op you couldn't find better pictures for Ibadan and Enugu?
See how horrible those pictures look in comparison to the other cities.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 12:13am On Apr 15, 2015
grin lol @ bold.

Better at sitting down and being cute.
Make that cuter in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant.
How dare a woman aspire to be anything else when almighty OP and his cohorts have diagnosed such aspirations to be the reason behind the unhappiness of the modern woman? grin.


BlackLeopard:
Oh you so got her. First praising a woman for how good she is and then being all 'but she's missing the big point anyway, see them, cute things? They're better sitting down and being cute, not talking about these gasp intellectual things' Did you think that hasn't been heard for decades at least? grin Patronizing, misogynist, chauvinistic and pseudointellectual.



1. That some lesbians have violent relationships can hardly be taken as a measure for all lesbians, logical fallacy there.
b. Why are you so fascinated with oh them exotic lesbians anyway? They're just women and I doubt they'd want either of us in their lives. They manage without men just fine.

2. Looking up to a person isn't a proof of one gender being above the other. It's a proof some people recognize the personhood of others fully, and strive to improve themselves, but hardly it points to any flawed superiority theory you're postulating here.

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