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CFCfan:
And case is in the famous Igando court

ireneidiva:
Seconded. Dunno what's up with the whole teaching and business thing.

5minsmadness:
I admit I hardy read what u posted up there. There should be no excuses.
If a man is so bankrupt he can't pay for his own house rent then he has failed in his duties and is worse than a pharisee.

There a certain things a man should do to make his wife secure. One of these is taking care of the house financially. I can understand wifey contributing some money to the rent, but not all of it or not for more than a year at a time. If he fails in his responsibilities then maybe that is why wifey isn't serving him food in the first place.

BABE3:
Biko, how you people take know hair type?

I did the "big chop". This is my 4th time big chopping in 5 years. Hopefully it goes well this time.

moca:
This cococandy sef!
Mine now is complete milk indu
Sooo big. The thing dey fear me sef.
If it didn't go back to normal after childbearing, na under d knife be that o.
O gini bu ife nke a

5minsmadness:
Then the man is a fool.
He should do the honourable thing and leave the house.

5minsmadness:
Apologies.
We dont differ in belief of who has greater strength.
We differ in belief of who has the house.
The man pays the rent.
The man brought her to HIS house.
If she misbehaves the man sends her out.
Ce finis.

5minsmadness:
I know u don't believe this, but men are stronger than women. All he has to do is tell her to go nicely, if she refuses then he carries her out physically (without hurting her, don't worry), then he helps her pack her bags and sends it out. It's not only women that want a peaceful marriage. If she wants to go she should go. If she wants to stay then she should kindly explain why she would deliberately starve him. Marriage is not by force, if she doesn't want she should go.

edwife:
No be you dey post pinshure for here

BABE3:
Dr Miami is the answer. No matter how much weight you lose, your bööbs won't change in size.

$5000.

edwife:
You can't predict their size due to the fact that breasts grow bigger the minute you are pregnant,some lose them while some keep them.It's really has to do with your anatomy.The only thing you can control is their resilience.

But i have seen your chest before, don't worry-you wont lose them,just keep them firm that's all.

Chillisauce:
Cococandy, wetin you wan carry Manchester do again. By the time bonboy comes, he will sick the living daylight outta it

5minsmadness:
EXACTLY.
@cococandy see what I'm talking about? Girls don't like that sh1t.

EfemenaXY:
Lol!

Coco have a look at Ed's latest post on the lingerie thread. It answers the questions you're asking...

EfemenaXY:
That is eh...

You know what, I find looking at myself in the mirror and seeing how far I've come on my healthy lifestyle / weight loss journey is so much motivation in itself. Those biceps, triceps, neck muscles, and yam legs are no joking matter.

Choi! I love my new self oh! And you ladies on here are such an inspiration. Exercising today was such a blast...

5minsmadness:
True you can force a horse to the stream but you cant force it to drink.
this applies both ways.

man comes home, no food for him meanwhile he provided money and left the house without any quarrel.
he asks wife(not barks, nobody is barking here) and wife refuses. husband asks what is wrong wife says nothing then makes food for herself and her son. Husband insists wife doesnt eat cos its from the same pot wife should have served him food. son can eat since he is a kid. next day husband jejely sends wife home to recover from whatever she is suffering from. If she doesnt want to come back she should stay there.shikena. the world will go on without her.
No time for BULLshit.

Ralphlauren:
damiso, taking time off from work (one day to a week) to take care of a sick child is different from giving up your career entirely to raise a child.

in as much as you might get the 'stare' from your employer anytime you give 'child care' reasons for not coming to work or coming in late, trust me they understand.

the mothers they have issues with are those not pulling their weight in the workplace. if you know your onions well, the business will actually 'bend' for you.

heck! i know mothers that work few days a week (3days) and attend meetings via skype from the comfort of their homes and trust me, their input to the organisation is immeasurable.

besides, parenting is a joint effort. if the man has a more flexible job, then he has to do the school runs, attend all the PTA meetings, etc. however, some men do not want to get involved. they are happy to push their wives to ''teaching jobs'' under the guise of ''taking care of the kids'' while they flourish in their own careers which is bullocks if you ask me - after all, they had the kids together, so why cant he make sacrifices too?.

regarding UK's HSE, its for every parents' good. i am all for full disclosure especially with kids. if my kid receives a punch from another, i want to know

5minsmadness:
This was regular for me. I had to stop it when one of the girls that got really close to me told me about it. if you are my girlfriend i would carry you on a silver platter. I believe in the old ways and i would write poems and compose songs( yeah i admit it, silly now i come to think about it) and all this done during the facebook era o. I was a hopeless romantic.

Its all BULLshit.

Now I know the secret I'm having difficulty choosing who to marry cos the girls are too many.
Girls want men. No scratch that, Girls NEED men. Not pansies. It makes them feel fulfilled and womanly. It probably sounds obnoxious the way i'm saying it but its the gospel truth.

all4naija:
This your very post proves that 'nothing a man does that satisfies a woman'!

5minsmadness:
It depends on what u mean by 'caring'.

A man goes all out for his wife and treats her like an egg. He helps with the house chores, washes the clothes, gives her preference when watching TV, doesn't force her to have sex, cooks occasionally, etc and you find out that most women treat men like them like dirt. They don't appreciate them and abuse them verbally and emotionally at every opportunity.

Such a man is 'caring'.

Sometimes however a man has to show his assertive side. He has to exhibit a little bit of madness to draw wifey back on track. He has to go at it with an "I don't care" attitude and mean it. Most times the woman will complain but rarely will they quit the marriage.

Ralphlauren:
what about dropping the kids off at a very good daycare center?

i do not understand all the noise about women unable to combine career with raising kids or giving up their career because of their kids.

being a 'stay-at-home' mum doesnt mean you will have the most intelligent kids on earth. Heck! I am surrounded by people with 1st class degrees with excellent jobs whose mothers all combined motherhood with their careers and they retired as executive directors, MDs of top companies.

having a very good job/impressive career if anything sets a good example for your kids. it shows you are successful, independent, motivated and hardworking

why would someone with a geology degree aspire for a teaching job under the guise of ''you want to raise your kids''? what happened to oil and gas firms? do you know you can work in the office and not on a rig with your degree? oil and gas jobs are actually the least stressful. by 4pm, the staff bus is waiting to drive everyone home.

why did you study geology in the first place? you must have known you were going to be a mother some day, so why didnt you just get a degree in education rather than putting yourself through the rigours of acquiring a degree in geology?

one day those kids will leave home. dont forget that. by age 12/13, they are off to boarding school. in sane countries, a 16yr old is classed an adult. by age 18, they are off to university. before you know it, they are married. so dont give up on your dreams/career because of them.

women, stop limiting yourselves!!

FrancisTony:
I think it's only on internet e.g Nairaland family section that marriage is over-rated.

For example; Genevieve is unmarried and only on cyberspace that men and women will insult her about her marital status.
In the real world, they won't have an effrontery to confront her but will lick her feet instead of that married Mama Nkechi or Tolu with seven kids waiting for her husband to provide everything.

Thank God internet has given some Nigerian an avenue to portray their chauvinistic tendency they can't do offline infront of an accomplished lady.

armyofone:
Lol, Efe this is really funny

I wonder what will dissolve the yolk of superstition in Nigeria.