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Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by cococandy(f): 11:39pm On Apr 10, 2015
Gracyel:
No my dear. It only means we've got self respect and dignity for our selves and bodies. It only makes us classier. It only means African women have got more pride than other women from other continents. It only means we arent dogs. It only makes us DIFFERENT!
grin grin

Look at this one. You've more pride than who?

do you think ladies from other parts of the world have more boyfriends per girl on the average than a Nigerian girl?
All of una Na the same.
Naija babes only know how to hide theirs more because we are expected to be virgins.
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by cococandy(f):
all4naija:
Bwahaha... My ribs hurt for laughing out very loud! This is the same Cococandy who would go any length to defend African men against cheating and domestic violence. I can not believe this is for real!
I defend men against cheating and violence.? Bia you need reading glasses.

Me that they accuse of always attacking them?
Looooolllz!
Well I call it the way it see it.

The appropriate quarters receives the appropriate blame based on each case scenario.

But I'm not lying here. These guys when toasting a girl will present her pussy as the holy grail they just discovered(pretense)

Then when they knack, they run away. grin That's why girls are wary of them and feel used each time it happens hence the feeling of entitlement some ladies display when they have sex with a guy. "I have given you what you wanted"
Never mind they enjoyed it together. grin Funny right?

Plus the african slut shaming culture.
The guy who has sex is a hero. The lady he does it with is a slut.
Seeing the position such relationship puts them, you can't blame a girl for feeling like she's handing him gold by opening her legs.
Afterall she's diminishing herself to increase him.
It is twisted but that is what trying to enforce chastity on one sex and leaving the other out causes.

Make them park well first.
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by cococandy(f): 11:06pm On Apr 10, 2015
Because you guys act like your lives depend on it.
Family › Re: If You Use These Back Then And You Are Still Single, What's Happening? by cococandy(f): 10:51am On Apr 10, 2015
Sile12:
Sure, some of them are still much available and that's why I said if you use them "Back then". Because these days, most people can't use them anymore.
sorry I used the wrong emoticon
Family › Re: If You Use These Back Then And You Are Still Single, What's Happening? by cococandy(f): 10:43am On Apr 10, 2015
Sile12:
1. Jet Body Cream&Stella Pomade cream (Best for Harmattan).
I don't know jet but Stella pomade was on my traditional marriage bride price list. Trust umuada they don't joke with their oldies. We found it and bought it for them. And that was 2013.
So stella pomade is not extinct. cheesy
Family › Re: If You Use These Back Then And You Are Still Single, What's Happening? by cococandy(f): 10:40am On Apr 10, 2015
Sile12:
3. Hair Thread.
i miss this hairstyle. Gosh
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:20am On Apr 10, 2015
Babymama1:
Not really
Na my oga wey like am
I grab it when I am running late and don't have the time to pack a proper lunch
I am a rice person
make two of us.

I can eat rice everyday
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:05am On Apr 10, 2015
Babymama1:
Lunch at work
Don't laugh

Akara,yoghurt and orange
you really like akara
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f):
Shrimp pasta and lobster

Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 9:24pm On Apr 09, 2015
SAMBARRY:
yes ke wink
wow she's cuuuuuuute kiss kiss kiss
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 8:12pm On Apr 09, 2015
Sambarry is that wura?
SAMBARRY:
she's fine jare cheesy




the more she grows the more her ijogbon increases like breaking the cds, pouring sand inside my soup thinking she's helping me squeeze Maggi inside grin



e be like say the girl wan be cook grin
Family › Re: Ladies Do You Remember This Doll? by cococandy(f): 6:08pm On Apr 09, 2015
nikkyshyne:
Yea, reminds me of Gina, my detachable doll. God bless her soul. I would feed it, and after some days, maggots will be seen coming through the mouth. I opened it and low and behold..... eeewwww *Shudders*
wink
Family › Re: When Selfies Fight Back – 17 Of The Worst Selfies Of All Time by cococandy(f): 3:36pm On Apr 09, 2015
grin grin
My ribs....
Health › Re: How Sexual Abuse By Male Police Officers Fuels HIV Among Female Colleagues by cococandy(f): 2:47pm On Apr 09, 2015
tupacshakur:
Cococandy, abeg, no vex. With due respect to you and your husband, if no be say you don marry ehn, I for apply for US Visa because of you...

...give my all to make you mine, bring you back to Lagos and raise a Yoruba-Igbo family. The Oba of Lagos can go to hell!

Culture › Re: Nigerian Doll Created By Taofik Okoya Now Outselling White Dolls Barbie by cococandy(f): 12:10pm On Apr 09, 2015
So beautiful
Family › Re: Ladies Do You Remember This Doll? by cococandy(f):
I had a yellow one grin

Good ol' days. Brush the hair and pierced the mouth to put food in which would then Get rotten and start smelling and I'd have to wash it before i could use it again.
Family › Re: Is This A Vagabond Spirit? by cococandy(f): 12:03pm On Apr 09, 2015
She is hiding something. Maybe she's a serial killer lipsrsealed
Family › Re: Are Nigerian Women Truely The Most Unfaithful? Vanguard Article by cococandy(f): 12:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
They are just like their men. Polygamous in nature grin
Family › Re: My Fiance Just Told Me He Has A Son! by cococandy(f): 12:00pm On Apr 09, 2015
Floodgater:
You were the one that asked questions that led to his opening up yet he still says he felt it was the right time to say it, that was crafty. Does it mean if you had not asked, you might have found out in marriage. You did not provide much about his person for us to know how genuine his love is, because sometimes the things you ladies call love is terrible. Put yourself in his son's shoe to catch a better glimps. He says you decide his son's future, it is either he is lying or does not value his son in which case it wont be long before he treats you and your kids same or what makes you think you are more special? If at this point he has no plans for the son he is abandoning with his mum, then he also didnt care for the boy whilst he was with his mum hence her returning the child to him after a year. I kinda want to cut him some slacks on the ground that he made a mistake but he doesnt sound remorseful with words like exploring, abortion etc. I bet you he has not said it exactly as it happened. It is clear that you are confuse, tell him to give you three months break not because he has a child but because he told you so late and you need time too to think through things. Sometimes we see things clearly from outside.
Health › Re: How Sexual Abuse By Male Police Officers Fuels HIV Among Female Colleagues by cococandy(f): 11:55am On Apr 09, 2015
tupacshakur:
Cococandy...Fine, smart girl!

Ki lo n shele?

...hope you're doing good!
smiley doing great
Health › Re: How Sexual Abuse By Male Police Officers Fuels HIV Among Female Colleagues by cococandy(f): 11:47am On Apr 09, 2015
Checks and punishment for sexual offenses,coersions and assault are a joke in Nigeria so this is not surprising.

Older women used to advice us never to go into a police station to seek help or protection if we happen to be stranded in an unknown place as whatever we are running from would be waiting for us double fold at the hands of those police men.

What a bad image embarassed
Family › Re: Pls I'm Going Crazy..help by cococandy(f): 11:44am On Apr 09, 2015
SAMBARRY:
Why are you wasting your advice on him. The dude is trolling. He's a hints magazine story teller grin



him and Andy blaze are the same thing. grin Do you even know the meaning of his name. Obowunmi is a yoruba word that means that "I feel like having vagyna"
embarassed face palm.
Politics › Re: No One Will Steal Under My Watch – Buhari by cococandy(f): 11:10am On Apr 09, 2015
Well abacha didn't steal any money according to him.
His 'friends' won't steal because he will make sure they don't get caught.
When he's ready to police thieves, we will know.
Family › Re: My Fiance Just Told Me He Has A Son! by cococandy(f): 10:52am On Apr 09, 2015
Was he trying to make you feel better by saying he wanted the child aborted?
Like he didn't know unprotected sex leads to pregnancy.

Why did the lady abandon the child? Could it have something to do with him not wanting it in the first place and a resulting neglect that probably overwhelmed her and made her run away leaving the child behind? Not making excuse for her but just trying to help you ask yourself questions about the kind of man he really is.

He didn't tell you all this while because he wanted to make sure you got really invested in the relationship time wise and every other way possible so that it will be difficult for you to leave if you want to. More like a choice foisted upon you.

If you're sure his love for you is genuine (that's your opinion to make), you can go ahead and settle with him.
Just prepare your mind to be a step mom and the possibility of having to deal with the other lady when she comes back(she will)
Family › Re: My Fiance Just Told Me He Has A Son! by cococandy(f): 10:40am On Apr 09, 2015
Mynd44:
We will first curse her for being a loosed woman

Then we curse her for abandoning the child with her mother

Then we curse her for lying for so long.

Then we say she must have other secrets

Then we call her an irresponsible mother

We also curse her for trying to blackmail him into taking another man's child as his own

Then we move on the insult all women.
exactly.
Family › Re: Pls I'm Going Crazy..help by cococandy(f): 10:16am On Apr 09, 2015
obowunmi:
I thought love conquered all.

Okay~
Well maybe but if you ever called a girl like me that name, trust me the relationship is over.
What would I come back to do? To sell myself some more to you? Wasn't it me giving you myself in the first place that led you to see me in such light?

Some things are not retractable once said. If she's anything like me,kiss the relationship goodbye.

The good thing is that you already know what your problem is,so you won't make that mistake in your next relationship.


I don't think you're unfixably heart broken. You're just sad because she left. No one really likes to be left, we like to be the ones doing the leaving. If she was that important to you, you wouldn't even consider her a wh0re much less call her one.
We humans tend to voice out the naked truth of how we feel about others in moments of passion like anger.
Even though when the anger dies down we claim we didn't mean it.
Maybe your conscious mind didn't mean it but your subconscious did and you couldn't repress it at that moment of truth.

So this might be your clue that she's not really what you want in a woman.
Family › Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by cococandy(f): 10:12am On Apr 09, 2015
Seen

@TV01 and edwife
Politics › Re: . by cococandy(op): 8:54am On Apr 09, 2015
BoboYekini:
grin wetin Oba of Lagos go cause eh...
lol no. This was a mistake thread in the wrong section. I deleted because I meant to post it elsewhere. Will do that later
Politics › Re: Okonjo-iweala Listed Among 50 Greatest World Leaders by cococandy(f): 8:36am On Apr 09, 2015
wallflower:
[size=18pt]This is a woman every Nigerian should be proud of but tribalism, misogyny and politics blind a lot of people[/size].
Family › Re: Pls I'm Going Crazy..help by cococandy(f): 8:33am On Apr 09, 2015
You called a lady you claim to love ashawo?
Dude forget it and move on.
She's not coming back.

Let's not even go into where you abused her family and rubbed your 'wealth' in her face. undecided
The ashawo part alone is enough to make any self respecting girl not to want to marry you.

Learn your lesson from it and don't make that mistake again with your next woman.

It is well with you.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:28am On Apr 09, 2015
Roland17:
My Gizdodo, I made my with more broth and boy o boy is this tasty..

Thank Cococandy for sharing..
smiley you're more than welcome.
Family › Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by cococandy(f): 12:27am On Apr 09, 2015
Oh well I don't think she's submissive but that's not for me to say since I'm not in the relationship with them.

At least even if she is, it is not the brand we hear around here. So understand my surprise that an NL dude much less you considers her a submissive woman.

Meaning I must have misunderstood you all along or you must have miscommunicated your definition of submissiveness at some point.

Did you say no one equates submissiveness to unquestioning obedience?
Maybe you don't but many do.

It is well.
TV01:
Maybe, maybe not...but I'm happy to close...njokusboy, on to the next one please grin!

...uno momento shocked


My original post;

As clearly stated, I would never consider KK a role model or indeed wife material, but I have heard that she really caters to her man, properly indulges them - that's akin to submissiveness, which in any event no one has ever likened to unquestioning obedience. As for femininity, apart from being well endowed, she presents to appeal to men.

I only gave her credit for two things I heard she gets right, it wasn't an endorsement. I haven't watched the show and doubt that her relationship dynamics with Kanye are honestly portrayed there. I don't endorse Beyonce or Amber either - not that they are scouring NL eagerly waiting for me to give them my stamp of approval grin!

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