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babyosisi:
Looks appetizing but I wish it were chicken or beef
I will eat a snake before I eat catfish
I hate fishes without scales if I felt like fish

Dreamsinbc:
Smothered Catfish

shrekandfiona my boy stays with me at times in the kitchen giving me things I need to reach, he packs his toys and those of his sister when it's almost bedtime, he baths and at times baths his sister for me when I am running late.

shrekandfiona:
lol . It hasn't been all bad though he also has his good sides. He is fun, faithful et all. When Moca talks about us bending in relationships, trust me I know that cos I am so bent like a crayfish in my marriage

on a lighter note its all about compromise and knowing what works for you. I used to get angry and almost gave up once but when I started coming to nairaland and reading people's post as a guest, I discovered that some men were really programmed like that from childhood and it was here I learnt about the attributes of a traditional man and my hubby so fits in so I gave up complaining and started adjusting

shrekandfiona:
when I read your post, it was a "deja vu" for me. Like you I have 2 kids pregnant for my 3rd as well. I married a traditional man who sees the woman as a domestic being. I am working though so what I did was employ a house help he never supported at 1st but I pay her myself. She is not a live in help. She resumes 8am and closes 5pm when I get back from work.

I wake up daily by 5am, cook for the house wake kids up by 6:15am to get them ready for school, their school bus picks them up by 7am, thereafter I prepare for my work. Hubby is still asleep till 8am when he wakes to eat his breakfast. I leave for work by 8:30am by then the help has resumed for cleaning.

can you believe by 1:30pm everyday hubby calls me to ask if his lunch is served at home and me am at work o. I have to call my help at home to make sure his lunch is ready. Note that he doesn't allow the help to cook his meals o. I cook and store away while the help just warms and serve.

It has not been easy but I had to adjust. So my advise to you is to get a help (not live in o) or get a relation like a younger sister or cousin to help you out because if your hubby is like mine, he will never yield to helping around the house o. I had to even change jobs to a more flexible but lower paying one just to reduce stress

moca:
Nne,hapu mu aka now
Funny enough,i don't experience that when preggy.

moca:
My legs are so swollen
Can't enter the damn shoe
Upiantu

I need this gym more than everybody.
Mountain o,running o,we nno get ice(i for join skiing)
Infact,
I need my figure back.

Abeg,ladies, update o!

freshness2020:
My dear!!!...
if you can survive here then other countries na jara.. But ♈όϋ get hope pass me sha since urs na "B"....if it can take them this long to pay "A" that means it will take Dem eternity to pay "C"

freshness2020:
Wetin man go do na...man must move on with life...putting mind there na suicide mission already ..which LG ♈όϋ serve?..

SAMBARRY:
no even talk the loff finish because I already know where you are going meanwhile I have to drink panadol for her headache because she's my friend and I don't want all this small small Jim iyke looking boys near am and thirdly if you don't know mgbeketoto you don't know anybody. How can you be on nl and you don't know mgbeketoto


she's magret Thatcher of nl and oko awon nl guys

freshness2020:
Can ♈όϋ imagine I influenced my posting to Rivers state just because Amaechi pays corpers #110k after service year? Since 2013 reach now I never see 'a' not to talk of 'lert'... That wasn't enough ..I was also hoping I would serve in an oil firm but for where...na so Dem throw me to one remotest area of Rivers called Ase-Azaga where we share our room with giant mosquitoes and scorpion...this town shares borders with Anambra n IMO and very close to the bank of River Niger ..na so I become fisherman-corper cum teacher.. We even transit on canoes to town for our monthly clearance . it was fun anyway cos I enjoyed every bit of it.

breadandbutter:
His parents will be glad to have a mosque in their Son's name than having a shop filled with goods cos all we have here is vanity. I'm only trying to get him to paradise with the mosque suggestion

edwife:
See my own meal for the night ,all of us na diet

edwife:
Which one is ndo,make she exercise jare

efemena the competition will be fierce,so you guys are planning to dethrone me?

EfemenaXY:
Thanks dear.

I've rediscovered my love for moi-moi cooked without any oil. So Efe is on a moi-moi diet of sorts. At least it helps reduce my carb intake...

First pic: Moi-moi with Brussel Sprouts and watermelon.

Second pic: Moi-moi with lettuce and a clementine.

EfemenaXY:
How can I be suffering like this?

What kinda yeye diet is this?

While everyone gets to eat a whole fried plantain each, I'm contending myself with half a boiled plantain, half a fish, a tiny portion of rice, just to watch the calories.

Chillis:
Early night for me.

I need to eat plenty to start my 2hrs weekend walk in the forest.

Since I can't run for 1hr, .

Bonne nuit ladies.

Anyone wanna try the mountain climbing. Book weekends for it.

I'm looking for a bigger mountain closer home.

edwife:
I am not complaining.... my dear quality education does not have age..

EfemenaXY:
1 hr is old news.

I pushed myself today. Did 5 laps (7.5miles) for 1 hr 20mins. I love jogging. I'm addicted to it.



Lol!

No gyming for me. Not yet.

50 mins intensive cardio in the back garden plus 15 mins sit-ups and 5 mins lower abdominal exercises (courtsey of YouTube) have been my exercises for today.

And yes, this summer's bikini contest is going to be hot!

You can't be winning this thing every year. Not fair jare.

Needless to say, my legs hurt. Getting shin splints again.

Chillis:
Was fun though with kids. but Lots of things to carry around with those heavy boots.

edwife:
see your mouth like old age

edwife:
moca see

https://image.dhgate.com/albu_265543506_00-1.0x0/sexy-red-leopard-satin-chemise-robe-holiday.jpg


https://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51V5tzMGb0L._SY445_.jpg

Chillis:
Good for you. I will resume fast walking next week. Twisted my knee skiing. lost almost 3kg. Need to get it back ASAP.

edwife:
Me too ,by the way i got a colleague in the group...so cococandy and i are students

Sweet,i won't be complaining about assignments alone from now on,coco once you have one,come and complain ,i will feel better....

edwife:
You and efe are learner see