₦airaland Forum

Onegai:
OP, your heart will heal one day. This breakup is not the end of the world ehhhhh. Pele!

Cococandy, girl mba!! You need to lose that lace wig and makeup, its too dark for you! Lighter colours henceforth. This is 2015, your time to marry some diamonds, errr I mean, marry a good man

Hmmm going for looks unlike me.

I did that for the eccentric essence

Maybe cut my hair and pierce my nose next. Still thinking about it

Ikwokrikwo:
They said the first lady's office isn't recognised yet someone who isn't even first lady yet is already moving in a convoy of over 10 vehicles.
APC and their deception is unbelievable.

I can't believe the arrogance.

And she has a convoy because?

oyb:
to add to that, cases of police brutality are followed to a conclusion; not like nigeria where there are two days of outrage on papers and then the case dies.

three years later, no one is in jail for the death of tge aluu 4. all tge serial killers refernced were caught and convicted.

Aluu4 still gives me nightmares until now.

No one is guaranteed justice

God forbid bad thing
How do these folks live with themselves?

Naija police

Against their fellow black man

https://www.nairaland.com/2199804/graphic-photos-hotel-worker-allegedly#31692732

Tunjihadeshelay:
She is not saying yes or no but always saying am thinking about it.I propossed to her for the past one month now. What do you think is happening about that?

Maybe she's playing hard to get

BTW what do you mean by proposing for her to be your lover?
Maybe she doesn't want meaningless sex.
Some girls want to be sure you mean business before committing.

Afterall if she gives in easily, na una go still come NL call am hoe.

Rose2014:
If I say 'g' you say 'a' another man say 'y'
Omo na you sabi

Lol

But gay guys don't hate women sha o.

That reminds me, I need me a gay best friend.

You will get married before 2015 is up.

all4naija:
You have no evidence than merely speculating to protect African men - like the Ray Rice's wife who later covered up for him after the elevator abuse. Beside beating their wives or rather women they treat them as though they are properties to be used. Huh!

Reading the concluding part of your post makes me to think you like to be abused by African men and cannot see anything in your statement that proves otherwise.

Ok ok you have beef against African men. I get it.

Somehow you are not different From those African guys themselves who lump all women into one category without empirical proof.

Well I have proof that not all African men abuse their wives because I know those who don't.
Duh. You mean to say all the people I know beat on their wives and I'm lying to protect them?

This is a new angle.

Classic case of seven blind men describing the elephant by the part they can feel at the moment.

Today I'm a man hater
Tomorrow I'm protecting abusive men.

Comedy central.

all4naija:
Why are you defending African men? I am curious to know about that.

Because I know men who don't hit their wives.

I won't use mine as example because according to the wisdom of nairalanders, I'm not yet qualified to do that

But I can honestly attest to the fact that those who hit their women and those who don't but feel like it is justifiable are not in the majority.

All this evilness I only see on nairaland.

In real life, I know many kind guys who will risk their all for their families.

I do know ego is one problem they have anyway but some still manage to put it aside when it matters.

Curious huh?
I still find myself defending the guys when some of them start claiming that naija men are dogs and have no self control.
Going by the follow follow ill analyzed comments of some folks who talk without facts, one would think I'm the one who crucifies them.

all4naija:
Typical African men usually abuse their women, not only on domestic violence also look down on them in almost all areas.Most of them enjoy being maltreated from a cultural perspective of being a submissive and responsible women. That is a primitive idea. Jeez! I think there are no African men like me who don't abuse their women. It is very rare, most especially, in Nigeria.

i agree with you that it is a primitive mentality and I find such women extremely annoying.
We call them the red bra crew
Those that will blame and cuss a fellow woman out for not sticking with an abuser (as you can see for yourself).
Encouraging her to submit more and more to bad treatment in the name of being virtuous.

I'll have you know not all guys are like that though.

all4naija:
I quite know that your are pretending but it is not a good thing. I can never in my life beat a woman and I will forever remain so.

Mmm. So you don't beat women? Ok
Are there other men like you? Yes
Do those men have wives and girlfriends? Yes
Are those women African? Yes

So why do you think all African women like those beat them since the ones who are like you still have ladies who love them.?

Well she forgave him.
One would think he would be ok with that.

Nope he had to ridicule her publicly.
And is still coming back to tell us how she have it to him tonight

Oga we dey wait the video o.

#Retardd

all4naija:
African women dig abusive men as well as this pretending Cococandy.

yea I like guys who beat me

One quality I always look out for in a partner

Khabuqi:
I'm glad you find it amusing
People can only talk about you on this forum based on the information you give out. And based on some of your and babyosisi's posts that I have come across, I can say you guys paint your marriages to be very perfect. Maybe you are not that extreme but the other lady(babyosisi) Chaiii. Her case is that of someone with "Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder"

I do no such thing.
I actually avoid answering in the first person even to personal questions just for this reason.

Maybe that's the impression you get from me saying women shouldn't stay with abusive guys.

I guess the interpretation is that the guy behind that babe must be perfect.
Lol. thank God o.

Fortunately for me, I keep my life simple by not trying to figure out what other posters married lives are like or forming impression and opinions about them.

Too much to worry about really.
Nairalanders lives ain't part of it.

dinachi:
Shut your hole..Where did you also advice him to run away from girls like miraj who used to be the one pummeling him until he got to his senses and returned some of the favor, scammer?
Stop hating on good men, they are very rare... Stop sucking up to wussys who call themselves men...and finally stop scamming unsuspecting girls here on nairaland.

Ok sir. I will Stop hating on good men
I.e those who beat their women. I remember you always address them as fine gentlemen.

And stop sucking up to wussies which by your definition includes those who don't resort to violence

Lunatic.

5minsmadness:
having an unknown alternate moniker isn't cowardice. Sometimes you just want to make a fresh start, let go of old habits and enemies, wipe the slate clean.
I dont see you as hotpeppersoup though, too local, that will be for someone like bukatyne

But when it is done in order to attack posters who won't recognize you're the one especially when it is unwarranted (bearing no relevance to the thread under discussion) then it is cowardice.

Well maybe I'll do 'strawberrysmoothie' next

#I'm a foodie

For now and many years to come,I am coconutcandy. anyone who has anything to say to me should man up and say it.

Incredible

dinachi:
As long as you keep scamming other women with advices, that even you can't take we will keep pointing it out. A lot of people are struggling to keep their relationship going, don't make it harder for them.

You mean as long as I keep saying girls should run from violent men, you will keep making your evil wishes known even though they bear no resemblance to the truth?

Keep it up.

Your life calling seems to be to spread woman hate as far and wide as you can with the help of your cheerers-on and goons.
But you won't succeed.

As far as girls like mirajj will always come to their senses and run from your likes.

5minsmadness:
i think you just found her alternate moniker

If I wanted an alternate moniker, I'd go for something like hotpeppersoup.

There's nothing I'm too afraid to say with my one and only moniker.
When I wish to change, I will deactivate this one and anyone who used to interact with me before will be sure to find out it is me in my new name because I won't hide it.

#saynotocowardice

Khabuqi:
I didn't mean that. What I mean is, when you publicize your private life like you do, then expect people to poke nose.

Maybe we have different definitions for publicize.

I am married. I don't hide it.

So anyone that's always trying to find out,insinuate or make outright outlandish claims about how the marriage is going is simply wasting their time.

I find most of it amusing anyway

Khabuqi:
Oh well. You brought this on yourself. Sorry to say that.

ok next time I will support the abuser so that some disgruntled fellow won't use that opportunity to take pointless digs at me

Rose2014:
And my husband beats me too twice a day

Dinachi you've won. U can now clap for yourself

even when you don't talk about your spouse, the cowards can't help bringing him into every discussion.

People who have only a vague moniker that you don't even give a second thought when you log off will surprise you with one comment that will have you wondering how long the malice has been burning in their hearts.

Ok my husband beats me every time I don't kneel down to serve him his food in sparkling China.

I hope that makes you feel better.
Keep my name off your leprous fingers.
Sadist.

I don't discuss him with any of you on nairaland. Either to paint him good or bad so you can keep making your wild guesses and assumptions that don't cut it but that's your business.

dinachi:
Thank God I have finally figured it out! Thank you Jesuuuuus! Here goes....most women like babyosisi, cococandy and other ass swipes giving divisive and silly advises are in very terrible marital relationships. In essense the evil advices they sell to other gullible women out here are ideas they WISH they have the guts to carry out in their own husbands house. Since they do not have they guts to do it, they now push it to other females fools to judge the effect will have on the poor female fools blindly following them. In other words, they are busy experimenting with other peoples marriages and relationships....THESE LADIES ARE VERY WICKED! Follow them at your own peril...A word is enough for the wise! Imagine women who are constantly pummelled by their husbands for fun like babyosisi and cococandy coming out here to tell other ladies how they will never tolerate any man beating them . Yet they come here and sell their husband as angels from heaven! . A beg forget those scammers!

I insulted you?

Chei. The hunter has become the hunted.

When you were gloating about how you can't wait to see the day I'll cry where you drunk then?

What were you expecting?
Oh I guess I was supposed to say thank you sir.
I know.

That's the only response acceptable to you.

Meanwhile all your condescending bullshiit is not insulting to me I guess

Don't worry I'm waiting for the shock.

Meanwhile I won't mention you like you so 'politely' asked if you would do me same courtesy of removing my name from your list of people you can't wait to see sad.

Or better still think it. Don't bother voicing it because if you do, I will serve it it you hot.

Take my leniency today as an advance Easter gift.

kaboninc:
That's your trade in stock! Insults. And that's why you see nothing wrong with Miraijj's act because you also have exclusive rights to that trade mark. Insults.

That day you'll run your mouth on me, I'll shock you too. I run away from insults because I know how it feels. But for you, I'll shock you.

I've also remained calm, watching my words. But your likes, they never stop. They enjoy it. And when the slap comes, they cry up to heavens!

Please don't mention me again, for now. We'll meet some other time.

Club leader

Mentor

Childish.

You have Issues. Get rid of them.
Else you won't have problems with who agrees with who.


Learn from who? You who thinks verbal abuse warrants physical abuse?
Nope. There's a reason why you're not among the folks who make the laws that determine what is a crime or not.

Victim for who?
On a day when I'm in the spirit I can tear you to shreds without stopping for breath.
Today is my annointed day hence my seeming calmness which you interprete as playing victim.

So my dear quit being silly and Stop being dane.

kaboninc:
You've really not seen me making trouble.

When you do, then you'll know what trouble is.

Stop playing the victim here. I had advice you in my diary. You either take it or leave. Keep your blames to yourself and mentor, babyosisi. If you two had been objective, if you two had also consider that Miraijj was abusive, then this wouldn't have happened.

I hate it when we are one sided and claim to be champions in matters that are well beyond our scope. whatever happens to learning? Was I the only person who noticed your sick one-sided treatment? Do I look like someone who follows the crowd? I'm independent and speak for myself and not influenced by people like your mentor, babyosisi.

Lastly, did you see your club leader's advice? She never cautioned Miraijj of her abusive mouth. Instead she had to rant about how devilish Mckdokwe is. Is that the kinda person you align yourself with?

Let's stop this back and forth shit. I've taken note of your point and I hope you've done same with me. Stop spreading lies that am responsible for you guys' one-sided views that resulted in that thread being locked! Stop acting like Miraijj!

Good night!

Yes she should be more self conscious. I agree.

But I can recognize her if I meet her.
So what's the end achieved by this thread?

LewisO:
[color=#000033] [size=14pt] That's why when u are in public u need to be conscious.

They needs to learn how to sit property, especially ladies will she say she's high or what? That's silly!

Precise that pics doesn't show her main face, just her side view of head, i bet u, u can't see her and recognise her in real life. [/size] [/color]

kaboninc:
Do you always trade blames?

My friend stop pretending.

You were the catalyst that caused the whole brouhaha. You set the precedence for others to come and unload their bile.

Suddenly the thread wasn't about the girl who came to clear her issue with the dude but about those who have been exposed on nairaland and those who are pretending to have a great life.
(What that has to do with the guy n his babe I'm yet to figure out)

People were naming folks who didn't even quote them to start with and saying stuff about them.
Yet when they react (as normal humans would)
They are the bad folks.
Do you think it is everytime that someone can ignore side talk about themselves especially when they didn't quote the aggressor to start with?

You have the nerves to say "they closed the thread".

trouble maker.

This is now a common trend.
I hope you trouble makers change your ways.

Stay on topic whenever and avoid unrelated jabs at people because they gave their opinion which you could simply counter without going dirty.

warrior01:
It saddens my heart whenever I read some of babyosisi's contributions in the family section. She's so divisive and that must be from the pit of hell. She and her likes will come online to always claim the best in their relationships but will stop at nothing to scatter other budding relationships. Tufiakwa! I pity the gullible ones that can't discern the antics of these agents of darkness.

agent of light pls make sure if you know anyone in such position being beaten with a tiny breastfeeding baby,encourage them to stay and die.

Budding relationship indeed.

No wonder we are going nowhere

Hahaha

LewisO:
[color=#000033] [size=14pt]Why is she not aware of it?

She's doing that to attract customers. Stop defending her stupidity. [/size] [/color]

Trust me it is quite possible to forget oneself in moments of 'unconsciousness' and sit carelessly.

Majority of girls can testify that at one time or the other, someone has called their attention to sit properly. It happens.

Posting her full pic with face is not fair.
At least he for crop the face. We would still get the message