Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 10:44pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
BlackLeopard: She is someone in the society. She knows it in and out, she talks things like all is, and YET takes time out of her day to help people in need and education here, not losing patience with the worthless of your type. Blackleopard, one thing about NL, (that I learned the hard way) don't ever try to prove someone wrong when they begin making insinuations about your personal life. Just ignore that part completely. Totally. Yahoo boys and kidnappers are everywhere. You don't know who's looking for ways to pry personal info about you for their own sinister ends. They can only get it from you and the way to do so is to try goad you into revealing things that they can use against you in your attempt to try to prove them wrong. So my dear, if truthnl or whatever he calls himself says I'm a jobless village girl with a husband that works 3jobs and lives on food stamps in a crappy apartment, then for all intents and purposes,he's right. Wetin concern me? |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 10:35pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
thetruthnl: you coward,you mate are making money you are here everyday trolling around talking of seeking relevance ,this girl you need help! I will do thanksgiving the day you will actually be someone in the society,not on a faceless forum but in real life. 
I am here ain't going nowhere! oh no you will be back. When I'm done ignoring this account for a few weeks, you will come back with another one to throw shots because you can't deal with being ignored. You rants about ugly girls probably stems from rejection from the pretty ones. Sore loser. |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 10:30pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Dnt you just love Nairaland? Home of all heartbroken men with body odour, mouth odour and premature e.jaculation in Nigeria. hehehehee. The guy made mention of he running his life and not a woman. Seems this guy has been abused by females in several ways. He has issues. this thread is an avenue to declare his frustrations.  He was just swinging right left and centre  Even all the women from the first page who condemned the woman's bad behavior were not spared. I guess he sees his mother in every woman. He had deeper issues than most guys with mommy issues. |
Politics › Re: Jega’s Tenure Ends On March 24, 2015 By Operation Of Law. by cococandy(f): 10:24pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
bushdoc9919: I do not like Nigerian politics. at all The more you look, the less you see |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 10:17pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
It is well with your soul I hope you find peace and a pretty babe to calm down your anger at having to grow up with only your mother's ugly face as the symbol of womanhood you were exposed to. You must feel short changed. #one more ediot confined to the ignore list. Create another account and come back again. Coward! thetruthnl: No you wished i was stalking you,you are everywhere not to be noticed and that by the way is your job.Create new account for a troll like you?girl you only relevant on NL.where else?
And the whole group is here complete!now let do this
By the way one of them is a man hater,didn't have her father's love while growing the man was a drunk thus her hatred for men.She is old single mother of two and desperately desperate ,i was expecting her... |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 10:06pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Nne, check the b.p of that guy. The thing don high gaaaan!! All that epistle beccause of cheating? See as all of them dey vex. hehehehehe. The hunter becomes the hunted! I hope he doesn't pop a vein  Dude must have been tired of being ignored for a long time. You know some people are known for trolling so no one takes their posts seriously anymore. Hence new cowardly accounts and the ever readiness to jump at posts and go over and beyond to pour out issues eating them up whether related to the topic or not. I'm just wondering what his fixation with ugly babes are. |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 10:00pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Gosh Account created 2days ago  Damn. I should really learn to check profiles before quoting folks on this forum. Too many stalkers on the ignore list hiding behind new accounts to type what they really can't under normal circumstances. |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 9:53pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Lol. E no go better for the ugly babe that did this to you. One fine girl will gree for you some time soon ok? So that you will stop hating on the ugly ones. thetruthnl: Oh please girl stay on your superiority complexed mood for now until you are able to grasp that your dream has come truth and your ugly group.
Look at who is talking,we all know when you left the soil of your poverty stricken village to join your hubby,it must have been an experience being on the plane for the first time!and the bitch going to travel thinking she has an opinion about how nigerians are searched at the airport every time they travel,like seriously? how many times have you been on a plane?you are here every day morning till night jumping from one thread to another while your husband has three jobs ,look at the dudes hands;epic.Go find something worthy to do please girl,what an idle girl. All these poverty stricken girls from the village think they belong just because she managed to attend University,and praying for a yankee dude to come and save them .well done darling,but don't send that your husband out of his home in 5 years o,seeing that you spend all your time on NL ,tomorrow after the poor dude send you to nursing school,you will start misbehaving.A married woman always looking for relevance on a faceless forum,any guy that compliment her give her organms and on top her life is so so sad. except for waiting for her sufferhead husband...rubbish |
Family › Re: Help! My 9months Old Toddler Is Addited To Sucking Cell Phone Batterie... by cococandy(f): 9:50pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Pls keep then away from your baby. What other advice do you need?
Use extension wires and Charge them on shelf tops or cabinet tops higher than the baby's reach.
Na wa |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 9:38pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:17pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Breakfast n early lunch
Eggs n avocado
Oatmeal and fruit n one more egg.
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Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 9:04pm On Feb 09, 2015*. Modified: 6:04am On Feb 10, 2015 |
[b]In a way I wish all this generalization, exaggerations and demonization of the women living in the US and UK or one of those other evil western countries and the horrible emasculating laws that rob them of their manhood will make some men think twice before carrying their chauvinistic asses over to those evil countries.
Or at least make them prepared to be law abiding and ready to treat their wives like equal partners of the marriage.
Still they will go. And then come on nairaland to whine our ears off instead of taking their complaints to the congress.
Even the ones that never have anything good to say about the evil west will jump at a temporary visa so far say them reach there. If na to svck 50yr old pussy to get permanent residence all na hustle.
Yet they won't let us hear word about how evil the west is and the women are demons. Stay kwanu in Nigeria they no go gree. Everybody is just eager to run away from the land of angelic women and beautiful tradition and culture. Why? [/b] |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 8:42pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
mutter: When it came to women, men never erred. They were always right. and they still are. Always right. |
Politics › Re: Election Postponement Was Actually A Lifeline For INEC - REC Reveals by cococandy(f): 4:20pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Yea? We all knew that.
If fashola is just collecting his PVC how much more the commoner. |
Politics › Re: Five Countries To Send 8,700 Troops To Help Jonathan's Govt. Fight Boko Haram by cococandy(f): 4:17pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Great news |
Politics › Re: Five Countries To Send 8,700 Troops To Help Jonathan's Govt. Fight Boko Haram by cococandy(f): 4:17pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Paspane: we have several countries battling Isis. It's okay. But when countries suffering the boko epidemic unite together to obliterate the boko scourge, then Jonathan has failed. How pathetic can the opposition be? dont mind them |
Celebrities › Re: Uche Elendu's Marriage Allegedly Crashes by cococandy(f): 4:05pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
When the man is sleeping around like a he-goat, why won't it crash? She even tried for 5yrs sef  |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by cococandy(f): 3:39pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
alutacontinua: My wife is the best too, I don't have a choice   right? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:19am On Feb 09, 2015 |
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Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 9:18am On Feb 09, 2015 |
donpeey22: Do women even know what love is? Never loved him but went ahead and married him! At least this is not a case of "he cheated on me first" Or " he doesn't take care of me"
Still beats my thinking faculty what women of nowadays really want! the earlier you know all women are not the same and as such can't want the same thing or behave in the same way,the better for you. |
Politics › Re: Presidency Shops For Jega’s Replacement - Vanguard News by cococandy(f): 7:56am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Undisclosed sources  Nigeria and dirty politics Any civilian that lets himself die for these liars and schemers died in vain |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 6:39am On Feb 09, 2015 |
baby124: What she did not do as a 22yr old, she did as a 36yr old. It always happens like that. Except such a person has been through a very hard life and had to mature early. It is not advisable for anyone to marry till they have gotten their thrill seeking out of their system. It was until I was 25 that reality started to dawn about marriage. At 22, if I married I would have been divorced. Funny thing is that is when Nigerian men rush these girls . And she probably felt pressure to be what she is not as a pastor's wife. With the way this man is so judgmental of her village and town I can only imagine how judge mental he was of her. And by the way, when you are the bread winner in an extended family, your famy members will do your bidding. Typical Nigerian parent behavior. As she is the one probably taking care of a lot of family responsibilities. No one will call her to order if she messes up. Lol@bold.  that's probably why half of their first-borns don't belong to them. The ex chook small the husband chook join. First born we no know who get am.  |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by cococandy(f): 4:45am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Not every man @OP
Only the insecure ones who feel every little thing emasculates them. |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 4:40am On Feb 09, 2015 |
goofyone: I also don't think he is. He clearly doesn't look or sound it. He's being driven by frustration to do this, not by sincerity. At the same time, the woman might have had her excesses too. exactly |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 3:57am On Feb 09, 2015 |
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Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 3:49am On Feb 09, 2015 |
goofyone: And she took this house, worth 340,000usd. She try...  you dey dig sha  |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 3:01am On Feb 09, 2015 |
baby124: It does matter o. Though I agree that people mature differently. But from personal experience, seriously. A 22yr old is probably a bit young for marriage in our type of age. Too many distractions and opportunities to mess up if one is not mentally ready for such a commitment. And it does not matter the location. The madam cheater from yesterday who died in the line of passion was probably also married off very young. I can bet on it. She had 4 kids by 35. Lolz. She also found a younger man to oil her engines. Men should marry women in their age group Abeg. So that as you are malfunctioning, so is she. So we avoid emotional stories that we see everyday on NL. I kind of agree with you even though I know people mature differently. Personally there are things I did just last year that seemed so cool then but if you offer to pay me today I won't even consider them let alone do them. How much more a 22yr old. But this woman was still carrying on even in her 30s. Said the stuff happened 12yrs ago and she's 48now means that at age 36,she was still frolicking around. She should have known better. I guess when she was displaying her youthful exuberance, nobody was available to call her to order. No good parents to tell her to desist,instead they supported her and she eventually grew the habit since she was getting away with it already. |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 2:53am On Feb 09, 2015 |
I still feel sorry for him anyways. ileobatojo: I'm telling you!
I'm sure this is the way the other mumu ones that ended up killing their wives behaved. Later they will snap and use their might to kill. No brains, all brawn. If this man had been building his case when he realized he was in a bum marriage,he would have had the upper hand in the divorce. Instead I'm sure he beat her out of frustration giving her the upper hand legally and undid himself finally. |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 2:45am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Evidently age is not maturity. baby124: So because he has failed at life means he should fail his kids too because he can't have access to them. This is just two big silly agbaya's disgracing themselves and their future up and down. This man holding tight and long suffering probably because he has a Dr. for a wife. Taking any shit while using a past affair as leverage. The woman is tired from abou 18yrs ago and has tried to leave the marriage in many different ways. It's not his kids fault that he refused to get a clue. And it's not his kids fault that he married a user and a pretender. It is not also their fault that their mother is an adulterer and more concerned with having orgasms. For the sake of their kids they should have left their trash off the internet |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 2:03am On Feb 09, 2015 |
His case is that of a typical naija wife.  ileobatojo: Please crown this guy the king of the "keep your home brigade". The guy mumu no be small. Even the head and neck crew women cannot be as ridiculous as this guy. The wife and her family had been a disaster from the beginning. Yet he kept being the dutiful "home keeper." What exactly did he expect?
-Wife and family disrespect you terribly within one month of marriage, yet you quit your good job in Nigeria because your wife would make more money in the US? And you were willing to put your life in the hands of such a woman and her family? -she would hit you, but you won't call the police, instead you let her utilize the law to her own full advantage instead of building up a good case against her? -you were lucky enough to find something doing, yet after enduring her evil ways in New York, you agree to give up your career to move with her to another state Essentially putting the power in her hands, despite knowing the type of wife you married?
This guy takes mumuness to another level. So he's just waking up after 25 years? Why did he give up now? He should have continued keeping his home till eternity.
But wait o, I thought they always throw the men out on the street according to NL and the woman gets to keep all the possessions? How come he gets to stay in their house and she's the one that moved to an apartment? 
Lemme go watch the second video. |
Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 2:02am On Feb 09, 2015 |
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Family › Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by cococandy(f): 2:00am On Feb 09, 2015 |
And i'm wondering if the wife hadn't confessed and said she wants out of the marriage, whether he would have continued. He probably would have. After all he took it for 25yrs. Now he's just scorned because she did all that to him and still had the guts to dump him. He should have left this marriage earlier on. But they will call me divorce advocate now  What did he gain after persevering in such a marriage for so long since it didn't end up working out? nwando: The man should have never left NY or NJ area That move was the wrong move to make How can a man leave a 6 figure income job with Morgan Stanley to follow this undeserving woman to texas He should have never even moved to the USA sef After allowing her family pressure him into quitting a high end job with NNPC,he makes a second foolish move Stepping his foot down and remaining in Nigeria with the ability to visit the USA whenever he liked would have suited him better He lost his manhood by that first move |