Politics › Re: Flamboyant Life Style Of Diezani Alison-Madueke by cococandy(f): 8:12am On Feb 06, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Flamboyant Life Style Of Diezani Alison-Madueke by cococandy(f): 8:08am On Feb 06, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Flamboyant Life Style Of Diezani Alison-Madueke by cococandy(f): 8:07am On Feb 06, 2015 |
berem: who told you he won't win? Go and vote on Vals day for the General and make my dreams come true.  I'm just telling you to consider the possibility so that if he doesn't win you won't be too downcast  If I could vote I won't vote for him. |
Family › Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by cococandy(f): 7:44am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Amya: Being a house wife is also a full time job. Where I have a problem with housewives is where they're doing that not for themselves or their kids but because the man of the house insists she's good for nothing else. |
Family › Re: Please Help! My Wife Is Too Sexually Uptight / Rigid by cococandy(f): 7:43am On Feb 06, 2015 |
But your wife is not here to take the advice and change or try to learn huh?
Maybe she was brought up that way. To be sexually repressive as it is seen by some people as a sign of virtue in ladies.
You know? The-holy-sister-don't-know-anything-about-dirty-sex wife material. Some guys Think it is attractive at first. getting an innocent girl to marry.
I don't know if it is possible to change someone in their adult age but just try your best. good luck now and stop cheating before you get Aids. |
Politics › Re: Flamboyant Life Style Of Diezani Alison-Madueke by cococandy(f): 7:24am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Well..... Good luck adjusting if your expectations don't happen. I don't want GMB to win but I won't develop high BP if he does. jaybee3: Well that's not an option worth considering for now.
I'm taking it personal simply because i understand the economic risk of having the GEJ rule us for another four years. Oil prices are down and corruption has not slowed pace meaning they will be forced to borrow to run an already bloated government.
Who is going to pay for the borrowed money? How would we as a nation improve our infrastructures if oil prices never recover? |
Crime › Re: 45-year-old Father Rapes Daughter, 11, In Bauchi by cococandy(f): 7:22am On Feb 06, 2015 |
FrancisTony: All these rape cases is becoming like a fiction to me.  Seriously. It is either cooked up or it means we have more than our fair share of disturbed randy goats existing In our country. Jeez. Everyday  |
Crime › Re: 45-year-old Father Rapes Daughter, 11, In Bauchi by cococandy(f): 7:20am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Another one. Goat! |
Politics › Re: Flamboyant Life Style Of Diezani Alison-Madueke by cococandy(f): 7:19am On Feb 06, 2015 |
jaybee3: You have no values block head. the way you're taking GMB matter ehn  What if he doesn't win? What will you do? You and berem? |
Family › Re: Happy Birthday To Lalasticlala ! by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Happy birthday dude. Remain blessed |
Family › Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 7:07am On Feb 06, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: You are right but let us not deceive ourselves, a great number of women demands money from men even when dating, then a bride price is paid and then many men are expected to pay the bills all by themselves. This is also part of the reality. There are those hard working women who contribute and even though they do, are guests in their own houses and there are those who consider it the man's responsibility to pay for all bills, before and after marriage. before marriage yes. After marriage? Big no.only in a few cases. All my twenty plus years in Nigeria I didn't see more than 10percent housewives compared to their counterparts who were employed. |
Culture › Re: Osu Caste System! Such A Terrible Practice!! by cococandy(f): 3:58am On Feb 06, 2015 |
PAGAN9JA: This is getting old.
wat discrimination? Rubbish.
The only ppl discriminated today are the poor. macof: I don't believe all this about the Osufrom Christian sources. I've read from some typical traditional Igbo sources and they speak of Osu as sacred, respected temple attendants they are discriminated against especially marriage wise. I'm Igbo . I know. Nauseating practice I'm totally against |
Family › Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 3:55am On Feb 06, 2015 |
soulglo: At least one of those women was not NIgerian. There was a Senegalese woman who was even pregnant. The man wrapped his hands around his pregnant wife's neck and squeezed it until she was dead. Imagine. Maybe some of his "Nigeria" rubbed of on her and she started to act like a Nigerian woman and as such deserved to be killed. a pregnant woman  |
Family › Re: Beds & Cabinets: Ladies, Which Of These Will You Rock? by cococandy(f): 2:29am On Feb 06, 2015 |
The aquarium bed it is for me. Lovely lovely  Dear lord |
Family › Re: Baby Girl For Adoption by cococandy(f): 12:48am On Feb 06, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 12:10am On Feb 06, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: And this is what happens in the West for MAJORITY of couples. They share bills and they acquire properties together. You can't look at these laws from a purely Nigerian perspective. which one is Nigerian perspective? Nigerian wives are hardworking and industrious Biko . Many break their backs to support their families from trading to professional jobs and what have you. Thing is it is easy for a man to throw his wife out and enjoy all she contributed to with his new sissie who doesn't know the effort behind the accumulation of such assets. The wife will either have to take it or leave or if she has superior might,fight for her rights which in most cases she won't even get her accurate due. The ranting by the males is because they are not used to a fair system which gives the wife her due share of the family belongings. They'd rather have it the way they are used. If I came from Mars ,I'd think women don't work and support their families from the hyped 'everything the man worked for' being bandied around. |
Family › Re: For Y'all That Are Too Quick To Judge Someone.. by cococandy(f): 11:39pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Touching  kaya09: I wouldnt really call it an epiphany,or some sort of major occurence in my life that made me decide to swing the other way,i guess its the little things in life,being bad and insensitive to others is fun i have to admit that much,but when the adrenaline dies down,or the alchohol wears off,and then you get to sleep at night,and that moment before you fall asleep,the wrong actions just come flooding to me,most times its like an avalanche that threatens to overwhelm me. I just got tired of being bad,i realized its so easy to be evil and judgemental,the real difficult one is kindness and forgiveness. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:38pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Akposy: Dis egusi soup is too presentable... Score: 9.5/10  Efemenaxy I'm coming o. Expect me |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:13pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:12pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Eba and egusi.
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Family › Re: For Y'all That Are Too Quick To Judge Someone.. by cococandy(f): 11:10pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
kaya09: Yea i wonder why,whats making you pissed? If you offend, ask for a pardon; if offended forgive. I have been angry at alot of things in my life too for a long tym,and i judged people,i am happy i have learned to see life from another angle. -Oh I already said that. Judgmental people who don't like to be judged too. Isn't it annoying? -I'm big on forgiveness too if the offender is sorry because I honestly don't like people who can't repent but feel they should be tolerated in their continuos annoying habits. so I guess that makes both if us. -I'm happy for you too. So did you have an epiphany? How did you begin to see things from a different angle? I learnt to put myself in others' shoes and that works for me most of the time. except sometimes when I become selfish(like the basic human  ) and overstep or hurt another person. Then of course I don't fail to apologize even if I have to roll in the mud to get that forgiveness. |
Family › Re: For Y'all That Are Too Quick To Judge Someone.. by cococandy(f): 10:49pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
kaya09: My dear you sound angry, allow the breeze that brought a maize plant down to strengthen it. Lol I'm actually with you on this matter.  Judgmental folks rub me the wrong way too. Not angry. Just pissed. I'm assuming you don't know what made me post those comments so no need to bother you about it. Those who it concerns will get the message. |
Family › Re: For Y'all That Are Too Quick To Judge Someone.. by cococandy(f): 10:42pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Anyone who doesn't want to be judged should drop the 'better than others' and 'holier than others' attitude. Because that is what makes posters point out your own wrong doings. Nobody will be interested in pointing out your own faults if you don't begin by riding a moral high horse into the arena. |
Family › Re: For Y'all That Are Too Quick To Judge Someone.. by cococandy(f): 10:36pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Those who are first to judge others and call them names suddenly start feeling salty when their medicine is given to them even in smaller quantities than they gave those whom they first judged. Mtchew.  |
Family › Re: Should A Woman Lie About Having A Child Outside Wedlock?? by cococandy(f): 9:34pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Ok. Well both of them are still kids gotten outside wedlock whether before or during the marriage. But I understand what you mean now. bennyrazz: for example,a girl gets pregnant for a guy that does not want to take responsibility and probably the guy abscounds and the lady has no choice than to keep the pregnancy and deliver the baby. After putting to bed, her family decides to take care of the baby while she gets her life back on track probably by going back to school or going to another city to look for work then she meets someone new, and the new guy is ready to take their relationship to the next level by marrying her, is there anything wrong in the girl opening up about her past life and informing her to be husband about her child? (that is what i call a child before wedlock which is still understandable cuz things did not work out well with her former lover) while having a child after wedlock is getting married to someoine and still going back to meet your former Boyfriends to sleep with you all because your husband does not know how to do the thing well on bed. In the process of playing the match you now got pregnant and decide to rope it on your not too smart husband. Then maybe after some years, you have a misunderstanding with him, you now decide to hurt him by saying he is not the biological father of his child (is that not wickedness) These things happen alot |
Politics › Re: INEC Manipulating PVCs To Favour Buhari, Says Balarabe Musa by cococandy(f): 9:01pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: INEC Manipulating PVCs To Favour Buhari, Says Balarabe Musa by cococandy(f): 9:00pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
All those people who have actually gone to collect their PVCs and weren't given should go out and stage a massive protest.
Don't let anyone take away your choice of voting who your want. Even if your candidate doesn't win at least you did your part |
Family › Re: Will You Allow Your Male Child Play With A Doll? by cococandy(f): 8:33pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
^^^^ cool |
Family › Re: Will You Allow Your Male Child Play With A Doll? by cococandy(f): 8:27pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: I don't want my kids to play with everything and anything so definitely I will not allow them to choose what they want.
I will try to keep them away from Barbies for as long as possible because I don't want them to grow up thinking that it is normal and desirable for a woman to look anorexic.
Moreover, many toys are junk and and contain toxins. Lol I meant within reasonable toy ranges appropriate for their age.  Just like I don't like toy guns. They teach violence. I don't think toy guns are appropriate for kids. |
Family › Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Mynd44: Sleep typing na.
What you should be worried about is the"Travesty of Intelligence" (Lemme borrow from Uncle Wole) that happens on home page   |
Family › Re: Will You Allow Your Male Child Play With A Doll? by cococandy(f): 8:10pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Just take your child to the toy store and let him or her choose what they like. Even children have a choice at least in such matters. Why must it be your decision to make?
Contrary to popular beliefs not all girls like Barbie dolls nor do all boys like toy guns. Let your kids express themselves how they like. |
Politics › Re: UNCONFIRMED: Jega To Resign At Gunpoint by cococandy(f): 8:06pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
How is postponing the elections supposed to help GEJ win? |