₦airaland Forum

IdomaLikita:
Please I want Women NGOs to take this matter Seriously! Thousands of Muslim Women in the North are being infected with HIV yearly by their Husbands! And the deeply conservative nature of their Lifestyle is preventing them from speaking up!
I was deeply shocked some months ago when a known HIV patient that comes to my Center for ART brought the picture of his new bride for us to see in the clinic! The Girl is the prettiest thing I've seen in a while( Yola Fulani stock)!
When I asked if she knew his status, he gave me a Disgusted look! The plan is to wait for her to fall sick, before bringing her for ART!
The Hundreds of Kids that would be born seropositive in the coming years is another ticking time bomb in the North that may further compound her woes!

Smh for these Alhajis!

bluelover:
happy anniversary cococandy!

you have been my inspiration on this forum

may you guys see many more together and may the cold hand of death not come near you both.

Don't forget our beautiful share of cake here
have fun!

edwife:
Many more to come,Happy Anniversary
May this night be blessed with the fertilisation of twins.......iseeeeee

Idowuogbo:
awww...its nice to know you over there spending your first anniversary with Nnayi.Happy Anniversary!! May it be fruitful and filled with everlasting joy and happiness.
P.s- make sure u shoki papa wella o....we are expecting ejima

r231:
Dangote's daughter cheated on me and you say I should break up? Don't you know that Love is all about forgiveness.

How can a pastor be preaching about charity and put a password on Church WIFI?

A boy I beat up back then in primary school is now in the US Army. He poses with guns on Facebook, and looks like he hasn't forgotten.

When you are kissing your girlfriend and you see the person owing you money, what will you do?

When you see a Nigerian couple outside staring at the moon, It's either NEPA (Nigeria's Electricity company) took the light or they are waiting for the smell of the insecticide to subside.

I just saw a Tricycle (Keke Napep) with an inscription "Trust No woman" I have a feeling that guy once had a range rover.

If you want to change the world, do it now that you are still single, because when you get married, you can't even change the T.V station.

Enjoy your evening y'all

r231:
Still on the matter

Xmas noni

MizMyColi:
You do have a point @life not being black and white.

I quite understand that in our world as we know it, no truth is absolute.

However, if you could recall, I used the word "comfortable" --- I want to see the world, I want to go places, I want to get the best in education. Now this ultimately means I may not always be there for my husband, we'd have to employ the services of cooks and maids.

Except I no longer feel love for the man, God knows, that no matter where I am in the world, the thought of someone "taking" care of him for me would leave me literally uncomfy ..... I would make it so obvious to him that I wish things were different, whenever I get the chance, I will so make it up to him

Lolz

I get your point tho'

But after all is said and done, wise couples keep their home ..... Whatever the cost.

Matthewbriggs:
The food tussing is me been overly dramatic and is not really the main issue here because I was not aiming for political correctness in my example. What I am driving out is to prove that the context surrounding a gift goes a long way in deciding how it is to be accepted.

Now based on you reply do you agree to my above assertion. yes or no.

Floodgater:
you still give him the satisfaction? I saw its not true from day one and didnt look twice only for me to see the traffic it caused now. Look well, the loop holes are there. It really seem like a female cos its a real life story he is tailoring to suit his war against feminism. If he sees that men are having upper hand he will tailor it to suit them and if its the women, he tones it to appease and distract them. Suddenly from staying to share hubby with new wife, she is now at parents so focus on furthering education etc anyway op you fit use this your womanwrapper talent for 'gollywood'. Finally to satisfy the exception to the rule thing. A girl who thinks like mut**r can pull this stunt.

Matthewbriggs:
@ bolded gift na gift.

How would you feel when you have spent your hard earned time preparing a really nice dish for your husband to eat and your mother inlaw arrives from the village one night complaining of the fact that you are feeding his son rubbish, she says look at how lean my son has become since he married you. She now tells you that the dish you just prepared is not good enough for him that you should shove your dish in the dustbin.

She steps in to the kitchen and prepares a dish for your husband and presents it to him as a gift in your presence, and your husband is like mummy thank you very much for this gift. This meal means a lot to me. [/b]

What do you think about this gift. Would you want such a gift.

Do you agree the way and matter a gift is given, goes a long way in deciding how it will be accepted ?

chaircover:
coco its easier for you to learn how to cook that it is for a man to suddenly make enough money to buy his wife a car
I can learn how to cook any new dish in 30 minutes thanks to youtube.
By the time I practise it 3 times, I will become a expert
I learnt how to cook nkwobi on youtube

chaircover:
Lets think about things deeply and honestly
If your hubby starts making comments that he enjoys this cooks meals and starts inviting his collegues home to come and enjoy the taste of this cooks meals, you wont be very happy.
If he starts to ask the cook to pack take away for him to eat at lunch at work you wont be very happy
Everyone wants to be the one that will provide the important things for our loved ones that they like
I want to be the one that will buy my husbands favorite shirt or cook his favourite meal.
Many women have housemaids but they still insist on cooking and serving their husbands meals.
At parties I prefer to get up and pick my husbands food for him . . .yes he has hands but it gives me pleasure.

MizMyColi:



#RespectsMa'am
But
Something about this post doesn't sit right with me.

I just learnt recently that belief affects a person's DNA and maybe that's why I'm of the belief that ---

Nothing in this world would ever make me comfortable that another woman or man has turned my husband's private chef.
I mean Nothing. Even if I'm decapitated, incapacitated, inter alia......God knows there'll be this longing to be the one who satisfies him in the area of food and sex. If I don't know how to, if I'm inexperienced........I will go and learn, of course, within acceptable ethical bounds.


While this sounds old fashion even to me who's typing ATM, I honestly don't see a need to discard the tradition --- I will pass it down to my kids too.

crackhaus:
And again the hypocrisy is revealed - you are a liar.

But not to worry, this is NL...you won't admit it here, but you know what you know and how you would react.

Cheers!

coogar:
there's no single fib in what i posted.
how are you even sure we are talking about the same incident? cococandy, mind yourself o.....

crackhaus:
Noted!

Now would you want your husband's mother to
bring a new woman/cook for him on the excuse
that he is suffering and not getting enough
healthy meals from you?

coogar:
everyone knows you are older? really?
if you put an ear to the ground, sit at the foot of the elderly ones here, then you are bound to hear about the urban legend of the last half century.

crackhaus:
You and I both know you're not really laughing or finding yourself funny.

Please go back to quoting posts that are responses to me, while replying some with your usual snide and totally ineffective remarks - I will keep seeing them and looking the other way.


Needless to say, I don't think I even tell you ladies how to act - I only call you out on your internet misrepresentations when most of you actually do the exact opposite of what y'all say here in real life.

coogar:

you were still a prepubescent girl when the incident happened. you wouldn't have had access to the internet then.



majority of them have the emotional make up of a 9-year-old girl. they are easily impressed.



the nigga cleaned out....
money, gadgets, several invitation letters to UK/USA from the gullible desperate women you see around here.



you wanna know what rhymes with annawhite? the loff of my life.

where have you been? merry christmas in advance. i might pay you a visit before the new year so keep my beers chilled.

bukatyne:
This thread eh!

Compliments of the season

bukatyne:
So because LordReed is not on your side of the divide, he is making a mockery of hinself?

And who made your side the right one?

And you are complaining of other posters

It is okay

thandii1:
You just described majority of the male posters in here. Including yourself.

coogar few weeks after his self-confession, about a dozen chics bombarded his email begging him to have their babies. some of the dozen chics included married women & a 44-year-old tpia. as far as the dude was concerned, it was mission accomplished.

Sophyrocks:


Everything to this set of males is about panty sniffing. No intellectually stimulating thought. Just panty sniffing. Any man who disagrees with them is a panty sniffer. Tells you how messed up and perverse they are psychologically. They say these things as a means of consolation for their messed up personalities. The thought that another male is more superior in IQ, more human/compassionate in character, more secure in his manhood than they are, crushes their Ego. Its plain insecurity. Ego is everything to them. Dnt be surprised they have substances they snuff into their noses before logging on to nairaland. So how else do they console themselves than to tag you a panty snifer.

V0lv0:
I have heard a lot of things but this by far takes the cake. How can you compare apples to meat? Did her father being her a new husband? If that was the case then obviously it would be a big issue but it's not that but a car. I really don't see what the big deal is if the father bought his daughter a car to help her out of the difficulty they are facing. Real men don't get bothered by trivial things like this. If it was a male friend that bought her a car then that would be wrong but her own father

If the guys father/mom bought him the car he would not accept it? Would his parents first consult his wife first? Or will he not accept it because of his wife ego issues with his mom? That's stupidity at its highest order.

Compare apples to apples and not apples to meat. How can you compare bringing another wife home/husband to a car? Seriously

LordReed:
Mangina because I want to give my own daughter a gift? LoL! When you become a father look at your daughter's face and tell yourself you will seek permission from her future husband before you give her a gift, lemme see how much of a misogynist you can be looking at your own baby girl.