₦airaland Forum

luvablesam:
'Man enuf to his responsibilities' how madam?

A man that says a woman is the cause of his problems is surely frustrated and YES u 'might' actually be a part of his problems.
Who takes a loan to pay for Rent? A man hardly suggests such or aint I right?, wouldn't it have been better if u lived in a less expensive part of town and buy a small car to ferry u to work? Or u are the 'Am all class' kinda chic?
In your One year of marriage,how much have u contributed,financially or morally?
Y wud u lock a mans shirt in the heat of an argument? Or u actually wanted to beat him abi? You are lucky he didn't slap you into another nationality like I would have done if I was in his shoes(I don't subscribe to physical abuse anyway).

Woman you are already thinkin of who takes the child when u can sort out your selves in a matured manner.

Men: The easiest way to loose a woman to another is thru physical abuse. Its a NO NO.

tpia6:
In my own case, my "sugbons" are too many.

I'll go with my weight issues for now.

Tiredwify:
No we didnt do counselling. I got preggy before marriage.

@cococandy, thanks so much.

tpia6:
suffice to say, if you have that attitude overseas, your kids may have no one to be friends with.

Godmystrength:
salute to the elders o. I shake yansh for you

Godmystrength:
mummy cococandy??

Phema:
Aaawww. Good for you girl.

Regards to hubby.

jarkbauer:
From the chat I knew the guy is very loaded more loaded than me. Maybe money is the attraction or the bait.

Phema:
Cococandy, have you relocated?

EfemenaXY:
Lol!

You're invited to dinner too

Nope, not yukish - it's actually quite good...and healthy too.

I like the king-sized prawns and salmon. I like crabs as long as I don't see the exo skeleton. This spring roll is a no-no though. That aside, that plate looks gooooood

That red squarish bit, is that jelly, cococandy?

tpia6:
what issues do you think are important for the 40s crowd?

Danhumprey:
Gosh! I wanna puke!


Maka why nau?

Chillisauce:
That food my gal , is the bomb.

It takes a special talent for sea food.

MuhdG:
Who send you

Abi

Dem no get eba n ogbono for there

PhockPhockMan:
Buhari will implement full sharia in the whole country.

SEE THE EVIDENCE BELLOW.

EfemenaXY:
Dinner time!

Rice 'n Stew served with plantain, mini chicken drumsticks, breaded crabs, and mixed vegetables (green peas, sweetcorn, carrots, and cauliflower)...and if course fruits - bananas, apple's, and plums) to hit our fruit & veg five-a-day.

Yields:
Wow. Sunnybobo, you own this thread. 'Nuff said.

Sorry ladies, this man is outdoing all of y'all. j/k

*Wears bulletproof vest*.

bukatyne:
Fried indomine

Edikanekong

Potato peppersoup

MizMyColi:
Moderation is key, in everything.

Case in point, me.

I like to be pampered.
No sane lady doesn't.

However, some of us (ladies) are too controlling in that regard.
We expect the man to go out of his way for us, we expect him to know just what to say to us, how to and when to.
We really don't care about him, except he cares about us.
Ideally, it shouldn't be that way.

A man thinks differently from a woman, there are those times when he just can't bring himself to pamper and be all lovey dovey.
This is why it is dangerous for ladies to base their sense of self worth on people's validation.
Let all the validation you need come from within, not without.

That way, when the pampering becomes less or totally absent, you're able to carry on without loosing confidence in your man/relationship.

To both sides of the divide, I have this to say.

A healthy relationship is about so many + factors.
One major + factor is; Compromise, healthy compromise.

MARKone:
It is both ways, worse in men. If you take an actual statistics of secret child(ren) sired by some husbands, without their wives knowing it's alarming.

bennyrazz:
, in fact some give birth to the child and on the day of the naming ceremony, they do some evil incantations into a river and they throw the baby into the river, if the baby floats back up, he/she is not a bastard but if the baby drowns, that's a bastard.

Zuria:
What woman would resist?