₦airaland Forum

AlienSPY:
: "I swear to God almighty, I will kill this woman and go to jail. "did she born Jesus" what sort of nonsense is this" this woman is determined to kill me" marriage that is not even past a year etc

DollyParton1:
Nope she committed a crime by being a female. Her personal fulfilment doesn't matter.

CHoccolaTE:
Why are men so scared of gender equality?
What are you scared of?
If you truly don't believe that women are equal to men you won't spend hours and hours trying to beat down the claims of women that believe in equality.
I wouldn't spend hours arguing with a person that claims the sun doesn't exist because his claims are too ridiculous to take seriously or bother about. You people live in fear of losing your unfair privileges so you keep reiterating your caveman claims of how gender equality cannot exist.

If you don't believe in equality then you believe in inequality, there are no two ways about it.
Don't hide under the ridiculous notion of 'equity' and not 'equality' because it makes no sense at all. once you don't agree that both genders are equal then you have agreed that they are unequal meaning that you think one gender is superior to another, which is a stjupid thing to do because superiority in people can come in very many forms.

Of course we cannot all be equal as humans, if you take both genders aside you find that differences exist in individual males and females, do we now set about creating different 'equity' laws for each and every person on earth?
Gender equality is not even about turning men to women or women to men.
It is providing fair and equal opportunities for both genders and realizing that both males and females are equally important in the scheme of things and deserve equal respect.

I think society as a whole will progress faster if both males and females are given opportunities to develop their potentials instead of forcing an entire gender into a box of stereotypes because of how they were born. You lot complain that women are dependent, gold diggers, lazy, do not strive to attain great heights in life etc etc. Do you not realize that stereotypes is a great part of what keeps them that way? Do you not realize that many of them even though they have the ability to do great things will not bother trying because they have been brainwashed to believe they are less intelligent or less capable than men? Or that they should live their lives in the hopes of becoming nothing but their husband's helper in future?
If you remove all these nonsense stereotypes people will start to look inwards and see that they can actually do great things and break grounds that can move society forward............... but then unfair privilege is more enticing to many men than the progress of society.

bukatyne:
Lol!

A friend in the OP's shoes had to go to school by force.

The OP's hubby wants her to a house wife so he is thinking what is the use of schooling?

She will go through this same thing when she wants to work with him because school enlightens and broadens one's mind.

OP:

I would advise you think about going to Open University. You can study online and still be a house wife.

If hubby doesn't bulge for working: start thinking in the lines of business especially online.
It is well

naijababe:
Strong words but not completely untrue. That's why I asked if some of these men need to look inwards

crackhaus:
I'm alright, what's up?

coogar:
does he make enough money in his business? that's the crux of the issue. if he's making enough money, if he's taking care of the bills without complaints & if he has a good life insurance scheme then he's right......your further education is unnecessary!

stay at home - make food for him. do online or petty business from home if you really want to make your own money. this is no issue at all. go & rub his tummy and serve him his best meal.

RoyalRoy:
That awkward moment when someone decided to donate "one like" to all your post since 2yrs ago and you begin to wonder who it was!!!!

Tallesty1:
Yea

apolonius:
Na wao;it looks like a masterclass o.

Tallesty1:
You brought me here

jnrbayano:
If he zooms and centres the crosshair of his sniper telescope on your head, we give our regards to the undertaker

Cc.

Cococandy

Dreyl:
sweet potato like you

Sophyrocks:
He went back to his base. Ive forgotten the particular country. You know how Edo parents love their children abroad. His Ex changed location as she couldnt bear the betrayal. It took quite a long while before the wedding took place bccos it seemed the guy had forgotten this lady. I heard he works in a resturant and isnt earning much which was why his wedding was really on a low budget. There was no cake served. so i was told. During the ceremony, he gave credit to his parents for making the wedding possible. it was an arranged marriage/marriage based on betrayal. His parents never wanted his Ex because she is Igbo. When they were still dating, she brought this her friend (The lady he married) along to visit him in a hotel when he came to nigeria. that was how he met her. his parents preferred this lady to his Ex and recommended her for him. We culdnt believe that this lady would do such to her best friend because she appeared to be Nice. Well, i guess once the greed for abroad things sets in, every saint turns to something else.

Dreyl:
true it's only light skinned girls like cococandy that will vote for him since he's allergic to Dark skinned girls and hold grudge against them i think they ain't going to vote him but yuzedo will get all votes because he don't give a fvck about skin colour.

ileobatojo:
Please forget this begging business and explain to me why you didn't put your back into it when you were hitting him with the mop? As you were hitting him, he was still able to continue beating your sister, that means you weren't doing a good enough job. So I need to know why?

EnlightenedSoul:
Omg, you two! We could be related

CFCfan:
You eat rice with banana just like me

apolonius:
You made or bought it?

carefreewannabe:
I haven't gone through a pregnancy yet but I sort of find it wrong to excuse everything with hormones.
I have worked with pregnant women many times and I have never seen any of them having mood swings at work and taking them out on their colleagues, clients or bosses. I can excuse a woman who is going through a difficult pregnancy but a normal pregnancy is not an illness, is it?