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saucechilli:
Since I can't post in food section, let me post it here.
All join

Lazy night.

Edwife , pls help me transfer it . Tenks

dein77:
I still hold my earlier position: women aren't fools: they simply pick holes in our attitudes and then pay us in with our own coin.

I believe only a tiny number of women pretend into marriage. It's the same with men. People will almost certainly continue in their natural attitudinal trajectory until someone or something forces them to assume a new identity. That new identity is more or less an adaptation feature- something to help them absorb the new shock and defend themselves against it.

Summary, OP should still look within!

I made a similar thread some months ago. I . continued enjoying the comments from most people as they confirmed my inner desire to throw myself in a better light. But soon, a very brutal and true comment came along. The person was so blunt to me. She suggested I should look within. I was livid.

Well, in humility and honesty, I looked within. I spotted the problem was me. I addressed it, and the peace that had taken a sabbatical leavereturned to me....

While there are some very difficult and verbally abusive women, in most cases, the men have actually brought their new behaviour forward.....

MissMeiya:
Oh, I have no idea. You'd have to ask him.

edwife:
Please try,do even more than the kissing...

Take the opportunity of winter,so the baby can come in summer...

touchmeder:
I put the egusi (dont mix it with water) inside the stew like paste (i.e onion and tomato fried inside the palm oil)
mix, mix, mix and allow them incorporate. Let it nearly burn sef (not burn o just get dried) then add the stock abi water and the rest of your ingredient.

My sister does it in another way. She adds a little water to the egusi until it forms a thick paste. she rolls this thick paste into a small balls and drops it the stew like paste. They retain this shape like lumps. Make sure when you are turning and putting your fish, meat and all you go easy so you dont squash it.

The difference between hers and mine is her's actually end up with the lumps while mine is thick (not smooth) like cococandy's egusi soup.

MojAyo:
anyway,let's forget about dat,like I said,I will find a solution to my problem,God will help me out

ShahzadNonso:
Lol, no na. I dey hail you. your food is the only feminine cooked food amongst a bunch of masculine cooked food

cocospice:
Love your egusi soup

oluplus:
$42,000 is approximately N7.1M
Blood of Jesus. Our journey still far ooo.

colossus2:
The thing shock me too oh.
If only $1 equals 1naira
God dey sha.

babyosisi:
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Sophyrocks:
Dnt mind the Op. He must really be living in a fantasy world. You want to use your hands to break your marriage by cheating and still you are expecting a peaceful home to come to. What sort of fantasy is that? Let him keep swallowing the sh1t she is giving him. He deserves it. Shey e don get mistress wey go replace im wife? let him divorce so that the same circle will continue. Let him try the same sh1t with his mistress if she will still give him peace of mind. Some men can really mess up their lives with their own hands and then they wonder where the mess is from.

MojAyo:
hmmm,tanx for ur advice o,and again I show appreciation at my mum supporting me and my childs upkeep,I never said I dnt want to work,I only came to nigeria to visit which I dnt knw things would turn out like dis,my inlaws promised to support me and my childs upkeep, bt since I came to d country,they changed,they dnt even want to take me in which I suspect its becos of financial stuffs,the father of my baby promised to be sending me and my child money,bt since I came here,I got stacked,which make my mum to be doing everything for me,I'm still going back to where I come from,and I will say it again,I dnt d system of d country,imagine d hair u can do for a client in SA at d rate of 1200naira in nigeria money,here ,they can do it for 500naira,so how can I catch up with my life with dat with a little one to feed,if I never come home,u won't see me here complaining,my problem started since I enter nigeria,I knw nairaland a long time,bt I never post a topic here based on my life or my husbands life,bt since I came into my mothers house,I was forced and frustrated to start creating a topic about my life on Nairaland,I believe my problem will end vry soon,I'm nt a lazy person

bukatyne:
You did not see my 'repentance' below?

I do not understand why women cannot leave cheating husbands instead of tormenting their husbands/themselves

bukatyne:
That is dangerous

If the OP claims that her curses does 'work', what is the guarantee that she would not place a curse for him to die?

@OP: when everything is relatively quiet, just jejely pack a small box or if you can afford it, buy new set of clothes/toiletries move out and stay with relatives/parents/hotel where people can vouch for you (so that accusation of adultery does not enter the story) and tell your & her parents all the matter.
o!

ShahzadNonso:
Judging from the posts here, it's obvious guys sabi cook pass girls. If the girls claim it's a lie then let them post their pics to prove it. Btw cococandy I see u

babyosisi:
Which one is egg inside stew

2sExy1:
How do you explain the following.

There used to be some born again brothers who would come and preach and they will ask us all to close our eyes and pray. By the time we open our eyes, she wouldn't be among us. This happened like 3 times.

she found praying a boring exercise. Everyone can't be the same


My bros who often played with us in the neighborhood just never liked that girl for reasons I can't explain. He often called her a witch. After first encounter she dare not come close to him as she was always avoiding him.

she avoided him because he bullied her .

In their compound there were dogs living upstairs and each time they see this girl, they often barked endlessly.

lmao. They only bark at her? Even then,it could be she's mean to them or whatever. Dogs can instinctively sense pp who dislike them. That doesn't make her a witch.

Things became rough for the family such that their father close his big pharmacy stor, their mother lost customers and close her booming fashion shop. really? Really? And this is her faults because? Or I forgot she's a witch. well I'm aware we live in a society where things don't just happen. It has to be the fault of someone or something spiritual. So I'm not surprised she's the primary suspect here.

They started selling food in front of their compound.

All these were happening without anyone accussing the girl of being a witch aside my bro who didn't even stay in the same apartment with
them

.hey. But your bro was already calling her a witch.

Until the day a group of men came from a penticostal church, mind you, this family were fully Catholics at that time and there was no way they would have invited those men but the men came directly to their house.

the spirit lead them. Yea right.

And prayers started... Na so the girl begin confess. Nobody beat her or hit but it just happened. When you collate the other events mentioned above, you have no reason not to believe its true.

her mind had already been messed up. Trust me your bro wasn't the first to treat her differently or call her a witch. She was probably a weird kid.

Plus, they are from your state and it happened over 2 decades ago.

Ma'am... You have no reason to believe because seeing is believing. I saw this thing happen and not you. Therefore, there is no way we will agree on same subject

you're right. There is no way we will agree on this subject..

2sExy1:
she spoke yay! Well your experience and mine is different. But I heard it's very severe in Akwa Ibom, cases of faulse accusation. Are you from Akwa Ibom?