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Apolonius. Where are you

Perv

Just a push and he slumped and died?

What bad luck. The man must have been very close to death.
So unfortunate for mr husband that he was the tool used to facilitate the process.


Shey madam fighter don carry dem pikins run leave him to face the music alone. Too bad.

Ilekokonit:
No worries. Feel free to use the content as you wish. Most of whats thereon is what was common sense to women of a certain generation in times past.

Regarding "Tips on keeping a good African woman", I can only give tips from a man's vantage point and so I'll have to leave the "good African woman" bit to the ladies who feel they are "Good African women" if they are not too proud / ashamed to identify with their Africanness.

Regarding the static free website, you have my blessings but as to anticipated feedback from folks from a different demographic, my guess is that the only people who will see the wisdom in the nuggets are those men who will stop at nothing to preserve traditional African culture / family values and the very few women who remember or appreciate what traditional African culture / family values is all about.

The wisdom of the points in my article will always be like poison to any one who believes that oyinbo culture is superior to African culture. And there seems to be a lot of people with such erroneous belief.

Talk about spreading your pearl before swine.

what is traditional African culture? And why is it that it is the men who will stop at nothing to preserve it?


Just curious

2CatWoman:
Erm, I was just shocked when you revealed yourself to be male especially after the lazy wife thread . It's all good though.

he's a she

babyosisi:
Lunching time,blessing time



Rice,veggies,plantain,chicken,yoghurt and fruits

that rice beckons to me

alutacontinua:
you have no idea

crackhaus:
I meant to ask how many Oscars and Golden Globes she has won, the Oscars are the highest honour right?

Your point is that she is distinguished and should not be taken lightly just because of her age.

Let's get back on topic then - Is Omotola not distinguished, why do y'all have problems with her opinion?

that is where you fail to get my point.
All this round about is unnecessary.
1) there are many oscars and golden globers,do I have to agree with all of them? No
2) did I say omotola isn't distinguished? No
3) does listening to what people have to say automatically mean agreeing with them? No
4) so is it clear now that by saying listen to people who have made their mark, I don't mean always agree with them? I should think so.

My point was simple and clear from the beginning. If you want to dismiss someone opinion,let it not be because of their age which is what you seem to have a problem with as regards Emma.
I don't agree with omoT and it has nothing to do with her age.


I can't explain it simpler than this.

bukatyne:
Lol!

I can seat comfortably in my living room with my husband 's ATM card and say that all wives should submit their salaries to their husbands

Hehehe!

yep. Same way I can send him to buy groceries for us and then turn around to lambast other women

bukatyne:
Someone said Kim K and Amber Rose are not feminists so they are role models

NL. cracks me up!

Ask these same people hyping Omotola how many would marry a woman exactly like her and you see no one.

i still remember that. Funny folks.

Have sex on TV , marry only the money bags, run away from home as a teenager, strut about town with bare breastts,basically do just about anything you can think of,as long as you haven't used d F word once, you're a good female role model. Never mind if everything you do is in tune with what THEY think is feminist.

EfemenaXY:
Coco, the latter part of your post is buttressing my point na...

ok

2CatWoman:
This was the guys initial post

male child to seal the deal. Smh
So their marriage hasn't been sealed all the while?

carefreewannabe:
Just say that he is the captain and then you can do whatever you want.

that's more like it. Haven't you heard 'the neck controls the movement of the head' analogy?
Where some women use manipulation and stroking of ego to control their men?

To some people it is never about partnership but control.

crackhaus:
Flawed logic!

Distinguished herself in what I asked.
How many Oscars, Golden Globes, or whatever else they use to honour actresses, has she won?
Or you don't know the meaning of the word 'distinguished'?

Linda Lovelace's name is very well known, she was a 'distinguished' c0ck-sucker and porn star - very distinguished

Na real continents away, Africa and Europe is separated by a body of water people use boats to cross.
Thanks to media, no one outside the US would have known Michael Jackson either.

What is your point?

how many awards has Emma Watson won?

Ok plainly Emma is a distinguished actress. Even from her childhood.


As for my point, one would think I've made my point severally.

Godmystrength:
...... in fact, he is even praying for twins ...2 boys

crackhaus:
Lmao... cococandy please.

Emma Watson has distinguished herself in what?
Do I look like someone who watches/watched Harry Potter movies?
When Angelina Jolie is there to talk about life and choices, you're telling me to pay heed to a little girl? You must be kidding.

Let's not even go that far, how many successful and accomplished women in Nigeria do you hear preaching feminism?
Emma Watson now knows more than they do huh?

Talking about being distinguished, is Omotola not distinguished enough for y'all to listen to her?

Please don't make me laugh.

I'm not doing comparisons or what have you. I do not expect you to agree with every celebrity either.
We can't agree with everyone.

Just saying you can't dismiss someone's opinion because of their age. Hence my using that girl as an example to you.


Just for the record,Emma has distinguished herself very well. for you to know her name continents away speaks volumes in itself

carefreewannabe:
@bold

She, as a submissive wife, and an obedient co-pilot would quit her job immediately and follow he husband's final decision.

hehehe. She's just lucky. Instead of her to keep quiet and enjoy her man,she's putting sand in the garri of those who have real inequality problems.

Because I have a husband who let's me be me,it would be unfair of me to diss those who actually have a reason to want changes because I don't even know what I would do if I were in their shoes. Maybe I would do worse.

Say the man had put a lid on her success or tried to stifle her growth,I wonder if she wouldn't be divorced now and bearing the title of evil divorced feminist.

Many actresses stopped actively featuring in movies and tours after their marriage. Those who tried against their husbands wishes ended up divorced because they couldn't keep up with the pressure from the men to quit. They couldn't handle the insecurities that kept popping up especially when they were away for weeks in other states or countries spending nights with men their husbands don't know. Such a thing can hinder a career tremendously.
These other human actresses tried and couldn't work it out because their human husbands understandably couldn't endure such tensions in the relationships and they finally break up after trying to work it out unsuccessfully.

Now because she's very lucky to have a man who ignores what other men can't ignore and stayed married to her despite scandals and every other thing,she's suddenly the perfect woman and super mom.

How women can be insensitive to others while trying to answer mrs goody two shoes.

Mondisweets:
she is an interesting character. she spends most of her time going around the world, pursuing her career, instead of catering for the needs of her family personally and she will come and shout "I know my place as a women"

another woman who does half of what omotola does with a less liberal husband will be termed an evil anti family feminist. But hey omo t has a husband who let's her be herself. Leave her kids and trot the globe. Spend nights in different hotels alone or with Colleagues, hire cooks and house keepers and every other thing that makes other women evil. With such a husband,she can afford to be anything she wants to be and take any stance she wants to take.


I would love to read her opinion again if the husband had been the quit your career and face the home kind of man.

@crackhaus, you keep harping on someone looking up to Emma Watson as not ideal but I tell you,age has nothing to do with stuff like this. Emma May very well be more knowledgeable about life than some 30 year olds. No be una dey talk say age is not a number?

Just 2days ago an 18 year old girl got into the house of law makers as the youngest law maker in the history of this state. It was all over the news. She beat big older MEN and women to get in there. Had to put college on hold first to serve her tenure and then to continue her education later.

When ppl have distinguished themselves,then maybe you should just ignore their age and listen to them when they speak.

bukatyne:
Lucky you

Even Omo T our supposed role model is not in the kitchen

omo t that her husband goes grocery shopping for

These guys can't cope with a woman half the weight of omotola. See them jubilating

EfemenaXY:
I think the idea of going for a sperm donor is ludicrous and geared to suit the infertile man. Why have an unknown person father your kid(s)? If the woman was the infertile spouse, how many Nigerian men would want to father kids with an unknown woman / egg donor?

Abeg let's get realistic jor.

maybe she doesn't want to get a divorce. So a sperm donor would suit them fine and save her the ordeal of being single all over again after twelve years of marriage and trying to find a new husband.

You think it is geared to suit the man? You will be surprised at the number men who are not even comfortable with the idea of another man's seed fathering their child even when the fault/infertility is from them.

Amen somebody

babyosisi:
Not cold here at all

lucky yous

armyofone:
I like meatballs but it has been awhile since I ate it.

That your okro soup looks yummy. Better yellow garri eba to go with it
I love okra with dried Hausa fish, tinko, mangala, smoked prawns and Bonga fish.
(My mom's style)

biko which one is hausa fish again?

babyosisi:
Not husband o
Children

oh . Forgive me

babyosisi:
Added my okro
This is fresh Okro from my friends backyard o
Well not so fresh,it has been in my refrigerator

you guys are lucky you can plant. It is so frigging cold out here I wonder if I can grow anything.

babyosisi:
Biko don't beat yourself up
I give mine cereal sometimes for dinner
Some Fridays I swing by little Caesars and get two boxes of pizza for dinner and left over for next day
God knows we are trying our best

cereals. Gosh he's such a sweet man.

Some men won't even go close to cereal how much more for dinner.

Following.

edwife:
Eke nguru ke?wait until i show at your door...

lol. That would be so nice.

How does he walk in those first heels

edwife:
Kai!coco....

This ain't fair....

I will still catch you....

we go still jam sha. For eke nguru

jnrbayano:
I am solid.

And you?

cool