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Ancestors are dead relatives right?
Na wa. Nigeria

zeb04: There are No ancestors disturbing cheating wife or whatever.those stories are bullcrap to keep the woman(only) in perpetual fear

The babe is yet to go insane
Anyway e no consign me
But just know those are superstitions

Not that it's not wrong to do such o.

I just noticed that since I came here,they talk about witches wizards etc etc with so much belief.
You'd wonder if they are with us in the 21st century.

I'm sure innocent women suffering from post partum depression would be accused of cheating on their husbands to bring such curses upon themselves.

Or women with negative rhesus factor ish who can't have another living child if they fail to take the necessary injection after their first pregnancy will also be labeled as witches who are devouring their babies in their wombs.

Much of this place is still steeped in some sort of ignorance.
It's perplexing.

ahnie: coco,i know what i'm saying.if you try such...you'll go insane.

That's how selfish human beings can be.

Story for the gods. I know one girl when I was doing nysc that used to flirt from man to man.the husband seemes to be a great guy though I just wondered why she was treating him like that.

ahnie: abomination!!!where i come from in isokoland,its a taboo.i'll rather kill my self and commit suicide,than indulging in adultery.

I think it is wrong to call someone's wife a slutt.
He may not even fancy it.

Yea I guess. He's bleeped up as far as those things you mentioned are concerned. I actually know that there's no way he'll be totally free from blame as regards what went down with his jet.

A car owner will be arrested too if his car is found to be used by armed robber for any operation even if he wasn't the one driving it (unless it was stolen from him) at the very very least,he is to blame for neglicence(if that's what it truly is)

But it will be a stretch to call him the financer of terrorism in Nigeria. Unless that can be proven beyond reasonable doubt. That his jet was caught with such cash won't be enough to indict him. It'll only open doors for more investigations after which he may or may not be indicted based on the findings of the investigation..

jaybee3: He owns a private jet not commercial Jet. Asside from the obvious implications (Taxation, circumventing normal airport protocols et al) surrounding the wrongful use of jets registered as private to be then used for commercial interest, Ignorance is simply not an excuse.

The Ayo dude is bleeped no matter what angle you might want to view this from

And in the process including other great black guys in the debasement while trying to insult him?

If he feels he's superior na for him pocket but don't let that push you to say something you may not like or at least make it about him alone and not every black man out there.

Sheath your sword sha.
Goodnight

koyyes: No babe, i just want him as an african to prove his superiority over women. that's all. And so far,he is failing miserably.

If you haven't met one doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

No you're wrong. I don't speak for all women. When it comes to what women like or how women react to things,I don't speak for all women.

But if you see it that way,no wahala
Goodnight

crackhaus: You interpreted fine.

Comparing and contrasting the looks of an ex's new fling is the exclusive preserve of women. I'm yet to come across a man who after getting booted off by his woman, begins to rate the looks & aesthetics of the new man with respect to himself.

How does this prove that I classify all men into one group and all women into another?

You've been known on this site to speak for all women though...you know this right?

So it's racism and feminism now?

Koyyes it's enough abeg.
See me defending you before now you're towing his path.

While I'm not a fan of Ayo and his showy type of CAN leadership,if he says he rented the jet out and it can be confirmed that it was actually rented out,wouldn't it make sense to hold the actual people in possession of the jet at the time it was impounded so that they speak up on who they are working for.
Rather than assume that because he owns it,he must know what the renters did with it while they were renting it?

And nonso23 fell for it.
Lmao

RaphaellaDD: Eh ok let's just pity them and pretend to be equal. Lol I know I'm looking for trouble.

crackhaus: Na wah oo...I told you this or you got it from the ever firing imaginative neurons in your brain?

Mmm maybe I interpreted your post wrongly.

Unlike women, men hardly compare themselves or feel bad that their spouse got a better deal after them, we don't care about such things...this attitude is the exclusive preserve of women,

But I think when one says something is the exclusive preserve of one group,means it can't be found in the other group EVER.
You can't speak for every man.
.

Qstar I told you to expect more

Ask him well well o

crackhaus: https://www.f17.wapka-files.com/download/5/e/a/2095035_5eafcf75103f08648a1331e5.jpg/e6bf5a588a9bd037bca9/Let%2Bme%2Bask%2BIfa.jpg

Crackhaus' problem is that he categorizes all men into one group and all women into another group.

There are women who don't give a hoot.
Not one.the guy is forgotten INSTANTLY the moment another one comes along.
Some are serial heart breakers. They don't care about your love or whatever it is. They love you when you're useful to them and drop you like you're stale the moment a guy with a better deal comes along.
I see such babes all the time. Sometimes I wonder how they claim to have been in love with the former dude at all.

Meanwhile there are men who are not flippant about such things like he tries to make it sound.some guys even when they've started dating again still haven't gotten over their ex.
I know some guys that will keep going on and on about a heart break they had in the past.
Sometimes subconsciously looking for the qualities their ex had in the new girl.

It's a big world of 7 billion people.

nwando: Look at the topic of the thread and the poster
Who is crying here and having sleepless nights over texts and FB messages?

I was speaking for myself jare.
I'm sure they have their type of women.
I just love sensitive men. That's all

Where do you belong?

crackhaus: What makes you think the 'braggadocio feeling funky on top nothing kind of men' really bat an eyelid on account of you liking them or not?

coogar: in the 21st century, paying attention to one's spouse = nagging!

Hmm. Oh well...

Sigh.


This dreyl self. So I should downlaod my plans for tomorrow here on NL eh?
Ok tomorrow I fight in sambisa

Dreyl: you re welcome
so what's your plan for tomorrow?

Nwando and coogar lmao

Erm meanwhile no body should call the OP a nag. We don't know that.
He seems like the type that gives his wife the attention she needs. Just that in this case she doesn't want his attention.
Me I like me very sweet and loving men.
Not the 'braggadacio feeling funky on top nothing kind of men'

Dreyl: forgerrit
how was your day?

it was fine. Thank you

Guilty of what?

Dreyl: innit? you are guilty that's why you re speechless.

Ok
OP you've heard na.
It might work for you too. If it does,don't forget to thank godmystrength

Godmystrength: but people have been here with testimonies of how these works for some women. so no harm in giving it a final trial.

Hmm

Dreyl: i thought we fought? Since you decided to ignore my comment..

Doing all that will make the woman ride him more.
Communication? yes.
Giving her some space to miss him? Yes
Using her tricks on her by pretending he doesn't care anyore? Yes.

If she still cares,that will bring her back.
If she doesn't,what can he do except let her go?

Godmystrength: lol. but on a more serious note, since OP wants his 'good girl' wife back, any method to achieve that should not be underestimated IMO

Me ma?
Ok o.

You're sweet.we all know that

Godmystrength: okay ma. i apologise then. very unusual of me.

My own na to agree with everybody these days.

It's not worth the fight

MissMeiya: Nairaland is serious stuff, you see. You have to assert your masculine dominance or else...


... well, or else.

Chillisauce: This one don pass spagetti bolognese. This one is spagetti ngwogwonese. Plenty orishirishi

Ok sir

5minsmadness: Yeah right.
If he had not replied with insults now more ladies wouldhave jjoined to mock him or bully him to silence. Then next time when he makes a comment she would remind him how she wiped the floor with him etc..


She started the insult, she got what she deserved.

Ahh GMS this dude is hurting na.
Don't play with his pain
He actually sounds like one of the good guys

Godmystrength: no joke here. he not forget to wear blue singlet and blue pants to re-seduce his wife. If all these don't work then let him pray very well and harder.

carefreewannabe: Is it HIS house or their house?

In nigeria it's a man's house. The woman is a tenant.

@topic . OP your wife says you should go have a girl friend?
That's pretty cold.
Damn.

Like some folks have said,ask her to tell you in plain terms what she wants.
If it's divorce,there's not much you can do except to accept it and move on with your life.
It's hard I know

But at this pace you'll just be punishing yourself and enduring heart ache from a woman who probably won't mourn you if you die from heart break.
Or do you want to wait until she brings her lover into the home before you know she doesn't care anymore?

You're beautiful

peggykorol: This is my look
A mother and wife
I get that talk all the time from Married and single guys
No biggie

This cat woman is so funny.