₦airaland Forum

scribble: First of all you have to comprehend that men and woman are wired differently.No we are wired to want as many beautiful women as we can afford....

50calibre:

You are living in a fantasy world, and you know it. Women are not built to have multiple partners, it's not female nature.

crackhaus: Really though, I have to see that thread to believe some guys would argue that it's not in a woman's nature to desire multiple men. Delusional!

If any woman I'm with dares to tell me she doesn't have at least one man she desires apart from me throughout the entire duration of our relationship till that point, I instinctively develop the feeling that she can cheat on me.

That kain lie will never fly with me at all...

crackhaus: I've never said or argued this before...not on NL, not in the real world, not in my dream.
If some guys on NL did, definitely not me

soulglo: This is just a cultural thing in my opinion. I really shouldn't be surprised given how women's rights in a Nigeria is a joke to begin with. I think the us where parents need yo step in and educate their sons and daughters too from an early age that no means no. People even rape for fun in a Nigeria. People punish women with rape in Nigeria and it is not that rare either. A young man who was taught boundaries and raised to see women as human brings like themselves would never EVER justify r4ping a woman.

crackhaus: You wouldn't believe me when I say these stories are what most men and young guys are already aware of. I mean, who do the married women cheat with?

Abeg you people should say something we haven't heard and seen before?

GSKing: 25 to be exact.

ahnie: ayam only familiar with the cassava stem in my father's compound.

A survey conducted by condom manufacturer, Durex, in which 29,000 people in 36 countries were interviewed has ranked Nigerian women as the most unfaithful in the world.

According to the survey, Thailand men are the most unfaithful in the world, with 54 percent of them admitting to cheating on their spouses.

South Korea came in second with 34 percent, while Malaysia ranked number three with 33 percent.

The survey revealed that the top two countries with cheating women are Nigeria, with 62 percent, and Thailand, 59 percent.

39 percent of Malaysian women also confessed to having betrayed their partners. Russian women came fourth at 33 percent while Singaporeans are fifth at 19 percent.

Is paternity testing becoming an issue in Nigeria?


We have seen that there is serious need for it because in many homes things are happening that are scary both to the lives of children and their parents. And for the general statistics that is now available, it is found that three out of every ten men are not the fathers of their babies. Similarly, three out of every ten children are not fathered by men they have seen as their biological fathers. What we have found out is that, anytime we take ten men, at least three of them eventually found that they are not the fathers of the children they call their own. And these men would have taken care of the children for all their lives.

Now, the global statistics is 100, 000 out of every 300, 000 men. But what we have found that is that the situation is higher in Nigeria than other places. For example in our laboratory here, 50 per cent of the cases comes out negative. And we also realised that majority of the first-borns are affected. You only need to be here to see big men cry like little kids and watch children weep in agony . It has been that bad. And I dare say it is becoming something every home must do and you may be quite surprised at the level of dastard revelation.

About thirty per cent of fathers are unknowingly bringing up children who are not biologically theirs. And it is suspected that this percentage may be on the increase due to sexual recklessness. According to recent trends in sexual health, especially in Nigeria, it was suggested that unprotected sex and multiple partners are comparatively common occurrences with a large proportion of conceptions still unplanned. So, more than half, that is, 50 per cent of all paternity tests carried out by our lab comes out negative and the most affected are first-borns, except in a few cases.

Do these cases happen mostly in matrimonial settings or in casual relationships?

In both matrimony and casual affiliations! I tell you, we have had series of married men come here and go back home devastated. In one instance, a man came here with his wife. Out of the five children he thought were his own, he discovered that only two belonged to him. And they are both duly married, living together as husband and wife. You see, the major problem we have in our country is that most of these cases are not duly documented. So, people don’t know we have such issues among us. In fact, some even don’t know where to go for the test to determine their child or children’s paternity. And I tell you, if you go to ten homes as we speak, you will be amazed to find that in almost all of them the children there do not belong to the men. It is that rampant.

If it is that rampant, how would you describe the three years since you started testing men?

Now, the general statistics by the American Association of Blood Banks is that globally, 100, 000 out of 300, 000 men are not the actual fathers of their presumed children. And like I said earlier, the Nigerian situation is even alarming. Also, Duess International, the condom manufacturers, once noted that Nigeria has the most reckless sexual life. So, you can then imagine what the outcome would be like if we say okay, let’s start taking statistics one-by-one.

How many families do you attend to each week?

We test about 15 to 20 families. People come here as a result of various types of controversies over the paternity of certain children. You know, families have come to us with claims that a child neither takes after the mother nor the father in looks and character. So, the man of the house would be curious to ascertain facts. And when they come here with such children, the fears of the fathers have often been affirmed. Fathers usually have the doubts; maybe he has been hearing some rumours, and you know, men are often the last to hear such things about themselves . Until many of them come here to take the test, they have nurtured other men’s children before realising ......

aderonila18: Abeg that's a lie to scare the women. I know women from my Mum's generation who were cheating on their husbands with either a richer man or a small toy boy and till now those women are married and I'm sure their husbands will swear that their wives can never cheat. It will surprise you what Nigerian woman get away with, the men think they have a license to cheat and their wives accept it cos it's a mans world but what they don't know is that those women don't even care if the husband is cheating because they are also getting their groove on. Nigerian women are masters of the game many men will never know that the children are actually for his best friend

corisande: 26

letsdothis: 32

corisande: 25-27

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@ op ..39 jare!oya what is the price for being sincere

tpia1: women can stay without sex for 16 years, no biggie.

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EmoBoy: Thats the point - You see men who love cooking as romantic, many women don't.

Danhumprey: Ha! Your brother in-law is right o! Noodles is women's/children's food! #fact!

We men will rather take swallows or some other 'strong' food than take noodles. Personally,I will rather take swallows than noodles,no matter how spiced-up the noodle might be.

I'm not saying I don't eat noodles. Honestly,I do eat noodles but not everytime. Right now,I feel like taking noodles as dinner.

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