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Family › Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 7:04pm On Sep 18, 2014
EmoBoy: Define romance objectively.
Honey it's relative.
And even with a particular person,it varies.
Mostly according to mood or circumstance

If I'm home and less busy,him cooking and me laying around doing nothing MAY NOT appeal to me because frankly most of us nigerian women at the core are traditional.

But imagine me pregnant,sick and coming back from work after spending a long day figthing traffic and all the stress to get home just to be surprised by his thoughtfulness in making something I like to eat smiley smiley
Mmmmmm
Romance in the air.

See? there's no definition for romance. Just know your partner and blend with him/her
Family › Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 6:56pm On Sep 18, 2014
Funny. How does cooking some of the time make a man less macho?

It's romantic if you don't know.
Especially if you've had a long day and you're surprised by a nice dinner he made.

If he's not macho,he's not macho. Cooking won't make him less so.

Being macho is mostly about looks and carriage
Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious.
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/
Family › Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 6:53pm On Sep 18, 2014
I enjoy cooking and I don't mind doing all the cooking.
I love to feed everyone around me.

As long as I have the time. Which I do.
For now.

I don't know what the future holds and how busy I might get.

In that case,I'd prefer a man who's not totally useless in the kitchen area.

Lucky I found one.

He makes award-winning jollof rice grin
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 6:47pm On Sep 18, 2014
Really? Small world.
If you're very familiar with that area,you might know my hubby's family.
He's from a royal family in otor iyede.
ahnie: Dad z from otor iyede/olomoro...mum z frm oteri-iyede.i know your terrain very well
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 6:44pm On Sep 18, 2014
Sincerely married people shouldn't be playing games on each other.
There's no competition in evil
Arsenate: ladies, this is a game you surely can't win, trust me on this. you might win a few "battles" here and there but overall you guys stand to lose a lot especially if you're a Nigerian woman.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f):
Gooogle ke?
Check the pics and the other before them
Doesn't it look like the same kitchen?

Meanwhile I thought men don't like noodles.I've been forcing my B.I.L since to eat with me but he refuses claiming that it's women's food
That he prefers swallow cheesy
Danhumprey: Na where you google these picx from?tongue

Pls,don't tell me you actually cooked it. I'm salivating already.embarassed
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:44pm On Sep 18, 2014
chinma414: d second noodles looks so stealable.long throat has killed me,abeg share ur recipe b4 i die here
cheesy thanks

Just regular noodles.
Add missed veggies( carrots,green pepper,green peas etc), fried egg,extra chilli ,sliced tomatoes, onions and the noodle spice in no particular order.



Same thing with the other one just that I added sliced hot dog.

For the hot dog,you add and allow to boil a little before adding the noodles and your veggies

Bon appetite
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:55pm On Sep 18, 2014
Noodles and noodles wink wink

Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Sep 18, 2014
I just pity men who think women are incapable of infidelity. cheesy grin
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 12:59pm On Sep 18, 2014
cheesy
sheniqua: My conscience no let me as per WOG
I was getting tempted myself grin grin grin

I burst out laughing at the missionary / jihad style bit
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 12:42pm On Sep 18, 2014
B.M You shouldn't have added that it was a joke.
The reactions would have been real and ferocious.
grin grin
Family › Re: Why Fathers Dont Coach their male children On Sex? by cococandy(f): 12:39pm On Sep 18, 2014
But they can still get saddled with the upkeep of a baby they don't want.
If my husband doesn't sex educate our boys,I'll do that myself.
coogar: duh....because you cannot be impregnated! boys are safe, girls are the endangered species.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Air Force Will Now Allow Airmen To Omit ‘so Help Me God’ by cococandy(f): 12:12pm On Sep 18, 2014
What league?
The league of those who don't judge unbelievers as evil people?
I'm the president.
Bizibi: u want to join to league.....u re welcome
Romance › Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by cococandy(f): 11:53am On Sep 18, 2014
Some did all the sexing. Different styles too and still got dumped cheesy cheesy
joe4christ: Dayuuum!
Where are you from? You sure must have lived most part of your life on planet mars. Damn!
Haven't you atleast for once questioned yourself on why your Bf of 7 fuckin years could still have the guts to dump you for another lady, what has she got that is better than what you possess as a successfullady huhhuh
Doesn't it simply shows that you've got an issue that you really needed to work on.
He must have complained countless times about it but you were'nt attentive, so why paint the picture as if the guy was heartless enough to have dumped you without reason after 7yrs and opt in for another chick.
And fir the sex part, you must be taking me for a kid, take your time o, how on earth could you possibly be in a 7yrs relationship and no sex involved, either you or your Bf have issue with his 'thing' dayuuum, in this 21st centuryhuh I can only imagine o.
Maybe that was why he dumped you for someone who treated him better and made him feel like a man.
Prove me wrong!
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 11:43am On Sep 18, 2014
cheesy you must really like this your best friend to watch out for him like this
alutacontinua: Naaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, my wife is allergic to other men's pinkolo cheesy wink
It's my best friend's wife that I don't trust grin
Christianity Etc › Re: The Air Force Will Now Allow Airmen To Omit ‘so Help Me God’ by cococandy(f): 11:35am On Sep 18, 2014
Each to their own.
Not everyone who proclaim God's name actually keep to his commandments.
They remember him when it's convenient
They remember him when they want show that they are holy
But put him aside when they want to fulfil their selfish desires.

I prefer an honest atheist to a hypocritical 'believer'

At least if you're a believer who still sins like me grin, try be humble and not condemn the unbelievers as if you're better than them.
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 11:23am On Sep 18, 2014
You want to catch your wife when she cheats huh?
alutacontinua: Op, waiting for the other points smiley
Family › Re: Why Fathers Dont Coach their male children On Sex? by cococandy(f): 11:14am On Sep 18, 2014
Help me ask
Family › Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by cococandy(f): 11:07am On Sep 18, 2014
coogar: he's a man, he can handle it. cheesy
Yea he's a man that's why I think you'd even understand. It's kind of a thing of pride for men.
Mock a man to his face that his wife is wh*re even if it's true,he'll react in anger first.
Even if he's no longer with the woman.

And he says he wants his good girl back(while I'm skeptical about the possibility)
It shows he still has some regard for her.
We should respect that.


Erm so you have a baby on the way?
Hei congrats cheesy cheesy (and better not be joking angry )
I'm sure it'll be twins.
Sarah and coogar juniors
Family › Re: Is My Wife Having An Emotional Affair??? by cococandy(f): 10:55am On Sep 18, 2014
TV01: And I absolutely agree.

It’s a principle of mine – one I’ve mentioned repeatedly and still hold strongly too - to never denigrate the spouse of one who comes here for succour. It doesn’t help and can actually inflame the situation.

I actually wrestled with it a bit, but as I write at least as much for the “want to’s” and the “would like to’s”, I felt I had to make myself very clear and be starkly descriptive about what obtains.

It wasn’t meant for the OP as such and I apologised for any perceived slight.


Just as no one is a homosexual, no one is a slut. Sluttery is a behaviour. Even if we feel we are naturally inclined in some way, it’s still a choice.

Standards have slipped somewhat, but indulgence in physical intimacy outside marriage means you are playing the ho – sluttery. Very few of us are not guilty as charged, but we can repent of such behaviour and resist such feelings, and we don’t have to adopt it as an identity.

Did it touch?
How would you describe an adulterous spouse and one that is disdainfully flagrant about it?



TV
coogar: so what do you call a married woman that is craving for her ex-boyfriend's sausage? a saint?
call a spade what it is - she's a slüt!
I'm not interested in protecting the image of the op's wife. I'm pretty sure she doesn't give a damn what we think.

I'm more concerned about not hurting the OP more than he already is.
Politics › Re: Oritsejafor And Company: Tainted And Jittery - Nasir El-rufai by cococandy(f): 9:44am On Sep 18, 2014
I don't agree it is naïve.
While you're on point and I agree with you.
It's also kind of naïve to think that people will always keep their word.
What makes you think it wasn't rented for a purported noble reason but got used for something else as most people are wont to do?

My own is that if it hasn't been proven that he's in collusion with the smugglers,then it is premature to draw such conclusion just yet.

P.S I don't like Ayo. I'm only speaking from a place of unbias.
texazzpete: This is a very naive point of view.

Oritsejafor is a Religious minister. There MUST be clauses to whatever purpose his Jet can be used for. Just like a devout Muslim will always advice his stockbroker not to invest his funds in alcohol or pork farms, so must a Christian Minister insist that rentals for activities that aren't above board be discouraged.

Unless you're telling me that the Church jet can be rented out to PlayBoy magazine to have mid-air orgies cheesy
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 9:39am On Sep 18, 2014
kreamidiva: In my own place, if a woman cheats, her husband will fall sick and eventually die unless she confesses. So women wey wan kill their husbands would jejely go and cheat on him! cheesy cheesy cheesy
I assume guys from your place who believe such will be extra careful to treat their wives nicely so that they won't go and 'kill' them grin cheesy

See guarantee. Choi.
Ije uwa
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 9:37am On Sep 18, 2014
But of course it is. Just be faithful because you love him.

I wonder why people are more afraid of dead rotten relatives than they are of STIs amd STDs
Imagine people shivering because of rotten flesh being consumed by termites as we speak but don't give a hoot about HIV and the rest which should be enough reason for anyone to zip up tightly. Very very tightly.

Reason fails undecided
ahnie: @coco maybe she's juju-ticed the gods.i remember Alex telling me that,its a taboo to admire any man.sometimes ayam begining to believ that,all this gods and ancestors thing is just a coax.
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 9:33am On Sep 18, 2014
Hahaha. I don't live in aba o.
That's a joke I always tell.
Lol cheesy grin

Only visited a few times. That place is a dump. I can't survive there.
Ajebo like me grin
ahnie: am presently in your state now(aba)came for a seminar.no good road network.
Christianity Etc › Re: I’m Facing Hard Times – TB Joshua by cococandy(f): 9:08am On Sep 18, 2014
But that should be clear enough to anyone with discernment.
He feels those misfortune were attacks perpetrated by his 'enemies' to make him lose face.

It is well
jnrbayano: Don't mind them jare.

The other time there was an update about this same incident, I carefully emboldened a section of the Op where TB Joshua's interest is and that is "loosing his reputation and a big chunk of his followers" some one came at me, saying I don't have the grace of God.

Marvelled at that address and I asked him if he has got a monopoly of the grace of God and I haven't seen him ever since to answer.
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 9:06am On Sep 18, 2014
Ok
kreamidiva: Arochukwu. Abia state.
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 9:01am On Sep 18, 2014
Where's your place?

Well I don't believe that either. So if I'm from your place and have a son,means my son can die if his wife cheats on him?

Naa. I don't think so.
Such things will only work for those who believe them.
kreamidiva: In my own place, if a woman cheats, her husband will fall sick and eventually die unless she confesses. So women wey was kill their husbands would jejely go and cheat on him! cheesy cheesy cheesy
Family › Re: Texas Executes Woman For Starvation Of Boy, 9 by cococandy(f): 8:54am On Sep 18, 2014
Na wa.
Your own child?
Did they check her for mental imbalance?
Christianity Etc › Re: I’m Facing Hard Times – TB Joshua by cococandy(f): 8:50am On Sep 18, 2014
Lol @ streets of nairaland
jnrbayano: And people (christians) will roam the streets of nairaland without shame defending what I don't know....

Smh.
Christianity Etc › Re: I’m Facing Hard Times – TB Joshua by cococandy(f): 8:43am On Sep 18, 2014
As if their deaths don't matter that much but the fact that they were killed to 'test' him.
Smh
How self conceited can our people be?
jnrbayano: I can't understand it mysel....

Always focusing on himself and never a word of sympathy/condolence to the families of the dead.

It's incomprehensible...
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f): 8:37am On Sep 18, 2014
ahnie: nice insight..but i can only speak for myself.
Yes darling. Be faithful to your husband and respect him because of the love and affection you have for him. Not because of the fear of dead ancestors.
To me that's not true faithfulness or loyalty.
some of those women if they weren't afraid of the superstition would have been sleeping around. That means in their mind they are not really faithful.

If I were a man,I'd prefer a lady is true to me because she desires no other man than because she feels hounded by dead spirits.

Have a nice day kiss
Family › Re: How To Cheat On Your Husband Without Being Caught by cococandy(f):
As I was saying ahnie
So I was gisting with my mil I told her about that girl I knew during my nysc who was fond of sleeping around with those ph oil workers for money even to point of getting angry with me if I refuse any of their advances, telling me I should just say yes and go with her in case I didn't want to do anything. That she won't mind doing and collecting the money cheesy (yea it was that bad)
My mil was like 'ah she must have done juju so that the ancestors won't see her'

Oh dear cheesy
I couldn't help laughing sha.

I thought at first they said the man will die.
Later they said it's not the man but the woman will go crazy
Later they said it the children and not the parents. That the children will get sick and die one by one.
Finally they said it wasn't all of the above again but that the woman will have difficult labor and die in labor or the children will die while being birthed.
Or the family will have some misfortune or the other.

It just dawned on me that anyhow you look at it,it seems like whatever happens in a family must be the woman's fault.if she has narrow pelvis that can't let her have a normal delivery but requires surgery,it is assumed she cheated and that is why she has difficult labor.instead of looking for medical or whatever solutions to what's going on,the woman is looked upon to confess adultery.

Smh.
And that the women themselves are propagating such misinformation is alarming.

I was telling my mil about the rhesus factor ish and she looking at me like she saw a ghost.
Who knows how many ignorant women that may have been unjustly condemned because they refused to confess adultery and save their unborn children from being taken by the ancestors(dead relatives)

Phew
*exhales*

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