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EmoBoy: Define romance objectively.Honey it's relative. And even with a particular person,it varies. Mostly according to mood or circumstance If I'm home and less busy,him cooking and me laying around doing nothing MAY NOT appeal to me because frankly most of us nigerian women at the core are traditional. But imagine me pregnant,sick and coming back from work after spending a long day figthing traffic and all the stress to get home just to be surprised by his thoughtfulness in making something I like to eat ![]() Mmmmmm Romance in the air. See? there's no definition for romance. Just know your partner and blend with him/her |
Funny. How does cooking some of the time make a man less macho? It's romantic if you don't know. Especially if you've had a long day and you're surprised by a nice dinner he made. If he's not macho,he's not macho. Cooking won't make him less so. Being macho is mostly about looks and carriage Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious. |
I enjoy cooking and I don't mind doing all the cooking. I love to feed everyone around me. As long as I have the time. Which I do. For now. I don't know what the future holds and how busy I might get. In that case,I'd prefer a man who's not totally useless in the kitchen area. Lucky I found one. He makes award-winning jollof rice ![]() |
Really? Small world. If you're very familiar with that area,you might know my hubby's family. He's from a royal family in otor iyede. ahnie: Dad z from otor iyede/olomoro...mum z frm oteri-iyede.i know your terrain very well |
Sincerely married people shouldn't be playing games on each other. There's no competition in evil Arsenate: ladies, this is a game you surely can't win, trust me on this. you might win a few "battles" here and there but overall you guys stand to lose a lot especially if you're a Nigerian woman. |
Gooogle ke? Check the pics and the other before them Doesn't it look like the same kitchen? Meanwhile I thought men don't like noodles.I've been forcing my B.I.L since to eat with me but he refuses claiming that it's women's food That he prefers swallow ![]() Danhumprey: Na where you google these picx from? |
chinma414: d second noodles looks so stealable.long throat has killed me,abeg share ur recipe b4 i die here thanks Just regular noodles. Add missed veggies( carrots,green pepper,green peas etc), fried egg,extra chilli ,sliced tomatoes, onions and the noodle spice in no particular order. Same thing with the other one just that I added sliced hot dog. For the hot dog,you add and allow to boil a little before adding the noodles and your veggies Bon appetite |
Noodles and noodles ![]()
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I just pity men who think women are incapable of infidelity. ![]() |
![]() sheniqua: My conscience no let me as per WOG |
B.M You shouldn't have added that it was a joke. The reactions would have been real and ferocious. ![]() |
But they can still get saddled with the upkeep of a baby they don't want. If my husband doesn't sex educate our boys,I'll do that myself. coogar: duh....because you cannot be impregnated! boys are safe, girls are the endangered species. |
What league? The league of those who don't judge unbelievers as evil people? I'm the president. Bizibi: u want to join to league.....u re welcome |
Some did all the sexing. Different styles too and still got dumped ![]() joe4christ: Dayuuum! |
you must really like this your best friend to watch out for him like thisalutacontinua: Naaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, my wife is allergic to other men's pinkolo |
Each to their own. Not everyone who proclaim God's name actually keep to his commandments. They remember him when it's convenient They remember him when they want show that they are holy But put him aside when they want to fulfil their selfish desires. I prefer an honest atheist to a hypocritical 'believer' At least if you're a believer who still sins like me , try be humble and not condemn the unbelievers as if you're better than them. |
You want to catch your wife when she cheats huh? alutacontinua: Op, waiting for the other points |
Help me ask |
coogar: he's a man, he can handle it.Yea he's a man that's why I think you'd even understand. It's kind of a thing of pride for men. Mock a man to his face that his wife is wh*re even if it's true,he'll react in anger first. Even if he's no longer with the woman. And he says he wants his good girl back(while I'm skeptical about the possibility) It shows he still has some regard for her. We should respect that. Erm so you have a baby on the way? Hei congrats (and better not be joking )I'm sure it'll be twins. Sarah and coogar juniors |
TV01: And I absolutely agree. coogar: so what do you call a married woman that is craving for her ex-boyfriend's sausage? a saint?I'm not interested in protecting the image of the op's wife. I'm pretty sure she doesn't give a damn what we think. I'm more concerned about not hurting the OP more than he already is. |
I don't agree it is naïve. While you're on point and I agree with you. It's also kind of naïve to think that people will always keep their word. What makes you think it wasn't rented for a purported noble reason but got used for something else as most people are wont to do? My own is that if it hasn't been proven that he's in collusion with the smugglers,then it is premature to draw such conclusion just yet. P.S I don't like Ayo. I'm only speaking from a place of unbias. texazzpete: This is a very naive point of view. |
kreamidiva: In my own place, if a woman cheats, her husband will fall sick and eventually die unless she confesses. So women wey wan kill their husbands would jejely go and cheat on him!I assume guys from your place who believe such will be extra careful to treat their wives nicely so that they won't go and 'kill' them ![]() See guarantee. Choi. Ije uwa |
But of course it is. Just be faithful because you love him. I wonder why people are more afraid of dead rotten relatives than they are of STIs amd STDs Imagine people shivering because of rotten flesh being consumed by termites as we speak but don't give a hoot about HIV and the rest which should be enough reason for anyone to zip up tightly. Very very tightly. Reason fails ![]() ahnie: @coco maybe she's juju-ticed the gods.i remember Alex telling me that,its a taboo to admire any man.sometimes ayam begining to believ that,all this gods and ancestors thing is just a coax. |
Hahaha. I don't live in aba o. That's a joke I always tell. Lol ![]() Only visited a few times. That place is a dump. I can't survive there. Ajebo like me ![]() ahnie: am presently in your state now(aba)came for a seminar.no good road network. |
But that should be clear enough to anyone with discernment. He feels those misfortune were attacks perpetrated by his 'enemies' to make him lose face. It is well jnrbayano: Don't mind them jare. |
Ok kreamidiva: Arochukwu. Abia state. |
Where's your place? Well I don't believe that either. So if I'm from your place and have a son,means my son can die if his wife cheats on him? Naa. I don't think so. Such things will only work for those who believe them. kreamidiva: In my own place, if a woman cheats, her husband will fall sick and eventually die unless she confesses. So women wey was kill their husbands would jejely go and cheat on him! |
Na wa. Your own child? Did they check her for mental imbalance? |
Lol @ streets of nairaland jnrbayano: And people (christians) will roam the streets of nairaland without shame defending what I don't know.... |
As if their deaths don't matter that much but the fact that they were killed to 'test' him. Smh How self conceited can our people be? jnrbayano: I can't understand it mysel.... |
ahnie: nice insight..but i can only speak for myself.Yes darling. Be faithful to your husband and respect him because of the love and affection you have for him. Not because of the fear of dead ancestors. To me that's not true faithfulness or loyalty. some of those women if they weren't afraid of the superstition would have been sleeping around. That means in their mind they are not really faithful. If I were a man,I'd prefer a lady is true to me because she desires no other man than because she feels hounded by dead spirits. Have a nice day |
As I was saying ahnie So I was gisting with my mil I told her about that girl I knew during my nysc who was fond of sleeping around with those ph oil workers for money even to point of getting angry with me if I refuse any of their advances, telling me I should just say yes and go with her in case I didn't want to do anything. That she won't mind doing and collecting the money (yea it was that bad)My mil was like 'ah she must have done juju so that the ancestors won't see her' Oh dear ![]() I couldn't help laughing sha. I thought at first they said the man will die. Later they said it's not the man but the woman will go crazy Later they said it the children and not the parents. That the children will get sick and die one by one. Finally they said it wasn't all of the above again but that the woman will have difficult labor and die in labor or the children will die while being birthed. Or the family will have some misfortune or the other. It just dawned on me that anyhow you look at it,it seems like whatever happens in a family must be the woman's fault.if she has narrow pelvis that can't let her have a normal delivery but requires surgery,it is assumed she cheated and that is why she has difficult labor.instead of looking for medical or whatever solutions to what's going on,the woman is looked upon to confess adultery. Smh. And that the women themselves are propagating such misinformation is alarming. I was telling my mil about the rhesus factor ish and she looking at me like she saw a ghost. Who knows how many ignorant women that may have been unjustly condemned because they refused to confess adultery and save their unborn children from being taken by the ancestors(dead relatives) Phew *exhales* |
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