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Ok then

njokusboy: He is a bit like me you know, when someone throws stones, I reply with boulders
But seriously, some people don't like getting dissed... I agree the insults were way below the belt, I expected her to reply to his interesting points "which I don't totally agree with, by the way, but totally enjoyed nevertheless", without insults...
What is good for the goose is also good for the cockerel

Explain jare.

jaybee3: @cococandy

You know what, how about we cut out all these role defining antics and just revist the dynamics of FWB

Thanks

bebe2:

CHOI see plate ooooo

looks delicious,
Enjoy

More are coming.
Dude must possess many phones and tablets

qstar: You can say that again...

(1) johnokonkwo
(2) JamalUganda22
(3) Truthseekers
(4) CanDerTansoy
(5) Friendlyone

I saw that. But I was expecting him to be the bigger person since he was the one who said she's mannerless.

No insult is ok anyway and she's wrong for offending him.
But compare and contrast
That response just spoiled his other posts that I was reading with interest.

Kind of ruined his nice debate with babygirl

njokusboy: Ofcourse u didn't see how classy her response was.. when she she said he had crayfish in his head

Lmao.
Funny folks.
I saw their chief peeping
Then ran away because he may not be able to be totally honest or probably doesn't want to be seen agreeing with me.

I just dey laff.

Godmystrength: i have been wondering too. i was actually expecting them to come here but no show.

Those pictures look like your bedroom

And to top it off you have several accounts(monikers) trying to pass off as different people who believe your horseshi1t.

Chai.

Dreyl:

Yes it is

nwando: I bet she can't wait to possess her possession
A few more years and she will be free
Nne hang in there,the Lord will soon call him home

The thing is I've discovered some dudes just love to take the opposing stance.
It doesn't matter what you say.
They read what they want to believe you mean.
Issorait.
Today I'm the defender of the innocent men
Tomorrow I'll be the evil feminist.

freecocoa: e no surprise you?the double standards, now they no call you evil feminist again o.

2CatWoman: I couldn't even make it to the end of the post as the insult count exceeded my daily Nairaland allowance.

Daily nairaland allowance.
Oh dear.


_{still laughing}

It's amazing how the defender's of the men's right have kept mute.

Just imagine a babe saying all men are cheats on this forum and you'll see them up in arms screaming 'man-hater,misandrist, bla bla bla'

Now I'm the one defending the innocent guys?
Wonderful world.

True love is wonderful

And he was also saying she's mannerless
One would have thought he would lead by example by showing her how a mannerly person should speak.

2CatWoman: I know. It's really troubling to see. I'm more of a lurker on this site but some of the insults are beyond the pale.

Why can't people just post without excessive insults??

Very classy

lezz: I was hoping for a civil exchange of opinions. But i should have known a category A biitch like you couldn't produce one.

Your diction is cheap and is laced with the bitterness and frustration only a confused and directionless feminist can have.

I took time out to read ur comments on this topic and discovered that you verbally attack anyone with different opinions with insults. That makes you a blue print for a woman without class, poise, refinement and sophistication of a 1924 grandmother.

You are bitter courtesan who has derailed from her part and into the abyss of feminism. Your bitterness depicts you hate your very birth as a female. That's just too bad because you're stuck.

Scroll up and read my exchange of opinions with babygirlf, although she didnt buy my notions, she expressed hers with grace and pois and sophisrication that depicts she's well in spirit and emotion.

Now, you embittered, a -dime- a-dozzen, classless ,mannerless slutttt, why did God wait till Adam eat the fruit before coming?

Does the new testament prohibited man from circumcision ? What's your take on the right of a husband stopping his wife from fulfilling a vow she voluntarily made to God almighty ?

Do you know the meaning of the Greek word ''Father'', that was insufficiently translated to English? For your information it's a name attributted to God.

Oh ,as saint Paul said, the woman is made for the man and created after the man, bittcchh.

If you ever get married, you're going to raise up effeminate, gay sons and lesbian daughters, you 21st century Jezebel.go teach you're daughters to stand up and try and browbeat their husbands and control them.

You're just a puppet African monkey who hasn't finished understanding the social doctrines the west is shoving down your gullible, stupid and willing throat. You are trying to live out a social concept that your sawdust brain can't comprehend the depth of.

Ugly fool with a dark mannerless heart and an uglier facial profile. Learn to teach your daughtets their strenght in their meekness, faceless biiitch.
God created man in his perfection and a woman is only our weaknesses. Yes, you loud, dark, feminine fool, the strength of a woman is in her meekness. foR she isn't as physically endowed or as emotionally stable or as wise.

I know you want to pose as a female liberator but you came off as a flag ship of naivety..

Now i know you bleed once a month from your eternal injury, so i'm pardoning your blasphemy and market woman attempts at insult.

Now run along, biitch, sluts like you don't bother me.

Don't you get it?
You're LUCKY he married you at all.
You should be grateful he even came home at all

Godmystrength: so after the mistress have seen his ''made in china'' he will now carry his pangolo body to come and meet me in the house? of what use will he be to me then?

Desert

Bebe2 come and grade my spag bollognaise(abi wetin wef)

I think I put a little more tomato paste than you did,cos mine appears redder.

I added fried chicken and fried plantain.

With chicken franks too.
I know I should not use fried chicken and chicken franks at once.
Na long throat dey worry me sha.

Shoefreak I know you're kidding.

But let me just indulge you.

Why use juju on someone to keep him if he doesn't want to stay?
You say if he likes let him be sleeping around no wahala as long as he's giving you money.
Hmm
To me that doesn't sound like a marriage.
Sounds more like caging an unwilling person to become your cash cow but not really caring about him because if you care about him,you'll be worried that he's sleeping around and you'll also be worried about the effect the juju will have on him.


Well like I said before,I know you're just being your naughty funny self.
There's no way you mean that.

bukatyne: Like cheating and the likes!

Touche!

It is all good though

I honestly think all these debates starts and ends on NL. I mean, what has my believing men and women are equal or men superior or women superior got to do with cococandy and her family in the East (been naughty ) or Nashville and his family abroad (it is a long time I've seen you post )

If I say I cannot stand cheating and another woman can, how does it put garri on my table? The truth is that there is a man/woman for everyone. If you believe a woman is superior, look for a man/woman that thinks so; if you feel a man is superior, look for like minded spouses and if you think a man & woman are two equal people who pull their resources to make it work, look for a like minded person.

The only prayer is that my well trained kids do not jam the kids of some posters. After hubby and I sacrifice all, it will be terrible for one yeye child to spoil it.

Apart from that, everyone please carry go with your lives o jare.

lol

I can't speak for every woman since all are not the same.
But any man who thinks women don't notice good looking men or desire them is only fooling himself.

Just like you can be attracted to another woman that isn't yours,a woman can also be attracted to another man that isn't hers.
For a man to think his woman can Never be attracted to another man is the height of self conceit.
Those kinds raise kids that aren't theirs without even knowing it.

Anyone can be attracted to another person for whatever reason but not all act on such attractions. Some will remember their vows and overcome such temptations.
While some won't.

It's fallacy to say all men(or women) cheat.

WoodcrestMayor: Pls tell me
Been wondering too...is it only guys who "see things" wen ladies walk byNow dat u've given a hint dat ladies "see tinz" too,plz shed more light

Mr I'm living in a real world.
Pray tell how you can authoritatively say that all the 4 billion(plus-minus) men in the whole world are cheats.

I hope your real world doesn't come crashing down one day too when you discover that your woman isn't as monogamous as you think.

50calibre: You are living in a fantasy world, and you know it. Women are not built to have multiple partners, it's not female nature.

Females play the nurturing role, they keep the family structure together while the males go out to do other stuff.

I'm not one who invests emotionally into anyone, so I don't & won't care what a chic's reasons are for being with me as long as I still find her useful & because as far as I'm concerned, she's just one out of many.

One day you will wake up to the reality & when that day does eventually come, I pray it doesn't crush you cococandy.

It is very funny they don't know which camp they belong to

Godmystrength: When ladies say all men are cheats, the men raise a lot of hell. Now ladies are saying that not all men are cheats and the men are still raising a lot of hell saying ladies that believe men don't cheat are just deceiving themselves. na wa o..

Maybe we are saying the same thing after all.
There's no hard and fast rule to life which means that some may do it while some may not do it.
Since anyone who genuinely loves their partner won't just go out and cheat,how's what you're saying different from mine?

What then will you say of women who succumb to temptation and cheat on their husbands?
Is it women's nature too?

Even though people cheat,it is very wrong for someone to say cheating is their second nature.
Men cheat
Women cheat

But not everyone cheats.

jaybee3: You really don’t have to because your mind is pretty much made up.

I just need you to understand that there isn't really any hard/fast rule with relationship matters. Life isn't really clear cut and decisions made in relationships are always dependent on various factors that are usually outside of ones control.

No single person that truly and genuinely loves the other person will go out and cheat but having said that, there is the big humongous issue of temptation.
Even the best fall for this singular most important cause of the act of cheating.

What some men do is avoid temptations but I can assure you it will be hard to find a man that will say no to some big bouncing naked booty with 100% assurance of secrecy.

Abi o.
I'm done anyway. Nothing more to say.

babestell: Lolz

You said it all.

BTW I think people are just making comments to get a reaction from you. Maybe its time you stop quoting them and just lay out your points. Too much attention is doing them.

Na wa for una.
One day you're crying that ladies are bashing guys to be all cheats.
Another day you're saying ladies claim men don't cheat.

Which is it?

Anyway I think my post was clear from before.
Not all men cheat.
Some remain dedicated to their vows.

That shouldn't be a problem to you.
Just find the woman willing to share you and life will be easier for you too

teeo: I had this conversation a few months ago with some friends on NL, these ladies all claimed that men dont cheat bla bla bla ...... The make up of a man is completely different from a woman the better they understand it the easier life becomes for them...

Sorry I don't believe you.

jaybee3: “Madam cococandy or whatever you fancy yourself, the men that don't cheat are the men that don't get caught.” <= Touché

Nuff said

Yea elephants have HUGE brains.

They are more intelligent than man

I think that's the bane of the topic.
A man cheats on both babes and they busy classifying themslevs into main chic and side chic grades.

Silliness personified.

Gaidenk: But side chic is relative ya know? most babes shouting here are actually side chics,and most side chics become main chics that end in marriage. If a guy is dating two women and treating them both good,how do you define who the side chic is?

Really? Classic 50calibre

So if a man wants to prove he loves me unconditionally,he'll also put up with cheating from me?

Or is this as usual your classic women aren't human beings with feelings too and so deserve to be cheated on and not feel hurt scenario?

Good luck finding a woman who loves you sooo much she won't mind sharing you even if you're everyone's sezx toy.

You may find some who'll stay because of your money(if you have it) or for whatever else they are gaining from being married to you but don't be decieved into thinking you're so special a woman will be just fine with a fraction of you.
It usually is because such a woman is getting something from being with you which is more important to her than the fact that you're cheating.

Try be a pauper and see how special you are.
That's when you'll realise that you can even be dumped for another guy who alread has ten women to himself.

if a woman puts up with bullsh1t from you,study her and find out what's keeping her tied to you.
Chances are it because of a particualr benefit and not because of how special you are.
Most of you don't even know when you're being used.


For you and scribble and the other members of the man must cheat team,there are women to suit your tastes. Find them and marry them.

Stop running around trying to convince us to accept what's unacceptable.

If it was so second nature to y'all,why do you hide when cheating?
And the women who cheat with these men are what? Not polygamous?

Anyhow you look at it,it amounts to a load of horse sh1t.
Because men cheat with women.

P.S you don't wanna know what your babe is thinking when a hot guy drives or strolls bye.

The naivete most guys display when talking about women's sexuallity is very amusing.

Anyway I've made my point. Adios.

50calibre: In that case, you only prove my point that many women are incapable of loving a man unconditionally because if you do, whether or not he has side chic or not, won't matter one bit.

It's a fundamental part of the male nature to want to breed with as many females as possible, it's nature. It takes something special to get rid of this trait.

Many successful men have chics on the side & their wives don't care as long as it makes them happy. You're man's happiness should be your utmost priority, he may choose to bang as many women as he can find, but he's with you, he still comes home to you.

Never say never, even your husband may have his side chics someplace where he goes to treat his coc*k to a different cuisine (different from what cococandy has at home ) you better start being open to the idea of men cheating (I think that word should be invalid for men, a man don't cheat, he acts out nature)

There's really nothing much you can do about it. I experience it too.
But I just take it to be one of those things.

IyawoToBe: Alright dear. I now get your point. We are actually on the same page. It's just our societal norm. People give more respect to a married woman. Particularly in this part of the world. I am not using that as a yard stick for why I should be respected. I am only saying that, people constantly ask me if I am married (probably after seeing my ring), immediately I say I am, they change their perception of me and treat me differently. So am like, why can't they treat me right even before they know my marital status? Is it my fault or theirs? Is there anything I can do about it? Those are my concerns. Am not saying singles don't deserve respect.

Anyhow you can keep the record safe.
You can much the screen and back it up in your computer as a picture folder
It's apparently important to you

Nonso23: Will a bill board suffice?