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oh. thank you.
my bad

Just learned this now.

MarvellousGod: Divorcement is 100% correct and the op used it correctly because it's a noun...the plural is divorcements... That divorce is commonly used doesn't make divorcement wrong.. Thank you

The word you used is a correct English word, so you are in no English class because you actually used it correctly..

Ihedinobi2: A man who has made money today can and frequently does lose it tomorrow. And there has never been a guarantee that a history of wealth will be repeated. I personally come from a home replete with examples of that statement. So insisting that a man show that he can provide by what material asset is emergent actually does little to actually guarantee tomorrow's comfort. I have seen it enough: a man has it today, tomorrow his wife is the one who's providing for day-to-day existence. The argument that because he did it once he'll know what to do to fix lost wealth does not account for the lull that gain draws people into. You can say that "achievement is its own worst enemy". The feeling that one has made it is generally why one is paralyzed when one loses "it".

Which is why I say potential and resource at hand are never and can never be the same thing.
Any bloke can get lucky. Make it in a few. Because he happened to be in the right place at a very opportune moment.

Kai.
Joan.
FP won't be the same without you o.
But more surgery for what again?

I'm sure the doctors must have warned her about the risk of having more surgery at her age

I see a lot of mad men too

kreamidiva: .

So happy for you

Reminds of John Grisham's THE INNOCENT MAN.
Brought tears to my eyes. That book.

Anyway isn't there a place for mentally challenged folks who are convicted of a crime.
Why did they have to go to a regular prison?

Been around

Shaakasi: Awwwwww sweetheart where have u been??
Its rili been a while tho

Other states need to join in the manhunt too.
Before anyone who might be infected among them becomes infectious.

When you guys are busy endorsing the men- are-polygamous-in-nature anthem, what do you expect?

Lol

crackhaus: They want both, depending on the phase they're in.

When a woman gets into a relationship, the honeymoon phase is all about attention...they feel an overwhelming surge of neediness and emotional vacuum which can only be satisfied by receiving constant attention.

When the honeymoon phase is over (the timing on this is unique to each woman), they start to seek out reasons on how and why they're so in love with the man involved.
At this point, a woman would subconsciously begin an evaluation of how well the man fits into her future...this evaluation will be based on compatibility, finance, and long term goals. At this point, they may still love the man, but at the same time would expect him to be able to cater for her/their basic needs (long term). I call this the reality phase.

If all the above phases are completed and somewhere along the line the man begins to give less and less attention to her probably due to over-familiarity or a busy schedule, the woman resets to default and starts needing attention again...and as such, the cycle repeats itself all over again.

A wise and intelligent man who intends on keeping his woman completely satisfied, must know exactly when and how to make her happy by recognizing the phase they're in as the relationship progresses.

So now that I've explained myself for no reason, I really hope this will be the last time I come across a topic on what women want between money and attention...

Who am I seeing?
How are you?
Been a while.

_{my new moniker may confuse you for a while yet}

Shaakasi: so so sad...
It will be well with you and your family dearie

Oh I didn't see this.
I wouldn't have bothered. You said it all

aisha2: At 30 I had been approached but by men who if I had married I would have been divorced by now. I didn't see any pastor I simply knew God had a bigger and better plan for me, I was ready to stay in course and live a good life spouse or no spouse.



As a fellow woman I can only advice that you don't push yourself to marry by force because you don't wanted be single at 30. Godforbid that you marry at 25 and at 30 you cry to bed each night.
Life is very crazy, anything cab happen. People get widowed at 30 or even before, people separate at that age some are happily married but everyone has a different journey and race it is important we understand that.

I had always assumed I will marry early because I had dated one person only for years, infact if you go through my posts about 6 or 7 years ago I was meant to be married it didn't happen but till today I go on my knees and thank God that even on the eve of when I was meant to marry I walked away if not I would have been lamenting daily under different names on nairaland and different blogs.

Today, I married after your 30 years deadline but to my own husband who God designed and kept for me.

It's ideal to marry and bare kids early but if it doesn't happen we shouldn't loose hope or in this case blame the unmarried. Life happens To us all. Thus the bible says let he who thinks he stands take heed lest he falls.

I can only pray dear that's a bid to meet your timeline. You don't miss God's Own timeline

elantracey I know in this my life I can't stay single till 30 and its a fact and if I ever do I'll know that am planing to stay single all my life and devote my time and life to order things .

If you're not married yet,then you've no place making that statement.
Life is full of ups and downs.
Some times it's not about how pretty,classy or whatever a lady is.
Anything can happen to anyone. My friend that got married last year at 35 would have said the same some one decade+ earlier. But alas her fiance died 2 months to their wedding when she was 27 after a 6yr relationship.
It took her how many more years to find someone else to settle down with and finally she got married at 35.
There's no hurry in life. I know the normal thing is for proposals to pour in when a pretty lady is 20+ especially early twenties but unless you encourage ladies marrying anyone just to get married,you can't really swear on the 30 line.
Time flies too.
Be easy on yourself darling.

My dear I can't really type now.
But I gave a close-to-home example a while back.
Just go thru' my posts.

crackhaus: cococandy, please help throw some light on this as well.

How do you define a woman with potential..

Lmao.

SAMBARRY: You don talk am finish. Oya take I dash you. Go and buy house in Victoria garden City

I hope the woman got back her money.
That's my concern

The woman is an adult.
The child is a child.
If she can't up and liberate herself from that bondage of abuse,it's not the child's problem.

But if the child wants to help,he can go report papa to the family elders or the local family welfare union.

Good morning

chaircover: Dont mind me

Don't you mean #200?

Abi na human being meat dem use cook the of 200pounds?

chaircover: Olorun mu e
How can you be going to eatery?
Sometimes I am in Naija for 2 weeks and dont enter Mr Biggs and the lot once. What am I looking for?.

. . . . . .When Mama Ope, Turaiya, Mama Soji, Fanawole, Alhaja jagbandi and all those places dey
Thanks to intel, I even discovered yellow eba and Igbo soup recently at £200 a plate in okokomaiko

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Na wa o. You guys should do your investigations well before running mouth. To avoid making fools of yourselves

The pastor Chris I know is a white man.
That man there is a black fellow.

Grabs plate and runs away.
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Let love lead dear.
Some people have built great families even whileworking back-breaking jobs.
Don't let a good guy go because his job is demanding.
If anything,you can be the support he needs to find a balance between job and family life (if that's what it is heading to)

Picture
Abi we go enter your belle see the croissant?

CFCfan: I ate a croissant

OP you'll be fine.
In the end
Eventually.
You'll be fine

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Wow. Splendid awesome art

pickabeau1: boohoo....

you are the one debating potential is not money

As i said i have no problem with the players..its a game

most of you women love the dough then u mask it with words like intelligence, handsome, charisma etc bla bla bla

i know d game and i keep it real

Yes potential is not money.
A rich yahoo boy or a bank robber doesn't feature in my book of potentials.

Saying that doesn't mean I don't recognize that many a woman won't mind putting up with such men even if he's the worst kind of person just for the money.
As for keeping it real,I did say

cococandy: Not everyone is even interested in potential.
In fact many are not. They want the already made stuff.
All this talk about potential is because OP asked.
Some people can't even what recognize potential is even if stares them in the face.

So what are you on about?