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njokusboy: bwahhahahahahhahhaha
she said a good percentage, wanted to correct her and say "a very good percentage' ....... but i changed my mind

jaybee3: Pickabeau cococandy

pickabeau1: the bolded in your post kills it

You sef park well

rebella: Hello fun room, its been a min. CC, mbulela, damiso, cococandy, r231( ashawo)n edwife et al. hope you are all doing great

pickabeau1: You make me laugh

So is it everyone destined to sell akara with 200k

Do you know the percentage of businesses which fail within the first year.. am not sure u do

You lot come here, saying the same spiel..

I hope you have seen the young wives of the 70 year old king.. the guy really has potential

Women are hypergamous.. accept it and move on...

if i ask most of the married women here, they married people in telecooms, oil n gas..yet u say potential

Potential indeed...

I like posters like ThoniasLIM who r real.. you are trying to whitewash and bamboozle.. say it as it is

Where is DailyNews for some epistles..


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pickabeau1: I tire ooo

No mind cococandy

she does not want to agree as it makes chics out to be materialistic somewhat..

But thats the fact... a smart guy knows d score... get the dough and the chics roll in

They will come here and give us some spiel about some dude they loved and he had no money etc blah blah blah

The key question is DID U MARRY HIM

bellong: Once in a while, the use of some, most, average etc will help not to misunderstand your point.

And No, what you raised is not a gender specific problem but the Adamic nature in all.

kaboninc: They do not run away because they 'recently' discovered that he's shaddy, but because they do not want to be implicated.

Yea that's another perspective.

Still some people are upright and will rather deal with clean money than blood money even if there's no chance of getting caught.


Everyone (especially a woman) and a man desires comfort and money; its one very important factor (if not the most) she desires when choosing for a partner. I do not have a problem with that though

.I've no problem with that either.lives and choices differ.

I just wanted to make it clear that it's not every man with money that can be seen as one with potential. That's based on the OP's question of course.

pickabeau1: Nothing wrong in this or that

Ladies should come out and speak plainly rather mouthing gibberish like potential when all they mean is comfort and money

Thats the point

DaWorshiper: I like you.

fruqsy: correct!
God bless you with a potential guy...make sure you stand by him o,even if he decides to start from frying akara...

chaircover: Nashville your friends stroy is a very sad one.

Sometimes marriage actually improves the "potentials" of BOTH parties and marriage is the catalsyst that actually opens doors to success. 2 heads is better than one and when you know that someone has your back, supports you, prays for you, belives in you, advises you, encourages you and the like, then you are more confident to go out there and give it all you have.

Today many Husbands and Wives are enjoying the priviledges of their in-laws & not their own potentials; Especially husbands, Many husbands today are working in places where their in-laws knew someone who know someone. So really their " reaching their potential" today was as a result of someone else giving them a helping hand.

Yes a lazy man with grandiose dreams needs to be run away from with speed, but generally speaking most people want to make it in life, its just that they dont have the oppourtunities and may need a helping hand especually in the envionment that we come from where jobs are few and unsecured small bank loans are not very easy to get if at all.

If Nashvilles friend had someone who could offer him a good job, wouldnt he suddenly be a man with potential?

zboyd: Married women aren't the subject here. Why would they be?

If you want the true gist of something, go to the horse's mouth.

Some single women believed their pastors, when he told them to pray and wait for God to send them their future husbands...so they keep waiting...as the years keep marching by.

And...may I remind you that some men aren't marriage material either which some unfortunate women discover, only after they marry them.

As far as the secular world being a normal element of social interactions, I somewhat disagree.

Some Evangelical churches have such a tight hold on their congregants that the pastors control what they wear, what they read, what they listen to, where they can go, who they can socialize with AND who they can marry.

damiso: Yes o and here people buy gifts like it's going out of fashion so I get the business part of it.Its just that sometimes as a Christian it's sad to see the commercial part being the most visible these days ask a typical British child 'what is Christmas' their reply is 'when Santa gives us gifts'

damiso: Yes naa people can like to buy buy around that time so I better Tap into that

damiso: Funny enough I am like a grinch till about 2 weeks before,the way Christmas is just sooooo mega hyped in the UK makes it a bit annoying for me.they have started already sef. But I won't lie me sef don dey guilty of it sha business brain naa

dazzlingbeau: .

apolonius: Dearest arch-deaconess of enwisdomization,I am here reading you as always. How are you?

jnrbayano: I wonder why people seem to advise people in trouble better than they will advise themselves if faced with similar situation.

it's natural. When you're the one in a situation,emotions may not allow you make a rational decision. It's always better for advice to come a neutral person.

For instance, when you go over to the family section, you will quickly see many unmarried people with zero marriage experience waxing lyrical over the things happening in marriages.

every marriage is different.that one is married isn't a proof that they are qualified to advise others. And that one is unmarried doesn't mean they can't offer insight into marital affairs. Marriages are families. Everyone belongs to one family or the other. So invariably,each person has had experiences relating to family issues.
Marriage in itself isn't a ceritificate of wisdom. So singles can have opinions about marriage issues. If they are making sense,why not listen?

In the romance section, you will read posts and shake your head to each sentence of immaturity that inundate it.

we are all learning.

The Religious section needs no hiding. A place where supposed to be the seat of decorum and manners yet people come there to score a "touché" (win arguments) over another instead of winning souls for God. People slandering other denominations is the bane. etc etc.

I concur. Everyone needs to respect others' beliefs. Atheists and believers alike.


Why does in:

Relationships; different relationship tips fly around yet too many relationship problems here and there.

Marriage; different marriage councillors on the loose yet divorce cases aplenty.

Religion: (from a christian angle): different lovers of God but yet nobody want to keep his commandment summarised in Love of God and love of man. Instead of modifying their behaviour and acting right as Jesus taught, they say that Jesus has done everything for them and this explains the very many vices in this world.

What is wrong with us??

becase at some level,we are all hypocrites who don't practise what they preach!

dazzlingbeau: OMG....thank you,thank you so much for this post. They are just bunch of attention seeking wannabe b...tches. the hate on her is ridiculous and so uncalled for. She is a smart,ambitious and sexy woman. Y'all should sit your ass down and shut up.

Chillisauce: Hahaha. They hate will eat them up one day.

Lovely comments you quoted.
Nairaland, home for losers and attention seeking broke fugly asxees

Dygeasy: These are the kinda stories I wouldn't care about normally. The only ones I empathize with are the lady's first husband and the dumped girlfriend of Matthew.

The other parties involved are just COWS.

kandiikane: Why all the hate for this lady recent?

I am not a fan buy Tiwa was never one I looked at and thought ugly so nl speak the truth and shame the devil!! Haba unable dey jealous because she Don marry? And for the women saying ugly? Unless you fine pass am, shattap, even at that, shattap!! Unless you can look this good with your man shattap! Nonsense!
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koyyes: hmmmn, most of the negative comments here give the simple reasons why africa- nigeria in particular will forever remain backward. so much disrespect,so much jealousy,so much hate.....i'm not a fan but i do not have the crab mentality so whatever tiwa does or puts on is none of my business.

NickiRoman: She looks beautiful ,Most. Nigerians are naturally negative am not surprised with comments above me.

I don't get how you can hate someone you don't know personally. SMH.