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SHOCK7: [@cococandy]It doesn't matter how long they've not seen each other for.
The relationship between them remains what it is.
If you have intimate inclinations towards someone,it shows in how you hold them

But it's no biggie. Goodnight
Likewise u do 've a point,but u don't 've a pic on 'profile wanted 2 see who am arguing with.

It doesn't matter how long they've not seen each other for.
The relationship between them remains what it is.
If you have intimate inclinations towards someone,it shows in how you hold them

But it's no biggie. Goodnight

SHOCK7: [@cococandy]A simple hug with arms on the broad of each others backs and Not more than a few seconds is an acceptable form of greeting.

But a lingering hug with arms resting on her waist line or hung around his shoulders for more than 30 seconds is inappropriate.
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C'mmon we talking of a hug here what 'ld be so dangerous even though he puts his hands on her waistline,peps who haven't seen themselves 4 years do it out of shear happyness.it's really 'ur mindset at dat moment,its no BIGGIE!

A simple hug with arms on the broad of each others backs and Not more than a few seconds is an acceptable form of greeting.

But a lingering hug with arms resting on her waist line or hung around his shoulders for more than 30 seconds is inappropriate.

SHOCK7: @cococandy]There are different typed of hugs
Can u expanciate?

Edited.
Thought you meant clarion chukwura

Lol. Best believe it. I wasn't really a nollywood fan all the while.

Are they avaliable online?

You're correct.

Even the quality of those old actors/actresses as far back as then tells better than the ones reigning now.
Very simple. But very ernest. Their efforts were evident

I wish they upheld and improved those standards rather than the trashy stuff they make these days.

Well like you said some very recent ones come highly recommended.


Keeping faith?
Mortal inheritance
I'll look for these two later and see them. I've never seen them.

naijababe: Another brilliant movie. The trick to Nollywood to give anything produced between 2002 and 2012 a miss. Any movie outside of that bracket I will give a miss unless it comes highly recommended. I am going to watch Mortal Inheritance again tomorrow, Omotola at her best, she is yet to reproduce that performance in my books.
Keeping faith.........mehn! That movie reminds me how much fun being a woman is

I'm watching AfricaMagic

Rising Moon.(Old old movie)
Starring: Onyeka Onwenu. Maureen solomon

Onyeka's voice touches my cords

So touching.

This was when nollywood was nollywood.

Oh dear.
She doesn't need stress this period at all.
High B.P is dangerous to pregnant women.
Pre-emclampsia comes to mind ( god forbid. It's not your portion)

OP stop crying or at least don't let her see you cry. Our partners are our source of strength. So imagine when a man who's supposed to be your pillar is breaking down in tears. It can lead a woman who's not strong into panic.
And she doesn't need such panic this time around.

Just try and be strong now because a pregnant women is a bag of hormones and can react easily to things around her.
You must be going through a lot yourself too and being strong for her will take it's toll on you.
Just put your heads together and vow to make it as a family intact.

And pls explain to her why she must not let your family have a double loss by giving in to panic.
Your baby will come in peace and in one piece. Mother and child healthy.

A job can always be replaced.(I pray you find another one soon)

Soldiers are out there dying to keep us safe.
Young men like y'all
Pls just show support.
Not sarcasm.

Efemenaxy1: Chai! Issorite...Dia is god o!



Okay, now to more interesting "talks"...

Cococandy, that lingerie worn by the first model in your pics...abeg, that's only suitable for those whose bööbs point up north, non-stop...a.k.a brėäst implantees. D'you know how that would look on a lady whose bööbs gravity don kiss?
The black nípplė cover go dey point downwards. How on earth can that be sėxy?

It would be a darn funny sight.

Oh. Here's someone to prove me right.

OLAADEGBU: That's not entirely true. Roman catholics actually teach and believe in theist evolutionalism.

Apatheist: Forced to partake? how?
They are a private corporation they can do what they like.
Teachers in Catholic schools are not allowed to support evolution and homosexuality.

Forced how? If they don't employ people because those people are not gay supporters,then they are forcing them to support gayism.
Just like when a gay person is denied employment by a private co-operation and they go gaga filing all sorts of law suits against the co-operation,the same thing is happening now.
If they deny anyone employment because he doesn't support gayism,they are doing the same thing they've always cried about.

As for the latter part,that's not true.
I was in a catholic convent (nuns school) part of my secondary school days. Theories of evolution was part of the senior biology syllabus.

You think catholics don't study those things?
My uncle who's a catholic priest says every known religion and origin of species theory known to man is a compulsory part of some their studies.

Ha.
Will people be forced to support homosexuality if they don't want to?
They should live and let live o.
They've been given their freedom to practice their gay rights now they want to 'force' people to partake in it?

beejaay: yeah sometimes t regret it alot..the worst is that i cant go back to it cos it makes me go insane (how can i go back to eating shiit after knowing that i have been eating shiit all along)...seriously ignorance is bliss sometimes and this is one of those times

Well. You just have to move on. If you consider it as eating shiit,then knowing must be somewhat better for you.

Babymama1: Hahahahahahaha!!!!
He is not o
His beautiful wife is popping out twins sef

aww that's so sweet.

Auntie biko is he single?
I've got some single babes I need to hook up mehn.

This one that is your brother o dika o ga ama ke ije si we diri.

Babymama1: At a store with my baby brother
See as dollars full im pocket

Congraaaaats!!!
God bless your new baby and your home

Awww cute baby

He said his mind
I said my mind.
Did I tell him to shut up?
What's your own?

nairalife2013: pls cococandy let everyone say thier minds. No offence pls. It won't cost us anything. I like tori.

Nigerian politics
Circus act.

So they need money to do their job?
And those saying he brought them into lime light does it mean a bad leader can't be impeached if he's the one that brought you into politics.

So people that want to impeach someone. All of them na the same.

But that nyako needs to leave there.

I'm fine thanks.

Good to have you back

Efemenaxy1: Lol! Evening Lorretta, a.k.a Cococandy (nice name!)

Yes, just seen your mail and responded. Don't mind Seun - taking out all the non-alpha numeric characters from usernames! This feels like some new attire. Not excited about it but oh well, he had his reasons.

So, how've you been?

A woman could cheat for any of those reasons you mentioned

BTW You need to stop painting your fellow guys black

tonychristopher: Men cheat for a variety of reasons.

Below is a laundry list of 25 reasons men cheat, based on my 17+ years of research on the topic of infidelity.

As an infidelity expert, I’ve interviewed somewhere between 8000 and 10,000 people about various aspects of infidelity (maybe more – I’ve lost count over the years) – men and women; infidelity victims and cheaters.

Below are 25 of the more common reasons men cheat. Bear in mind that some men cheat for several of the reasons on the list below.

And just so we’re clear, infidelity is wrong. None of these are valid reasons for cheating on your mate.


25 of the Many Reasons Why Men Cheat

1. Inability to say no. He attracts sexy women who come onto him, and he doesn’t know how to say “no.”See How Good Men End Up Cheating on their Mates.

2. To boost his ego – Infidelity is an ego boost for a man with low self esteem – especially if he’s less successful or earns less money than his.

3. Peer Pressure. He spends a lot of time in the company of people who cheat. His workmates, or close friends are cheating on their mates. So he succumbs to peer pressure and cheats to be part of the crowd. See Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates

4. To end the relationship. Sometime a cheating man will have what is called an “exit affair” because he wants end the marriage or relationship. Instead of manning up and telling you it’s over, he takes the coward’s way out, knowing that if you catch him cheating, you’ll leave him or kick him out.

5. Because you let him- He cheated before you let him get away with it. See If He’s Cheating, Take a Firm Stand.

6. He views it as a status symbol. Many men consider it a status symbol to be able to afford a mistress. He may view it as one of the trappings of success.

7. To satisfy his sexual orientation. If he’sgay or bisexual, he may cheat on you by having affairs with other men. See the free Same Sex Infidelity tip sheet.

8. To see what it’s like to have sex with someone else. Men who married young, or had limited sex experience before settling down, may cheat to see what they might have missed.

9. Because he knows he can get away with it. He cheated before and you didn’t find out, so he’s confident he can do it again. See 7 Steps to Catch a Cheating Mate .

10. Opportunistic sex. He was presented with an opportunity to cheat without the fear of getting caught, so he took advantage of the situation. See How Good Men End Up Cheating on their Mates

11. A Sense Of Entitlement. Many men feel they’re so rich, famous, handsome, sexy, charming or ____________ (you fill in the blank) that they are entitled to cheat because of who they are.

12. He figures you’ll never find out– He thinks you’re too stupid, too naïve, too busy, too in love with them, too trusting to find out, or even suspect that he’s having an affair. See Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? –21 Ways You Can Tell

13. To prove his manhood. Some men think that the more women they have sex with, the more manly they are. They think cheating is a macho thing to do

14. The thrill of the chase. Some cheaters actually thrive on the excitement generated by a secret affair. They view all the ducking, dodging and sneaking around infidelity involves as a form of recreation, or a high-risk sport.

15. He’s a player. He’s a hardcore cheater for whom cheating is a way of life. He likes having lots of women and pitting one against the other. To him, it’s just a game.

16. He knows you’ll take him back. He knows you’ll never leave him. He cheated before and you didn’t hesitate to take him back without making him go through any changes or holding him accountable for his behavior. See When to Give Cheater a Second Chance.

17. Love. Some men cheat because they’re really in love with the other woman. It may have started out as a cyber affair, or an innocent friendship that became an emotional affair, which progressed to sexual infidelity. See Emotional Infidelity Usually Leads to Sexual Infidelity.

18. Poor role models If his father, uncles, or other male role models cheated, he may be subconsciously programmed to follow their example, considering infidelity to be the norm – especially if the female role models in his life tolerated the infidelity.

19. To participate in certain sex acts. Some men cheat to fulfill their sexual fantasies, or because they want kinky sex, or sex acts their wives or girlfriends won’t perform.

20. The influence of drugs or alcohol A great deal of infidelity ( especially one night stands) can be attributed to the influence drugs or alcohol, which can lower inhibitions, and impair good judgment, resulting in behavior the cheater may later regret. See Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates

21. Cultural reasons– He may come from a culture (Caribbean, certain European or Asian cultures) where it’s common for men to have mistresses.

22. To see if he’s still “got it.” Men in their 50’s and older sometimes cheat just to reaffirm their sexuality. They cheat to prove they can still attract and sexually satisfy another woman – usually one who is younger than their mate.

23. He knows you’ll put up with his cheating Some men cheat because they know their partner will look the other way - as long as they’re discreet, keep their infidelity low key, and avoid publicly embarrassing their mate. See Why Women Stay with Men Who Cheat.

24. Revenge. Though revenge cheating is more with women than with men, sometimes a man will cheat to get back a wife or girlfriend who cheated on him. See 3 types of Revenge Cheating or Retaliatory Affairs

25. Sex addiction– probably the only reason on this list that can halfway be excused because true sex addiction is a medical condition in which the cheater really can’t help himself. If he’s truly a sex addict, he needs to get professional help. But true sex addiction is not as common as men would have you believe. See Could Your Cheating Husband or Boyfriend be a Sex Addict Like Tiger Woods or Jesse James? Many cheating men use sex addiction as a cop-out AFTER they’ve been caught.


Other Reasons Why Men Cheat

This is by no means a complete list of the reasons why men cheat. Men cheat for other reasons, including the ones listed below:

low moral values
he doesn’t believe in monogamy
because he thinks that all men cheat
because he didn’t think you’d really care
because he’s spoiled, selfish or inconsiderate and wants to have his own way
because he wants to have his cake and eat it too
just because he can
he wants to make you jealous
he’s a nonconformist who likes breaking rules
to prove to himself or his friends that he’s smart enough to cheat without getting caught
As previously mentioned, many men may cheat for a combination of the reasons above.

I promise to TRY be good henceforth see bros is still feeling bad.




They changed your name too sorry o .

baby124: Na wa o. Fresh dude, hmm. Take it easy. You are fighting like a market woman. Learn to give polite yawa like Cococandy. She really knows the small match to light.

Cococandy, i respect you for keeping your cool. I would have lost it with fresh dude. you bad though. .

Yay. Did you see my mail?
Welcome
Hahahah. They changed your name too?

Efemenaxy1: Hello ladies. Glad to be back on here. Missed you lot loads

Computer games all day?
When does he work?

If you say so.

RedClay: SMH.. You must be drunk.

You married who's sister?
I just dey look you

190: ^God bless you my Inlaw

Im glad i got married to your sister

Dem get award for whining and nagging

andromida: I tell you something on NL its always women this, women that.

It used to be (f)

RedClay: Eh?

Why the (m) ?

RedClay: Following..
Tag: EnlightenedSoul.

He's always mocking me from thread to thread.today I said let me reply in like.
See para. Upon apology he still dey para .

Chillisauce: ha!

cococandy and freshdude.

na wah . cococandy wetin you do fresh bobo na wey make am dey para like this;

I'm still sweet jare.

But there's only so much one can take from the proffesors who feel they know everything before giving some back.

See how I'm looking like a quarrelsome person online when I'm very quiet real life.

Ok I'll try refrain henceforth.

alutacontinua: Obara Jesus!


who did this to my sweet loretta?
NL sure has a way of performing wonders