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the OP just created the thread and disappeared. leaving all man to tear themselves up.I'm sure this is a project she's researching on. |
You do know that those passages of the bible means that as a christain be sacrificial and give your best to anyone in need around you. Don't you? You make it sound simplistic and shallow the way you put it. And how do you know I don't that? Anyway just pick any of the question on the first page and help me understand your opinion on some of them. This thread is about atheists. I don't want us to start the christainity talk here so that it won't become the us versus them kind of thread. I'm sorry if my tone offends you. Dapo777: Cococandy I have some questions for you. |
Ngokafor: ...you are so right about the 'good support' system thingy... |
Ok. Update me when you can. edwife: I am fine dear,kedu? |
Hehehe Lol @ perilous. It is not for those who have resigned from the 9months IT. I'm fine thanks. How's family? LyndaRoyce: Woooowwww! Sexy!! |
Anacksunamun: Now you see why men should NOT be forced to pay for kids they didn't want, because many women have eked out a career in producing bàstards just to fuel their bank accounts by manipulating these draconian laws.I understand if you use this as your basis for the argument. But it won't solve the problems of kids who came not because their mothers wanted to use them to make money but came out of genuine miscalculation on both the parent's parts. How do you propose their case be resolved? By abandoning them? Knowing full well that even a guy who never said anything about not wanting a baby will get cold feet in the face of responsibility. Do we indulge them and let them walk because hey they don't want the babies. There can't be any good coming from scrapping that law. The best bet is to try and keep it from being manipulated. That's my simple stand. It can't be that hard to understand. |
Yea. Take a break. EnlightenedSoul: The thread is getting ugly |
I actually don't think you're a coward. I suspect you have issues.(Not even because of this thread BTW) But cowardice isn't one of them. That's my honest thought. BABE3: I don't know why cococandy won't admit that she thinks I'm a coward, or that coogar and pickbeau1 are selfish men. It's not like i'll CAPS-LOCK her to death or anything.I don't know about selfishness but coogar and pickabeau are definitely biased. I understand coogar's bias Pickabeau's I don't. Now you asked. I wouldn't have said if you didn't ask ![]() |
Online. ![]() We are fine. bukatyne: Where do you get all these your pictures from? |
But of course. Feminism preaches blob of tissue. How insensitive! But when they do,they are only following what it preaches even though they hate it. Rubs my forehead ![]() EnlightenedSoul: [size=14pt]Observation: Notice it described as a blob of tissue when it suits them. And then murder when that suits them[/size] |
Edwife nwanyi oma where have you been? ![]() I still can't post in that food section ![]() Can you? |
pickabeau1: She will never accept that....You're right. I won't accept that. And no the men don't sleep alone. They sleep with the women. That's why they need to cater for the baby with the women too. That's all That's all That's all ![]() |
I can see why they pursue the money vehemently. Even the tax rates are evidence enough that it is a follow the money racket. CityNG: I am sure that there are certain cases in which the system acts "in the best interest of the child" but very rare. |
Nonso23: Nope. The mother solely is punishing the child by carrying it to term when she knows fully well she can't feed another mouth.You know this is strawman right? First feminism doesn't preach that a foetus is a blob of tissue. It preaches that a woman can be pro choice if she wishes to without being judged or forced to keep it. I'm getting weary of 'pulled out of the air' assertions. It is prochoicers that preach that blob of tissue stuff. And admittedly not all agree on that. Not all pro choicers are feminist. And There are non feminist prochoicers. Pleeenty of them. There are also feminist prolifers who believe in life from conception but no need forcing others to take that stand too. Being able to decide for yourself is what this is all about.. Since according to you all pro choicers are feminist Can we now logically state that all of you supporting aborting the baby are now feminist? Do you see the lack of sense in that? |
Why are you angry? Weah96: So you're not a Christian. The Jesus in your head is not the same one described in the bible. The biblical version clearly says that salvation can only come through him. That's the whole point of Christian ministry, winning souls for Jesus. There wouldn't be any need for preachers or evangelists if non Christians were not headed for hellfire. If you don't accept that doctrine, then pick another religion, Jesus is not your guy. I'm dying to know who you've been praying to this whole time you didn't believe in Jesus. SMH. |
People will keep on having sex whether we like it or not. It's only proper that they take care of offspring(if any) that come from it. it is not the children's fault Even if you think it is the mother's fault for not aborting the baby,it is still wrong to punish the child for it. And I know that the people who made the laws weren't concerned about the couple's petty squabbles and blame games. All they know is that the kid is here and has to be taken care of. So all hands on deck Simples |
Anacksunamun: What I dont get is why you find men that have opposing views to your feministic views, as selfish; and the women that don't support your feministic views, as COWARDS. This is insultive. Yet you were accusing BABE! of being the first one to throw snide remarks and insults months back, talking of how you don't use snides first. Hypocritical much?that's not in reference to anyone on this thread directly or indirectly. |
Pfftt ![]() Happy sunday to you and pls wear a condom. Thank you. Xsolutions: Okay sorry if I misunderstood you |
If there was a law that makes them live up to their responsibilities,it wouldn't be like that. Kids abandonded with their mothers everywhere. Even the ones abandoned after marriage.that's the one that annoys me most. Nothing is done to make them live up to their parental roles. Have you heard the lock and key parable? The woman is the lock and the man is the key. Any key that can open plenty locks is a master key. That's one of the excuses they use to spread their seeds around. But don't talk about it. Xsolution might call you the daughter of lucifer if you do ![]() [quote author=soul_glo]I find this so disgusting. Especially the ones who take pride in it. As if it were an honorable thing. That lack of discipline makes them look like animals. Before anyone jumps down my throat I know this is not all Nigerian men. I have many in my family who are decent men but even here on nairaland it seems to be celebrated[/quote] |
And if you say anything about feminism as a Nigerian woman,cowardly women and selfish men will try to shout you down. Issorait. That country will have me in govt someday. All the propaganda won't conquer the movement for women's liberation in our dear Chillisauce: What am I seeing. Coogar and babe! |
Sensationalism at best. These laws were they drafted by an all-women legislature? Weren't there men there? If yes. Doesn't it beg the question why? Fellow men seek to oppress others? Huh? Were the laws drafted to expressly take care of the women in those relationships or purportedly to take care of the kids made from it? If yes to the latter,can we then include the rights and welfare of children in the definition of feminism? A law made for the sake of the welfare of children from broken homes and relationships(even though wrongly exploited) is by no means the fault of feminism. What you seem to ignore is that even a self professed non feminist can exploit such laws if given the chance. coogar: you mean feminism is very wrong? cococandy, which is which? are you aware these draconian laws against men are drafted by feminists? |
Okies |
CityNG: Very true and there are others online. There's a very small window for a man to challenge this and all the woman has to do is to not alert the man until the statue of limitation has passed then he's sunk.Not his child. It is very wrong. I don't believe this is all about the kids welfare in these cases. More about getting more money into the system by any means possible. |
Funny thing is I'm not even sure you've read ANY of my posts on this thread. But hey 'why read it? We already know what she's thinking' Some people are not worth conversing with. Example: you Xsolutions: Watch what??...Lucifer is soo proud you and the Feminists in this thread THINK,TALK and ACT LIKE HIM... |
Watch it. Xsolutions: KAI!!!THE WOMEN IN THIS THREAD ARE SUCH SNAKES...smh |
I don't see how this will help Nigeria. Or is it Airegin now? Silly propositions. Focus on the major problems you dimwits!!! |
This our lingerie thread. It must come back to life o. Edwife Chillisauce Efemena XY Lyndaroyce. Byvan Bukatyne. pls don't give up the sexy
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BABE! :I'm reaching? I wish. Why is there a new movement against that? To include women in inheritance especially land inheritance. It is actually anti-our culture. Where I come from women DO NOT inherit!!! Educated or not. The few who do,do so AGAINST the native law and except the father who gave it to her is alive to fight for her,it is possible that the male relations can take her property against her will in a COMPETENT customary court of law. She's meant to inherit from her husband's side(maybe that helps to propagate the depending-on-a-man mindset) So you do not have reason to ask why I support feminism. I'm not here because it's trendy Or because I 'hate' men Or any of those other funny reason people come up with when they try to dismiss genuine issues. Female gender suppression surrounds me and I'm not even in the least bit glad that a movement has to be in place first before both gender can be seen as equals. Don't I wish equality is a given so that energy can be channeled to other important things than trying to be heard? |
Oh he's here Angry dude doing what he does best. Take a bottle of heineken before you pop a vein. |
[quote author=BABE!]No need to apologize. You can't bully a veteran bully. I think I read somewhere where you said your feministic views starts and stops in Nigeria and that part of the world. Don't you think what Nigeria needs is development and education, not feminism? I'm pretty sure in the country's constitution, women have same rights as men. Most folks that have chauvinistic views are greatly influenced by culture and religion. I highly doubt that a well educated man will leave his daughter out of his will because she's female.they do. All the time. do you honestly think feminism didn't pave way for all round western development. Yes Nigeria needs development and education,all feminism asks is that women not be excluded when it is making the rounds? The laws are there to protect these women, but who do we have to enforce the laws? No one. That's where my development angle comes in. no. The laws don't protect women. Not from the social epidemic of hiding behind men to get what you deserve. Women have made it to the top yes. If you know one,sit her down and let her give you her life story. I don't even want to talk about companies that don't employ women. I'd have thought it was false if I didn't experience it myself.. Also, poverty and hunger make women in Nigeria do degrading things to themselves. Women there see marriage/man as a ticket out of poverty. That's why men treat them like they do. So how does feminism come into all this? agreed. But that's where it also is beneficial. Gender equality in it's entirety helps erode such dependent mindset and low self esteem. The ladies are getting the message. It'll only take time[/quote] |
carefreewannabe: Why wait?I love kids and family.I don't have kids yet. Let me get mine together first. Politics can take it's toll on family if the kids are tender and the husband works full time |
I watch all of them. Miami Los angeles pickabeau1: Cool series |
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