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Nairaland General › Re: Nigeria Is A Useless Country,you Need To Be Away From Nigeria To See It! by cococandy(f): 10:48pm On Jul 09, 2014
That's because criminals are actually arrested and put away.
So yea incaceration rate is high because there is a system that works.

I know many criminals walking free here.
Even you might be one of them grin grin grin (na play o)

#edited# babymama1 get out of my head cheesy

tintingz: Yes in Nigeria you must sleep with one eye open

but the crime rate in USA is so high.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/4/4d/Lifetime_prevalence_of_incarceration.png/220px-Lifetime_prevalence_of_incarceration.png

The United States has the highest
incarceration rate in the world (which includes
pre-trial detainees and sentenced prisoners).
www.en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crime_in_the_United_States
Politics › Re: Bamidele Aturu Is Dead, Prominent Lagos Lawyer by cococandy(f): 10:37pm On Jul 09, 2014
May he rest in peace. embarassed


In other news,
In igbo language aturu means SHEEP.
The 'intricacies' of languages
Family › Re: . by cococandy(f): 10:11pm On Jul 09, 2014
Even if he comes back before you get married again and says he wants to marry you,you've express permission to douse him in dish water.

Wetin sef?
Family › Re: . by cococandy(f): 10:08pm On Jul 09, 2014
Some ladies eh?
Billyonaire: He impregnated you.

He ran away.

Hardly calls.

You cater for your kid alone.

Another man wants to marry you and take care of the son of the run away man and you are confused.

Confused if your son will be happy, that you left a run away father, who never calls, even when another man will raise him and love you.

You need structural mental adjustment.

I am sure you know what my advise is.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:00pm On Jul 09, 2014
Thanks ladies kiss

Edwife
Chillisauce
Babe3
Nairaland General › Re: Nigeria Is A Useless Country,you Need To Be Away From Nigeria To See It! by cococandy(f): 9:53pm On Jul 09, 2014
Babymama1: Let the girls open mouth and tell how they were harassed by school teachers,lecturers,bosses
Everyone wants back for ground

If you are a boy,make the mistake and date a girl your lecturer is interested in,hmm
If you don't read your 4 year course for 6 years and risk coming out with 3rd class my name is not Babymama the first
Na that one. Practically everyone that comes across wants a piece of you, and the first question you're asked is 'what were you wearing?'
By default it's assumed you must be at fault somehow.

I remember during my nysc. The community I was in had a lot of drop-out girls and teenage mothers because they had the 'education doesn't matter for girls' mindset.
Some in my class had kids. One girl had 3. Small teenage girls.
I felt something needed to be done. So I embarked on a community development programme to teach them skills that could at least give them something to do if they didn't want to continue after secondary school.

You won't believe the kind of stone walls I encountered while sourcing for funds to finance the project.(To get materials and set them up).
Even the L.G chairman was not left out of the groping hands.

What's provocative about the khaki and T shirt?

I ended up abandoning the project because I didn't have money of my own to finance it.

You'd think I was begging them for money to buy a car for myself.
A project that's supposed to help the young girls in your community!!
Tufia.
Basically the language here is that you've to give yourself to get something.
No matter what it is.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f):
Fried rice
Chicken
And meat pie.

I give myself some credit for the meat pies because I don't have a meat pie cutter. Had to do it with my bare hands.

Edwife come and give us the latest o.

Nkeym88 deleted? Na wa o. (Her name is even now censored shocked . This serious o)
Tasty looking dishes she had there.

Chillisauce, Ewuro. Nice work ladies.
Marylandcakes. Pictures pls. No time to watch video grin

Nairaland General › Re: Nigeria Is A Useless Country,you Need To Be Away From Nigeria To See It! by cococandy(f): 9:22pm On Jul 09, 2014
If I start my own,this thread will collapse.
Truth is I'm not happy about this country for any reason.
Not one reason.

As for the nurses issues,not to defend them but I've been close to some and what they experience while working for the govt is another issue entirely.
I'm not surprised some of them take it out on their patients(which is very very wrong BTW).

Imagine a whole general hospital owned by the state govt,only one nurse on duty serving 5-6 different wards at a time.

It is really heart wrenching. New graduate nurses are left unemployed because they don't have millions to pay as bribe to get employed.

My mama at her age and rank of chief nursing officer still goes to night duty and shuttles 5-6 wards at once because only about 3 nurses are on duty in the entire hospital.

Why? No new employments.
The govt is busy selling the remaining hospitals to private hands(who will do as they please to the employees.their retirement benefits down the drain after working 35yrs for the govt).
This one na only for imo state o.
Who knows what's happening in other states.

I could go on and on.
Family › Re: She's Fond Of Doing This.... by cococandy(f): 7:35pm On Jul 09, 2014
Ihe anya m na-ahu ebe a.
O di itu n'anya grin grin
beeevan: Broke bottom is not when ones pocket is cashless but when the pocket is cashless and the skull empty, its a shame.


Onweghi nonsense mmadu agaghi aguta here undecided. Man is like God indeed!!
Nairaland General › Re: Nigeria Is A Useless Country,you Need To Be Away From Nigeria To See It! by cococandy(f): 7:09pm On Jul 09, 2014
cool
Family › Re: Husbands What Exactly Do You Want From Your Wives And Vice Versa by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Jul 09, 2014
Nothing much by way of rules and laws.

Just be ready to make your partner happy.
It is not that complicated despite how they try to make it look.

Don't do things your partner doesn't like just to prove a point.
Culture › Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by cococandy(f): 9:29am On Jul 09, 2014
shocked shocked shocked

Odi kwa serious.
Family › Re: Popular Naija Comedian's Marriage Crashes After Only 6 Days; Wife Cheats On Him by cococandy(f): 9:25am On Jul 09, 2014
Na wa o.
So how do they know the pregnancy belongs to the boss?
Did the man never suspect her and her boss before the marriage?
Didn't she know he never supported her career before she married him?
I find it hard to believe they discovered all of these just in 6 days.
I think they might have been having problems but just went ahead to get married anyway thinking it would solve their problems.
Too bad
Family › Re: Is It Ideal For A Mother-in-law To Move In With A Newly Married Couple?? by cococandy(f): 9:07am On Jul 09, 2014
He was sick/ invalid that's a different case.

smileandlove: . Don't sit there and type rubbish . You don't know what the future holds for you. My father inlaw is a Dr but he was bed ridden for years I had to bring him to stay with me and I still let him express himself. Without him maybe I won't have a husband. And I espect my children to do same. Do you think you will forever remain young?
Culture › Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by cococandy(f): 8:56am On Jul 09, 2014
Ok smiley
Babymama1 you've heard armyofone. Buy me krispy creme when coming back grin
armyofone: Thank you Osisi and Babe3.
Still looking and yet to make up my mind.
I no want bed wey go broke and we go land for ground or mattress wey go make noise grin
Going tempur grin or memory matress...expensive but i think it will worth it.



Ask for Dunkin donuts or krispy kreme. that thing dey melt for mouth.
Go meet her for airport grin
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 11:38pm On Jul 08, 2014
See their faces
Lol grin grin


German hair here we come.kiss
Dump the brazilian hair babes

Culture › Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by cococandy(f): 11:34pm On Jul 08, 2014
That's nice.
Buy puff puff for me when coming grin
Babymama1: Will be home soon and hoping to buy some there
Family › Re: Photo: Man Dumps ‘crippled’ Nephew On Refuse Heap by cococandy(f): 9:18pm On Jul 08, 2014
I'm not too mad at the uncle
I'm not very mad at the young man.
But I'm weakened by the fact that people climbed up there took pictures and came back down to scream for 'help'

Like seriously?
The uncle. One man. Held all the witnesses hostage such that none of them can do anything to help the crippled guy?

Well I don't believe it.
Culture › Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by cococandy(f):
No idea either.

Anytime you come home you check for it.
Or do you want to buy from stores that can send it to you over there?
Culture › Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by cococandy(f): 9:02pm On Jul 08, 2014
I don't live in America. grin
Babymama1: I went there looking for something similar but much bigger and about three preferably tan colored but of different shapes
Our house has some cut out shelves way high up that needs some things like that put up
It will be tough to get that on a ladder but I need to get them first.

Any suggestions of where I could go?
Family › Re: Lol. This Is A Perfect Definition Of Wife Material. (picture) by cococandy(f): 8:57pm On Jul 08, 2014
That's why I don't judge people at first meeting.
You need to do the same too.

Besides who'd keep from doing what makes them happier and more relaxed because it might give strangers a bad first impression?

Life shouldn't be about appearances brother.

EddyNumerouno: In other words, if u only saw this man on ur spa days, 'hardworker' won't be in ur top 5 words u will describe him with
Culture › Re: Our People Are So Bush And Uncultured...... Picture included by cococandy(f): 8:52pm On Jul 08, 2014
That's a very beautiful piece in the middle.
Babymama1: The one in the middle only 9.99

But they all came from Ross
And everyone of my colleagues who has been in my office admires it
Family › Re: Lol. This Is A Perfect Definition Of Wife Material. (picture) by cococandy(f): 8:47pm On Jul 08, 2014
That's not true. I mean the spa part.
A hardworker deserves to take some time off and relax too.
The key is not to work aimlessly but to work smartly.

One of the richest men I know who works like a mule ( a chronic workaholic) also goes to the spa and does manicure/ pedicure.

And what the 'all these feminists' line for?
Y'all are beginning to sound like broken records.
EddyNumerouno: Any man who is also ready to pass through hell for the sake of his family is also a real african man.

Pls, b4 all these feminsts start clawing up here, any man also lounging in the club or spa cannot be depicted as a hardworker.
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 8:42pm On Jul 08, 2014
Thanks a lot naijababe kiss
kiss
You took the time to find it for me. I appreciate.
Family › Re: Lol. This Is A Perfect Definition Of Wife Material. (picture) by cococandy(f): 8:15pm On Jul 08, 2014
So what's the definition of a real african man
EddyNumerouno: A real african woman is depicted as one who would go through every ordeal and bend herself over backwards just to cater for her kids, yes be it carrying firewood while heavy with a kid and trekking impossible distances. That's why we love our mothers no matter what!!!


Don't get me wrong, women should enjoy the best things in life but, What part of chilling in a spa depicts a woman who is ready to go through hell for her family??
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 8:12pm On Jul 08, 2014
I love this. Thank you
Chillisauce: Instead of artificial surgery drinks, make your drink yourself.

It's better for fruit juice.

Try making watermelon juice. And store in your fridge.

1 . Put little water and cut ginger cubes , boil for like 5 min.

While boiling, clean your melon to remove the seeds,.
2. Blend the water melon with the cooked ginger.

3. Sieve the finished product. You might add like 2 cubes of suger if not satisfied

4. Lime too can be added .

5. If you take alchohol or your oga, you can add a little whisky or tequila to it wink.. lovely.

More fruit juice coming up.

Brb.
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 7:53pm On Jul 08, 2014
grin I go pay you to teach me the whole language.
I'm serious. Wanna learn yoruba
naijababe: Pay me better money make I translate for you grin
Sagamite. Ehn? Ok. I read ya
Family › Re: Lol. This Is A Perfect Definition Of Wife Material. (picture) by cococandy(f): 7:31pm On Jul 08, 2014
Times have changed o.
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 7:21pm On Jul 08, 2014
I loooove that song.

I don't even know what he's saying embarassed
But it sounds so good.
I keep it on the replay

It's a beautiful happy song.( At least that's how it makes me feel).
Sagamite: Let me put soundtrack while I enjoy it.

Mo ti waa paa bayi (I don dey so). grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hXDhpsVycA
Christianity Etc › Re: Atheists. Come In Let's Discuss. by cococandy(op): 7:03pm On Jul 08, 2014
You know deists are the opposite of atheists?

A loose term for all believers of different religions. Right?
Although some people like to say only those who believe but don't identify with any religion are deists

But if you're wondering,I'm a christain.
qstar: Are you now a "deist"?
Christianity Etc › Re: Atheists. Come In Let's Discuss. by cococandy(op): 6:46pm On Jul 08, 2014
alchemist13: Nothing without evidence of its existence is certainly or absolutely non-existent. However we do make certain decisions based on the lack of evidence of existence of some things (e.g evidence (or lack of it) in a murder trial). Therefore I would conclude (as at the moment) that there is no God due to a lack of evidence.
seen.

And even if there is a God, he/she has done nothing to revel his/her existence or to intervene in situations in a manner that leaves very little doubt that he/she exists. So for every intent and purposes, God does not exist.
seen



This is a fallacy. There is no evidence of intelligent design. However, as someone else pointed out, we could be the product of some alien experiment wink. But like the Intelligent designer, this is just a fragment of my imagination.
I disagree



Maybe. Maybe not. We do not have enough information about the origin of the universe except the fraction of a second it began expanding. Anything on this matter is just a matter of philosophy and speculation.seen



Yes.



No. Because unlike gravity and magnetism, we cant observe God's effect, we cant study God, make theories based on him/her and therefore make predictions.
seen


The big bang evidence only tells us about the 'explosive' expansion of a 'primordial atom', as Georges Lemaître called it, but not its origin. As I said before, claiming any knowledge of the origin of this 'atom' is mere speculation as science as not provided any evidence.
seen


Makes sense. By the way have you heard some of the so called multiverse theories?

yes I have. Actually

Not necessarily, given enough time nature can produce billions of 'encyclopaedias'. You probably need to study more on evolution and natural selection.
seen


What makes you think that mind is greater than matter?
but it actually seems so. Although not all deists believe that mind is greater than matter


This has to be one of the poorest question you've asked. I presume you are asking about a universal moral law. A law valid for all time and places, right? Sorry to disappoint you there isn't anything as a moral law that binds everybody. Today, due to globalisation, modernisation, and the effect of surviving two world wars, we have basic human rights and a generally similar moral code but even these rights and codes are not respected by every government or authority.

In history, the difference in moral code is as obvious as the difference in the geographical locations of different cultures. Most ancient near-east society practised polygamy for instance but in Nepal, parts of China and part of northern India, polyandry was practised.

Now I'm sure you are not planning on keeping you husbands at the same time. Oh the moral outrage!

the core concept of wrongness and rightness has not changed with time.some things may have been practiced for what may have been seen as cultural necessity.



Based on my preceding answer, there would have to be several law givers. All of them human.
seen



No.



Where did you hear the universe is a giant ball? (where did you here the universe has any shape?)
finite universe as is known to man.



The anthropic principle is a philosophical consideration not real science. Not everybody agrees with it.
seen
Meanwhile you're answering me in the second person. Those questions are not personal. smiley
Christianity Etc › Re: Atheists. Come In Let's Discuss. by cococandy(op): 6:30pm On Jul 08, 2014
Ok smiley
beejaay: the question is how do you know you know?? the human mind is so that u see and believe what u really want to believe and not the actual reality

the burden of knowledge is so grave that i just dont bother myself anymore, i just observe and move on without really bordering myself with what anything could be, i simple accept everything as it is
You're right about the burden of knowledge being grave

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