₦airaland Forum

Ladyhippolyta88:
Spot on and I agree with you.

@bold,what is the name of the researcher? I would love to read it.

Akposy:
Oh. Most will still survive. I lost 80% of my plants to negligence. I travelled, my neighbors/compound security didn’t help with watering them. All they did was to harvest my super hot habanero fruits.

I will revive them all though. Your turnip looks like radish; I guess it takes a month to harvest

Misinformation and hysteria around this topic threaten to stigmatize LGBTQI+ people further and don’t protect children. So, let’s start with some facts.
Are most child sex offenders heterosexual?
Yes. Most child sex offenders consider themselves heterosexual [1]. Jerry Sandusky and Jared Fogel are two famous examples of married, heterosexual sex offenders who fathered children.
Sound somewhat improbable? Stories of Catholic priests molesting boys have been ongoing for decades, and nearly 100,000 men have sued the Boy Scouts of America for child sexual abuse that happened to them as children.
Here are some things to keep in mind:
Pedophilia, the sexual attraction to prepubescent children (not the act of sexually abusing children), is very different from sexual attraction to adults.
Scanning headlines is a terrible way to understand child sexual abuse. Let’s unpack that.
Demographic characteristics of a child sex offender
Most sex offenders are male. Researchers agree that sexual abuse by women is under-reported and under-documented, but even with this factored in, men are more likely to sexually abuse a child than women are. [4]
The demographics of sex offenders mirror the demographics of America. That means no racial group, educational level, or income bracket is more or less likely to be a sex offender than any other. And sex offenders are as likely to be married or married and divorced as other American men. [3]
Sexual abuse and sexual orientation of child sex offenders
Most people who sexually abuse children also experience heterosexual attraction to adults. Someone who has sexual relationships with adult women may sexually abuse boys, and someone who sexually abuses children of one sex is likely to abuse children of the other sex. [5]
Are gay people more likely to be child sex offenders?
Researchers have studied the question of homosexual men being more likely to sexually abuse children, as well as the question of homosexual men being sexually attracted to boys. In a one-year period at a major child abuse center, less than 1% of the abusers who were identified were in a homosexual relationship.

Akposy:
Your garden is doing great. Well done ma 🙌🏾

A Christian can condemn LGBTQ without lying that they are paedophiles and rapist or wishing them deaths and abuse like Matt Walsh does.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Cococandy, don't you find it weird that these beautiful Christians who turn a blind eye to the hateful rhetoric of Matt Walsh and his likes who all of a sudden care about women and children don't complain about the child abuse scandals of the Catholic Church and abuse of women in religious houses?

It must be very Christ-like to concern yourself of things of this world while turning a blind eye to abuse of women and children going on in religious houses. These same people have no problem with school shootings.

How will you be taken seriously when you don't want to acknowledge a problem rooted in your religious houses. But LGBTQ are the problem while people are avoiding religious houses because they don't feel safe.

somehow:
9/11 was arranged by the same American Elites.
it was a sacrifice that was worth going to Iraq for.

So they used that to earn trillions of dollars through weapons and crude oil (Iraq unjustified war).

Eunoiaa:
To be very honest, I am now "scared" of America, especially with the upsurge in Mass shooting and in my head, I'm like, "why's anybody still going there? Why are people still traveling to the USA??

And then I considered that exactly the same way I've associated mass shooting to the US is the way people over there would have associated Boko Haram and public lynchings to Nigeria.

Because, just think about it.

How do you think Americans see Nigeria with all the ISIS-related bombings, kidnappings, police brutality and jungle justice over blasphemous claims?

Meanwhile, I feel "safe" over here and my life is normal. I have only ever encountered terroristic killings in the news, that you'll feel Borno is almost in another country.

Infacr sef, we in the South and West have otherized the North so much so that we never think those people are living normal lives like us.

Davido's alleged and psycho baby mom, the other day, said the Nigerian culture sacrifice babies the other day, and everyone went gun-blazing at her. I was irate, too, of course.

But seeing some comments on here now calling the US 'a devil's playground' and all sort of names made me pause and thought, "how is that different from what Anita said?" Like really, how do you think people from other places see Nigerians? But we're justified in our own rights and we believe that no foreigner who says we live in huts and ride camels is sensible.

We are stereotyping each other based on fringe events and extremities. We are doing the same things to each other lol.


P.S.: I use "we" and "you" as generic terms here.

CondenseMilk:
Banging 3 different punanni with pride, no fear of STDs!

He will never think of visiting a brothel or going back to an ex nor even committing adultery.


It's high time we return to this way of life as Africans especially if you are capable of maintaining such.


See unmarried women litterd everywhere in this country!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Matt Walsh that has no problem with teenage pregnancy and advocating for abuse of minors cannot be "God sent".

Matt Walsh advocates for the impregnation of girls as young as 16 because it's "technically when they're at their most fertile" in a newly unearthed rant about how teenage pregnancy isn't "the problem it's unwed pregnancy that's the problem in society" pic.twitter.com/SSoKLkfR3f

— The Serfs (youtube.com/theserftimes) (@theserfstv) October 5, 2022

https://pkbnews.in/matt-walsh-pedophile-controversy/

Truly bigotry does have allies. If you want to critically call out transpeople do it the way JK. Rowling does not by thinking men who are hateful like Matt Walsh are "God sent".
The joke writes itself. LMAO.

Everybody knows what a woman is
The famous line is using came from the confirmation hearing of Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson to the Supreme Court who ignored the question a Republican senator asked her on what a woman was because it was a political question that had no basis in law that she was questioned hence the reply she gave because she didn't want to be caught up in the bigotry, the question "What is a Woman?" was actually aimed at poking to the Republican base.
Everyone knows what a woman is. The definition has not changed.

Ladyhippolyta88:
The transcommunity are a minute population globally. The world has bigger problems. If someone who isn't in the real world base their views on transpeople from this thread one would think they are terrorist that threaten your humanity.
Cococandy, you tried.

I have my reservations about transpeople but I do not that they are not a threat to anybody.
Should they be in women's spaces? No it even rarely happens but sure let the propaganda tell you that their existence threaten women.
But the patriarchy that breeds misogyny and sexism that have had disastrous consequences on women must be nothing compared to what a very minute population of people want. So transpeople are your problem.
I understand the argument against them in terms of biology any other thing is mere propaganda meant to bring hatred and scare people.

Omoluabi16:
The light situation improved under buhari, not tinubu.

pocohantas:
Jokes apart, someone said it. He is not a Nigerian sha. One minister in a sister African country.

pocohantas:
It is a Nigerian thing and I will blame it on the standard of living here. Food is very cheap in America and some other developed countries. No one sees groceries as show off. These things are basic. A pack of spaghetti is 50p in the UK. They are things that homeless people can afford. In Nigeria, any small thing is show off. That is why the rich are always struggling to identify with suffering. Claiming they sold kulikuli or they used the moon to do assignments in primary school.

copyrites:
Well, you can't be too sure what animal rights activists are cooking up presently. Remember, you didn't know enough or care about LGBTQ say 15-20 years ago?? Correct??

People may rise tomorrow to call for a review of the meaning and definition of "consent" the same way they're reconstructing the meaning of "gender."

copyrites:
I understand your points quite well. I've never really been interested in the LGBTQ community. Not condemning their movements doesn't mean I agree with them. My concern has always been the end goal. Really, is there a limit to these things? Last time I checked, more letters are being added to the typical "LGBTQ."

Today, is there a limit to these things? If, tomorrow, a new movement pops up to call for sex between man/woman and pets/animals or sex between humans and dead bodies (after all, these things exist, maybe not on a large scale). Would you say that someone who wants sex with a dead body is well within his/her rights? Is there a limit to these things or are humans just going "in.sa.ne" on a daily basis??

Anita also vowed on twitter to get a work visa for all of the singer’s baby mamas until they get what they deserve.

copyrites:
Okay

What pains me the most is they are desperately trying to cancel womanhood and our achievements, they want to cancel our existence, how can you not see that? Their target and biological modifications are 100% on females, and these are mainly done by men, powerful misogynistic men that will go to any length to achieve their aim even if they loose money, you cannot be in support of these people, they want to destroy the world until it's too late

I've seen videos of these people bullying mostly Christians, there is one association against catholics in california where they openly mock them, they call themselves sisterhood of perpetual blablabla unfortunately sanctioned by the government in the name of inclusion, I saw a video of a white man reading his bible, trans people spat at him, confronted him to his face, tore his bible, pushed and shoved him to the ground, but this man didn't flinch, he kept on reading his bible, there is a man on twitter, billboard bill or something, this man goes to different states and countries on a lone protests with billboards on his back and front saying a man cannot be a woman, yet he gets shoved and pushed at by these people yet you say they are being victimised and want peace

copyrites:
I'm curious. Can cococandy entertain this?

Klass99:
@ Paragraph one - so was the invasion of Iraq for weapons of mass destruction that were never recovered and the world never saw till date.

@ Paragraph two - truthfully, it is a yes and no answer for me. Yes, a part of me thinks it won't be bad if they are served breakfast a second time. Since they don't know when to stop or mind their business, let someone help them refocus their time and energy as a country.

No, because I am not a blood thirsty individual who enjoys wanton destruction of lives and properties. That was my emotions talking as someone who is frankly sick and tired of the US and its shenanigans. Is it so hard to stay in your lane, mind your business and respect the wishes or policies of other nations?

Again truth be told when 9/11 happened I had mixed feelings. On one hand I felt sad and bothered by the destruction of lives without justification. On the other hand I thought to myself it's not a bad thing that they were shown that they are not as powerful as they love to think.

I want to make one post only as I need to charge my battery so permit me to tackle the other issues you quoted me on. Candance makes sense to me in the videos I've come across, I don't know her well enough but I know I like what I've heard her say about the LGBTQ community.

You say the LGBTQ community is not in our faces or shoving this thing down our throats? They are doing so through art like music, movies, cartoons, schools and in sports like when they generated a controversy over Qatar hosting the world cup. In fact Buka & Desca accurately articulated my thoughts on this matter in their responses to you, so make I no over flog the issue.

People create threads to talk about them only because they will not let us hear word or rest. Once upon a time people hid their sexual immorality and it wasn't a thing to broadcast up and down. I think some fornicators and adulterers still do, but you see this LGBTQ folks ehn, they want to choke us with public advertisement of themselves and lifestyles. Like what the hell? Na only them waka come? Or na only USA waka come this world? With their ITK and oversabi? Let them tackle gun violence and leave other countries alone on this matter.

And I still love you too, but you see on this issue we cannot be on the same page because we see things differently and that is okay with me.

LGB people have been in existence for ages, they mind their business and live like normal humans without disturbing anybody's space, TQVXWXY1234 bla bla bla came into existence and started causing havoc, their main target are females and children, they've distorted the xy chromosome as false, they say a woman can be defined as anything except being a female with vagina and real boobs, they say men can menstruate and even made an ad to prove that stupid point, they are attempting to take over women's sport claiming a man can be a woman and so much more, for you a feminist to accept these anomalies and see it as normal is beyond surprising, they are gradually erasing womanhood taking us to the dark ages, slowly taking away all we have fought for centuries ago to be where we are today, and these things are mainly done by men pretending to be women, a clear cut misogyny in progress, and you are cool with it? Their new stance now is renaming biological male and female as "cis", a coined out word from a sick fake scientist in the 60s that wanted sex between adults and children to be seen as normal, he actually experimented on children to figure out the psychological trauma and effects, and so many died, heck presently they already have a pedophile group with their flag

I see your submissions and notice you were simply going in circles and beating around the bsh same MO as them

These trans people keeps forcing themselves on everyone to be accepted as norm, why should anyone accept you because of your sexuality and what you choose to identify as? You say they want to literally live in peace, there has been no record of murders of trans so who and what exactly is stopping them from living in peace?

bukatyne:
1. Everybody have the right of association. It is not discrimination to decide to service or not to service a group of people especially if you are a private business/ person. I can rent to who I will, employ who I will etc. If it is not propaganda, how do an employer or landlord know my sexual orientation?

2. They can celebrate their rights without forcing others to celebrate it too. Any reason why institutions are forced to fly their flags and dress in their colours? Any reason why the pride month has become mainstream?

3. Bobrisky rose from a nobody to the entity he has become today. I am sure there are other trans and cross dressers who are not popular because we don't know them. Infact, Bobrisky's popularity is enough to make him a target if people were inclined to mob him.

4. Again I ask, if they do not put themselves in our face, how do we know them? Can I vouch that my neighbours aren't Homosexuals? Can I confidently say all my colleagues are heterosexuals? Nope! Because it is not my business and nobody feels compelled to shove their sexuality in my face. If there is no pride month, no flag, no propaganda, I am sure a lot of people would forget they exist. Because they constantly seek validation from the general public, they always open themselves up for discussion.

5. Luckily, I am in Nigeria and everyone as at today has the good sense to keep their sexuality to themselves. I do not concern myself with them till they pop up in the news or someone comes out of the Closet like their sexuality is the world's business.

The existence or not of the LGBTQ ~ is in the hands of the Christian God who has said over and over that they are an abomination to Him.

7. A little yeast spoils the dough. If they are left to continue their propaganda, they would spread their agenda slowly and surely.

8. If I see an LGBTQ ~ person, I would see a lost human being and feel immense pity.

9. They are co-existing in other countries without making a nuisance of themselves or shoving their agenda down people's throats. And as a Christian, I do not want to see them thrive I do not want to see evil of any sort thrive.

descarado:
Nobody is instigating anything coco.
Last 2 yrs, parents went crazy over some stuffs their kids were saying and doing at home after school and came in to enquire. Will not go into details but it was chaotic the education ministry has to get involved. Parents received mails and were encouraged to speak out if they observe their kids speaking in tongues.
My boys were told to wear pink pants to school.
During pe, if you don't wear pink pant, you don't belong. They will taunt you. My eldest came home one day and was rambling I'm not a girl, I don't want to wear pink. And guess who told them to wear pink undies? School children like them. Who projected the idea to these kids?
Topic for another day.
I went to school to enquire and it has gone deeper than we thought.
Somehow, it was curtailed cos parents were ready to sue the school and its admin.
That was when I started taking this serious. If they can come on innocent children, what can't they do.
I'm afraid. All parents need to be afraid.
My 11yrs old can tell me everything about transgender than he can describe the digestive system.
Enough said.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Who is stopping the LGBTQ~ community from living in peace?

In Nigeria, we have Bobrisky & James Brown; we have a number of Homosexuals in the media; the Northerners are rumoured to be highly Homosexual.

I even heard there is a swingers club at Ibadan how much more Lagos. In Lekki Phase 1, some ladies are pimps for gays. You think she is an olosho while she is just a connector providing a rendezvous and collects her cash.

The above is in Nigeria you would agree is more 'close minded' than the US and UK.

Is there a heterosexual month or day or flag? Ideally, what is my business what two or more people decide to do sexually with themselves if I am not a party to it or committed to any of them?

The LGBTQ~ community are the ones who have shoved their sexuality in our faces over & over and demanded that we accept them.

At this rate, they should let us breeet and I am happy that concerned men & women in those places are rising up that the madness is enough.