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slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Me desist from eating gbomo

Una nor well
Anthrax kill una there

Wetin men take dey follow up booze for beer parlour

No one can separate me from my chilled Heineken bottles and sauce kpomo

If them say make them list the symptoms of anthrax now them go begin list symptoms way other normal sickness like fever and malaria also get

Anthrax is not a joke. Bless your heart

onumadu:
Cultural context is key to topics like this.

It is interesting that all the studies cited in the OP were in Europe.
None elsewhere.

Fact remains that when it comes to sex, there is a HUGE cultural (psychological and even physiological ) divide between races, continents, nations, and peoples on earth.
I came to this conclusion just by studying sexual practices/inclinations of different nations/tribes in Africa.

Some African tribe's women are far more sexually driven than others, for example. And, for such a tribe, monogamy would be ridiculous.
Some African tribe's men are also far more sexually driven than others, and for them too, monogamy would be ridiculous.
Studies like in the OP simply ignored those racial/ethnic/cultural differences to create a narrative that adds to the problem rather than point to a clear solution.

The problem has always been to use European based studies to superimpose on other regions and continents, and then cite them as proof of some theory.

When it comes to sex, I keep saying it: TO EACH HIS OWN.
Some nation's women are more "hardwired for monogamy" than others, and vice versa.
To imply that ALL nations are somehow covered by the study cited in the OP, would constitute a misinformation.

There’s no physiological divide between races when it comes to sexuality. Are you kidding me?

Klass99:
This thread sha - Cococandy you've got no chill at all.......but I like . Stop regurgitating nonsense off me completely.

CaptainFM1:
No be this man dey molest ladies by putting chains on their necks like dogs. Abi he think social media and internet will forget his attrocities?

Unless he’s forcing them to participate, where’s the molestation?

This guy just likes to use other people’s ceremonies to get attention for himself

Have you told your mom?

Dogalmighty17:
Marry first. That's if any man pities you enough to co. Discuss with the average Nigerian woman and you will see how vacuous, totally incurious and possessing zero intellectual and conversational abilities they are. So you want a Nigerian man to bore himself to death with that?

Ballotelle:
What if the husband dies, is this what she would do ?

Honestfrend:
Keep kwayet must your become a prostitute to become a provider?

What will then happen wen the man dies?

Honestfrend:
God forbid if your man was late; ashawo will be your only source of income,?

So why should she live like a widow when he’s alive?

wagzy37:
That’s some ‘facts’ for your dumbass. Take your L and shut up

You’re saying the past decade or two should be enough for women to catch up with the centuries of disenfranchisement that set them behind men for hundreds of years?

When I say your brain level is not up to par for this conversation, I truly mean it. How do you survive in the real world? Truly concerning that you don’t have basic critical thinking skills

Sometimes it’s the other way around too.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

You’ll know the ones whose “facts” come from incel podcast when you see them. Usually brain dead and unable to receive new information.
A lost cause

wagzy37:
I have noticed you on this website to be uncouth and quite frankly, deficient in critical thinking skills (honestly it’ll be nice if that was an insult). No one wants a battle between men and women but you especially are too insistent in making a mockery of your gender. Well, I blame the low IQ guys on here that can’t state their points.

Women NEVER invented most of anything. Did they have an input in some inventions? Yes. Did they make some inventions better? Yes. But overwhelmingly didn’t do anything from inception in history. Publicly debunked facts?? Are you on your period?
Infact, let’s take your ludicrous argument on women inventing stuff as ‘fact’. Women have had the highest level of freedom ever in existence for well more than a decade or 2 now. Gender inclusion in the workforce is a real thing across the world today. WHAT HAVE WOMEN BUILT TODAY

Women percentages in STEM disciplines is still very low compared to men across the world. Egalitarian societies (that you are trying to model your arguments around) have realized that given the freedom to make choices, women will rather work in human and social related disciplines than work in actual areas that actually invent things.

To your point of intelligence. Do not let your lack of comprehension reflect publicly. Men will marry a girl on the streets with no degree or anything as long as she’s pretty, agreeable and can provide him satisfaction. Women overwhelmingly will not do the same. That’s why I asked the question. Your feminist ass will want heaven and more from men before you decide to be with them. Men are far more competent than women.. I won’t even school you on that one because at this point I’ll be confirming what everyone already knows.

https://www.nairaland.com/newpost?topic=6583937&post=102479385

It’s not today your senselessness started sha

The nerve of the ignoramus calling someone ignorant.

You’re loud, wrong and unable to learn. You can’t be taught and that’s very unfortunate for you because it’s clear you won’t let yourself benefit from this interaction seeing as your ego is bigger than your brain.

A little but if research would have taught you how many of these inventions were made by women even while being actively oppressed, barred from learning, reading, writing, math and medicine. Some disguised as men in order to be accepted into colleges. Despite the active war on women’s education, they put themselves out there and did it.

And when men could, they took credit for it without props to the women who built it. You’re so ignorant it hurts. That fact that you don’t know these already publicly debunked facts that men built everything.
What are you? Mentally stuck in 2001?


There’s no married man today that’s married to a woman of lower intelligence and capacity than him. Men are simply not more intelligent or more capable than women. They Never have been.

wagzy37:
Ignorance is allowed. But arrogance is what should be avoided. You can’t be arrogant in your ignorance.
What have women built in this world? EVERYTHING you enjoy today were built by men. The world works because men built it. The mining, roads/bridges, the cars you foolishly flaunt to ‘pepper’ others, the internet infrastructure, the skyscrapers, the shipping/importation… even TAMPONS! All built by men. I really can go on.. If that’s not competence, I don’t know what is.

And you cannot use ‘often’ in comparisons between 2 parties and say vice versa. Doesn’t make any sense.

You never answered the question. Would you marry a man lower in competence/intelligence/capacity than you? If you won’t, shut it!

wagzy37:
Actually women DONT know much about themselves and aren’t as different from each other as they think. That’s why security, provision and guidance is what they seek in men. It’s irrefutable. Do you want a man below your level in competence, intelligence and capacity? No? Congrats! You and 99% of women have the same needs. Only men lacking in these things will agree to share a woman.

Women seek guidance in men? Guidance on what please? Men can’t even process and express their own thoughts and feelings are guiding women? Guiding us into what nitoru oloun ?

You think by adding “it’s irrefutable” after a long spiel of jargon it becomes fact?

Yes men can and are often below women in capacity, intelligence and competence. and Vice versa. Humans are different. So it depends on the individual and what exactly they are most capable at.

As far as general day to day existence and navigating the world, men are not more capable than women. I’d even argue otherwise because for most of you, your homes fall apart when mom is incapacitated for two weeks. Can’t survive a few months without looking for another woman to keep things running. Whereas woman who has money probably won’t be needing anything from anyone unless she chooses to.

Actually look at the world and FACTS around you before regurgitating nonsense.

All the nonsense you guys tell yourselves to make you feel better about the BS you believe and peddle in

Brandiebird:
Women don’t have sex to have sex like men do, instead they have sex to bond. A woman with more than one sexual partner at a time would cause her more problems mentally than it would a man. Being a healthy woman is enough! There is power in femininity.

Biglittlelois:
Lmao what 🤣

Yes indeed. It’s gotta be the same person

mayor1814:
Emefiele and Taliban link. Someone should help me understand. Strange happenings in recent times

Befuddling to say the least

Interesting

Seems like they are match made in Eden

Klass99:
Is that the dress? I am not seeing any indecency o

Neither am I. They just want to feel special using her to shine.

GloriousGbola:
edit - your unicorn is incomplete

she must be a virgin and a decent woman and a confam freak in the sheets. but not too much of a frak or i will think she must have been wayward.

Oh how could I forget that

Masterito:
It is obvious Nigerians hate each. The question is why not divide make every tribe dey thier lane? Best of my knowledge, most Ibo s want this.

They just want a country where their states are built up with resources from the east and south east, where only their tribe rules but the south easterners can’t benefit from their own resources and are not allowed to exist freely in the other states that are being enriched by collective wealth

No let them keep talking. They will enact the separation they want all by themselves. And Biafra won’t lift a hand to do it for them.

gidgiddy:
If every ethnic group were to enact laws to protect themselves and their lands from outsiders, then where is this "one Nigeria" people keep talking about?

Does one Nigeria stop at the entrance to my village and begin at the exit?

Reno Omokiri is talking about indigenous rights in America and Canada, has he ever heard of anyone saying 'one America' or 'one Canada'? They dont say that because no such thing exists, their unity is based give and take

But it is only in Nigeria that people will be shouting 'one Nigeria' from morning till night but will be angry when you call Lagos no mans land. One Nigeria means that we all own the land

But you shout 'one Nigeria' and tell me the land belongs to you? If you own your land and I own my land, where then is one Nigeria? On the moon? Let us all agree that 'one Nigeria' is a fraud


The hypocrisy in Nigeria is higher than Mount Everest

Acidosis:
Cocoo..

Where’s the lie?

Everyday women this and women that 😵‍💫

Both of them are complicit?

Neverlookback:
I have always been under the impression that the it is the females that decide to marry into a polygamous household. They were not forced or coerced into it.

Since you are not a fan of such family setting, would it not be prudent for you to advise the unmarried females against going into these settings rather than attacking a man for the outcome?

Money well spent on enriching themselves and their future generations

GloriousGbola:
I was told there woukd be unicorn. I want my unicorn. No stories

I know right

izonborn098:
are you a single mom?

Stupid question. What does my supposed single motherhood have to do with your glaring hypocrisy. You don’t think a man should share his woman because it means he doesn’t know his worth. Yet you can’t apply the same common sense to your hypocrisy of thinking it’s okay for women to do so.

Some of you don’t have the IQ of a gnat. You especially. I feel like I already know your other accounts because there’s no way two or more people of the exact same mental deficit exist in the same space at the same time. It’s gotta be you and your weird lopsided logic

Oh a hypocrite. Got it!

izonborn098:
why calling me Hypocrite, to your question, in nigeria a man can marry more one woman it has being in existence before u were born, i dont mind my daughter been polgamy marriage if she is happy with the union i am fine, but i will disown my son for marrying one woman with another man because it is taboo and he doest not know his self worth, i dont even want my son to marry a single mom.

izonborn098:
pls just tell the truth, will you allow your son to do that as a responsible mother u are, marrying one woman with different men. I need your sincere answer pls

Answer first. If you will let your daughter share one man, you should be okay with your son sharing one woman. I’ve never been in support of polygamy. So my answer is consistent regardless of gender. But the question is are you a hypocrite? Do you support polygamy when it’s a woman but suddenly frothing at the mouth when it’s a man?

izonborn098:
And you think those men live a reasonable life

as reasonable a life as those multiple women married to one husband live

I thought the Bible says strictly the woman must be a stay at home wife. “That’s hOw nAtuRe Made iT”.

Hathor5:
The following is more fitting in the context of the quote, don`t you think?


Proverbs 31
10 How hard it is to find a capable wife! She is worth far more than jewels!
11 Her husband puts his confidence in her, and he will never be poor.
12 As long as she lives, she does him good and never harm.
13 She keeps herself busy making wool and linen cloth.
14 She brings home food from out-of-the-way places, as merchant ships do.
15 She gets up before daylight to prepare food for her family and to tell her servant women what to do.
16 She looks at land and buys it, and with money she has earned she plants a vineyard.
17 She is a hard worker, strong and industrious.
18 She knows the value of everything she makes, and works late into the night.
19 She spins her own thread and weaves her own cloth.
20 She is generous to the poor and needy.
21 She doesn't worry when it snows, because her family has warm clothing.
22 She makes bedspreads and wears clothes of fine purple linen.
23 Her husband is well known, one of the leading citizens.
24 She makes clothes and belts, and sells them to merchants.

You guys want an independent woman who’s a stay at home mom that earns high income, is not a leech, is ambitious but not too ambitious as to not overshadow you. however must always be available to do all the parenting and catering to your needs.

What you guys want does not exist. Leave women alone.