₦airaland Forum

Raalsalghul:
Everyone's got opinions. You are entitled to yours.

Raalsalghul:
Really?

pocohantas:
You knowwww!

africantycoon:
Even as a rich man i still expect the so called wife to be working....no free lunch....

EzeNdigboONE:
How is this an issue?

WHAT IS THE MINIMUM WAGE THERE ?

Some that earns 10,000 dollars in a month there, which is approximately 7m is the same class as someone who earn 300k here.


Nigerian is blessed with cursed leaders.

CountVersailles:
How in the world did you conclude that "some of you" want to use it to diminsh the process? Don't go off on a limb making assumptions about me, cos I clearly can't see the need for that. You are making it obvious already that you can hardly proceed from a rational perspective with your thoughts.

If anything, the point I made is that the correct attribution to scientific success should be made, not supernatural success. There's nothing to wax spiritual about in a clearly scientific process that took the genius of the doctor and all the healthcare providers involved in the process. Let's make that very clear.

Who cares about busy bodies? And who says they'll never exist regardless what the couples say? Let's what true and right be said about how the babies happened. It was a clear and straightforward IVF procedure, not a miracle!

CountVersailles:
Nobody is saying IVF is a sin. That's not the point. The point is that if it is through IVF, let the world know. Others can benefit from that information. It is not here that people make it seem like IVF is hush hush. It is actually those church couples who do it hush hush and tell nobody. Next thing you see them in church and they start saying it's a miracle. It's not a miracle. It's pure and simple science.

1stGenAmerican:
Japanese guys can be cute and they have good appetites.
I look forward to helping, produce is steep and helping someone grown and save makes me jolly.

1stGenAmerican:
I’m happy that you have such a great friend who helped but I’m so jealous! Your flowers are nothing short of spectacular and look so robust. All
Of them. You have a reason to boast!
I buy marigolds already bloomed yearly and live in a zone conducive to growing them but those guys wither as soon as I place them in the ground.
The Knockout Roses grow well as long as I give them epsom salt but besides those guys, Sunflowers are the only flowers I see success with. I’m a wizard at growing veggies though, especially from scraps so we’ll have to help eachother out.

Mindlog:
That is the socialization that is aimed at sustaining learned hopelessness in women, portraying how terrible it is "outside", that they are better off enduring whatever pain their marriage is causing them.

cococandy:
That’s never the goal or an accomplishment. Why do you people stay obsessed with the marital status of women?

elipheleh:
Sis. If you divorce him. You are now a single mother. And you do not have one iota of idea the things single mothers pass through in this Nigeria plus economy.

Do you wish to remarry?

Will you tell the new man about your new child?

Will you expect him to take care of her or even buy her shishi or house her?

Will he now accept your own baby seeing it's not his responsibility?

Will you hide your baby on first date? Won't that be a betrayal to the new guy too? Exactly how another betrayed you?

Do you have an idea how much baggage single mothers are? Do you know how much men run away from them?

Will you remain single for life?

Will you start begging to come back if things get better for this man. And he now can afford a maid?

Will he accept you?

Will he see you as good wife?

When if you remarry and your new husband hears about the reason you left your first husband. Will he judge you right? Are you a dependable wife? What will he think of you?


IF YOU KNOW WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU JUST PRAY AND CONTINUE PRAYING FOR FINANCIAL SUCCESS IN YOUR HOME. NOT DIVORCE.

Le2money:
never guarantee her of getting a man that will marry her with her pregnancy, or marry her with the child.

loveymom:
Beautiful

Kobojunkie:
You don't know what you are missing at all.

I am also eating now eating thistles among others weeds. Didn't know I could easily forage these from right here on my back lawn for food.
https://morningchores.com/edible-weeds/

wowcatty:
If that child was her own, she won't take care of him or her? It's called selfless service and it's incovenient but rewarding. Have you thought about maybe she is carrying one just like that and God wants to see how she would accept this one and then use that to change it for good in her favor?

kollinz1234:
you are pregnant and you don't know what you will give birth to, yet you want to leave your husband not because he didnt tell you that he had a child out of wedlock but because you can't cope with the child. Karma is a very wicked bitch.
You leave that man's house, don't be surprised at what you will give birth to.

Shallom

Le2money:
U lack knowledge and sense bro. Because the child has one illness now and she wants to go, does it means the child in her womb is purely free? Do to others what u want others to do for you in ur presence and absence. The only thing they are do here is to have the guy's mother to come live with them for her to be assisting. Face your problems and never run away from it ...that's always my blv

1stGenAmerican:
Those roses are beautiful and tasty looking. I only have knockout roses which I don’t think are safe for consumption. Do you know where I can buy a plant of this variety here in the states, please? Is this plant difficult to maintain? I must have one!

etrange:
Houses don't come with washing machines over there?

43Ronin:
Be like the guy just enter yankee. Na mostly stingy & low income earners dey use laundromat wash basic things for yankee. Most people have washing machine, dryer and even dishwasher in their house. OP go still make am with time.

MALIGNANTGuest:
What if I told you that I know 2 MALE Nairalanders whose wives kept such similar information from during dating years yet these Guys didn't serve their treacherous wives QUIT notice...

One confided in me that he had to continue with the marriage after he had realized the woman he married has got a lot of Good tidings to offer & hasn't got much terrible side.

U LADIES always think MEN are perpetually at fault. It can only be a Man or a MAN, nothing else.
MOST MARRIED MEN keep mute in marriages and allow it to ride smoothly not because they haven't gotten a clue of their wife's past or terrible health conditions which arose from previous wayward life styles. It always easier for LADIES to announce their problems to the world through platforms especially when a man is at fault.

I can bet you, IF most married men in Nigeria start opening up, the collapse of Nigeria will only be a child's play to what will befall many homes.

Blessedmercy8:
What's the deceit there?

Ok, agreed the man didn't tell her but did she at anytime ask the man if he had a child somewhere and the man denied it? No! So no case here.

Shes just wants to have her cake and eat it. Shes not willing to sacrifice or support her spouse. The man is also having a hard time and needs her support but no, she's only concerned about herself alone. she's just being self-centered.

There's nothing like deceit. She should learn to ask questions in her dealings with people next time. I guess she got carried away by what she was enjoying then and never bothered to do the needful.

eyinjuege:
I just hope he won't hurt that child.

HRHQueenPhil:
He can't afford 25k for a small girl to help?
Ok, what will make u not to leave?

amorprincesa:
What's the taste like? Zobo?

blessbunmi:
I made another set of banana muffins today. They are so moist, moist all through this time. Thanks so much @Cococandy.

descarado:
So good for the heart.
Looks very colourful

izzou:
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Imagine a country where we have to provide our of means of getting water. Yet, we have a Ministry for Water resources. Every state even has a Water Board.

There are so many useless ones like that too[/color]