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Nigeriafirstlad:
She made herself vulnerable by being an online sensational trashy influencer.
If you are married to white, learn to carry yourself with dignity, elegant and respect and see how racist in-laws will avoid you.

US Vice President a casestudy

Shawl001:
The bitter truth is this,
Racism actually stems from a place of low self esteem, a mind that feels inferior but doesn't want to accept it and puts up a show of "self confidence" called Racism.

I really pity the Whites...and funny enough, most of us wants to be like them; I get it, asides there developed and we'll structured economic systems and all that, (which we can also do better at, if only we desire to); In the true sense, they are actually the inferior race...you see, no one will tell you this. The whites know this, and that's why they use Racism to make the blacks feel inferior.

Don't quote me,
This is the truth and nothing can be done against it, but for it.

pocohantas:
They always try to take swipes at women with rape/molestation. Inadvertently admitting it indeed scars the victims. But when they see real life situations like Baba Ijesha’s case, they claim women overreact. When a lady says she was raped as a child, they say she is lying.

He doesn’t care if I was raped as a child and would offer no closure. He just hoped that was the case, so he can reopen an old wound and hit below the belt. He had it coming…

pocohantas:
Lol. You done vex?
Na you start am na. Oya sorry.

MrBrownJay1:
what law in the US says that your wife can throw you out for no damn reason and make you sleep outside?
stop writing rubbish online!



stop putting the carriage before the horse.... the man broke no law therefore his wife has NO VALID reason to ask him to sleep outside his own home.
stop writing rubbish online!



nobody awarded her the house... thus she has no right to ask him to sleep outside!
stop writing rubbish online!



fair enough, but remember that your kids will learn from your actions...and therefore you must ask yourself: is the the kind of value you wanna teach them. to let yeye people walk all over you because they suddenly lost their goddamn mind?!?



you sir dont know shiit about the world.... get out of Nigeria and live a little, then you will understand that its very easy to film a yeye woman who suddenly lost her goddamn mind! any woman who claims ANYTHING must bring proof to her accusations. if you believe that a woman can claim whatever nonsense and the law just accept it, then you sir are more daft than you sound. it will be YOUR words against HERS...and if you have marks over your body and she has none over hers, then they will believe YOU before her, duh!



you people dont know shiiit about US laws, and are just writing arrant nonsense online!!!!.... no woman can throw her husband out his own house, unless a court orders it, NONE!
stop writing rubbish online!




only a court can ask you to leave your own house....no woman has that power to throw you out your own house, for no damn reason, just because she says so!
stop writing rubbish online!



beating her will surely get him in jail... why would a man do such a foolish thing?! the only way he can beat her is if she attacks him first and he has to defend himself.



just because the aw favours women, doesnt mean a woman can throw you out your own house with no valid reason whatsoever. only a court order can ask you to leave your own house, and certainly not a yeye woman who lost her damn mind.



no cop has the right to escort you out your own house, just because your wife wants you out... there needs to be proof of domestic violence from your part before they would take you to jail.... without a court order, they have NO VALID REASON to ask you to leave your own house.
now, if your wife has a black eye and marks that you beat the hell out of her, then you aint leaving that house, you are GOING TO JAIL...and thats a different matter.... but no wife can get up one morning and decide that you must get out, and police will say you need to go, NONE!!!



what does the above got to do with anything?! unless there is proof of domestic violence, and/or a court order to get you out the house, how is she gonna get you out? by showing her blue eyes or what? what will she even tell the cops in order for them to remotely think of removing you from your own house?!?!? you people are just daft!!!!



i do feel sorry for people like you who know nothing about the west, yet write arrant nonsense online! straight to jail because some yeye woman wants you out and he doesnt want to leave his own house, bwaaaaaaaah! you guys must be comedians!



you are the ignorant one here , who obviously dont know anything abouy US laws, writing arrant nonsense online. a woman has NO RIGHT to demand that you leave your own house, for no damn reason...and even if she has a valid reason, she needs a court order to get you out.
you people should use your damn brain abeg!!!! so you actually believe that a woman gets up today, says you must go sleep in the street (for no damn reason), and the law will agree with her and throw you out your own house?!?!?!?

HERE IS A SIMPLE QUESTION FOR ALL YOU YEYE BRAINLESS IGNORAMUS why is there domestic violence shelters all over the US, if a wife could just call the cops and get her husband out his own house?!?!?!

revolt:
Dude you're talking rubbish. You sound like a bitch. There's one captain on a ship shekina. How come the Latinos and other families still understand this principle in marriage. How come their men still run their families EVEN AS FACTORY WORKERS AND ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS. Is their culture backwards too or ? Ofcos we all know their marriage rates and nuclear family are still miles ahead of blacks. The truth is our girls go abroad and decide to emulate the ratched black community. They wanna ve like black America.

This partnership bs doesn't work ANYWHERE. sadly if the woman becomes the leader she still throws you out.
Your self defense approach is only practical in comics as the man would have to get every video evidence during a scuffle. If he deals her a fatal blow when she rushes to pick up a knife( as that's the number one blackmail weapon they use) he goes to jail.
The truth is .... that message of doing what makes you happy by feminists ... is the most toxic destructive message. Marriage isn't happiness ... its duty to family. Look at where our community is... there is a reason why the nigerians that go abroad succeed.. then when they have kids... the kids become exactly like the black Americans. You know why ? Cos most of their mothers have kicked their husband's out and raised them as single mothers like their role model black American queens. We know how that ends

hammer567:
Cococandy the feminist, what do u have to say now?


If God gave women penis, OMG! cheating would be law like marriage.



Una no get penis but do everything men do and worst.

Teespice:
Spaghetti and peppered chicken.

I didn't make it though.

descarado:
Really, I don't have problem with that at all. Maybe my mouth and teeth has adapted

Heat wave wan kpai us here.

Team nudity. Nobody cares.

Ventura1:
This was the argument I was having with someone, does it mean a wife can unilaterally throw his husband out of a house they jointly own without evidence of physical abuse or divorce? I came back from work, enter my room and she'll just walk up to me and ordered me out and will just obey because its USA, which US law support such action?

hammer567:
SOMETHING TELLS ME COCOCANDY CANNOT TRY THIS.


NA FOR ONLY NAIRALAND HER FEMINISM START AND FINISH.


I PITY ALL THE GIRLS SHE DEY BRAIN WASH FOR HERE.

FiremanX:
I know dat u support dis nonsense,,,,awon online feminist

pocohantas:
You sabi them!

MALIGNANTGuest:
Exactly my Benz but different Color.
GooD Ride with Minimal maintenance especially when purchased new.

GOOD SENSORS....
Sensitive to Rain.. & Tailgating vehicles.

DenreleDave:
Guys, I am not happy writing this....

My question is; why are unmarried ladies wicked and very vile at place of work toward others at work?

There is this lady where I work, she is probably in her 40's or so but the level of her wickedness no be for here.... She is a part of the management staff and they have a group chat on whatsapp where dey communicate with the owner.

Any small thing, she quickly post it on the group chat without informing the manager; who is even her Oga.. She report directly to the owner of the business instead of tell the manager first..... Worse thing be say, the owner no dey understand at all... He could fine you 10k for just a simple instruction.

This wicked lady knows but yet, she doesn't have mercy on the casual staffs... For the simplest thing dt she can call the casual workers and warn them, she reports directly to the owner.... The manager is even complaining about how she skip her to go directly to oga instead of Her. Even th accountant is tired of this lady...

Most people are saying that she is doing it so as to be recognized by our Oga..... I also heard that she was a manager before but she was sacked. And she later came back as part of management staff... I think she is doing this just to be promoted or what sef, I don't know..


This wickedness is too much..... She has reported a married casual staff and I am sure this will be a big matter... The man might be sacked...

Why are unmarried ladies so wicked, annoying and evil like this?.


Guys I feel so bad mehnnnn

loveymom:
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It's a skit, and people are here foaming in the mouth. The man wants to blow on TikTok by force.

Nyascobar1414:
women will always support women..

chiedozie198100:
this has to be a comedy skit..

Bvlgari:
Wife throws her Nigerian husband stuffs out of his own home


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWlylty302k

Nyascobar1414:
Its still you. The man is still going to pay...

The fear of marriage with modern women is the beginning of wisdom.

seanwilliam:
Quick question, let assume she’s born for me,and we divorce and prenuptial agreement is in place and both of us are workin . , who is going to pay the child support ?

descarado:
So today it's my turn eeh

I do make cinnamon rolls babe.
My best snacks is naija plantain chips especially from asiko. And it's now getting lot more expensive these days.

ZIMDRILL:
the story is made up but it hightlights problems that are found in early months/years of marriage

It barely after 3 weeks of marrige, in 3 weeks of marriage hubby would be busy hitting wife's honey pot everyday than worrying about the food in the kitchen

Then on the other side mothers should teach their sons to be patient with their wives on things like cooking and favourite meals etc

ShaqFu:
You don't say. I'm sure you're professor X and you have mental powers for you so posit that nonsense above and still feel good about it.

Oh you make such hasty generalization. I'm sure the black men you've come across are the ones who feel comfortable in wearing G-string and extremely tight Jeans showing their nipples in other to attract their spineless kind.

I'm also sure your idea of a black man rest solely on the mental, damaged and abysmal image of people like Denrele. When next you visit Nigeria, you should visit Africa Shrine and have a little chit chat with Femi Kati, let him tell you one or two things you obviously don't want to know about who and what a man is, that is, an African man.

I don't want you to know, for you to know, not all Africans are born with black skin and not all Africans are ashamed of their skin colour.

The way you generalize calls for concern, it's as if education cringed when it was told it's going to reside in that Woke brain of yours. You and your ilk should be termed the female generals of generalization.

Since you don't know what you're talking about but you like to talk anyway, you should be silent before you make a complete and utter fool of yourself... on second thought, you already did.

Kobojunkie:
Not trying to shake the boat at all... just wondering why a grown arse man, whose own mother supposedly knows how to cook well, was not himself equipped with the same skills growing up.

Also, it wasn't his wife's cooking skills that got him to marry her so why should it ever come up as some sort of deal breaker as far as the marriage is concerned? I think the MIL just wan do busybody. If I was in her shoes, I would leave the boy and girl to solve the problem by themselves. All she has done by this is reveal her son still needs his mother even after supposedly becoming a man. She, the MIL, robbed the couple of a great opportunity to learn what marriage is really about.

Kobojunkie:
So, why didn't this MIL teach her son to cook, to begin with?

I think it is silly to claim the marriage was on the rocks simply because the son's wife can not cook. It is akin to declaring a marriage cannot work because the man cannot fix things around the house.

Grillbar:
It was very obvious to me, but na Mango come scatter table . E don tay way I day nairaland. I have been here long enuff to see how they shade u with this marriage and relocation thing. Different different monickers at different times with plenty stories on top ya head, the funny tin is that they are always monickers with (m) I come day wonda how some men get time to day monitor person life with gossip like this, until I realized it was trolls trolling u.

ShaqFu:
Imagine the folly in the desperate individual's post. "Who made them start bleaching". As if a gun was held to the head of women who bleach. Men won't even look at the faces of women who braid 19 whatever hair style bla bla bla. I believe that individual in question doesn't know what low self esteem is.

The hasty generalization made is way on another level.

Grillbar:
My guy u ain't being honest or living up to your username. As I read your post I been know say na coco.candy u day talk about, b4 mango.liaa call u out.

U don day kwanta with that babe for different treads, no be today. As yawa don gas now, u one pretend say no be her u dey talk, u no make reference to her relocation, u no do this, u no do that. Haba na, be bold enuff to own your shit, na u first poo-poo.