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GloriousGbola:
A real black man right here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X53ZSxkQ3Ho

First of all african women are the original. Let’s get that straight. The characteristics that are demonized in us usually become mainstream when one white girl influencer copies it. Big hips, big lips, mannerisms everything. Research first before speaking on this issue.

As for black women doing all that stuff to themselves to appeal to you, have you asked yourselves why they know that that this is what appeals to you? Because you say it with your mouths and your actions and who you pick.

A girl with kinky Afro hair won’t be your spec but a long haired girl will appeal to you, therefore the Afro girl perms her hair to also appeal to you. No black man who does that should even open his mouth to talk about inferiority complex while exhibiting conquered negro behavior.

GhostWisperer:
it is not self hate that makes black men prefer light skinned or white women.

Check the stats, you're probably trying to be a white woman with your fake hair extensions, bleaching cream and all....plus you spend 6-8 hours every month fixing that same hair and you still can't take it to the pool for a swim.

You still wear hairnet like a surgical patient.

And your parasitic nature doesn't make you a good bed companion either.

Who goes for the copy when the original is within grasp?

Most African girls are just a copy of what they see in the West on TV.

MuslimIgbo:
The guy is the greatest fool alive, just like Will Smith.
Except if he has ulterior motives to get her money, then there is absolutely no reward a man can get from a WHORÈ will public parts that numerous men have pounded.
On a norm, aside PÙSSY women don't offer a lot more in relationship so why should a Sane high value man settle for less, like a used product/leftover?

GOD FORBID!

He has his own history too. So?

Congratulations to them. I feel like they are each other’s last bus stop. Like traveling a long road to finally find the one.

WhisperedNoise:
I am not gay; I do not support gays either. But I am not homophobic. I don't promote their lifestyle but I'll welcome them with open arms and recommend they seek the appropriate treatment or therapy.

That's my same unapologetic stance about the transgender movement, which is funnier.

As for your last statement, I do not understand. Would you care to clarify?

If these “mysterious” Amakas were already homophobic to start with and they travel abroad, wouldn’t it be easier for them to fit in by continuing in their homophobia seeing as half the population is still very homophobic? I mean why would anyone go to any lengths to do something that’s inconvenient when there’s already an easier alternative. It’s not a complex thing to think about.

Oh so you welcome gay people with open arms. But you’re also against their lifestyle.
What do you think those who are not against them do? Do you think we throw gay parties every Saturday to show support? Or force everyone to become gay to show support for the gays that we like?
I want to know what you think is different between you and someone who supposedly supports the gay community.

Because I also welcome them with open arms. A nice person will be treated nicely by me regardless of their sexual orientation. So the difference between you and a not homophobic person is what exactly?

WhisperedNoise:
Are you minding the Amakas of our time? The media portrays homosexuality as something that's accepted by everyone in America meanwhile the reality is far from true. There are many conservationists who do not support homosexuality and transgender.

The Amakas just have low self esteem and want to fit in. You can say NO in a polite manner. Many whites are saying NO and heaven isn't falling.

It’s almost as if you can be homophobic in America as shown by your post. Wonder why you think anyone who’s not homophobic is trying to fit it. When half the population is already that way. Wouldn’t it be easier to just go with what you already are?

I mean…

Hopefully the wheels in your head turn around quickly enough that it makes sense to you while the conversation is still alive.

kayperry:
Ok confession time,@ offense i doubt buh honestly its mindboggling, that despite living in diaspora plus all that exposure that comes with living in a developed country your reasoning and mindset is 2nd to average nigerian gurlz. Smh
sometimes when i see people put you on same mentions as pocohantas, ishilove & mango, i laugh, why?? can a coco give a diverse view

The irony. Is my mindset supposed to be better than the average Nigerian girl because I live abroad?

Is it because…gasp…you think being abroad makes one more exposed? I want to understand the basis of your comment. Do you feel foolish for this comment?

Never mind, I don’t think you have that much introspection.

When y’all expose your foolishness you don’t even seem to know it. Black men who espouse deep self hate in their preference for white/light skin women talking about inferiority complex. Would be amusing if it wasn’t pathetic.

Projection upon projection.

Magnoliaa:
The one I even pointed out was because I know of it and it was glaring. Going through the comments again, against the context of all this back and forth, that Amaka forming woke after migration post might just be another targeted comment.

Maybe that one was for his classmates. Or it was just an innocent harmless comment. Funny.

Magnoliaa:
Abi na.

When you have your opinion, you hate others, you're an hypocrite, you feel people are coming for your life, bla bla bla.

But when they do, it is right and sweet and honest and everything good.

Thank you for being observant and candid.

truthsayer009:
About your opinion on LGBT & Trans people? No, i don't remember that. About the Juju you mentioned, yes i did say that.

You said you never mentioned my relocation whatsoever. That means in any way shape or form. Just on this thread alone, you’ve said it four times that you never spoke about it. Now you’re trying to differentiate under what conditions you did speak about it.

Okay.

But you just swore on your life that you have never made any reference to my opinion as being a result of my relocation?

I wish you long life. Just leave me alone henceforth.

truthsayer009:
1. For point one, yes I remember that. That was clearly about Juju, and I moved on from that conversation agreeing with you that some people don't believe in it whether abroad or Nigeria. It wasn't an attack personally, It was a general trend that I spoke about. It was not an hidden slur to attack you behind your back, I was directly saying it to you as you were on the thread all together, It was a conversation between us and it ended and we move on.

If you have more, refresh my memory. If It was directed at you, I will tell you. I have nothing to hide coco.

I'm not shying away from anything.

I even find it funny that we can talk about trans people being hostile when mr truthspeaker and co cannot fathom someone having an opinion different from theirs. If that’s not hostile I don’t know what is.

Magnoliaa:
Minions? Which minions? You will say something else to start another trouble again and start saying people are coming for you... so Coco has minionS on NL? You go like mention their monikers?

@bolded is quite simple, frankly; the problem here, that is.

Oh, so you do admit that you were referring to her. So what's the bit about "I won't mention their names because I no like wahala?" Including some other exaggerations you were making, plus the ensuing conversation you were having with one guy.

There is a trend this thread is following, and that is that of most here highlighting the extremities of the trans group and then you had to link Coco to that extremity with your comments. That is my point and why I called you out. Who is mad that you that you said she supports LGBTQ? That's not what you said, in pure terms. You exaggerated that support and took it over-the-top - by specifically noting some things about "them":

- People in the Family section
- Aggressive campaign spanning years
- Shallowness that comes from wokeness
- Things they would never allow their kids be (you people sha used to do this all the time. You say people always run with misconceptions about you, but there, up there, she said she has family members who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community, but that one will never do you. That was how Acid was trying to know too if she discusses vasectomy with her husband. You try to pry and when she doesn't give that, you say it is because she wouldn't allow anyone close to her to be any of the things she supports).
- And others things...

Other than Coco, who are the rest of the people that support trans on NL? For years? Just exactly as you have described? Has there ever been a wave of trans mania on this forum?

We never had a conversation where you referred to me as saying you don’t understand people who used to live in Nigeria and suddenly when they traveled abroad they no longer believe in juju?
You don’t remember that?

I had to end up defending myself to you to PROVE to you that I don’t believe it regardless of where I live or moved to? and that’s how that one ended.

You don’t remember another conversation where I had to go dig up my own post years back to show that my beliefs are consistent and you replied “e don tey sha”

You don’t remember that?

Do I count the numerous innuendoes that I ignore when I try to have a conversation with you and you start stylishly talking about “people becoming westernized”.

I don’t know if you take me for an idiot. We are going to be here two years from today and you’ll start your BS again. Then expect me to go find your own posts to refresh your memory

truthsayer009:
I agree it was a side talk & I never denied at all. Every other thing you said about me was a LIE, I have never talked about your migration directly nor indirectly. Never have I also kikiking with anyone in groups trying to attack you. Also never has an organised attack against you. Every time me & you had a debacle, it was me & you alone. Just as we have here.

I am bold enough to accept what I did & what I will never do. I am not a coward trying to lie to over things that was never said & I will die on this hill. I have asked you prove everything you said, at least refresh my memory. You couldn't.

I have said my own, I leave.

I thought it was pretty obvious but apparently not

Magnoliaa:
Yes, of course, I know you are pro-LGBTQ+, and the conversation, for the most part, especially in our side of the world (since you are on Nairaland, you're virtually here with us) has been on gays and lesbians. The trans group were just an unspoken, silent 'party' until recent when one or two news here and there about them started being posted more on the forum.

That was that about it as far as I am concerned. There was nothing like "aggressively campaigning for nonsense trans people for years" as he tried to paint... from any one else or from you. It is usually gays and lesbians that come up in discussions and I have read your views about those. Plenty times...

You do. Shut up and leave me alone. I don’t even reference you directly or indirectly until you start your BS. and I don’t gaf about you not to mention having a sleepless night about who you support or don’t support.

Or better yet quote/mention me boldly next time instead of your useless side talks. Then you won’t be able to pretend innocent when I use those mentions against you.

You said you’ve been ignoring me since January? Give it another 6 months and try again.

truthsayer009:
- You phrased your whole post like I had any personal vendetta against you which was the highlight of your post..

Acidosis:
Well, it's very evident from your responses.

I don't think he meant any harm. Check am well.

You don’t think he meant any harm….to you

truthsayer009:
No, there is no point in running off like a Coward. You claim so many false things about me & a lot of Women on Nairaland run with it including people like Magnoliaa.

1. You said I spoke about your migration, I never did. Never Ever! Not even once. I can swear on my life.
2. That I am always kikiking with people that attack you, I asked you to prove it. You can't.
3. That I made remarks against you indirectly regarding your migration. Please refresh my memories. You don't need to quote it.
4. I asked you to mention names of RedPillers that I often kikiking against you with. You couldn't.

If you are so sure of every thing you accused me of, then refresh my memories.

Na you mention redpillers. Maybe you really do know something I don’t.

I claim so many false things against you? You’re the one telling a bold faced lie and exaggeration right here on this thread yet you want a memory refresh. magnolia called out out on it now you’re claiming I’m the one influencing her? I didn’t even see your post before she saw it for what it was. Called you out on it and that’s when I even saw it. It’s like you need some sleep.

You demand an apology? Don’t make me laugh

Acidosis:
@truthsayer009, baba it's time to withdraw. Cococandy is not in the best mood today.

My mood is the problem here

Not the underhanded behavior your baba is exhibiting

You’d know more about cowardice than I do.

You think because you make side remarks without quoting me, I can’t tell or no one can tell. Or it’s not obvious. Because we are all xtupid right?

Maybe you were banking on not mentioning my moniker so that I can’t quote it and then you can say since you didn’t mention me specifically that gets you off the hook.

Boy bye. Remember if you don’t start drama there will be none.

truthsayer009:
Don't be a coward. Please specify where exact I spoke about your migration. Specify it!!!

If the thread has been deleted, kindly refresh my memories.

Also who are the people I am always kikiking with. Specify them and call their names. Are they the RedPillers on this Family or Romance section.

Please specify their names.

Talk about disingenuousness.
Keep ignoring me like you previously were.
We’ll be fine

truthsayer009:
Okay. But please can you show me one single post where I referred to your migration? Just one. Please, just one!

I have nothing personal with you. You seem to hate everyone who disagrees with you on topics and think they are after your life.

I have nothing against you but disagree with some of your opinions. I am not the devil that wants to make sure you don't succeed.

I believe that I am allowed to disagree with opinions without looking like I am killing anyone. I asked you show to me where I insulted you on this thread but you can't show me anything.

I think the problem is that you think I have a group of RedPill people on NL that we come online together to attack you, because you keep saying my own people are "kikiking". My thoughts are independent, I don't have any alliance with anyone online or offline. I don't have any group of people coming together to come & shade one person.

You already have a biased mindset that there are groups on NL, fighting against each other. Men vs Women etc. Feminist Vs RedPill etc.

People are allowed to have independent mindset to disagree or agree with you. It is not an organised fight.

truthsayer009:
How did I insult you? You have always been in support of this movement & that is exactly what I said until your minions on NL came to fight.
You came online and confirmed it. Trans people being the topic of discussion is why we are having this back & forth.

Was I lying against you? NO. So what is the problem?

I have been ignoring you since the year began for my own sanity. In fact, this is the first time I will refer to you since Janaury that we had that back & forth.

You should have continued ignoring me. Seems like your common sense let you down today.
Keep ignoring me and we’ll have no issues.

Explain how I continuously push for the trans movement? Sure you’re not drunk? Matter of fact don’t explain. Just find a post. The posts must be scattered on NL since I’ve been aggressively pursuing it for years. There has to be one post. Find just one where I’m aggressively pushing everyone to become trans.

If there’s nothing special about it, you wouldn’t be making sly underhanded comments about it. It’s amazing how you’re the victim now. When you were talking nonsense and your own minions were kikiking with it wasn’t an issue. If you’re that pained, come and revoke my citizenship.

If you want to talk about being disingenuous, look in the mirror. You’re one of the most disingenuous beings to ever walk this forum. If I ask you to address people as they want to be addressed. Or if I ask someone to stop calling for violence against LGBTQ folks, me not wanting to transition to a trans man doesn’t make any of those stances invalid. How xtupid are you to think one must want to be in the LGBTQ before they can hold those basic simple and considerate positions?

If you must know, I have a relative who’s a gay man. And two close friends who are gay men. My relative passed away recently from a completely preventable situation that’s directly caused by him being gay in a hostile environment. So my support for the LGBTQ community comes from both a personal and compassionate place. But because you’re an ediot who thinks he knows me, you think it’s a trend that I support because I moved abroad.

If you don’t like drama don’t start nonsense and there’ll be none.

PS what a lukewarm approach to neither support no be against it. You must either think they deserve the right to exist freely or not. Don’t be shy

truthsayer009:
I don't understand how your response has anything to do with my post. Can you please stay on point.

You just like wavulence for no reason whatsoever. My post was super clear.

I explicitly said that I am indifferent about same sex attraction. I don't support it neither do I go against It. So therefore, I don't push for it. Understand now?

I am talking about the fact that you continuously push for this movement including the trans, knowing you have no interest in becoming one, neither would you support your kids to become one which makes you disingenuous. Period!

Also, I never said anything about your migration. What is my business with your migration? Are you the only person that migrated on this forum? You got married and moved to US through your husband, what is so special. Your Post were all over Nairaland years ago and I have never mentioned this before on NL, never ever in my life did i mention this.

truthsayer009:
I don't like wahala because people don't usually argue for clarity online. They argue for argument sake.
I would rather not have the conversation than to have it, because I know it will never yield to anything meaningful so I just avoid it all together.
I agree to disagree and keep it moving.

I am not the only one who laughs at other people's jokes or posts, If it's genuinely funny, I will laugh.

Oh shut your deceitful mouth. If you don’t really like wahala, you wouldn’t be sly and insulting to people who weren’t insulting to you first.

You look for trouble and then try to act like you have sense.

truthsayer009:
The reason is quite simple to fair.

The need for people feeling that they must support every movement pisses me off. Especially when you know deep down within your heart that this doesn't make any sense. You know! We all know

Oh so you ignore the conversation around transsexuality because you don’t want to lose your job. Cool. Can you show me all those multitudes of posts that I’ve made aggressively asking people to go get a sex change? I mean since I’ve been aggressively supporting it for years you should be able to find posts that are not just me telling folks to stop advocating for violence against them. You sound very xtupid in this your reductive reasoning.


Is the Trans movement a different movement from the LGBTQ movement? Are they not the T in the acronym? So you can pick and choose which ones to support? Which is fine I guess. But if you can respect people having sexual attraction to someone their own gender, you can still find a way to respectfully ignore the people they’ve accepted in their community.


For someone who know absolutely nothing about me, except that I wasn’t born in America, you seem to quite often find a way to talk about my migration as if it’s a personal offense to you, time and time again.

You need to figure out what’s going on in your life that has you obsessed about that.

truthsayer009:
Alright Magnoliaa, thanks for you Input. I got your message.

truthsayer009:
Ofcourse na, usually I see people campaigning for this trans thing on NL for years, and I also others asking them if they are trans or if they will allow their kids to be trans. Then they keep ignoring the question like they don't see it. Some people have sworn to always be on the woke side of life. Anything woke, they are ready to support it. Whether it make sense or not.

truthsayer009:
Lmaooo, okay o, but I still know a lot of people who are not gay or who claimed not to be gay , but aggressively supporting this nonsense trans movement on Family section for years. I won't mention anybody's name cause I don't want wahala.

Why does it upset you?

Well to be honest I have been pro LGBTQ for years and because the queer community accepts the trans people, that by extension means my support of them covers the trans people too.

Does that mean that I think trans women ( born men) have an unfair advantage in women sports? It’s a no brainer. And might I add, that I’m vehemently against children and teenagers transitioning in their minor age. I don’t believe they have the full capacity to make such decisions. Like etrange commented, it’s a gray area. You can definitely support freedom of expression, gender identity and sexual orientation without being an extremist. I have friends and family who are in the LGBTQ, so this is not a trend to me.

Do I want people to exist freely and be left alone, yes I do. If they did, this thread wouldn’t exist.


Truthsayer009 has always been an underhanded malicious mischievous person who “doesn’t like wahala” and people like him who also “don’t like wahala” will reply to his posts kikiking even though they are all “peace loving people”. Get it

Some people are xtupid because it’s either their way or no way and you can’t fix that.

Magnoliaa:
Nahhh, dude. You are being mischievous and you know it. Call cococandy's name with your full chest and stop going through corners.

This just tells me all I need to know about whom you are referring to, and not some "people." E say e no want wahala.

Don't worry, I have cleared the way... if she decides to ignore you, then you just may not have the wahala afterall.

Because if you were truly referring to a genuine trend, why won't you mention one or two monikers of people on this FAMILY section that have been supporting trans for years? Even if such people exist, are you insulting or slighting them in anyway? If you mention me as a feminist, purely, I no go get mad. Because na watin I be be that and you are saying it as it is... so why can you not mention the pro-trans peeps for who they are since it is something they take pride in? What is the "wahala" in you mentioning them there?

E even say *aggressively supporting*.

Mtcheeeeww. Come insult me o or come with guns blazing, but if yawa gas, you're welcome in advance. I have done the messenger work you no get the chutzpah to deliver.

etrange:
This is just sarcasm and a campaign against flexible gender identity. But let's talk about it since it's an interesting topic with a lot of gray areas.

There's a difference between race, ethnicity and nationality. Race is about your phenotype or physical appearance (skin color most of the time). Ethnicity is about culture, traditions or heritage. Nationality is the status of belonging to a particular country. Nationality can easily be changed as we all know. Also, you can adopt the ethnicity of where you were born or where you grew up even though you don't typically look like people of that region. If I look white cause my father is white and my mother is mixed (my grandfather is Yoruba), it doesn't stop me from adopting Yoruba as my ethnicity if I identify with thier lifestyle. Race is mostly physical and sometimes, not immediately obvious. When your race isn't immediately obvious (maybe cause you have parents from different races) you can identify as mixed or as your preferred race (though your kids may not necessarily look the part). However, when your 100%, then it'll take some life threatening surgery to change that. Unlike nationality, race shouldn't be restrictive. There shouldn't be anything like "show you're white before you enter here". This implies that you can go about calling yourself any race and that's your business.

This difference between ethnicity and race suggest that our behavior and our looks define two different things. Our behavior is more in tune with our ethnicity while out looks define our race. If this is about her personality, it is her ethnicity that is in contention, not her race. And yes that can be changed as its not restrictive in the US. The characteristics you have as someone from a certain ethnicity are mostly as a result of the culture in which you grew up. There aren't congenital, they are acquired. This is unlike gender which is defined by BOTH physical and behavioral attributes. And again, in the case of gender, these attributes are inborn. Therefore, people who transgender don't do so on the basis of acquired characteristics since those can be changed. Instead, they do so on the basis attributes that weren't learned. Also, gender is restrictive. You can't enter certain places as a man regardless of how you identify yourself. This is why people transgender.

We all know someone or some people who walk, talk, and do everything like a woman even though they are men. Most of these people have been like that since they were born and they can't bring themselves to do anything like men cause thier brains aren't wired that way. We mock them as they struggle to fit in, we stay away from them as we consider them embarrassing. Some of them grow thick skin and move on to achieve something in life. Others become broken beyond repair. When people switch genders, they do it to save themselves and not to please or displease anyone. They do it to have a life. It is a matter of survival. A psychologists can't talk anyone into becoming manly since it's a hormonal thing.

In terms of morality, there's really no difference between enlarging one's breasts, working on nose or hairline, doing anti-aging surgery and doing surgery to alter one's gender. All these alter the features you were born with. You only draw the line where you feel you'd never need to cross, but don't expect others to adopt your line as a standard. If a trans person isn't hurting me, it's not my business to campaign against them.

Happy Sunday!

Well said.

On a side note, I hope feminists can see through the malice of those who hate women’s rights be they on the side of trans men/women or the side of “traditional values”. Misogyny can be found in all those circles.

Because it’s become normal to senselessly regurgitate “if women didn’t ask for rights, maybe LGBTQ people wouldn’t have asked for their too”. We get it. Women are to blame.

They should have accepted the society the way it was

pocohantas:
Such display of low IQ and wanton ignorance!

So she set him up, does it take away anything?

The truth is, majority of you would fail that test, that is why you are having palpitations. You see yourself in Baba Ijesha. Is it not here I see posts on how 13 years old girls love your big dicks? Very disgusting set of humans

Spits on their greasy faces!

They know they are exactly the same. That’s why they cry so much on threads like this. They can empathize with the rapist but not the victim

Cool.
Good luck

Intelligentguy5:
1. I’m not a conceited person in real life atall even though i admit that my post may sound like it.

2. You asked about what’s in it for her? The answer is, Me. I honestly think I’m a big value add. Also, remember i said this isn’t transactional. The ideal person would be someone who had at some point, thought about the exact same thing i posted. The wrong person would be someone that needs any form of convincing.

3. Regarding exclusivity, I honestly don’t care about that.

4. Regarding sex, I’m not even a freak. Chances are that this person would even be the one to initiate as has happened numerously in times past.

5. All of the criteria i listed does not make a person special atall. I regret having to list them but that’s just who i want. You could work the best job or be a millionaire but what makes us all humans is freely given and no one is superior to another.

6. To the guys that sound like I’m asking for the world, I’ve worked in the best companies globally and i can tell you for free that the guys and ladies that work there are regular people. Some even have low self esteem.

7. When i say i need someone that lives on the island, it’s just for proximity sake and nothing else. When i say they have to work a blue chip job, it’s just because I don’t want someone who would attempt to use me as a come up. There’s no ulterior motive

8. I don’t consider sex as a favour that one party does to another

Godoverevery:
Just like I have replied slum dog 1 2 3 before which makes you the 4th one.

It my opinion

Empty.

So just the imagination of such happening to a member of your family is demeaning to you. Now consider what if it actually did happen.
Now place yourself in princess’ shoes because it happened to someone she holds dear.

Can you empathize with her now ? Now that you know the thought of it happening to someone you love makes you angry? Are you able to now see her as human who’s hurting too?

Who am I fooling? There are two types of people in this world. Those who can and those who can’t empathize. I don’t know if it’s genetic or nurtural but it just so happens that the humanity of others outside their circle means nothing.

Godoverevery:
Am sure justwise seun lalasticlala ain't partial or sentimental....like they say he who must come to equity must come with clean hands.

I was asked a ridiculous and demeaning question regarding my family by you.

My family was brought into discuss in which you quoted me unprovoked.

Everyone can see that.

Oh He got upset imagining it was his family. Bunch of empty souls lacking basic empathy. If something isn’t happening to them or their loved ones, they don’t care

begoniaa:
If your sister or your mother was r*ped and defiled, as young as anyone of them were, you would not do more than Princess?

Or if your daughter was the kid in question, you will not be a bitter father seeking for justice?

If na you dem r*pe, you life will continue to remain the same?

Because na ordinary heartbreak from women naim turn you to this bitter being always creating one million threads, now imagine if a group of guys sexually molested you, gangr*ping you, and come back to call your mother bitter if she lays curse on them.