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She’s a witch because?

naija4life247:
No one here supports that useless Ijesha who I believe should have gotten more years imprisonment, but that bitter and frustrated witch should go and sit down and get a life. It's not anybody's fault that her marriage lasted just three weeks. It's also nobody's fault that Baba Ijesha fuccked her, jilted her, and then moved over to fuccked her foster daughter whom she has been pimping for money.

Rape apologists

No consideration for the small girl who’s life was ruined here

shadrach77:
This Princess is an extremely horrible person inside-out. That's why she is being avoided like a leper in the entertainment industry. Here is someone who married and the marriage lasted three weeks!!!

Okay Baba Ijesha misbehaved but why did she have to ruin his life just to pay him back for jilting her?

Then she still had the audacity to come out and start portraying herself like the victim. In a sane environment she would have been behind bars too cause the girl's abuse was due to her negligence/neglect

descarado:
E no give you mouth to talk

He hasn't changed a bit

na to quench remain for me. That looks so good

Tamilore11:
D post wasn’t for u. So sorry

I figured

No worries

Tamilore11:
And who told u dat the ones dat are still barren don’t know that there is IVF? Who told u they don’t know about other options? U think the world is still backwards? Do u know msyb some of them don’t even have wombs again? U think IVF is still a big deal again? Very soon, it will be just a mere option especially for gender selection. Mumu

what are you talking about?

hahn:
Future and fisherman peppersoup(with ngolo, periwinkle, crabs, crayfish and fresh fish)

oh man

Interesting story but post it here

This combination makes the best minestrone. Add a can of diced tomatoes and be sure to season yours well. Not like yt people

eazzzy1:
Lol how did you deduce this from his post? Nairaland is not real life o.

1. If he’s looking for fwb, I doubt body count is a concern to him.

You’d be surprised

2. If I was in a casual relationship, I would want to know if my partner sleeps with other people, that’s material information in deciding whether to strap up or not.

True. But off topic always strap up.

I don’t think he has the power to dictate to such woman what she does or doesn’t.

again you’d be surprised

At worst he would leave.

meaning he would really want all that in exchange for nothing. So that would make me correct

3. Lol she doesn’t necessarily need his respect, she’s there for a good time.

Many relationships like this has led to the real relationship. From his requirements he’s looking for more than just a casual lay. Maybe he’s looking to start slowly.

Respect is foundational. In any kind of relationship. Casual, transactional, intimate, etc. respect should be mutual and is non-negotiable.

He said it himself, not gonna be more than fwb

He is exactly saying that they shouldn’t celebrate. Are we reading the same topic?

His post implies they have done wrong by opting for IVF. Yes I agree that lying about IVF when asked may give the impression that it was some kind of divine miracle when it wasn’t but at the end of the day, it’s not really anyone’s business.

So I’d say no need to lie but also don’t owe people an explanation. They were childless but now they have a child and that’s something to celebrate for anyone who’s been wanting a child.

Kobojunkie:
He isn't saying they shouldn't celebrate but to do honestly revealing the source of their miracle rather than hiding behind God's Name. Remember, even those who are barren were created as such by God. So when you use medical science to get around the way God created you, you ought to be honest about it.

What I think OP is saying is that what these folks do when they supposedly celebrate in the way they do amounts to fraud. Imagine a woman born with no breasts, as in a flat-chested lady, getting artificial implants, and then going on Facebook to announce that God has miraculously given her size 36 DD breasts after many years of being flat-chested, this without revealing how she went under the knife and had to pay lots for them. That na fraud naw! .

He insulted them by saying they are still barren and their child was gotten from an unnatural way. And his tone was as if they are doing something wrong
Not the same thing.

Karleb:
I don’t understand how a lot of people are angry on this thread.

The guy didn't say they shouldn't thank God but he is saying they should at least mention that they did IVF and maybe credit their doctor.


When people undergo CS, they tell us how God made it successful but when it's IVF, they keep mum.

Haba, this is fraud now. Besides, there are a lot of people in their position who would think God answered their prayers without IVF.

Those people would be praying without working (IVF), which is dead according to the Bible.

Ishilove:
My guess is it will be just for the nacks alone. She is free to distribute the punny to whoever, but when it is his turn, she must submit it .

You’d be surprised.

Let’s what for him to answer first.

eazzzy1:
It’s not what you seek, it’s from where you seek and how you seek.

The kind of woman you described are big consumers of the casual relationship market. Many of them are single and for obvious reasons; she’s too busy to hold a meaningful relationship, she’s too selective of the kind of people she dates, she’s unlucky in love as her success repels some men, she’s comfortable and does not need any relationship drama. With all these she’s still human and has sexual needs and she would have them met.

Nairaland is a wrong place to seek something like this, not because they don’t exist here but it’s an anonymous platform for a reason. You could put them on blast in future over a disagreement.

You would have more success with what you seek if you asked for friendship, when they see ‘how you roll’ the benefits portion would work itself out. When girls want such relationships they just sleep with their friends or their exes, they are usually not looking for someone new for that purpose, if it happens with a new guy it’s usually spontaneous.

Your requirements for just knacks are a little over the top though, are you seeking a potential relationship but aren’t ready to be serious right now? why do you require intelligence for knacks?

@ bold, it may sound that way on paper.
But when and if OP meets the person who fits the bill, she won’t be qualified because

1)sHe doEsn’t hAve LOw boDy Count (insert clown emoji).
2) He will want her to not have any sexual interactions with other men but him. Yet he feels going into a committee relationship is too much.
3)Even with all the intelligence he requires, he still won’t respect her

Ishilove:
Lol. Abi na. 'Okay' is the best answer

You know OP is most likely expecting exclusivity from this person that he couldn’t be bothered to commit to. Unless I’m making the wrong assumptions here.

OP correct me if I’m wrong.
Is this lady allowed to be intimate with anyone else but you?

eazzzy1:
He’s seeking someone who’s like minded, she gets to be in the kind of relationship she wants. Just like in traditional relationships where two people want to date and then date!

Okay

Acidosis:
..and friendship

Friendship is way too deep for what he described lol

Ishilove:
People have done stranger things for preek and punny

heck don’t I know it.

I’m not even judging cos

Intelligentguy5:
I AM what i seek.

you may think that makes sense but it doesn’t.
Because even if the qualities you described applies to you, doesn’t mean that a woman who it applies to will want to have sex with you just because you said so.

Same with a lady. Even if she has a million qualities m and decides she just wants a man with same million qualities to play around with, she can’t be conceited enough to think they’ll come running.

Again I ask. What’s she’s getting from it? If you are what you seek, that means she already has all those things you have. So then your sex without commitment is the prize?

All this requirement to get what in return?

Your peniis?

Intelligentguy5:
Hi guys. So i find that these days, approaching women physically seem like a lot of work for me. It’s just not as much fun like the old days anymore. Kindly see my requirements below for a friend with benefits.

1. Should live on the island. Preferably, VI, Lekki, Ikoyi or real close.

2. Must speak and write really well. This one is non negotiable.

3. Should work a corporate job and preferably in a multinational. Preference would be consulting e.g Mckinsey and co or a blue chip firm. The reason for this is because of their rigorous recruitment process which would give me comfort that I’m dealing with an intelligent person.

I don’t want to be with just anybody and I’m not asking for what I’m not either.

4. Pretty or atleast easy on the eyes. I’m big on aesthetic appeal but I’m not a fan of excessive make-up.

5. Prostitutes should please keep off. I have no interest in a paid sex scenario.

6. Has a right to decline the request after physical meeting. I also reserve the right to do so albeit with respectful explanations and not via ghosting.

7. A relationship is not in contemplation.

8. It is not a sex for cash engagement. It’s strictly friendship and consensual sex. I’m not ruling out the possibility for favors in cash and kind anyway. I believe people should be supportive of each other.

Kindly send me an email via if interested. Intelligentguy55@gmail.com

He always talks off point and accuses me of things I never said . When have I ever said America is a model place?

GloriousGbola:
cococandy wey never like elon musk before

i am also not sure what s point you are trying to make here - as there are enough stories of the same nonsense happening in nigeria - with actual father and daughter

where sex is concerned there is no moral high horse for Nigerians

And they won’t stop telling long unnecessary stories to justify the nonsense

GloriousGbola:
Shhh. No be so one naija guy dey post on NL from inside texas jail last year. That one too was claiming he was set up.

My bil was around saw me on NL and asked if I knew about that story. Apparently it was a very well known story in the naija community over there.

The truly terrible thing about so many Nigerians is they literally have no moral compass whatsoever. In spite of all the fake religiosity. That is what is playing out.

Yes incest is disgusting. And America isn’t a model place. I don’t know who said it was.

My America? I’m not like you. High on cultural bullshiet to call out nonsense when it’s in your face.

hammer567:
THIS IS FOR YOU, WHAT DO THINK?

ANA EGBU ACHARA, O NA ETO


THIS IS YOUR AMERICA ooOO


ABOMINATION, STEP DAUGHTER IS YOUR BLOOD. INCEST!


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/7/elon-musks-father-errol-musk-welcomes-secret-second-child-with-his-stepdaughter.html

abbey621:
If there's anything I've said that the law does not support please let me know, we are all here to learn.....

The law does not supporting excusing child sexual assault because you think you were set up. When they didn’t drug you and out your hands inside the kid’s underwear. The law doesn’t support or excuse that.

Tell me how the law will look at you and say okay go it’s not your fault. The child was used to tempt you. Very logical. Not

Entrapment doesn’t include such scenarios.

abbey621:
There are laws against entrapment and forced confessions. When you remove sentiments and focus on what the law allows and does not allow, good lawyers will find the loopholes. Remember the law does not really care if you're guilty or innocent, all that matters is what can be proven.

you’re the one full of sentiments.

And narrating his relationship with princess is supposed to do what? Prove that he didn’t touch that small girl?
The way some of you keep harping on his relationship with princess is proof that you don’t mean well for the women in your lives. Because having a relationship with anyone isn’t supposed to turn them against you. Except some of you know that you were and have been deplorable to your better halves and you think it’s the same for everyone.

Their relationship means nothing in the face of child sexual assault

Omihanifa:
All I can say regarding this matter is that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
No one is as angry as a woman who has been romantically rejected,used,or betrayed.

Princess clearly plotted the downfall of baba ijesha simply because they fell apart. Ordinarily this matter shouldn’t have gotten this bad. After all from the cctv footage that we all saw, no be today that girl and baba ijesha begin do under G.

One thing I don’t like about nollywood especially the Yoruba section is that they are not United and they don’t like each other. When this matter first broke out they are suppose to summon that princess and plead with her to withdraw the case and settle it in house. But look at the way they messed up one of their own.

From the beginning of this case till the end one doesn’t even need a magician to know that baba ijesha was dealing with powerful forces that were hell bent on disgracing him. Look at the day they first brought him to court. See the way iyabo ojo carry the matter for head like say nah she be princess. She even threatened to kill baba ijesha if the police eventually released him. She was all over the internet add more fire to the situation. Even esabod too came online and said baba ijesha came to London and almost raped her some years ago.

In all of this I blame baba ijesha for being too cold. The time he was granted bail last year, he should have gone to media houses and narrate his own side of the story. Especially his relationship with princess.

MacANDIES:
Why are you always bitter? Loosen up life's not that hard.
In 70years time most of us won't be here.

how’s she bitter?

Yet we are the illogical ones.

That’s how one mumu yesterday was arguing about how the doctor who raped his patient victim on camera was being set up. He was actually demanding more proof. I never see this kind thing before

pocohantas:
Women are guilty too, BUT you don’t see women going about saying young boys love elderly kpekus. You don’t see women going about saying young boys of 8 love toto. You don’t see women protesting for the release of a pedophile.

Women are never that subjective or stupid.

That is the difference.

hammer567:
AFRICA TRADITION FROM TIME IMMEMORIAL HAS ALWAYS SHOWN RESTRAINT FOR SEXUAL INDISCRETION, EVEN WHILST CONDEMING THE ACT AND DISPENSING PUNISHMENT.



WE WILL MAINTAIN OUR AFRICAN VALUES EVEN IN THE FACE OF WESTERN INTRUSION.

only you knows what you’re talking about right now.
Because I fail to see what African values have to do with a man like baba ijesha frolicking around the underwear of a child.

Ha gi aru ala, ha si na obu african values. Your values condone men defiling children. Azi gbakwa ihe ojo

You won’t see women making light of sexual assault committed by older women on young boys.

You won’t see us calling the victim a liar. Or saying she was set up. Or any of the justifications and victim blame that happens when a girl is molested by a man

hammer567:
AS IF WOMEN DONT RAPE OR COMMIT SEXUAL CRIMES.



DO U NEED ME TO TELL YOU OF FEMALE MOLESTERS OF LITTLE GIRLS AND LITTLE BOYS?



OR U THINK KONJI IS JUST A MALE THING? IGNORANCE!


TAKE IT EASY, THIS THING YOU ARE ASKING FOR, GOES BOTH WAYS AND IF WE BRING DOWN THE HAMMER, YOU WILL BEG FOR RESTRAINT, LIKE YOU DO ON JUNGLE JUSTICE BUT IT WILL BE TOO LATE.

It’s appalling. We are not people to them. Worth even less than a phone or a torn 500 naira.

Sometimes I ginger finish then I remember some are not like that and I cool down small. But in general it’s heart breaking.

pocohantas:
Don’t mind the dolt. They can kill someone for stealing Tecno phone, but once it is rape, all manner of deflection would come up. They always find a way to trivialise crimes against women.

They should be visiting him in prison with party jollof and ogufe. Since they like him so much.

Because men like this choose to be oblivious to the trauma of sexual assault.

Femi8586:
A male judge wouldn't have sentenced him that much. Na female judges fit do that kine thing.

Even those who committed more serious offence in this country weren't given such long years. He was unlucky to have a female judge pass sentence on him.

I don't support his act though but I wonder if such treatment and lengthy years would be given if the offender was a female.