₦airaland Forum

Hangulsaram:
Sis. You are right to some extent but I believe you did not read through the posts on Twitter. Please read one of post that I attach below

DrFunmisticGlow:
This is so true.

My eyes have been traumatised by diseased pricked of all ages, shapes and sizes.

The horror!!

I remember escaping from urology posting because of it during housejob, changing nothing less than 100 urinary catheters weekly
The chronic smell of urine and discharge. To add insult to injury the men will still be making passes at you. Mtcheeeeeeeeeew!!

Then that case of Fournier's gangrene that kept maltreating his wife and making passes at every nurse and female doctor that passed by or saw any patient near him.

Carot:
maggots

Carot:
this is fabulous

Kriss216:
It's okay. I apologize on her behalf, please.

Mariangeles:
Trust me when I say that that clear message was for whom it may concern.
The person(s) know themselves.
It is something that has come to my attention not once, not twice, not three times…
When events keep repeating themselves and coming to your attention, it is no longer a coincidence.

I don’t want all those former dramas of old to repeat themselves, so it’s me just being careful and protective of myself.
It is not too much to ask.

Kriss216:
You're wrong, Mariah. She wasn't referring to you. Telling her to unfollow you is childish and uncalled for. Calm down abeg

Mariangeles:
No offense, but I just like being true to myself, and asking you to unfollow me felt like the right thing to do.
Thank you.


That comment was to whom it may concern.
They know themselves.

Mariangeles:
I want to ask that you unfollow me just like I did you a long while ago.

Thank you for your understanding.

ibechris:
Madam u see this fight is worth every stress.

Every married woman should fight for what belongs to them. Because this kind of woman is ready to tear your home apart and can do any thing possible to destroy good families out there.

As far as u are not ready to fight the lady,it is very good u fight to get your husband back,because as it is,your husband is about crossing to the other side. And do not also forget,that some of these ladies usually charmed married men and after which u see such men behaving like mumu and spending their life savings on such a LovePeddler.

Continue the fight after all,if anything happens to him tomorrow,people will not speak well of u. Now is the time to get your husband and his senses to order.

Good luck to u.

Mvena:
This rice na concoction rice wey go Harvard

aboyaji:
Ihe a o bughi rice mmanu nri mmiri kariri Ka ha na-akpo primo piatto?

When I prepared such mistakenly in my place, I tell myself I've fvcked up. That's what we're glorifying here now?

Simran94:
Lol so if women are naturally created to depend on men, why are you men complaining about spending money on women? Why are you men always complaining that women don’t want to contribute financially to the household?

LOL, make una no confuse una self abeg

Nemesis0147:
please ma

Be including your recipe please

LordIsaac:
There's no justification for rape. However, it has so many causative factors (a basic undergraduate course in the social sciences will teach you that social problems have myriad causative factors). One of the factors of rape, as researched by scholars (including Menachem Amir in his Victim precipitation theory) posits that, indecent dressing can result to rape. It is a well documented study in Criminology, irrespective of your inclinations or biases.

Nyascobar1414:
The said girl will 4ever love d!ck for the rest of her life.

MrBrownJay1:
who is blaming the kid?! i am blaming the parents for not educating their chldren properly, thus thats why some demons can easily entice/attack them. whats next? you will be blaming the electric company because you didnt educate your children about the dangers of the power socket?!?!? or better yet, blame the fire because you didnt educate your children on staying away from any flames, abi?!?!?

there is just as much dangers IN your house as outside.... failing to educate your children will result in sorrow!

Bmaster:
My mind is telling me that the girl's age is reduced just gather empathy.

MrBrownJay1:
at 5 yr old, your child should know to be very careful of strangers and to stay away from them and to let nobody touch them.... my kids knew that by the time they were 3yr old (let alone at 5yr)

EDUCATE YOUR KIDS AND THE ABOVE MADNESS WONT HAPPEN!

WoundedLamb:
How will the apologists defend this one?

Munzy14:
It is a case of speak up or forever hold it down to 6ft below..

Go and tell him to work on the communication gap between him and his wife...The gap is extremely wide that is why he doesnt know what his wife earns and probably doesn't know how much she contributes to the upkeep as well..

He should get her in her happy mood and then have a heart to heart talk with her...Discuss and plan well on finance and future plans...Goals and ambitions..Not just enter room bathe, chop, wake woman up by night and have sex couple...

They need to discuss finance since both earns...And in finance, how you spend it is the koko, not how much you earn.

With what I read here, the man no get retirement plans...And the earlier he bridges that communication gap, the better...If not the wife will deviate..Thats if she hasn't

Soon na roit act she will begin to read out..And if he objects, she will frustrate him... Under the usual statement " Di gbakwa oku"(husband my foot)

He should go and effect communication with his wife jaree...No be to they shift her draws and impregnate her...Couples must be 1 and on the same page..Two will work fine if they agree...

Mercychen:
I wonder why you're holding brief for the said woman even when you haven't heard her side of the story.

Anyways, whatever!

MNDY:
I checked your profile. You joined NL newly. I've seen you tackling men on virtually every thread. You are making a terrible mistake.

This place, we go drive you into depression in no distant time. You think you can stand up and defend what you consider women bashing on here. Many have tried what you are doing now and have regretted it.

You were not informed. This place go teach you bitter lesson very soon. You will shut up very soon.

Mercychen:
It's not a matter of being new or old here. Nairaland apart, these things happen and some of these stories are true.

Mercychen:

You think the man would waste his time and come out to say this if she's really contributing?

The reason I even reacted angrily to this story is because I've seen a couple of women behaving like the ops wife.. so it's not just because of this I'm reacting.

I Know of a woman whom the husband caters for virtuely all the expenses in the home but common soap to bathe and do laundry, she'll send the children to go meet their dad and she has a biz. All she does with her money is buy bleaching cream of different strengths while she keeps taxing the man for everything until the man revolted and started refusing to do some things. He told her, so your own money is to buy cream while mine is for upkeep and family expenses. They had a huge quarrel that I could hear everything because their BQ was directly behind my window.

This particular day, the children were sick and she just kept disturbing the man to bring money for medicine. He told her already he doesn't have for now. That same evening a lady brought bleaching cream for sell, this woman quickly rushed to buy. As she was still buying, the husband walked in on her. That was when he voiced out and they had that quarrel. That was not even the first or second time. So, there are women like that.

ibechris:
This is the reason why many young and smart naira landers hate Nigerian women.

What then is marriage if u can't contribute to the home where u swore to be with your husband in good times and in sickness.

Truly, many men are suffering and smiling. After using your entire salary to salvage a home without wife's cooperation,is sickening. This is typical example of monkey dey work and baboon dey chop"

Just to buttress further,u married a wicked woman that only sees u "as work and die man"

My Advice is:
The entire income of your household should be restructured such that she has to make her contributions and compulsory at that. As a family,u need to save some cash for the future and for the future of your kids else,if another kind of Buhari should become president,many families would be in chaos.
Report this matter to your in laws and those who care to hear u and let this nonsense be stopped. The earlier u do this the better.

Mercychen:
Some women are senseless and heartless.

I wonder how some women reason. You created a family with someone and you're now trying to shy away from your own responsibilities. I don't get it!

All this kind story dey turn my belle.

If you know you're not ready to cater for someone other than yourself, don't get married or bring children into this world and start looking for whom to push your responsibilities to.

A lot of women just go into marriage and start birthing children like a pig with no single plan in place for them. And you the man will not discuss this when you guys are dating. Everybody just throws away their thinking cap ( during courtship) until after marriage and multiple children have been birthed before they start running about like headless chicken, dodging responsibilities.

What will it cost her to take up the responsibility of making their hair if truly she makes that kind of money from her biz?

Op, tell your friend to sit her down and let them spell out each others financial responsibilities to themselves in the home. They both own the home therefore should share the responsibilities. If she's not down with it, then she's not ready to raise a family with him. let him look for a willing partner. Or what does she think the word "partner" in marriage means? it's only sexual partner they understand but are dumb to other partnership in marriage.

pocohantas:
I stopped having some silly arguments online because I realized they are not arguments I have in my own relationship, given that we are two sensible and altruistic humans. Arguments like, who will wash the plate, cook, sweep, bathe kids or pay for this and that. If two sensible and loving humans come together, it is only normal that they do things as they arise, to make life easy for themselves and their spouses.

On the flip side, I sometimes understand the selfishness of Nigerian women. In reality, nothing a Nigerian man owns is for him and his wife. It only appears that way for as long as you cater to his whims and caprices. Even Atiku with all his legitimate and stolen wealth couldn’t give up a single house for his ex-wife and mother of three kids. Nigerian men are inherently callous and their women match them in this. We are made for each other and my only prayer is that nature would find a way to align wicked people to themselves.

BRATISLAVA:
Lol.

Polygamists are outraged. Means multiple spouses isn't good after all.