₦airaland Forum

I wanted to say they were making sense until I saw the ending. Bigots. Nothing to see there. However, it’s good that everyone is tired of the mess, let peace reign.

Klass99:
trust busy-body people with their oversabi to say things like - you will never be happy without a child of your own as a woman, your children will make you happy when you look at them, who will take care of you in old age and more.....

She probably caved under the pressure to do what others thought was right or best for her (like Alo 59, the last woman in the article) only to end up not liking the results..

That’s like a large percentage of the population. Lots of us do things cause we are expected to.

Liposure:
exquisite

thanks

starbuck:
Please can i use this grill pan on a gas cooker as I have no option for coal in my house

I don’t see why not. Except if it’s a single burner kind of gas cooker in which case you can still use it but carefully. Just because that grill pan can be quite heavy and you don’t want to hurt yourself accidentally.

Klass99:
Lol , I like your energy when it comes to tackling some fools on matters like these.

it’s hard to be nice to these kinds of folks. I try honestly. That’s my best possible polite energy. Thank you

Food

Hathor5:
Interesting read but sad all of them have so many regrets.

I’m very glad to be in a position where I can still learn and not make the same mistakes. I Would hate to have regrets concerning how good or not I was to my kids when I get old.

. Loveth, 54
I have three children, and parenting is very difficult. If I was to do parenting all over, I’d marry a very rich husband so that we can hire plenty maids and helps to do the parenting while I spend all my time traveling and touring the world.

On point with the traveling and touring but don’t let the maids raise the kids ma’am.

I feel sad for her. There are some things you can’t do over and some of them are the kids’ tender years. I hope they understand and forgive her

4. Toun, 56
There’s lot of things I would do differently if I had the chance to start parenting afresh.
First of all, I would marry a different husband that would join me in raising godly children early enough, and not one that counteracts my upright upbringing with subtle criticisms and displays that a laissez-faire life is superior.

Then, I would honour my children more by protecting them from an overdose of respect and service to domineering inlaws who claim some kind of lordship over them. I would no longer be stupid to allow the traditional culture of “we must train them together” to affect my parenting. In my experience, these people shielded their children, while “training” my own. I was too stupid, looking on and letting uncles and aunties turn my children to errand boys and girls, letting my children sleep on the cold floor while they took over their beds, and allowing them to eat the best part of the meals, all in the name of family, love, warmth, and hospitality. These people lived with me. I sent them to school.

When it was their turn to receive me, they treated me like trash. I couldn’t even send any of their children to get me a glass of water. It made me feel stupid because I could have lived a nice, simple life with my children and they would have enjoyed me better, but I decided to be Mother Christmas and spend all my time and energy on people who didn’t do the same for me.

Then lastly, I would spend more time with my children. I would play with them. Now that they are grown, I really miss them. There was a saying that was popular when I was growing up “Ọmọ tó bá da ni ti bàbá ẹ, ọmọ burúkú, màmá ẹ ló fà” (When a child turns out good, he’s his father’s child, but when he turns out bad, it’s the mother’s fault). I raised my children with anxiety because I didn’t want to be the reason they didn’t turn out well. So I was very strict. It didn’t help that my husband was nonchalant in parenting, so I had to take up training and discipline both as a mother and a father.

8 people at once?

gentleibraheem:
But Under 18 Premarital Sex is encouraged abi

no it’s not. Can y’all stop being smart by half?

P1PrinceKT:
Yes sir.

Your sister lost her viginity at that age by her uncle.

you shouldn’t exist. Pedophile

He’s lucky he has the means to clear his name. Many of them don’t.

P1PrinceKT:
Underage for women in Islam is before they started to experience menstruation.

The word underged (<18) was invented by infidels Don't confused your self.

Some children get their periods at 10-11. So if they leave you , you will sleep with an 11 year old?

compton11:
Arindin

Why can't u talk about under 18 children fucking out of marriage

That’s wrong and the people who do it to them are also rapists? Your point?

Splitmind:
This is oppression of the Northern and Islamic culture. We believe parents should decide who gets married and not the carnal cravings of the flesh. Best to do it early instead of later.

God bless Nigeria

If culture abuses children, then it should be scrapped.
If your culture encourages the rape of children with the blessing of their families, eliminating such practices is not oppression to you. Can’t believe you feel oppressed for not being allowed to rape children

P1PrinceKT:
What of underaged (18) prostitution and abortions.

Useless less proposal by useless set of people.

Yes anyone who engages a child in sex , forces the into prostitution and eventually causing them to need abortions is an evil person. I’m sure it’s banned in Nigeria. Except men like you don’t want to hear it.

Even if girls below 18 are having sex, it’s not reason to force them to marry at that age. One bad thing doesn’t necessitate another.

BTW Why are you old men obsessed with children’s bodies? It’s disgusting. Women are not created for you to police or harvest like crops. Shut up and get out

JIBO4REAL:
I don’t know why Nigerian bring bigotry into everything why would you call 18years children underage, what you are trying to say now is that people should start having abortions, sex.... up and down, Must you condemn everything Muslims are doing, what gain are you gonna have there, if you know your children shouldn’t marry @18 doesn’t mean others shouldn’t let your children have like four abortion if that is what you want...before marriage
If you must say something you would have said government should ban underage sex, boy friend and girl friend and the likes... We're good at deceiving ourselves in Nigeria. Most girls who are even below the age of 15years old have been doing wrongful things more than those in marriage . Underage sex should be discouraged first before talking about under 18 marriages.

Jesuschristus:
Is that the problem of Nigeria.Most women lose virginity from age 13 or even lower,its okay for them to have sex with numerous abortions, but forbidden to get married,hypocrisy.To the guy below me,if u respect your own mother u won't come online to insult other peoples mothers ,especially when they did absolutely nothing wrong

This is a stupid justification from you and the 26 child rapists that liked your post

Yet people argue when we say marriage can be limiting to women.
Would y’all be saying this to her husband?

Bola146:
Photography is a good work but it requires much time and effort, I would not advise a woman to go deeply into it unless your husband is understanding man that knows what it's takes. You will have to travel, be in the studio almost all the day, etc. I'll just advise you to go for foodstuffs business, you will have enough time for yourself and the family. Good luck

Prettyclown:
Sis, it foodstuff business
At least, u will av enough time for yourself and family and trust me, considering the country's economic nah food business nah im pay pass

You get husband and child... How do you intend to cope with your family responsibilities when you know that photography is not a stationary thing to do.

I'll advised you give up that dream of becoming a photographer

Smh. That’s all

mariahAngel:
Who if not grandmothers?

My grandmother taught me how to eat them also.

God bless our grannies

mariahAngel:
You know them?

It took me a while to like them.

from my grandmother. Yes. She used to farm them. I’ve never seen them anywhere else.

LordReed:
Cheese and bacon omelette? So decadent, me likey!

Chicken breast and ham. Thanks

mariahAngel:
Are those ona?

I never liked them at first because of its unusual taste, then I got used to the taste and loved it. Especially with fresh palm oil.

they are so good

GboyegaD:
The searing on the scallops looks great.

Thanks

PDPGuy:
Very apt

I’ve heard so much about them, I won’t risk it. Not even for their “$100” world tour round trip tickets

Debalanza:
Thanks,I have to try it sometime

you’ll like it

Shedrach00:
Don't mind cococandy.. she's a "ChefCook"
Tho it's not official yet

chefcook

Mstravelindiva:
The airlines that I absolutely will not fly is, Spirit Airlines, period! They have very poor customer service and as such, I opt not to fly them.

Only fly Spirit if you’re trying to become a spirit yourself

United charged me $200 extra for luggage slightly (And I mean slightly) overweight. I was at the front of the luggage check line after having waited for so long. Boarding time literally minutes away. So I didn’t have the time to rearrange my stuff to see I could avoid the fee.

Never again. Fvck them.

BTW Emirates’ business class is like United’s first class. Shitty people.

Creamy scallops for dinner