₦airaland Forum

You guys can own the house together and pay bills together. Many people do it and it works.

Logobenzz:
who owns the house?
Who pays the bills?
Only if she provides and do all those,then I will cook and do chores.
Else,I won't!

What if she makes her own money too?

Logobenzz:
Only a poor man will cook for the wife.simple!
I want see I go visiting and see one of my brothers in the kitchen.
God knows I will be pissed.
How I go buy house with my money,run the house and take care of all real bills then come back home to cook?
E no go funny for the woman weh go tell me that BS o!

Did he tell you she demanded money from him?

PUSSYHOE:
if he doesn't why do ladies demand for money in relationship?

Oh great. Now be careful henceforth

Jonscotin:
God has embarrassed with Blessings this past week. I wrote this post to make God to notice my predicament. And God has proven Himself. He has done so many things for me and He will still do more. Brethens, God is real and ever faithful. I can testify enough of his Goodness in my life. I promise never to go back to my immoral habit that have been with me since my nysc days in 2010.

How do you have money to give away but no savings? That’s not wise.
I’m not judging you right now but saying for the future because I know that you will rise again. When you do, please be more pragmatic about how you do charity.

Jonscotin:
I struggle to make ends meet every time. When others are lucky, I struggle even when I put in my best. Right from childhood. Am really depressed. I have made millions of naira but all always end up in people's hand. In 2014 I gave a family friend 1.14m for his co-operative society after preaching how I will be getting interest from it. Till now, he ran out of town. In 2015, I gave my neighbour 1m since they were struggling and wanted to change business and I wanted to help out. That one is stuck and and they haven't been able to pay back. With so many other little sums ranging from 200k to 15k that I have used to help people and they end up not paying me back. I am the type of person that hardly say no to people after much persuasion. I don't know why am this soft....
This year, just a month after my wedding, I have been making wrong choices. I borrowed someone 350k to give me back last month ending and he hasn't given me back. I initially refused giving him but he was calling and begging for one week, saying it won't get up to last month ending, he will give me back the money, well today is 10th and he is not picking my calls.
My business has been down of late cos of too many competitions and the people selling fakes are been patronized more then me cos I usually stick to originals. I had to put my only car for sale and I gave it to a friend to help me to sell it. Now the car just got got burnt after we just saw a buyer that was ready to pay this next day.
Am confused, why is all this happening to me. Am now a laughing stock among my classmates and coursesmates cos I was among the top in secondary school then but I wasn't lucky to study a good course. The only lucky things I have now are my wife, mother and brother. But am depressed now esp over the burnt car and no money again. I can't stand this shame. I feel like am losing it now

No he doesn’t

PUSSYHOE:
but he owes her money

GuestLog:
The girl loves you. The mother cares for you. I'm sure they need nothing more from you than the happiness of their daughter. If you lose this love from the family, you will regret it a few years later. You are looking for a woman who won't add benefit to your life abi? Good luck looking for job in Nigeria.

This is a good perspective

Do you have an alternative

It’s very filling too.

MsBella:
This looks really good. I have used coconut milk to make moi moi. I will keep the evaporated milk in mind next time I make moi moi.

But she doesn’t owe you sex. Remember that

here’s the recipe I used.

I’m sure it will be just as good if not better.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4BrCeD-prU

Her name is Nancy umeh

theButterfly:
I don't think mine will be as nice as Cococandy's moin moin, but if you can manage I'll DHL you some.

I served it with coleslaw.

The only thing missing is jollof rice. .

The recipe I used from YouTube calls for some evaporated milk and ground beef(I used regular Walmart full cream milk). The milk apparently helps the consistency to be creamy. It worked out and doesn’t affect the taste. Just a little, not too much milk.

loveymom:
You even try, just the right consistency I like my moi moi, now I want some
Welldone

Are you skilled at the banana leaf method?

I didn’t find many YouTube tutorials for banana leaf. Just the other one.

theButterfly:
The moin moin looks yum. I always make mine using aluminium foil. Idk where to buy banana leafs from but I'll have to find out

Moi moi. Semi failed attempt at using banana leaf.

Had to put some of it in foil after wasting some. The banana method is definitely harder than using regular moi moi leaf.

Cc loveymom

It was tasty.

Let the most hungry person cook