₦airaland Forum

VirginSearcher:
You are not well, did I tell u I slept with anybody?

Christophorus:
After suicide, I think rape wants to take dominance in the Nigerian sphere.

What a country

addicted268:
Ayam not understanding. Where's the sexy?

VirginSearcher:
You won't marry her but you opened her legs and f.vcked the hell out of her, she became pregnant.. who are you leaving a condemned used material for? stupid people everywhere.. I have said it, if not a virgin I'm not marrying especially in Naija

sirdouglas:
In as much as you are trying to be mean. I understand your point. For the record, I am not a boy. I will appreciate if you address me with more respect.

Marrying her will not be such a bad idea but we may not enjoy the marriage. Especially her. She has said it over time that she knows that I don't love her. In as much as that is not entirely true, it is not far from it. She doesn't fit my profile for a wife and that is why I have been trying to end the relationship.

If this is coming from a woman I will understand but coming from a guy makes me want to ask you how old you are . Sorry but that's so insensitive of you and immature.

I never meant ill for her and I have been as reasonable and honest I can be with the situation. Judging me won't solve the problem.
What about a girl that a guy rejected for good three times and told her that he doesn't like her for marriage and she is still insisting and keep coming back? It's a two way thingb ro and I am expecting you to be more reasonable with your replies.

ImaIma1:
If she is not fit for you to marry, she should not be fit for you to sleep with. Now you have complicated her life and you want to run.

Where do you want her to start from with two children? You probably don't like the idea of marrying a single mother. And you have put her in that status. She has that single mother "Nigerian curse" hanging over her head.

Her family is bad. If she is with you in whatever country, the influence from her mum should be limited and as she grows, she will get wiser. When you decided to date a 19 year old, you should have known it has down sides too.

She could be the way she is...naive and all because of her age. Though there are many smart ladies her age but she is different. You could help develop on that.

You didn't try. You point fingers and say she's not smart. Meanwhile you kept sleeping with her without protection even as you say you don't love her and didn't intend to marry her.

What does that say about you too?

daddytime:
Go and sit your nonsense ass down.

Go look for oyibo or slay queen marry, when your eye clear na double knee you go take cry come look for this mgbeke.

You are a cunning, deceptive and self-centered predator who fed fat on the naive girls innocence.

You dey look for people wey wan tell you wetin you want hear to justify your actions.

Nonsense an ingredients.

sirdouglas:
Oga she is really not a beauty if that is what you are implying. And while I was in Nigeria, I was doing really good for myself. I could afford girls for more beautiful than her. I met few, if you read through my post you will see that I said in the first few lines that I date at that time for the sole purpose of marriage. I WANTED TO MARRY HER BRO!!! .....why are you people so mean and heartless?? Even before I met her I know I will be traveling. And I told her as soon as the time is right. I told her almost a year before I travelled and you saying all this is very bad of you and tell more the kind of person you are.

If it happens to be your sister and you decides to do away with the pregnancy I wouldn't object to it. The blood will be on your head. Those kids are not a mistake despite the situation. You are telling me in other words that I should have aborted the twins?? Really?
Well, I leave you to your conscience. Like I said from the beginning. Getting married to her is not completely out of the table but I wish I could find an alternative to save the day.

I wouldn't descend to your level to trade words with you but I know that I am not a bad person and I never for once wish evil for that girl or planned anything that would hurt her.

Acidosis:
Yes oo Keep up the good work

cuteguy14911:
The wrap is beside it nau.. And yeah am sorry for the other time.

armyofone:
Thanks! I will be on the look out. I need to bring village cooking into this community.

Martinez39:
I knew that I would see you here. I want you to tell me about the misogyny and the harsh atmosphere of the oppression of women/female children?

ogbonti:
because you are a feminist...your grand parents did with ease and they were happier than you are today. change your thinking, you are Afrikan!

nuelyoyo:
when money is involved, many women would share a man's dick.

morningstar55:
You don’t know what they call induction in Delta State

anonymuz:
This is beyond that story of a thousand naira. May be she don use her mouth wrongly.

asuustrike1:
Yes they are.
It is possible that the victim abused the accused with vague words hence the brutality. I don't support violence but people especially women should watch what they say. If notice many violent cases as it's root to insults from victims.

Mentorkaryhm:
Wetin u do that ignited d lashes. May b u didn't control your tongue

Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]There are two sides to every story...
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morningstar55:
This is the only reason I’ll marry a woman from my state.

I don’t have the energy to be forming FBI n CIA on top woman matter

AntiBrutus:
Lol. It did give life.
There is enough for you.



Hahaha. You know it well well.
Yes I am, that's out native soup.

cuteguy14911:
Beans and Bread for the morning

Syphax:
EDI KAI KONG SOUP

Student life isn't easy. After the exam, I went to the UNICAL staff quarters and picked snails. I prepared Edi kai kong soup with it.

Mariangeles, Antibrutus, Ibkayee and Ishilove did I try?

Thegamingorca:
Seriously snails?

I think I'm going to hurl

Acidosis:
Well-done Coco. You're good

victorian:
Lol.

Did I miss any of my ex?

Nah! Not really

She was once lucky to have such ex. It's unfortunate she misused it.

AntiBrutus:
I cooked okazi soup last night, added a lil uziza too. Started 11pm , na wetin insomnia dey cause.

Anyway, I used crushed palm fruits. I think it gives a finer taste and colour maybe.

Didn't put achara and akporakpo, I have people eating it that are not native to my place.

ThothHermes:
In Mariah Carey's voice.

Girl I wanna know, why you so obsessed with me

The two situations are different.
Assault is a legal offence no?

Infidelity is a whole different kettle of fish.
I know there is no difference to you though

elektra:
Why are you asking someone else to accept behavior that you are unwilling to accept?
Is it because she has a vagina that you are asking her to live with the same hurt that you have rejected for yourself?
If you cannot imagine it for yourself why are you able to imagine it for a woman?
If it is a fixable problem why won’t you be fixing your own marriage if the problem is coming from the woman?
I really want to know empathy (putting yourself in someone else’s shoes) is not applied if the person hurting in a marriage is a woman.

wonyi:
I choose my words carefully. I don't speak loosely. We must not think alike. Please stay off my mention.please

ThothHermes:
By our respective natures, a man would not tolerate a woman that is cheating brazenly if he is faithful and dutiful.

I have tried to imagine it and it's not just possible in my head. It will take the most enraged feminist to dream up something so implausible .

It's not society. It's nature. You want to advice divorce? Go ahead.
Wetin concern me? As if divorce is one El Dorado like that.
This is a fixable problem. If you don't want to try to fix it., wahala tiyin niyen