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Actually that’s not the point.

I wouldn’t have if he didn’t continue to do so after initial advice to desist. And I still wouldn’t have until I saw that he’s clearly a woman hater. That’s what pissed me off. Not the PM

But I’ll take it down like you said.

Acidosis:
You don't have to announce the fact that he sent you a PM. Please take it down, it is needless.

Identify theft at its finest

Where justice works

Everyone who molests kids deserves this kind of sentence

Omg you’re funny.

I’ll think about it

loveymom:
As the gburugburu 1 of foodland section, do us the honour of opening one

I’m with you

loveymom:
Someone should open derailers thread on food section na

Anyone with me

And you used real carrots. Just beautiful

loveymom:
Carrot cake for the weekend

The cinnamon flavour is heavenly

I can’t believe she thinks that her post made sense

And 20 ignoramuses liked it. On here you just need to act like you know what you are saying and people will believe you.

HBB1:
I felt like saying something vile, but it's all good.

You however need to know that an idiot can use an AED-- it is AUTOMATED!

Note that Chest compressions can only do so much for a shockable rhythm. Defribillation is the most important index, and the farther away from the cardiac arrest, the less the chance of survival.

AED is part of basic CPR. What do you mean how many Nigerian doctors are trained to use it?
Which BLS class doesn’t teach how to simply turn on the machine, attach the pads and let the AED prompt on what next to do I.e when to shock or not?

Can’t believe you think this post makes sense.

Also CPR and AED go side by side. There’s no ‘level of AED’ per se. they either need a shock or they don’t. If they don’t need a shock, it’s probably even worse because they might be in asystole AKA flatline or a pulseless electrical activity.

Don’t misinform.

Alzirida:
Lol..

That is not the real reason.
How many doctors in Nigeria are trained to use Defibrillator?
Having AED is one thing knowing how to use it is another.

If he actually had a shock in presence of other doctors, good CPR would have save him before getting to level of needing AED.
The moment u call for AED and found out there is none, the colleagues should have put him in Ambulance to another private facility where there is AED.
U guys just wasted time and life of this doctor

I hear it’s good. It looks yummy

Mariangeles:
Yes it is.

Is this water yam balls?

Mariangeles:
I loved ojojo from the very first time I tasted it.
I had even more fun making it

I’m sorry nwanyi oma.

loveymom:
Awww sweet mama, supporting the dreams of her dear son.
Please do take care of her very well.

Lost and buried mine January, I miss her every day

Adopt me

britiko:
Morning Fam, enjoy breakfast...

Congratulations. That’s very commendable.
You can go places with any talent little or big as long as you have passion for it. Weldone

Prestonn:
Anything you found yourself doing, do it well. Never allow any person talk you down.

Photo below is a shopping ticket till December. due to a photo I was the brain behind, which the company gonna use for advert nest month.

The company will be responsible for my food stuff, which gonna last for three years. Apart from the normal contract they signed with us.

I and my friends cooked in the kitchen, wi took a photo and I told them to put the Company product beside Sharp Nija boy

Looks really good

chii8:
Come chew please.

Just sad

Now I want okra.

That’s goat? Yum

loveymom:
Okro soup

I don’t even have words

Happy upcoming birthday

FloraEC:
Baked cake for my birthday , will cover it on the day
Chocolate cake, coconut cake and normal cake

I don’t need to watch this. It’s stupid that’s all I know.
Yes she wasn’t forced but brainwashing has a lot to do with it. Let her ask a man to stay married to her 10 years after she’s dead and see what response she gets.

Condescending too. Congratulations you ticked all the boxes

genq:
Ok woman, you have won the debate. You happy now?!

@OP as you can see, these female creatures cannot be reasoned with... you are free to take the advice of NL feminists at your own peril.

Aww. Bless you both

funlord:
I make all my chow.(boarding school experience).....but sometimes the better half does her magic too.

Men are always their own enemies. Hating and pulling each other down

lilmax:
this one that gives money to people to like his music

that's when you know your track is crap

Did you make this soup?
It’s looks really good. How I like my egusi

funlord:
The weekend starts now.......

genq:
Spare me that "misogyny" bullcraap!
I have raised valid points and anyone with a brain can see that.

1) Your ‘valid’ points are that women can’t think in a practical and logical way.
2) she won’t make a tangible contribution in the family.
3) she will cheat on him because she goes to work and is now too big to be a housewife (conforming your misogyny and the trick men like you who use house wife role to limit women).
4) she will only help her family and herself.
5) your sure the job will only bring nothing but misery.

All of these are based on “facts” right?

So logical

No woman here made a logical comment yet you went ahead to post a very biased and misogynistic response to OP’s post. Very practical and logical.

genq:
Don't listen to the advice of the females here .. most nairaland females do not think in a practical and logical way. Tell your wife to put her emotions aside and be grateful you are out there busting your a** to provide for the family.

Acidosis has made the most sense so far, but I must add that "job" will bring nothing but misery to your marriage. Let me spell out why:

1. As you have calculated, it will actually cost you an additional £8000 (approx.) for her to take that job. Money that can be put into better use.

2. She will spend an average of 15hrs each day away from home, leaving a house help to resume the role of a mother to your children.

2. None of the money she makes will be a tangible contribution to the household - she will probably use her chicken chomp salary for her own upkeep and her family.. while you are expected to continue carrying all the financial burdens alone.

3. God forbid with all these sacrifices you make to accomodate her desire to be "independent". She starts cheating on you with a colleague like a lot of these lagos married women do - especially when they start feeling like they are too big to be just a "housewife".

4. Even if she doesn't cheat, she will still become unavailable to you due to exhaustion and stress. Working long hours for little pay will not give her the fulfillment she's looking for.

If you have parents that can come and help with the kids, then please beg them to come. Also you can contribute to taking care of the kids that way the problem is half solved.

I don’t think paying a house help is feasible based on 50k but is it feasible based on your own income? You didn’t tell us that part. It’s easy for your fellow men to tell you to ask her to forfeit the job but same men will also say she never contributed anything to then home and this deserves to be thrown out at any slightest issue.

Your wife wants this job not just for the money but also to the sense of accomplishment it will bring her.
That’s a logical thing. Your concern about money is also logical. It’s not only logical when it’s coming from your side.

I bet you would take a job of 50k if you had no job even do she was making a lot of money. Why do you think that need to earn income of your own isn’t something she feels as well?

I believe you guys can work it out if you are willing to.

50 has for nothing on you jlo. So gorgeous

I’ll take the curry but this looks sumptuous as well as healthy

Mariangeles:
Another version of stir fried noodles with vegetables this time .
I can't decide which is more delicious between this and the curry version

Can you share your Ghana jollof recipe? Thanks

wowfairy:
Ghana jollof and dodo