Family › Re: Need A Listening Ear by cococandy(f): 4:01am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Is the husband at fault here? Yes or No. So much disgusting BS wonyi: @ watch this movies war room and why did I get married. You need to be strong to work things out. It's a woman that builds a home . You need to put your home in order .
Look for someone your husband respect like pastor or an elderly uncle or friend. Explain things to them. Remember to remain calm.
Ask yourself, are you tired of the marriage?(I supposed the answer is no) Do u want your marriage back?(yes)
If the answer is yes, then it's time to work things out. take charge. I believe the exam period is on, after the exam please Strategies.
Try and be focused now. Do things that make u happy. You have sacrificed to build your marriage, and no one can tear your family apart. Pick points from those movies.
Everyone is trying to make their marriage work. It's not easy anywhere. Don't be DECEIVED. Some of us , have gone through worse .look for that inner strength, you are strong and brave. Build courage up.
Keep your job. When responding to your hubby be calm and don't respond harshly. Maybe being mute may help or silent treatment for now. He will get scared because he doesn't know what you are up to.
Remember to dialogue when the atmosphere is calm.communicate and know the reason for his actions . Please and please DONT BEG. you didn't do anything wrong. Once you start begging, you will keep begging. Search yourself, you know yourself. Whatever you are not doing right be get it right .
[b][/b] it's not late yet. Good luck |
Celebrities › Re: Tunmise Oluyede Accused Biodun Fatoyinbo Of Rape (Ex COZA Staff) - Kemi Olunloyo by cococandy(f): 3:41am On Jul 05, 2019 |
You don’t have sense. Mumu derecho: yet those raped by the herdsmen while travelling back can tell and seek medical help immediately? Let's stop acting as if all persons react the same way.If a girl has been chaste and trustworthy, if cases like rape occur,she'll not keep quiet.A girl is most likely to keep quiet when her way isn't pure or she senses she allowed it. |
Celebrities › Re: Tunmise Oluyede Accused Biodun Fatoyinbo Of Rape (Ex COZA Staff) - Kemi Olunloyo by cococandy(f): 3:40am On Jul 05, 2019 |
For you to use the phrase silly cvnt shows the type of person you are and the kinds of things you’d support. Erediauwa: Even though this Kemi can be mentally unstable most times, you can't take away the fact that she stands for the truth.
Most of all these silly cùnts shouting RAPE and accusing people falsely in a bid to get little fame and attention are being sponsored. |
Politics › Re: Police Detain Senator Abbo Over Alleged Assault by cococandy(f): 9:00pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Alleged? Something that we all saw |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:53pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Thanks  funlord: Curry, diced onions and peppers, tiny splash of oil, a little stew (optional), ground chilli (a.ka. Yagi) and the spices contained in the noodle pack itself...... |
Crime › Re: Woman Beat Her House Help For Crying Out Over Rape In Lagos (Graphic) by cococandy(f): 8:49pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
I’m wondering why it’s not your responsibility but the feminists’. Why is every topic an opportunity for you and your ilk to say crap about feminists. Why the sleepless nights about feminists? Do you really care about the girl child or you have your own ulterior motives because you make absolutely no sense. Make it go viral if you care so much. Weak useless fellow who can’t have a sense of personal security because women exist so he seeks every unrelated opportunity to voice trash . In case you don’t know, you sound very stupid when you try to use people’s pain to further your stupid agenda. You saw someone who’s suffering and your idea of a sensible post is to use to opportunity to diss celebrities and feminists. No words for the attacker or her rapist brother. Typical apologist. Your brain is a waste of neurons. eni4real: Okay. No campaign for girl child again?? Hiding continua...
This is supposed to go more viral... |
Crime › Re: Woman Beat Her House Help For Crying Out Over Rape In Lagos (Graphic) by cococandy(f): 8:39pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Why is it feminists responsibility and not yours? Senseless eni4real: Feminists should stop hiding when it matter most.. They won't make this go viral because it not a COZA case or may he because a woman is involved too 
She is a girl child too. Someone's daughter, a future mother, she doesn't deserve to be brutalized by a wicked woman like this
#Noto Physicalabuse #Noto Sexualabuse
I can't hear these feminists and celebrities talk loud and clear now  |
Crime › Re: Woman Beat Her House Help For Crying Out Over Rape In Lagos (Graphic) by cococandy(f): 8:38pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
I honestly feel like a woman who can do this to a young girl who should look up to her doesn’t deserve to live. Might sound extreme but to me they are worse than culprits they are defending. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Timi Dakolo Married In My Church, I Knew Of The Rape-Pastor Yemi Davids by cococandy(f): 8:24pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Wow |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:17pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Noodle recipe please? Thanks funlord: Early afternoon snack....
Roman noodles and goat meat for the win! |
Family › Re: Need A Listening Ear by cococandy(f): 8:13pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Acidosis: When something is broken, you don't throw it away, you try to fix it. When the person who owns it with you also wants to fix it. Otherwise you can’t fix it. |
Family › Re: Need A Listening Ear by cococandy(f): 9:12am On Jul 04, 2019 |
You don’t have a husband anymore. Act like it.
Can’t be married to someone who isn’t married to you. |
Family › Re: How Do You Recover Money From A Dead Relative Bank Account? by cococandy(f): 4:04am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Sorry for your loss @xynerise |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:59am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Looks so good loveymom: Dinner Coconut Fried rice
Cutiereborn bring your plate ooo |
Politics › Re: Senator Abbo Apologises, Begs For Forgiveness by cococandy(f): 8:02pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Too little too late |
Celebrities › Re: Waconzy: ‘Timi Dakolo Successfully Disgraced His Family' by cococandy(f): 5:39pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
So a victim of rape doesn’t deserve to be married? obayendo1010: timi dakolo is a f**l quote me anywhere and any day he is still a f**l......celebrity dont play victim this man has successfully put an end to his career because he gonna be a victim for life......my broda if now me we die with the secret since you nor fit talk am before i marry you or we divorce...now me pipo one dey send simpathy msg GOD FORBID...the case is fading gradually soon he will be reinstated as coza senior pastor again and anytime you hear timi you mind just flash....so he married a victim of rape.... |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:20pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
I agree Teespice: very true. also ginger and garlic as well. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:20pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Exactly Teespice: very true. also ginger and garlic as well. |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:41pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
What if you blend the onions or chop it finely? Will you still notice it? Or is the taste of it that puts you off? I feel like food without onions has no flavor Fhemmmy: Please don't use my knowledge with food as yardstick, i am not too good with food, especially Jollof and that is because most Jollof is always with onion and i hate onion with passion . . . But i will surely make sure i try it as long as i replace onion with something else because i am a lover of beans |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy And Girlfriend Stefflon Don Kiss At His 28th Birthday Party (Pics) by cococandy(f): 4:02pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
As in eh Ishilove: How can Burna Boy say he is 28 nitori Olorun??  |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy And Girlfriend Stefflon Don Kiss At His 28th Birthday Party (Pics) by cococandy(f): 4:02pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
28th?  That’s it. I’m out |
Celebrities › Re: Kaffy Condemns Naira Marley's Soapy Dance As Dog Joins by cococandy(f): 4:01pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Masturbation dance?  |
Crime › Re: Scales Ishola Remanded In Prison For N525 Million Internet Fraud (Photo) by cococandy(f): 3:46pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:30pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:29pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Wrong thread Logobenz: and what exactly are you fighting for about women rights? Is there something a woman can't get in this age and time? You all have; -Access to education -healthcare -loans and rights to your monies -almost everything. So what is that thing you are deprived of that makes you fight? Abi you people want to fight for free money from men shey? The enemy to women these days is capitalism,nothing else. Aren't you in health services?how come you weren't denied the right to work  Ndi feminism  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:26pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: It didn't occur to you some people like their rice pasty? While some dry?
Abeg shift one side. Una no go post food, na to dey find wetin no loss. Don’t mind him. Close up photo. It’s not even pasty. For this combination it’s actually quite grainy as this combo tends to get soggy if you want the beans really tender. When people who can’t boil water start to dishing out culinary advice that’s what happens.
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:20pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Mmm. I’d say it’s pretty common at least to the best of my knowledge Fhemmmy: Jollof with beans? i have never heard or seen that before . . . Wow! |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:06pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
It more important for me to fight for women than to know how to cook rice and beans. You probably thought you just said something cool. Acidosis: Too much water in your rice and beans. Spend more time on YouTube lessons, less time fighting for women. Got it?
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Politics › Re: Senator Abbo Promises 'Robust Response' Over Sex-Toy Shop Assault. See Reactions by cococandy(f): 2:37pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Typical |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:33pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Breakfast. Pancakes, sautéed mushrooms and scrambled eggs with coffee. Bucket of syrup to be added later. (not pictured)
Lunch: jollof rice+beans (my favorite) with baked fish.
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