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It’s grand mart food mart.

I’m not sure I responded earlier or not

armyofone:
Cococandy, please what is the name of the store? Maybe i can find a branch...I need crayfish and no time going to Africa store.

Plain justification for infidelity and whorism

DMerciful:
You think it's easy for a man to hold this position not to cheat on his wife given the circumstances? A genuine effort by this man to remain faithful yet you're finding fault. The truth is women with low sex drive naturally pretend to be into sex just to hoodwink guys to marry them. These men will be wondering if their wives have changed, bla bla bla but it's a freaking lie. They never had it but were pretending. Our forefathers married several wives, there has to be some advantages. Even the women who think they are sexually driven, check and you'll find out their husbands or bfs initiate sex 80% of the time.

Happy for her that she grew up

And she never claimed to have been. Why is this news?

Hey I have a question for you.
I heard a while back that Nda Leti is dead.

Is her buka being run by anyone?

Also ke kwanu mgbe I ga esi be nri ka igosi anyi ebe a?

jnrbayano:
Well, I don't have anything to tell you. Keep doing this you have learnt to do.

Mgbe obuna mmadu a na-aracha onu because of your dishes

And so what if I like it? Or if every woman likes it?

Does that mean anyone without permission is free to grab any woman and force them into sex? Because we like doing it with those we want to do it with? That means everyone else is welcome?

When they loose an argument they resort to slut shaming. Typical
Go rent a brain. It’s exhausting trying to communicate with you like a fully developed adult.

Adakintroy2:
Abeg go sidon. Rapist! rapist!!.. you belike you DE find Sotin. Your slutty name speak volume

Wonyi and thothermes please come and tell her how to watch “war room” and endure the beatings until things change. You know it’s just a hard time she’s going through nothing to break the marriage for. (Except Maybe when she is finally in the grave).

So you’re sure he’s innocent?

Lol. Hi rapist.
He might be innocent but you sure are a rapist.
Doesn’t take too much to tell

Adakintroy2:
Fact that you a dumb sentimental bitch. Hiding behind the crowd. Who is ranting? In one breath you said judicial process is exhausting. so we continue with media trial?. You are mostly worried about her alone.

Because na only she na vulnerable. What about the children of the man. What about his wife currently. We talk about the neyma incidence. What happened to the lady afterwards?

False alarm! Everyone get back to your duty!

Grand mart food mart

loveymom:
Very Yummilicious
Please do you mind dropping the name of the Asian store?
Hopefully I can find it in my city

Me and some people

hustleranthem:
just kii me abeg..only u wan flex these ones?

3?

ibkayee:
Coco coco coco, how many times did I call your name?

I never said she was telling the truth.
All this ranting you’re doing is based on your own lack of comprehension and bias for rape

Fix your brain.

At bold, better for who? Now you’re speaking what you really want. Your true intentions. That’s people should be able to rape and walk free. Better for you and your type then. Definitely not better for the victim

Adakintroy2:
And have you thought she may be lieing and you a fool for trusting one side without letting the matter reached court. You ND me are amateur when it comes to this. There are expert in every field. A good detective will hear that story and spot holes in were me and your untrained mind won't even see same with a lawyer. But this is nigeria were everybody know something about everything.

If you know due process is existing then settle out of court. Or better yet forgive and move on with your life.

What are you bringing up a thing of twenty yrs ago now for if you not jelouse. We are backs there many miseries we deal with on daily bases if I keep all of them in my heart I will be full. Aside your religion is about forgivness.

If he is into it. When God will expose him that evidence will be overwhelming.

Made soups to last for days.

Egusi soup with goat, beef, stock fish and dry fish. Used the same in the bitter leaf soup and Edikaikong soup.

Some lamb stew.

I found this Asian store that had almost everything I usually buy in the African store. Even plantain leaves for moi moi. Couldn’t be happier as it’s even closer to me.


Look at the treasures I found there (3rd pic)

Adakintroy2:
My friend shut up. Have you ever thought that this grown women wanted a piece of that guy. You want to throw stone and hide. If you want to come out cme out guns swinging. Otherwise stay in hiding l. You think bringing down a man's life work under the pretend of rape is play play thing.

Stupid girls l. You always give into your greed and convertousness but when things go wrong you shout rape. Everyone will have their day in court.

Me I know and trust one thing about this God. If she was not rape and she is doing it for envy or revenge, she will collapse with the pastor. If she was rape and she and she is doing it for revenge because the guy has grown all this yrs. She too will fall with him. The only time she will succeed if she was raped and she is doing it fir justice and to free other women.

I will advice timing not to be too forward with all this I see the effort he is putting and digging. It's an husband place..but when the real digging start both side...

I repeat that guy is a intelligent guy oo. He won't go down without a fight.

lonelydora:
She's right about this. You all just want to bring Pastor Biodun down. It won't work. Just watch out how Busola's a*s will be kicked. She has just landed herself in trouble

=kiyosaki1 post=79959653]This will serve as a deterrent to would be accusers to be sure before coming up with accusations. Kudos to kemi olunloyo . Rape is a gracious offence, and no one needs to hide under any pseudo account to accuse one of rape . If you are rape you either go to the law enforcement agency and lodge your complain or sue the accused, but not hiding under mask.

Maybe she wanted to remain anonymous because rapist apologists like you who call them olosho seeking attention. Will you deny you haven’t seen people call accusers all sort of names and even imply they should be ashamed for being victims?
What do you folks really want?

Your evilness masked in supposed due process is exhausting. If you really care about the right thing, you wouldn’t shame victims. You would encourage a situation where each party can have their say.

I actually believe anyone making accusations should be able to stand by them openly. But folks like you make it difficult for them

Adakintroy2:
My friend shut up. Have you ever thought that this grown women wanted a piece of that guy. You want to throw stone and hide. If you want to come out cme out guns swinging. Otherwise stay in hiding l. You think bringing down a man's life work under the pretend of rape is play play thing.

Stupid girls l. You always give into your greed and convertousness but when things go wrong you shout rape. Everyone will have their day in court.

Me I know and trust one thing about this God. If she was not rape and she is doing it for envy or revenge, she will collapse with the pastor. If she was rape and she and she is doing it for revenge because the guy has grown all this yrs. She too will fall with him. The only time she will succeed if she was raped and she is doing it fir justice and to free other women.

I will advice timing not to be too forward with all this I see the effort he is putting and digging. It's an husband place..but when the real digging start both side...

I repeat that guy is a intelligent guy oo. He won't go down without a fight.

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lonelydora:
She's right about this. You all just want to bring Pastor Biodun down. It won't work. Just watch out how Busola's a*s will be kicked. She has just landed herself in trouble

or=kiyosaki1 post=79959653]This will serve as a deterrent to would be accusers to be sure before coming up with accusations. Kudos to kemi olunloyo . Rape is a gracious offence, and no one needs to hide under any pseudo account to accuse one of rape . If you are rape you either go to the law enforcement agency and lodge your complain or sue the accused, but not hiding under mask.[/quote]Maybe she wanted to remain anonymous because rapist apologists like you who call them olosho seeking attention. Will you deny you haven’t seen people call accusers all sort of names and even imply they should be ashamed for being victims?
What do you folks really want?

Your evilness masked in supposed due process is exhausting. If you really care about the right thing, you wouldn’t shame victims. You would encourage a situation where each party can have their say.

I guess she will live forever

Yuceeluv:
See what she wrote concerning the dead. This woman is really sick.

Or control what women wear as if that’s the problem

delishpot:
Their solution is to lock up all women and allow them go out only if a male relative is there. They know their men rape, they just place the burden on the women as preventive method not so much to handle it from the men angle to stop the men from doing it. It is just the way the world plays the game.

I also agree with this.

No good praise for minorities ever comes from the Republican Party. There’s always an ulterior motive

AgentOfAllah:
Don't fall for this crap!! This is a brazen divide and conquer tactic to shame historically disenfranchised black Americans into believing that it was they, themselves, not slavery, not racist jim crow laws, that caused their current situation. The American society owes black Americans a debt that must be repaid. To blame them for the situation in which they find themselves is to play fast and loose with history, and it doesn't help solve their situation.

I agree.

RTSC:
Nigerians are benefiting from the hard work of african americans. We should give respect to who it is due.

All their civil rights struggle from rosa park, Dr king, malcolm x, e.t.c and now recently "black lives matter" movement.

Many of them paid with their lives and are still paying it.

You can't blame african americans for having a victim mentality.
They are victims of the system.

Not the most. One of the most.

Infinityk:
Nigerians are not d most successful immigrants in USA

I've seen this stuffs tons of times on d news,its all a lie

Nigerians don't even even accomplish up to half of Asians immigrants, Chinese Indians Japanese Koreans

Not to talk of Arabian immigrants, or European immigrants

Don't we let we Nigerians b lying to ourselves

That guy Candace Owens is another dumb black Americans spewing rubbish to feel good about his black skin

It was also d same rubbish one Zimbabwean living wrote in d USA that nigerians have high IQ and are very smart black ppl

After investigation, I found out it was nothing but junk crap

Any black person or Nigerian that believes this crap is really stupid

Chinese achievements alone in USA farrrrr overshadow any Nigerian dead or alive in anywhere in d world

I give real facts,I don't follow d crowd

Carton boxes that go up in value depending on where you live and you can make profit if you’re financially savvy.
I know how much I made when I sold a house that I only owned for 3+ years before moving to a different state. (We)

Debt pit indeed.

timesup234:
The only time a Nigerian will own various houses in America is when they steal from Nigeria and go buy there or involved in shady dealings. America is a debt pit. A 30 yrs debt sentence for a carton box house. You know nothing man. You just confirm yourself as one of the brainwashed

Because we are used to way worse conditions that opportunity is not something we let go easily.
Doesn’t mean they should use us to try and paint African Americans bad.

A person who doesn’t even have electricity will be overjoyed to live in a place where such things are taken for granted

Take your hypocrisy with you as you go

ThothHermes:
Arrrggggh...

I know it will never end.

Bye bye abeg.

Might be an inherited ailment

Your mind is already on other women.
I can’t count the number of times you’ve said the phrase about getting a side piece.

You’ll reap what you sow the moment you start sleeping outside. (If you haven’t already).

Work on your marriage. Can you guys move in together?instead of weekly visits. Maybe the spontaneity of not having a weekend sex timetable might help you guys. Timetables are boring.


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kennydotkom:
Thank you bro. I am 42yrs old and she is just 32years old, in a marriage of 6years. I do tell her that, now u are still young like this and you no longer find sex fun, what of when you are 40 years , that means you will push me out to start looking for girl friend. She doesn't cheat at all I can vouch for her . I will take ur advice

Suggest it and watch them hyperventilate until their heads blow up

Ishilove:
For those saying the man should get a girlfriend, are women allowed the same option if their husbands are not meeting up?

Look at how easily the suggestions for infidelity are being handed out left right and center.
Lmao.

That you think this is about which poster is right or wrong as opposed to what promotes OP’s suffering for misogynistic reasons shows how much sense you have.

ThothHermes:
Bla bla bla...

You goofed. Admit it.

The guy already said the OP did nothing wrong, meaning all the blame is on the man.
Don't know what you are whinging about.
You are just bitter that he did not suggest divorce. I know you and yours get high from breaking homes.
It's part of being feminist.

"Bitter feminist" -- Tautology

Do those illegitimate children come from the wife’s boyfriends?

wonyi:
You are going through a tough time. Remember couples that celebrate 20/30/50 years of staying married always have some ugly stories to tell.

Behind every success there's always a dark ugly story.
You can still work things out only if u choose to. No domestic violence yet so things can be sorted out. remember STD is real(so before any sexual contact he must run test and provide a clean result.

One step at a time. Don't take any decision in a hurry. Listen to counsel from old married couples.

I learn from people's stories. I have heard worse stories even with illegitimate children involved yet their marriages stood the test of time.it hurts, yes I know but time will heal you.

Mmm hmm.

Be a good wife and get rewarded with HIV.

ThothHermes:
Great.

I was thinking along those lines but I had to refrain from commenting as the professional home-wreckers had already invaded the thread.

My suggestion would have been for her to keep being the good wife, doing all she would do if her husband were the perfect husband at the same time entreating the Most High with faith that her marriage will be fine.
This is what will happen: the man will come to his senses after a while and the magnitude of his "douchebagness" will dawn on him.
He will realize how gravely he has wronged his wife and kids and will spend the rest of his life trying to make it up to them.

Crazy but it is what it is.

If you’d type the same trash when it’s the wife acting that way. Then you have a leg to stand on. Otherwise take your hypocritical self away.

Talking about bursting an artery, it’s amusing to see you nincompoops bending over backwards and twisting yourselves into unbelievable shapes to find more ways to tell women to accept abuse as a normal thing.

ThothHermes:
Oh shut it.
He has said the OP did not do anything wrong. Did you skip that part of his post?
I'm sure it was an oversight.
The thing is that once someone does not suggest destruction of the marriage like you all are wont to you begin to foam at the mouth.
Reconciliation, resolution, restoration is sacrilegious to you.

At this rate, you'd burst an artery soon .

BS

wonyi:
In the future please stay off my mention. The message is for the op not u.



I am not ready to engage in name calling or exchange of words .

COCOCANDY STAY OFF MY MENTION IN THE FUTURE