Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Replies Sandra Iheuwa As She Calls Him Out For Going On Vacation by cococandy(f): 4:25am On Jun 04, 2019 |
Lmao Who’s crying now? Again I didn’t report you. Why would I lie about that? Because you will rant and cry me to death? I’m sure I can take your tears. Only you know why you were banned. If it was for insulting me, that’s between you and whomever banned you. Can’t help you with that. Stallion2019: Liar.
Someone else reported me cos I did what exactly ?
They reported me cos I replied to your insults ? - re you fvcking kidding me? you are ms popular on nairaland I bet ? Pipe dreamer 
Shove your mouth piece ( fingers) in your azz cos I don't need any fake feminist mentioning me 4 any silly reason.
I don't entertain such bullsh!t from !diots who tag themselves are feminist.
I have my phone, my data and my opinion. If you have a problem with that; Go Fvck yourself or mention people who you can easily intimidate .
Ain't got time for you or your bullcrap. You'r too short & ugly for me to notice.
Like I stated earlier in my 1st comment with this new moniker, you can go ahead again and report this account. Atleast you are useful on nairaland for that.
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Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
bukatyne: This is only a part. Yes that’s only a part not all of it These same women are very sexually expressive before marriage and suddenly feel suppressed in marriage. maybe some. And even expressive women will have their off days. I agree that some men also feel their wives shouldn't be expressive, some are selfish, etc.
And a man ejaculating is not same as orgasm. Bukatyne can we take a poll and ask how many men ejaculate without orgasm? (Except in cases of sexual dysfunction). Male ejaculation is male orgasm. |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Replies Sandra Iheuwa As She Calls Him Out For Going On Vacation by cococandy(f): 9:29pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
I did not report you. I have my mouth (fingers), I use it instead. trust me, I prefer to give it back hot to whoever is trying to get on my nerve than to report to the MOD. Whoever reported you must be laughing at your tirade. Too bad you’ve spent it all on me. Wonder what you will then say to the person who reported you when you find out who they are. All these insecurities spilling from your guts because you believe I reported you? My goodness. Take a breath. Maybe you need time off NL after all. Stallion2019: The ones wey dem carry from remote village to oyiboland are the ones the are most arrogant and f00lish .
Make she carry her dry azz go sit for one corner. Who cococandy be and who she help?
I bet she's the only nairalander in the states?? 
The big headed midget hates men but she's married and lives off her husband . Fake feminist.
You'll hardly hear tall, pretty, independent ladies make noise. Only the short, ugly swines do. Stallion2019: I see you are a very short, ugly thing but didn't know you would stoop lower than your short height to report me to your mods to block me ? How old are you? 
Weakling. You tagged me a dummy and more and your mods didn't block you 
I replied by calling you an ignorant bigot without sense and you cried like an d!ot to your mods and without hesitation, they blocked me like f00ls cos they are your friends.
You and your mods are dunces and will be bigger fools if that account is ever reactivated .
Shove the account "Magnifik18" and this one in all your stinking buttho!es.
Blocking my account like I receive bank credit alerts when ever I log into this directionless forum.
Fvcking crying b!tch.
Btwn, bastard is seating ontop her husband's money but forming feminist. Feminist kee you der old, short monkey.
Keep making meat pie and useless blogging and crying on nairaland.
Son of a b!tch.
Mod- fvck you too. Alright, you can now deactivate this one too . Morons. |
Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
That being said, if we as a society can become more open about discussions of sex (in real life not an anonymous forum), if we can promote sex as an enjoyable activity for women, if we can value the female orgasm as much as we place value on that of men, less shaming for women who like to have sex as much as men do, then maybe will get somewhere with this whole sex a marital duty versus sex as beautiful gift for women.
Can’t suppress feminine sexuality all their growing years and then expect them to get married and have it all together.
Root cause analysis. |
Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by cococandy(f): 7:03pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
bukatyne: If you read the thread, you would note that it did not advocate rape which is sex without consent. you said consent has already been given because of the marital status. Thus implying that further consent need not be sought. Sex without consent is rape. And consent is needed each time. Marriage doesn’t give blanket consent. It’s more than that. A lot more. I infact pointed some scenarios in marriage which would have been rape outside of it. If it would have been rape outside of marriage, then what in marriage makes it okay or less of a crime? The loss of personal dignity? Loss of choice? Loss of autonomy over one’s body? Is that what marriage is? I don’t think you realize the implication of what you were saying. None of my posts have supported barbaric practices against women however that wasn’t for you per se. just in general the types of posts that make it to this forum. I will continue to highlight their responsibilities. non-consensual sex isn’t a responsibility of anyone. If anything we should be advocating enjoyable sex for everyone and ways in which sex live can be improved between married people instead of viewing it as a duty. It doesn’t have a good connotation to it. Husbands are also expected not to deny their wives sex which is not 'rape'. Same as above. |
Celebrities › Re: Is Teni A Lesbian? - Speed Darlington Questions Teniola Apata's Sexuality by cococandy(f): 4:02pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
Fortunately, nobody cares what you think Neddstark: She probably is. She's a butch, the one that plays the role of the man They're usually ugly and disgusting. Really, any female that prefers someone like Teni to be the man in her life got shyt for brains. I don't support lesbians and tomboyish ones make me wanna puke. |
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Family › Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by cococandy(f): 3:47pm On Jun 03, 2019*. Modified: 4:38pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
It’s obviously against the rules of NL because it’s a statement and not a question or a call to debate. it just plainly advocates rape (being married doesn’t make it any less rape) even though that was your point. But it still just blatantly said rape was okay. 3. Don't threaten, support or DEFEND violent acts against any person, tribe, race, animals, or group (e.g. rape). That being said, I wish the MOD who deleted it would do same for many posts all over NL that support barbaric practices against women. Setting us back thousands of years. |
Sports › Re: Neymar Exposes All The Sex Chat, Nudes Shared With The Lady Accusing Him Of Rape by cococandy(f): 3:29pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
That’s still rape and punishable. Don’t get yourself in trouble and ruin your own life for 10secs enjoyment. Hands off at any moment the other person says no. Doesn’t matter what led to the moment. Tehila07: What a fo0lish comment. She had been sending nudes in anticipation of sex, went to parish, and when d guy was about to fuk, you now say you don't want sex... I support that kind of rape hundred percent. |
Sports › Re: Neymar Exposes All The Sex Chat, Nudes Shared With The Lady Accusing Him Of Rape by cococandy(f): 3:26pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
If you have consensual sexual with someone, you can still rape them.
The better evidence would be one where she confessed to setting him up. |
Crime › Re: Man Gives Up His House To Appease A god After Raping Pregnant Lady by cococandy(f): 3:22pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
I’m sure that in all of this, no one is caring about this woman or what she’s going through.
How’s the criminal going to be punished for his crime against her? Instead they are more concerned about juju and non-existent things |
Celebrities › Re: Shan George Reacts To Emzy, Ned Nwoko's Son's Claim Of Asking For Number by cococandy(f): 3:01pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
Shan George with 3 posts. This one is a fool like his father |
Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by cococandy(f): 2:33pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
Show us the lots of people condemning the man. You must be on a different thread because they are all in support of covering for him. Let your concern be the man. It serves him right if he’s anything like the men on this thread. Hopefully by the time he carries his wandering behind home, he will be just in time to assume responsibility for one pregnancy from another guy.  Acidosis: A lot of people already had condemned the man so there was no point repeating the same view. At least, the woman knows her husband is a known cheat, so there is really no point crying more than the bereaved. My main concern is the man who married that secretary. I called him unfortunate because unlike oga's wife, it is possible he has no idea what his wife does with her boss. She could be someone's wife here on Nairaland, in fact. |
Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by cococandy(f): 2:27pm On Jun 03, 2019 |
The thread is about the OP’s cheating boss. You decided to side step that as if you don’t know what you’re doing. To ask about his partner that he is cheering with who we didn’t know if she was single, married, or might have even been lied to by the man. The point is that the person who was obviously wrong received no reprimand from you in your quest to make his partner the villain. “MaRiaGe iS ScarY tHesE DayS”  for who? Definitely not for the man who is eating his cake and having it. And has OP covering for him with the support of folks like you telling him to keep quiet even though you’d never say the same when a woman is cheating. Such a hypocrite. . Acidosis: .
It takes two to tango What the lady is doing doesn't bother you? |
Crime › Re: Men Insert Bottle In Lady's Privates For Stealing Phone [PHOTOS] by cococandy(f): 2:08am On Jun 03, 2019 |
These monsters have started again |
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Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by cococandy(f): 1:53am On Jun 03, 2019 |
You’re the type that will have five children and only two of them will belong to you. The evil you support b0rn2fuck: man you be aboki southerner, this is normal things where bro code enter, very simply and its a things we always look for to win oga loyalty. Oga, e je n ki ja yi si, madam n fura, mo se n lo le leyi, let your boss know as he dey go, tell him to be cautious and tell him you are master of the game and pretender to madam too. Walahi, oga go over feed you and even give you woman to nack, I don't think you are brought on the street. If not, na you go even be the oga at away trip |
Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by cococandy(f): 1:51am On Jun 03, 2019 |
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Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by cococandy(f): 1:50am On Jun 03, 2019 |
The OP would have been seriously insulted on here for covering up for a cheating woman. Nauseating folks I tell you eyinjuege: I'm very sure if the roles were reversed, the advice would be different. If it was madam cheating, many would have advised her employee to spill the beans...  The side chick/boo would always be excused because they've taken no vows. |
Family › Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by cococandy(f): 1:47am On Jun 03, 2019 |
But you decided to jump over the cheating man to ask about the marital status of the woman. What the man is doing doesn’t bother you? No let’s go after the lady first  Acidosis: Lol, well we don't know the secretary's relationship or marital status |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Replies Sandra Iheuwa As She Calls Him Out For Going On Vacation by cococandy(f): 1:43am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Only a woman who has taken leave of her senses will listen to what these boys say and believe them. Do what works for you and feels good at the time and will improve your future. Because you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Can’t please them. IAMBlesssed: Thanks for this comment. By the way I thought they always encourage ladies to stand by their men and help him when its needed. Now Sandra has been labelled dumb for helping out. The lady is just a victim of love scam.. |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Replies Sandra Iheuwa As She Calls Him Out For Going On Vacation by cococandy(f): 1:41am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Exactly breakerofchains: It's all a scam...
The most stupid thing a woman can do is give a man money...
Build with your man yenyen.... Oga build on your own. That's how they scam women of their time and money.
When push comes to shove , the same men who encouraged her to support her man will call her mumu and olosho.
Why are you giving him money? What are you trying to prove? Wife material? Okay continue
Women protect your interests.
I'm happy she had a written agreement.
I'm also happy for Lillian. I'm glad she left this Ubi. She's too classy for this rubbish.
Imagine if she were still married to this man. She dodged a bullet I tell ya. |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Replies Sandra Iheuwa As She Calls Him Out For Going On Vacation by cococandy(f): 1:41am On Jun 03, 2019 |
Maybe she cared enough about him to invest the 12M and only ask for 8 back. Y’all want women who will support you but shame them when they do. richie240: ***gave #20m but signed agreement for #8m (12 mill flushed down d sink) ***gave free vag despite knowing DT he's (at least) a triple baby dada ***gives 9 months free incubation to his seed
We learn everyday...... at least I now know the true definition of 'intelligent' |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Replies Sandra Iheuwa As She Calls Him Out For Going On Vacation by cococandy(f): 1:39am On Jun 03, 2019 |
You dummies think you’re smart by playing with people (women) who care about you and will while heartedly invest in you just because they demand for the same respect you ask for. Ruining your good chances for ego polishing. So stupid. That’s why many of you never progress. Your throw away good opportunities that can evolve into a very lasting prosperous association for foolishness. It’s pitiable. Magnifik18: When they were goofing, having unprotected sex and he was releasing inside of her- she didn't remember to blast him on social media .
Cos he ate nd moved on- she won't let us rest with all the irrelevant bashing.
We were not there when you gave a man all your hard earned money and body, we re also not interested in hearing your banters.
Nonsense + 99.
Typical calabar man played away match and left. Deal with it woman! seunfly: My guy u are correct, no feminism act can replace a good dxxck, just check any feminist and one sharp guy is hitting her pvvcy and chopping her money very well. Funny thing is they tend to be submissive and easily melt into arms of any man that has their password but they are loud mouthed outside which give some girls false impression. SocialJustice: Do not be surprised she's a feminist. Feminists are the easiest females to Bleep for free and even take their money. Just swallow your pride as a man and offload your bullshit, they'll swallow everything. Also, don't waste your time on broke feminists. |
Family › Re: My Wife Watching Porn by cococandy(f): 1:31am On Jun 03, 2019 |
 JoannaSedley:
. You saw her watching porn and ran to nairaland to narrate the tale instead of joining the game. For her to relax when you came in shows she wants action.
You are a disappointment. |
Family › Re: My Wife Starves Me Of Sex by cococandy(f): 4:40am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Nobody owes you sex Disgusting deltateam: When I saw this topic. First response would be"Maka why?"
Women your first duty as a wife is not to defraud your husband of your body. This is very seriously serious and could lead to divorce.
If you don't give Oga, who you wan give? Davido? |
Family › Re: My Wife Starves Me Of Sex by cococandy(f): 4:37am On Jun 02, 2019*. Modified: 12:28pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
Suicide because of a possibility of her cheating? That didn’t cross your mind when you were cheating for a year. The hypocrisy Optimus212: Tnx bro but d worst I can do to myself is trying to find out if she's cheating on me. My brother, I prefer my state of mind by not wanting to know some certain things. I don't want to be among the people on the other side courtesy of Suicide. I like my life like this.
Dem say "Fly wey no dey hear word, na em dey follow dead body enter grave". |
Family › Re: My Wife Starves Me Of Sex by cococandy(f): 4:34am On Jun 02, 2019 |
 they think they are smart zeb04: the side chick you were sleeping with, no be boyfriend/ girlfriend matter she they do before you started licking plate.
Only God knows the number of Lagos Agberos that deposited there before you came to lick plate.
Anyways, I no judge you oh. Carry on. Oga sir. |
Family › Re: My Wife Starves Me Of Sex by cococandy(f): 4:30am On Jun 02, 2019 |
They can just share the gono with each other The one from his girlfriend and the one from his wife’s (hopeful) cheating partner. Rhea: She may be protecting you from an STD. When we deny you the t.o.t.o., do not assume the world is coming to an end. Our gym trainer boyfriend may have passed on some gonococo that our conscience does not permit us to share with our husband. Just be patient and pretend like nothing is wrong. Conjee na bastard, but hold your own and thank your stars later. Women do not do things randomly. There is always a thought process behind the shenanigans. |
Family › Re: My Wife Starves Me Of Sex by cococandy(f): 4:28am On Jun 02, 2019 |
In your mind you have excuse to cheat. For even up to a year. Was she also denying you sex for a whole year? Now you’re looking for a reason to start another year long affair I hope you raise sons and daughters that don’t belong to you. Useless Optimus212: Hi Nairalanders....Please Admin, help me push to Front Page, i'm in dire need of people's opinions.
Pls ignore my writing skills because the way the matter be, my head dey shake like this. 
My story is brief.
I am married to my wife & we're blessed with 3 kids, ..My wife starves me of sex over minor issues, even when we've settled by my apologies & me assisting remarkably well in house chores. There was a period 2 years back she starved me of sex for 4 months because of one little misunderstanding we had back then which was unbearable for me & made me to cheat on her,..And my relationship lasted for more than a year with that lady.
Right now she (my wife) has started again with same attitude, its going to a month now. I am confused because I don't want to cheat on her again. What do i do? Should i keep facing such punishment? For how long? Or, should i file for a divorce? Don't you think such attitude will have reoccurrences in time coming?. It is disturbing me badly because I find it difficult to be sleeping alone at nite without her by my side. I have begged & begged her to let whatever anger towards me that is deposited in her to just die off, yet to no avail. The funny thing is, we'll discuss and play very well before going to bed but, whenever I start making advances towards her, she shows up a different attitude.
I am confused!! It is really really disturbing me. How & where did I go wrong?.
Pls, matured advices only, you can insult me too, of course its Nairaland but, I need serious advice, I am very worried. Thanks. |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa, A Client From Hell - Sandra, Frank Edoho’s Wife by cococandy(f): 4:21am On Jun 02, 2019 |
I’ve no interest in these two people but that Hermes throw appeals to me. Is it authentic? |