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It’s ridiculous honestly

CHoccolaTE:
What took her so long?
If she had bolted at the first sign of trouble you would have heard statements like, why didn't she pray for him? Why didn't she try to build her home afterall women are home builders, why didn't she forgive and dress sexy and try to please him and a whole lot of other rubbish.
Even after staying and enduring crap for donkey years hoping he would change she is still being criticized.

Well now she’s awake and it’s time to move on

twhy111:
So many things is wrong with this story, her marriage is 22yrs old and she's 39 which means she got married at age 17.
And she had 5 children already, what took her so long
And she kept on keeping the bed warm for him for that long and giving birth in such conditions.

Dumb. Very dumb

CANlBUS:
I do me and you do you,Men are created to have more than one woman becuase their dick doesn't get expanded or bleed or get pregnant unlike Woman who have their virginity,tightness and pregnancy to bother about.

And as usual all of you are active in your woman hate and misogyny. I guess change is still farther away than it should be

akinjojo1234:
Hmmmmmm, for the first time our very own Queen cococandy did not use this opportunity to bash men

Change is here

The woman-hate in this thread is real. Why not wait for the police to finish their investigation and decide who’s lying or not?

All rapists and rapist apologists want to use this situation to vent on not being allowed to rape and go free. Maybe she’s lying. Maybe she’s not. Let the police do their job.

Yes it is feminism’s fault that you guys internalize your agony and end up taking your lives and other people’s lives at higher rate than women do because you were told that crying so for women and weak men.

A good bawl and sniffles would have reduced his tension and he probably would still be here by now. Toxic masculinity.

Spatta:
with men like this, Feminist succeeded in making a Man become trash, suddenly with the introduction of that foolishness of kneeling to propose to a woman, so many men lost their minds and there were few fathers to counsel young men on the dignity of being a man
killing yourself because of a woman (who passes urine from her back) makes you so stupid
Fela says "Dem go carry your body go Police station, you die wrongfully"

Horrible. May he Rest In Peace

Sorry

bodyonchecheche:
Just came here to say I accidentally poured a whole bottle of coke in my bag

Anyway, all the food looks delicious

They told me I have a lifetime warranty. I can go change it at anytime if it scratches or gets ruined before 10 years (unless I ruin it in purpose. Lol) or go for a reduced price replacement for life.
They are expensive alright. I want some more in different colors especially red but this small collection cost me about $1300+ so I’m taking a break for now . BTW it’s only pots and pans

sassysure:
Their cookware are extremely expensive but good.
Though sometimes start changing colour from 3 yrs upwards.
To me if any cookware can last 2 yrs with coating intact, it's worth the money paid for it.

Got to know about them through a food channel I usually watch on YouTube and bought only 1pot. Will be adding as time goes on.
Good collection

There doesn’t seem to be a clear description of responsibilities in that home.
Who provides what and who does what work in the home. The wife clearly feels that she’s doing enough in the home to warrant the man being the sole provider and the man clearly feels that he is providing enough to not add food expenses to his list of responsibilities.
No one on this thread can help them since they are not here. Anything posted would be for argument’s sake.

Someone should catch him and stab him several time too

I used to hate tofu too until I started going to a Thai place close my house that I used to totally ignore. My friend got me to try it and I’ve been a convert since then. I just try my best to make it how they make theirs. Let the tofu sit and absorb all the seasoning you make it with and you’ll love it.

smartmom:
Beautiful cookware! But tofu? No wayyyy.

People are even wasting their energy trying to explain to this doofus what women bring to the table. If you feel that they bring nothing, then settle down with a man or a goat. It’s not by force.

Nobody has to educate you in your willful ignorance, sexism and hate for women. Imagine using phrases such as “fickle lives”.

Dumbass.

You obviously haven’t been following the thread

quivah:
This isn't entirely true.
A man can actually orgasm without ejaculation.
Ejaculation and Orgasm are really different and in fact, it's advised that men (as they grow older) learn to orgasm without ejaculation i.e practice non-ejaculatory sex.

So, male ejaculation is actually not male orgasm.

Sir please go to a hospital and have your womb checked out. thanks

No wonder she refused. She dodged a bullet . Animal

Yummy Tofu and vegetable stir-fry. It should be healthy except that I eat it with noodles and other unhealthy stuff.


P.S I’m obsessed with Le-Crueset cookware (discovered their brand not too long ago). They are so worth it. Wonder why no one told me before. What with all the chefs on this thread . I started a collection. Red colors to be added next

Your boss really is an asshole that doesn’t deserve any respect. I hope he’s not your mentor in any capacity.

I don’t condemn infidelity on a moral basis really but more on a basis of the harm done to the other party when one person isn’t keeping their part of the deal.

Secondly, you guys are often hypocritical about infidelity that’s why I don’t mince my words when it comes that. It’s okay when you do it but heaven forbid a woman do it. It’s not a question of morality for me. It’s a question of fairness.

I don’t consider myself better than a man who cheats. But I consider myself better than a man who cheats but can’t accommodate being cheated on. Different things

Acidosis:
It's funny how you condemn infidelity yet stay mute on matters that concern prostitution (sleeping around for financial or material gains). Prostitutes don't care about marital status FYI and commitment to a partner is never an option in the bye-laws of a prostitute.

Why are you upset?

truthsayer009:
I know you won't say anything that makes sense on a thread like this, but It's fine.

Not like I expected anything saner!

That

Acidosis:
No you do not keep your moral beliefs to yourself. You dish them out to those you care about e.g. your darling daughter.

If he wants to stop at two kids, he should have gotten sterilized. Birth control is not a woman’s problem alone.

Y’all want solutions without working for it. What does a sensible person who doesn’t want any more kids ever do? Get birth control

Ramsey247:
The man who brings the money tells you to stop at 2, but u insist on giving birth to another despite your situation.
I stopped acusing and blaming men over marital issues lately when i started witnessing women's tendecies to bridge family agreement due to selfish interest.

That looks good

breadplanets:
Super crunchy sausage rolls. I used eggs and milk for the dough. No water. Super delicious

You’re a mor0nic hypocrite

Earthquake2:
You're a sad person, she doesn't want to hit him

She just wants what's best for her

Lack of education, lack of love for his wife.

You do need to leave but like others have said, no rash decisions for now.

Also stop having sex with him please. Yes he will become more brazen and even blame you for his future misbehavior because you denied him sex. But HIV isn’t your friend. That girl is probably collecting some extra Ds on the side and those Ds probably isn’t faithful to only her as well. You get the picture.

When you do leave, make sure you hit him where it hurts most. Be it financial or otherwise, you know him better than we do. And that’s not just for the cheating (that’s forgivable in some cases) but for his blatant cocky unrepentance.

I do. For myself and in application to my life.

Not for others .

With the only exception of when such acts infringes on the rights of others. And of course when they are being hypocrites who can’t take what they give.

Otherwise I keep my moral beliefs to me. Because I know that morality is subjective

Acidosis:
You mean you lack an ideology? You stand for nothing, and uphold no belief? You have no definition for what is good or bad?

That’s a holier than thou attitude and I don’t do those.

Prostitution is not the best choice but I’m probably currently making wrong choices in my life that I don’t talk about. I don’t have moral standing to judge prostitutes.

The difference between me and those who pass judgment is that they can’t see their own short comings

Acidosis:
"Not all clients are worthy" Nice one Coco

Well I think you encourage people who prostitute even when it's not a choice you would make for yourself. When you encourage a decision you would not make for yourself, you give them a wrong impression about you. Let people know you for what you represent.

You sound like a rapist

Wouldn’t be surprised if you’re one

Businessman1986:
You are not that bright. Soon enough no one will care about rape accusations. I certainly, by default, don't believe female idiots when they scream sexual assault.

Maybe she doesn’t want your money. Not all clients are worthy.

And by what I preach you mean I preach prostitution or that I don’t judge people who do even if it’s not a choice I would make for myself?

Comprehension

Acidosis:
Lol

Like cococandy, you don't do what you preach? Prostitution is OK in your books, but when I offered you money to desecrate your body, you declined.

How do I explain that?

I was able to read to read the second article. I must say first time I’m hearing about this. Thanks for sharing.

In most men they occur simultaneously so to say

bukatyne:
@Cococandy

Please read up these links:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/

https://thoughtcatalog.com/shakti-amarantha/2014/09/ejaculation-vs-orgasm-whats-the-difference/

Cc: Xaos

I agree with you OP. I don’t have time to go into details on why I agree.

I have one advice for anyone (lady) who isn’t into getting paid for sex in any form. Make you’re doing it for you. For your personal beliefs and/or spirituality.

If you’re doing it for men, then you’re losing on both ends. For most men, as long as another man has thought about you lustfully, it doesn’t even matter if you had sex with that man or not, you’re an olosho and it’s all your fault. How dare you conduct yourself in a way that will make another man look at you desirably.

Sounds extreme? Observe the trends.