Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Insists She Helped Churchill Pay Her Bride Price by cococandy(f): 10:19am On Jun 28, 2017 |
It's a very very common practice among women to help the men with the money for payment of bride price. |
Politics › Re: Dangote Reacts To Quit Notice On Igbos by cococandy(f): 10:17am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Until they start killing people, then you will realize why we are talking about it. |
Family › Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by cococandy(f): 5:19am On Jun 28, 2017 |
tuscani: I was angry initially when reading, I thought you were a female, but when I discovered that it was even your wife's mother, I just realised that you are such a fool. THE FAULT OH BRUTUS, IS NOT IN OUR STARS FOR IT IS IN US BECAUSE WE ARE WEAKLING Yea. Because it would be somehow better if the OP was a female.  |
Family › Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by cococandy(f): 5:17am On Jun 28, 2017 |
Her attitude is so disrespectful. Tell her point blank to stop it. You don't want to be afraid of disrespecting her when she's already disrespecting you. Also talk to your wife about it. This is wrong on many levels. It needs to stop! If you have to reduce the smiling and familiarity to get it to stop, so be it. |
Celebrities › Re: Lilian Larkai: "It's Wrong For A Woman To Claim Equality With A Man In Marriage" by cococandy(f): 5:46pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Maduawuchukwu: That a man is the leader of the house does not mean that it is a master/servant relationship. It just means that the man takes the final decision on matters affecting the family when he and his wife might not come to a consensus. Why him? He's smarter or you've been fed to believe his decision must be better? Such blatant sexism. It's disgusting. Guess what? In a normal relationship if they can't reach a consensus, one of the parties will have to yield. Yes. Sometimes it can be the woman, sometimes it can be the man. The woman does not always have to drop what she wants so the man can get his way. How these things sound okay to you people is beyond dumbfounding to me. I always feel deep disgust when I read such things. Like how can another human be so full of themselves that they believe what the other person wants is unimportant compared to their wants. It's highly irritating to people with functional brains. |
Celebrities › Re: Lilian Larkai: "It's Wrong For A Woman To Claim Equality With A Man In Marriage" by cococandy(f): 5:44pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Run your own marriage how you want. Don't tell others how to do theirs |
Crime › Re: Rachael Umahi Calls For Arrest Of Policewoman Who Poured Hot Water On Maid by cococandy(f): 5:41pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
And the men killing each other every damn day? Stupid sexist ass andyanders: This is the height of wickedness and this woman should be sent to jail even if she is nursing a baby. Would she have done such to her own biological child?
This woman is the reason why women are been classified as wicked species God ever created. From the time of Adam women has proven that devil lives in them with exemption of the ones that have the spirit of God in their heart. A woman by name Delilah was the one that destroyed Sampson in the bible.
How come women tend to to be wicked to the child of another woman? The downfall of a man started from a woman, hence men who wants to live long must be careful when looking for a wife. ONLY God Almighty can give you a true wife.
There are still women with human heart out there but majority out there now has turned to demon in a human body.
This woman should be sent to prison with hard labor.If I were to apply sharia law, I will pass a judgement that she should also be given same punishment by pouring hot water all over her body |
Crime › Re: Rachael Umahi Calls For Arrest Of Policewoman Who Poured Hot Water On Maid by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
gunners160: women would always be an enemy to themselves .. have u ever noticed that whenever a girl is the first child of the home,she acts so bossy and wants all the respect in the world. women get wicked mind oo shut the fvck up. Why haven't you said anything about the gender of all these criminals who have been gracing the front page on hourly basis. Once one woman somewhere does something bad, y'all sexist modafockers find a way to make it about all women. |
Celebrities › Re: Fan Tells Rukky Sanda: "Start Taking Pictures With A Man, You Are Getting Older" by cococandy(f): 5:32pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
What else do you expect from retardedd clowns |
Romance › Re: My Dilemma With A Married Friend Who Wants Sex From Me by cococandy(f): 5:25pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
What about sleeping with a married man? mysticwarrior: judging from the Analysis of your posts, I have reasons to suppress all doubts that you are psychological subnormal, your low esteem led you to condescend so low to sleep with a married woman, Oga wether you like it or not you must reap what you sow, sleeping with a married woman brings nothing but backwardness, Financial misfortunes, Limitations and untimely death, and above all them must fvck your wife Toto. |
Romance › Re: My Dilemma With A Married Friend Who Wants Sex From Me by cococandy(f): 9:29am On Jun 27, 2017 |
And you are telling us because? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:53am On Jun 27, 2017 |
mzjaney: So it was my birthday yesterday and i did this little cake for masef  you did good. Happy birthday |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:52am On Jun 27, 2017 |
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Family › Re: My 1yr 8month Old Baby Uses Left Hand. Right Or Wrong by cococandy(f): 10:23pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Everything na problem. Even when there's nothing to worry about, people always look for things to fuss and complain about. Life is a lot simpler than many of you complainers realize. Leave things alone! |
Career › Re: Lady Sacked For Not Wearing Bra To Work In US (Photos) by cococandy(f): 8:36pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
She should sue them. There's no law that demands a woman wear a bra. And even if there was, it's an unjust law. |
Sports › Re: Kanu Nwankwo And Wife Celebrate 13th Traditional Wedding Anniversary by cococandy(f): 8:12pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
But he was cheating on her |
Career › Re: Kogi Civil Servant Who Returned N1.78m Excess Salary Speaks (photo) by cococandy(f): 6:29pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
If it's from the government, spend it. It's your money. |
Family › Re: Most Women Respect Spiritual Leaders Than Their Husband - Bamisepeter's Blog by cococandy(f): 9:38am On Jun 26, 2017 |
SnowJay92: Just breathe dear, it's well. I'm holding my breath |
Family › Re: Most Women Respect Spiritual Leaders Than Their Husband - Bamisepeter's Blog by cococandy(f): 6:22am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Because you people's advice to any woman in any kind of trouble is to 'pray'. When the husband cheats 'pray' When she's beaten 'pray' When she gives birth to only daughters 'pray' When the couple is childless 'pray' Any and everything 'pray' Aren't you the ones that say ' A wise woman builds her home?' A biblical phrase meant to put the weight of the success or failure of the marriage on her. Why do you make rules for women and then knock the women for following your pathetic rules? They can never win in your pathetic society obviously  |
Family › Re: Can You Allow Your Husband Engage In Anal Sex With You? by cococandy(f): 11:18pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
As long as you don't feel pressured into doing it. |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 10:14pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
edwife: Great. Just busy bee but will soon resume Nairaland during the holidays, miss this place.  I understand. Take your time. Didn't have much time to visit here myself until my holiday began |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 8:45pm On Jun 25, 2017 |
edwife: Hello coco, how are you? Fine thanks. You? |
Family › Re: . by cococandy(f): 8:29am On Jun 25, 2017*. Modified: 8:56am On Jun 26, 2017 |
In my part of Igbo land we address older people as nda, dada or Dede. Even if they are one year older than you.
Personally I never liked it as I insisted all my younger ones call me directly by my first name. It all depends on personal preference. It obviously bothers or you wouldn't be here about it. You can tell her about it if you want.
However does your younger brother call you by your first name? Because if he does, then it's unfair that you expect his wife to attach a prefix to your name. It would give that impression of in-law superiority that causes trouble in many homes.
Be careful how you handle this. (non-issue in my opinion) |
Family › Re: I Am Feeling So Depressed And May End This Life Soon by cococandy(f): 7:43am On Jun 25, 2017 |
jakandeola: dis africa if u cant respect out culture den get out u lived in America yet try to spoil our women mind Respect your culture of female disrespect? No thank you. I love myself enough not to respect a culture whose sole foundation is dependent on and thrives on disrespecting me. You're stupid. Get off my mentions. |
Family › Re: I Am Feeling So Depressed And May End This Life Soon by cococandy(f): 7:24am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Would you shut up? Such idiotic nonsense Aquariann: @ bolden, that's the sad fact. And after waltzing into his life, she expected to automatically assume the position of a queen and shareholder of some sort.
The husband is not silly and knows why she agreed to marry him. He might not be acting this way deliberately too, but he simply doesn't know how to connect (emotionally) with a lady who married him for the wrong reason. He acts like someone who got dumped previously by a lady he would have truly appreciated (due to his once inadequate financial status). So women are like a conquest now for him.
Like we keep advocating, the best defence a woman (in marriage) has, is a little money of her own. So the truth is she can't/won't leave him, because she has nothing. And would only use her son as excuse. |
Family › Re: I Am Feeling So Depressed And May End This Life Soon by cococandy(f): 6:51am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Cleopatra4: This is Africa divorce is never d best option. She should talk things over with her husband if he doesn't listen let her involve her people. Yes death is definitely a better option. Because in Africa, we are forbidden to use common sense. |
Family › Re: I Am Feeling So Depressed And May End This Life Soon by cococandy(f): 6:50am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Why do people always assume that women get married for money? Y'all don't even know her and you're already sure she's married because of money. If she stays single, y'all will still be the ones creating nonsense threads up and down about single women. Smh |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:15am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Ewuro4: Who else is here? Edwife Coco (I forgot) Cake boss lady Chair something Tearoses Those men too Roy Roy something 
Where are you guys?  Hi edwife: Thankful Heart.
Blessed!  Hello |
Romance › Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by cococandy(f): 10:14pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Mindfulness:

It was a sign from the universe that you should not stop to encourage and inspire and that Mindy is always right. LOL 
Some people call it a coincidence but I do not believe in such.  |
Romance › Re: 5 Types Of Ladies Some Guys Are Scared To Date by cococandy(f): 7:49pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Wives Could You Kneel To Greet Your Husbands And Husbands Could You Let Them? by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
DatesAndMeals: He didn't say being loved was what he wasn't feeling but being respected. Apart from kneeling, respect is usually shown in how women nag or argue with their husbands. If you are talking rubbish, does she have to agree in order not to hurt your pride. Someone who can't be disagreed with is a hallmark of deeper mental issues just so you know |
Celebrities › Re: Abba Kyari Blasts Kate Henshaw For Criticising Picture With Evans, The Kidnapper by cococandy(f): 5:26pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Stupid PANDA2: KATE HENSHAW, WHO COULD NOT EVEN PERFORM THE SIMPLE DETECTIVE ACT THAT EVERY SMART WOMAN CAN DO INSTINCTIVELY, WHICH IS, FINDING OUT WHEN HER HUSBAND IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WAS SO DUMB AS NOT TO DISCOVER THAT HER HUSBAND, MR RODERICK NUTTAL WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER HOUSEMAID RIGHT UNDER HER VERY NOSE. AN OYIBO MAN FOR THAT MATTER, WHO IS NOT EVEN AS SHARP AS NIGERIAN MEN WHEN IT COMES TO COVERING THEIR TRACKS IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS
AND SHE NOW HAS THE NERVE TO CRITICIZE NIGERIA POLICE UPON THE FACT THAT SHE NO FIT CATCH FLY!!!! Agbaya. See stupidity. |