₦airaland Forum

AlphaHandMaiden:
This fish is ministering to my soul!

Chillisauce:

Nairaland has spoilt my babe finish.

You called someone imbé?
Faints!!

freshvine:
With all this senseless gender fight, you must have taken away all the gut and pride from your husband

Mindfulness:
Ok then.

Has your wife always been like this or can you tell when it started?


I am enjoying this exchange too, especially observing how some people compromise their high moral standards in the name of loyalty.

innovestor:
Please don't take offence whatsoever. The answer to that question is this: Imagine an Engineer preferring a medical solution to a Doctor. He might be right in the solution but it might come from an engineering point of view. The practicality of the solution would be confirmed during application. Read some posts before now and you will understand what i mean.

I am not the fan of "changing number things". She still has her number. Like i said whatever does not change before marriage does not change because of marriage. Change is an individual resolve.

misguided characters that are hell-bent on pulling down the former President, despite his clear record of diligent service to his country and long-standing commitment to the good of society.

There is no doubt that there exist such people who may have scores to settle with the former President but are now feeling frustrated by the fact that his national and international profile has continued to rise, despite their recourse to endless muck-raking character assassination. Such people will stop at nothing to continue to throw obstacles, albeit futilely, on his path

darkenedrebel:
His guilt hasn't been proven yet.

innovestor:
Coco, no swallow panadol on my behalf. I will answer u.

I have had my numbers for ages now. I have had friends (and still have friends) who are females. I am not of the school of thought that once you get married its a different life (you change character, phone number etc.). What you can't change before marriage cannot be changed because of marriage. Change is everyone's personal decision to make whether marriage or going to be married or single.

Except you are suggesting i change my numbers and this will come with a cost i am not ready bear now.

So my question to you, are you married?

pcguru1:
I don't know ehmmmmmm am guessing former females he had as friends before he got married

Stillfire:
Absolutely. I feel like giving uppercuts to the black women joining in this nonsense black lives matter mantra which should in truth actually be 'black men's life matter'. And women partake in this crap for sons that HATE their freaking guts ?.?.?.?.? You've got to be kidding me!
The biggest racism a black woman receives day in day out comes from BLACK MEN!
More than half of black girls have been sexually assaulted before the age of 18. Which one requires urgency from me? Some 'police brutality over a black man we have to pray he is not a thug in order to find an ounce of credibility in his story' or damning statistic about girls getting raped by BLACK MEN before the age of 18?' Bloody hell!!!
Black women wake up!!!!

blank:
Meanwhile, in a room in Unical:

Ujoan:
I was waiting for the tactless comments anout my body parts . . . In case you don't know, I also have fallen b00bs

Next na Ashewo . . . how else will you be able to degrade a woman . . . . e no pass any of that.

It means this is paining you very well . . . GOOD!

Ujoan:
Did you notice how most of the people supporting him are men? And yet they claim 'all men are not the same' . . . . Obviously 100% of the guys on this thread will do exactly what OP's brother did . . . where does that leave the women . . single mothers of loose morals.

But then I also blame the women involved . . they are the ones having children for loser who thinks they don't have to face their mistakes until when it's convenient enough to do so. . . . when contraceptives are everywhere.

Even some married men are not left out of it. Many men would gladly abandon their wives and children for their concubines. Nigerian men generally believe that when the children grow up, they will come searching for them, so they don't have to hang around to be a father. That's why you see a lot of single mothers and divorced women raising kids alone . . Did they conceive the kids on their own?

The outrage from the men on this thread is honestly upsetting. See them acting like we are the evil ones here . . . . Shebi all of them have daughters or will do someday . . . I pray Chioma's fate befall their daughters . . . Amen. At least the man who is responsible will come back in about 20-something years to compensate them and their daughters, so all is not lost.

GoldCircle:
Been following this thread. Interesting and nice contributions. But I just want to add that for some African parents, raising kids in an American environment (with a different moral standard) than ours is a tough one. For some of us, this is a major factor considering the fact that kids are very impressionable these days and have a greater sense of their society than we did in our days. I would rather pay for an American or British school in Nigeria (if I can afford it) until the child is 'matured' enough for further studies abroad and has firmly taken to his African roots.

The example of some kids I know have not been encouraging at all. A few parents have hinted at sending them home to live for a while with an Uncle or an Grandma before they enter college. For me, the most important factor is for my kids not to get lost in the crowd.

Chibuhealth:
Yoruba and Hausa hate Igbos, okay.....! Allow Igbos to be on their own, they refused. Okay....! Allow Igbos to become the president of the country, they refused. My question now is, what is their problem? And what is your problem?

Spirit1:
Thank you

Either way the choice belongs to the young man.
Don't you agree that he should be given the opportunity to make this choice?

tearoses:
Banking is one of the worst professions to be in right now
They use you like rag
My tennant is a banker (operations)
He is expected to work every other weekend Sat and sun 7am to 7pm
Plus Mon to Friday
They get rid of them like weevils in beans at every opportunity so they all walk on eggshells
Disgusting!

thorpido:
None of them may quit.I guess it's the baby that might need to know he/she is in Lagos.They might just get a nanny except they can get a relative to stay.

tearoses:
Coco Lagos is not for me either
We have properties in Lagos and Ibadan, but it is quicker to us get to Ibadan than meander our way to our place in Lagos due to traffic
So from the airport we always face Ibadan.
Some trips home we never even go to the Lagos House at all
Personally I dont like stress and car rides so going to Lagos gives me headache
I know some people who say they cant live anywhere else apart from Lagos so different strokes for different folks
Almost everyone I know has a horror story about Lagos traffic
and some people commute everyday
You hear stories of bankers who leave home at 4am and dont get back until 11pm only to do it the next day
Maybe becasue I am not in their shoes but I will certainly relocate and downsize if that were me
Quality for me is more important than quantity

thorpido:
Lagos really can be exhausting but it's where i live.

@EfemenaXY,can one move to the UK to cut costs?It seems like it's cheaper here in Nigeria than in the UK.

lonelydora:
Are they up to that number? Hmmmm, maybe they are telling us that all the Northern youths are boko haram members.