₦airaland Forum

iykedare:


Not so many people can do that- finish their masters in a year. I should be there by September 2017 and will most likely take 10 courses in a 3 semesters. Like you, I don't want to work while Schooling and I don't want to pay for more than 3 semesters. The money no be here.... Naira to CAD is outrageous now.

So have you decided to start your PhD? Chai. Me sef no know say I fit do amebo.

Regarding your diary, it was so interesting . Been checking for updates to it before now. So when will you update it?

Lol! Will do that soon...
Thanks by the way

iykedare:
Hi cocolav, when will you update your diary? . Love your writing skill.

Looks like you finished your courses in 3 semesters. Was it stressful doing all your courses within that short time.? How many courses did you take?

Lol!

Never had someone call me out like this before.
To answer your question...yes it was stressful and I had to choose between working part time and finishing early and I chose the latter although that is not the norm cos my program was quite intensive. I think I took about 7 courses in all.

I think the current vacancies may be for Abians if they found that Abians are not adequately represented in those parastatals.

Every state has their FC Commissioner. Their job is to ensure that their indigenes are adequately represented in federal positions. This shows the Abia guy is working.

Contact your commissioner today.

Anybody living in Cambridge, Ontario?

Please reply or mention me. It is kind of urgent. Thanks

kollynsb:
Hi,

Western Union quote expires in 72hrs and i dont know how form A can be used for payment.

You must submit to your bank within 72 hours after it is issued.

As a lady, wedding etiquette demands that you do not wear white to a wedding. The only person on white should be the bride unless otherwise specified in the dresscode.

Amelian:
Gun for it when you are single as a lady.. Not when you are married... Smhhh

Azed1

iykedare:
Hi cocolav,

Are you at uottawa? How did you make your tuition payment? Western Union business solutions? Please I need to pay on Monday. I have sent email to the school but they haven't replied me.

Cc joe980

Western Union

davide470:
Lol.

Are you in Zimbabwe?

No, Burundi!

davide470:
We can make it together.

With your dollars and my naira, we would build a great empire.

Like Zimbabwean dollars?

davide470:
..Waiting for CocoLav!

Loool!

I'm waiting for you to make millions sweetie

Nope! If wives can open eye for their husbands when they get to obodo oyinbo, is it your maid that will not open eye?

singlefade25:
Happy Birthday ke.....na June now not october

Cocolav congratulations.....PhD next o

Thanks boo.

About the birthday thing..blame Facebook not me!

TheSCRYPT:
Hahahahahahahah! Epic!

Go awayyyyyyy

Loveprotocol:
I am not playing mind games with her actually, I just wanted to know if she has been pretending since that's why I create the scarcity once in a while and when I do, she reaches out to me.
I have asked her to make up her mind so that I can either include her in my long term plans or shut her out. She also made it very clear that she is not into any relationship with anybody and[b] I've never seen her receive any call from a man whenever I'm around her[/b].

I mentioned mind games because you stop calling her for one week, she calls you the next. You start calling her, she starts her forming again and the cycle goes on..

At the bolded, trust me it does not count.

Jamean:
huh! like seriously

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Happy belated birthday Jamean the pretty lady. Sorry it is coming late.

Happy birthday Singlefade. Have a good one dear.

Op. just be straightforward. five months is enough time to chase a lady and for her to have made up her mind. She is probably in a serious relationship and now weighing her options now that you are in the chase as well. You have told her your intentions, tell her you do not intend to force her or continue chasing her if she is not interested. Demand for an answer and move on with your life if she says no...Prophet or no prophet. If she is faced with an ultimatum, she will make up her mind quickly. Enough of the mind games both of you are playing and act like the matured adults you should be.

Ladies love being chased and sometimes men make it so easy. As soon as the man stops, we become worried and start the chasing. However, matured ladies that know what they want do not play such mind games.

Keep searching and praying for another lady and try not to appear too desperate next time.

That is just a sink hole. Nothing extra-ordinary and you cannot really tell when it would happen. It happens in developed countries as well.

The gods are angry indeed.

raumdeuter:
That's why I dont understand why people are getting offended by this question.

State what you are bringing to this marriage table and you reply you are the table. If you are the table what is the guy? The chair?

OP, Marriage is a partnership and in every partnership, each partner must bring something to the table. In your case, firstly, you have a kid which is a financial obligation. Secondly, there is drama that comes with raising a kid that is not yours as well as the possibility of your ex-husband coming to reap the fruit of this man's labour in the future. [size=5pt]Thirdly, you have given birth which permit me to say but I am just being frank means that place 'down there' may have been stretched a little bit.[/size] Lastly, there's gonna be some drama from your ex-husband and his family in the foreseeable future. Although I do not subscribe to his suggestion that you send your kid to the village, What he is simply asking you is putting love or attraction aside, why should I marry you?

Nobody marries just for love anymore these days. Men ask this question in various ways...when a man asks what you studied, how many siblings you have, what your siblings do, what your parents do for a living etc. they are trying to gauge the potential financial burden and drama in their life if they marry you. I also do the same. If your siblings are still very young, I am calculating the potential of my money and your money being spent to raise your siblings and their kids instead of ours. If you have an unruly sibling, I am calculating how that sibling can bring drama to my life in the future. As I said earlier, it is a partnership and each person has to bring something to the table.

Phonefanatic:
I know you will I hope you will allow him know what you are spending on too

You know I will ke?

Only if he really wants to know. I just feel women are more frugal with money than men.

Phonefanatic:
Joint account is a must 60% of Salary from both sides goes in there which will be used to run the family this doesn't stop the man from doing most things as a man and shouldn't stop the woman from buying those Littles things.

Some partners can be reckless with spending some buy what they really don't need.
My wife should know what I'm spending on. I've seen women from demanding homes in fact Mother-in-law can coarse her daughter to drain a man's pocket likewise bad friends. Some can go buying clothes they don't need on credit.

I will all always provide for my woman but that shouldn't stop me from knowing what she spends on.

I agree with the bolded

Anaskie:
Americanah

davide470:
I hate it when all this Black Nigerian nïggas use the word "Africa"..


Btw, Cocolav, come and see your people

I feel so embarrassed when I see the way Nigerians act around cats. That is how one came to my apartment and started screaming blood of Jesus because of the three cats in my house. She was startling my cats and upsetting them so I kukuma asked her to come and be going.

napoleonsmart:
Good evening house, I am in search of University Admission for a student who just finished High School and wants to start his B.sc program in Cananda, he is a science student and is open to any course/school that will guarantee qichk admission and also also one which the consular will see as a course worth leaving Nigeria to study abroad.

Many thanks for you suggestions

Please I am asking this question because nothing can be compared to experience

Let him focus on a computer based course. Preferably software engineering, cyber-security, data analytics and algorithm.

Uottawa and Carleton have a joint program that makes a lot of sense in these areas. Take a look at them.

D of course.

Swallow is the surest food.

Cleanliness is next to Godliness

Abegi! All this one is talk. Common ordinary dating, you stand by a man when he has nothing and when he makes money he will leave you for another girl because he suddenly believes he can do better.

See them talking about loyalty like they know what it means. Apparently only Nigerian men deserve loyalty, women don't.

Pampers and Nestle baby endorsement on the way

4dor:
Can we say your present environment triggered this fear? If you were in your natural 'habitat', would you still be scared of this?

Nahhh..

The fear has always been there but could not be expressed because of my 'natural habitat '. I can now express it and not be judged.