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Justfollowit:
I am still on the essay


They did not reply but I spoke to a friend of mine. He asked me to drop it because the issue is a common thing. I feel so helpless , I wish something could be done.

Justfollowit:
OK, how have you been?

Justfollowit:
Humans are either good or bad. The society's expectation on adherents to be ‘all nice' is unrealistic. Above all they are human like every other.

Urine:
Don't deny Ifa, he loves you.

Urine:
Ifa shouldn't be brought into this fracas, the man as a person is a terrible man if what was said about him is the truth. Ifa doesn't bring sorrow to people, In fact he is Ifa olokun asoro dayo, the one who turns people's sorrow to joy.

cc cocolav.

Anaskie:
First of all, I didn't know customary courts had the jurisdiction to dissolve a marriage.

Assuming they did though, I believe that the grounds for dissolution were not proper at all. What if the guy actually believed he was AA?


The comments I've seen here justifying divorce really makes me wonder. Marriage isn't something that should be rushed in and out. Those vows actually mean a lot.

I believe the couple should have worked it out. They could either stop making any more babies, or even adopt one.

Besides, chances are that the second and third children might even both be AS.

You guys make it sound as if Sicklers aren't human beings.

CoColav, wats ur take on dis?

deuce7:
Hehehehe...you feel I was referring to you?

deuce7:
I wish someone with see this and understand it.

MzStunner:
I have been following this thread from the beginning and some of the experiences are like answers to some situations I am facing or have faced. I want to thank you babyosisi, mutter, chaircover, madampinkolo, and all of you that have shared your stories, believe me, I have been refreshing this page for the past one week for updates.
Like Preternatura1 I am unmarried and I USED to think like her, I perceived my self in a certain class and thereby wouldn't be caught dead dating someone that didn't meet up. if my then boyfriend didn't meet up to standard, I would hide him from my friends, cos I didn't want to "fall my hand". I dated men whom I felt belonged within and above my social class, with their charming tongues, flashy cars, suave demeanours. Most of the time, I realized that they were either engaged, married, players, cheats, had very big egos or had little respect for me. Then I met my fiancé. He was different from the kind of man I would normally be seen with. I wasn't attracted t him at all. We met at his office so I had to be civil with him but that was far as I could take it, or so I thought. He changed me with his love. he had challenges with tenses, at first I couldn't bear it. me that won essay competitions, me that my colleagues call to proof read their e-mails before they send it, but then I began to correct him, he would send me a text with a wrongly spelt word, I would reply and correct the spelling, he would get it right the next time. the things I saw as issues initially became non issues like the issue of his bad breath, I went online for solutions and one day I bought him Euthymol toothpaste and a new brush without telling him why. a week later the bad breath disappeared. he is the kindest man I have ever met. he has taught me that you should be with a man that respects you, loves you, can share his 1 naira with you, has a relationship with God. He made me to start going to church , made me stop wearing revealing clothes, made me stop buying impulsively. I used to think cooking for a man was crap but now I see myself searching for new recipes every weekend. he has made a better person. We are saving up for our wedding later this year while working and praying towards better Jobs. So my dear Preternatura1 please look for the qualities that matter, does he keep to his word, do you trust him when he is alone? what is his relationship with God Like? does he respect women? is he willing to share his income even if you are not actively contributing? If I had left my man initially because of a perceived difference in social strata, I would still be bed hopping with guys that do not have my interests at heart. You could be lucky to find a man who is well to do and genuine without a trail of clingy exes but think through and through for the things that really matter. those people you are trying to impress with a sophisticated man will not be there to wipe snot off ur nose when ur sick, rub ur back when u hv cramps, make u a meal when ur too tired to make one, gossip with you, understand when u tell him u don't want to have s*x even when he wants to. experience has taught me that money and class will not give me all these, love, respect and kindness will.

yahx:
hey coco they are so many innocent. Citizens locked up in various prison without trials #nd bcaus dey dnt have anybody to stand fr thm

MrFernandez:
O boy you wicked oooh; 45# for girls? Haha...I'm not advocating you turning into a money spinning machine in the name of love, but Bruv a lady still needs tender loving care! It's the way they are made! Even if her papa na Carlos Slim she still expects her man to show some care and spoil her sometimes!

stinggy:
Go kwa? Been around, should even be asking you that. Lotsa cases you're handling right?