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Sapphire86:
She looked like a lesbian... I hope I'm wrong sha

You are not wrong. 99% of tomboys are lesbians. I wont be suprised if she is still into that dirty lifestyle. Once it has eaten deep into someone it is usually hard to stop

PrecioussB:
Just like the title says.
I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.

The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.

WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.

MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.

GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.

Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.

Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .

This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.

CLOSURE is KEY!

Peace

Crazy post by a crazy girl. Only a crazy person would read all the crazy write up

lolz. He is truly a pastor, only an anointed apostle will do such an uncommon gesture

coolfredo:
Meaning?

The guy na big fish

Glink2018:
Otedola the rich daugter.instead of this nonsense why can't your father give you a role in his company like Dangote daughter, it will keep you busy instead of you jumping up and down the entertainment industry...
How many serious people can. you find In the entertainment industry, it is better for you to ask your father for a professional role in his company so that you can take over from father after his demise...

You be big fish, I swear. No sense at all.Dont you know entertainment itself is a sector on its own. Respect people's occupation. Nothing is easy. Entertainment is a serious occupation. Only serious and creative people xan succeed there

patrickcollins:
Well said, my colleague at work has been dealt heavy blow by Betn9ja, he always stakes heavily and gains nothing in return, he looks frustrated sometimes due to money lost to game staking.

lolz

anibi9674:
Betting can cause depression.

It causes depression, severe pains, mental incapacitation, divorce etc. Nothing permanently good can come out of it

Onyi22:
Congratulations baby girl but hope he's a rich guy?
Don't fall for a broke ass guy all in the name of love

This one is forever pained. Last last u go marry poor man. Your thinking is so poor.

Enoch07:
the lady above me is beautiful.

Is this a joke?

This guy dey mumu o. You don resign if they like they should treat it. It is none of your business. Continue receiving the money, if you dont know what to do with it, you can help give to charity. Dont you hv famly members that need help? You want to return back the money to them to embezzle

They did the same thing with me yesterday. I did a 2k plan yesterday and it showed unknown error i did not recieve sms n my money was deducted

Guy man don steal from Nigeria, run to USA dey enjoy him loot.

Is it only northerners we have in this country. If someone from the north has ruled for 8yrs, they should rest and allow someone from the south, east or west to contest now.

Casandra25:
I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

How will someone not have orgasm in two years. Just tongue work on clit and fingering. 2mins you don cum. Do you know what an orgasm is? Biko u migt hv had one but wont know

I dont know why people like taking advantage of people's unpleasant circumstances to enrich themselves. These points raised are canards, fables, whoppers, tall tales, hogwash and silly bunkum meant to satisfy their selfish interest. After all, he never took care of them. This is the only means they can recover all those stuffs he denied them

Fellow Nairalanders, I am pained right now. I wanted to enjoy my Friday over a bottle of Alcohol, suya, and some movies. After work, I branched to a supermarket to get Magic moment.

On getting home, I now stretch my leg, pour the magic moment, and was watching SIREN. I noticed it smells like local gin mixed with onions. It tastes bad with no chocolate taste or flavor.

But the thing is that why would someone sell something that is fake especially when the health risks are high and it could damage someone's kidney.

I am thinking of going to meet the woman on one hand and I am also thinking of petitioning them. Who knows how many people they have sold it to or how many people they might have killed through their fake products.

The thing is they dont issue receipt and might deny they sold it to me. But I need to make them know they cant continue selling fake things and get away with it. How do I go about it?

fati2001:
lolz, attention seeker.
LA Inglish LA incomplete LA you LA quote someone, abeg go and sit-down.

I have been follwing your quote. You have a very Ugly face, no breast, no yansh, zero sense of courtesy and respect and to cap it all, NO SENSE. How can you be this empty and miserable?

I dont get it o. So if someone touched the fire extinguisher before she wsd raped nko. Or someone from the church who doesnt know anything about it. They should pick finger prints around the location and try to see if there is a cluster. If they were more than one rapists, they would have left so many trails. Even hair samples sef, dem fit use am trace person

The Electricity Workers Union has called on the state governments of South-South region, all security agencies and stakeholders to immediately intervene and restrain the Managing Director of the Port Harcourt Electricity Distribution Company, PHEDC, Henry Ajagbawa, from sacking over one hundred and twenty staff.

Acting General Secretary, Senior Staff Association of Electricity and Allied Companies, South-South Zone, Comrade Innocent Lord-Douglas, who stated this to newsmen in Port Harcourt, said the management of PHED has concluded plans to serve retrenchment letters to over one hundred and twenty staff come June 1st, 2020.

He noted that the PHED has declined to respond to several letters written by the union on the issue, adding that the Managing Director has also refused to sign conditions of service for staff since resumption of office, six months ago, but rather resulted to the use of PHED manufactured sanctioned grid code to intimidate electricity workers.

“Information gathered is that the Managing Director is going to sack one hundred and twenty staff, majority of whom are Rivers people, for his personal reasons which we don’t know and we are having concerns and fear why he wants to do that.

“We are telling the MD and CEO that they are not going to succeed in this venture. I have sent letters to the DSS, Police, State government, House of Assembly in the whole four States of PHEDC operations must call on this man and stop him.

“He cannot send out one hundred and twenty staff to the public, where does he want them to go even in this of COVID 19 pandemic? In case of any break down of law and order, they should hold the Managing Director of PHED responsible”

Comrade Lord-Douglas further advised all staff of PHED not to accept to sign any letter of retrenchment presented to them.

“Let no PHEDC staff take up any letter without knowing the content of the letter, no staff should sign any sack letter that is intimidating to them from the PHED, no staff should leave their office paraventure they are asked to evacuate the office.

“We are all stakeholders in the power industry, many of our members have put in over eight years in the PHED service and in law, any worker that have put up to five years in an establishment is entitled to gratuity. No staff is going, no staff is going to sign any sack letter”

On his part, Human Right Advocate, Barrister Higher King, said legal action will be taking against the management of PHEDC should they go on and sack workers come June 1st 2020.

“PHED is partly owned by the government, so these staff are pensionable staff. How can they wake up and sack workers who have put in seventeen, twenty years, and say go home without nothing, you don’t do such a thing, because that will increase criminality, it’s injustice.

“Labour law does not permit that, if they go ahead now to sack, every action taken will be nullified in court, we are definitely going to go to court, that is the position as it is right now.

“Information I got is that PHED made lots of money during the COVID-19 lockdown, because people were at home, they had power supply and they bought more electricity scratch cards, there was no time I heard PHED stopped collecting electricity bill from consumers during the lockdown, so why should they sack staff when they were not affected by the pandemic”

Higher King however condemned the recent sack of the Branch President, Senior Staff Association of Electricity and Allied Companies, Comrade Paulinus Aniedi, from PHEDC as unjust.

Meanwhile, the sacked Branch President, Senior Staff Association of Electricity and Allied Companies South-South, Comrade Paulinus Aniedi, has also appealed to the Rivers state government to intervene in the unjust action meted out on him by Henry Ajagbawa, Managing Director Port Harcourt Electricity Distribution Company.

Aniedi who made the appeal in Port Harcourt while briefing newsmen on the situation, claimed that his sack came as a result of the confrontation Henry Ajagbawa had with Governor Nyesom Wike during the lockdown period.

According to him, the Managing Director PHED had threatened to sack indigenes of Rivers State, Akwa Ibom and all south south staff from PHEDC as a result of what happened between him and the Governor of Rivers State

“The issue on ground is between the Managing Director of PHEDC, Henry Ajagbawa, who is standing on the right of staff by claiming that he is going to sack the entire workforce of PHEDC especially the indigenes of Rivers, Bayelsa and Akwa Ibom.

“This matter started when he was arrested by Governor Nyesom Wike when the Governor was going round to see the compliance with the COVID-19 lockdown. He was unable to identify himself, on that process the Governor asked the security operatives to send him to isolation Centre.

“The information I got from him was that he will avenge the anger on the Staff and he will sack over one hundred and twenty staff. When I asked why he wants to sack the workers unjustly, he filed for my sack. Even the Committee set up found me faultless, yet I was sacked for confronting him on the matter”

https://theportcitynews.com/2020/05/31/union-fumes-as-phedc-is-set-to-sack-120-staff-tomorrow/

Too bad. There is no loss in reporting to your parents. It doesn't take away your self-esteem or make you less than you are. You are in school, bro. You have got to be a man. Act like one. Age does not matter. Make contacts with your course mates, maybe someone can assist you with a place to sleep. But that one comes with its own challenges as there will be no food. Don't allow someone to take away your self-worth and make you feel less than who you are. Report to your parents and his parents too, Biko. Be a man. No, be by age, you need to mix up with friends who can also stand up for you. Stop living your life online, make friends around

Risky shit... If the queue is tight and the babe has an ass that is big n can make me lose my self-control, I would just step out of the queue or just tell her say babe this your back is tempting, please set it one place. I cant stand embarrassment

UyaiIncomparabl:


You be mumu o! Why e dey pain you like this? Are you the guy in question?

Empty headed babe. I wasnt wrong. Only a big Olodo will ask those two contradicting questions. I pity the kind of guys that flock around you. Zero intelligence. Spits!!!

DM ME. Dont marry a man you not in love with, you would always regret it

UyaiIncomparabl:
I'm really not interested about his birthday nor his photo-shoot. My concern and question is, is he married?

Dark like coffee, just the way I like them. I hope his gbola is big sha.

Empty headed babes with nothing meaningful to offer except SEX. Once they detect a guy that they perceive has some money to spare, they lose their manners, self control, self respect and bring their dirtiness& emptiness to light. No wonder you yet to marry and would remain single for long. She-goat, disgracing womanhood

Port Harcourt — The Port Harcourt Electricity Distribution Company, PHED, has debunked the rumour that the company was threatening to switch off power supply in Rivers State, over the arrest of its MD/CEO and some of its officials by COVID-19 taskforce in the state.

PHED Manager, Corporate Communications, John Onyi, who admitted that PHED staff have been arrested on various occasions while carrying out their duties as essential workers during the Covid lockdown, said the company remains committed to delivery of electricity to customers.

Onyi explained that it was untrue that PHED was contemplating to throw Port Harcourt and the entire Rivers State into darkness, as that would be foreign to the core values which the company stands for.

He also highlighted the company’s 24/7 service line where customers can directly complain, in the event of loss of supply in any area, for immediate attention and subsequent restoration.

“The attention of the Port Harcourt Electricity Distribution Plc has been drawn to a viral social media report that PHED is threatening to switch off power supply in Rivers state arising from the arrest of its officials who were subsequently taken to isolation centre in Port Harcourt by the Government of the Rivers state.

Whilst it is true that PHED staff have, at various times during the COVID lock down, been arrested in the course of the dutiful delivery of essential services to the good people of Rivers State, PHED however, remains unwavering in its avowed commitment to delivery of electricity to its valued customers.

“Therefore, there is no iota of truth that PHED was contemplating to throw Port Harcourt into darkness as that would be foreign to the core values that PHED stands for.

“PHED as a major player in the electricity industry value chain will not embark on any action that will cause displeasure or discomfort to its esteemed customers and the general public as a whole.

“Our role and responsibility, as always, is to ensure that we offer necessary support as much as we can during this period of covid-19 pandemic.”

The management of PHED also appealed to all state security apparatus in her franchise area, to accord its staff members all the support required to enable them perform their essential role in providing electricity to all.

“PHED will continue to render its services through efficient distribution of power supply to its valued customers in Rivers , Bayelsa, Cross River and Akwa Ibom states based on what it receives on daily basis from the Transmission Company of Nigeria, TCN.



“PHED, it will be recalled through its press releases on 23rd and 29th March 2020, widely circulated, had assured its esteemed customers in the aforementioned states that the workers would be on ground despite the spread of COVID-19 pandemic with special regard to following all the preventive measures so as to ensure seamless service delivery. ”

Exc2000:
Common MD of Electricity Distribution Company in a state should even get police escort to work in saner climes, as he is not only essential worker, his work (power supply) affects Every sector of the state including Hospitals

He was with an escort. The police man on black beret that he called an Idiot. Which the video well

There was mild drama on Thursday as Gov. Wike lead the task force on the enforcment of lockdown order in the state.

One of the notable moments was when the MD / CEO Of PHED was accosted by the Governor for violation of lockdown directive in the state. You would recall that PHED made a donation of some trucks of rice to the Government of Rivers State to assist the government in the fight against covid 19.

As shown in the video, the MD was dumbfounded as he tried to explain to Wike that he is the MD of PHED which is one of the power distribution companies in Nigeria with license to sell electricity in Rivers, Akwa Ibom, Cross River, and Bayelsa. However, Wike, responded, "Which PHED" , and ordered him to be taken to isolation center.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXbRiCmO42k

nautybride:
It's not about the only thing one can give. I guess you didn't read my previous post that said some couples keep having babies that would make them neglect taking care of themselves. People are broke, and they will keep popping babies probably because they have all the time to sex when they are supposed to be out there making money or in there brain storming.

You tend to forget money is not everything. Marriages this days do not last long because people dont create time for themselves. Even married couples don't know themselves. Money is not everyone's priority. It is not a do or die affair aunty

I really don't understand the pardoning here. To be frank, she said she is going to the hospital, so any reasonable person would allow her seek medical attention she wants. How can someone close down small retail shops, pharmacy, filling station. It deally doesnt make sense.

Asuito7:
Your stereotype nature knows no bound and it has no rivalry.

Chai. People dey this world o

Typical, Akwa Ibom man. He can sell his brother out because of a woman. If the op was your brother's wife, would you advise her to leave the home? Small quarrel she dons run come social media come dey rant, instead of her to talk it out with her husband. You will be shocked this issue can get resolved in a minute. I hate it when people who can't even maintain a relationship dish out negative advice to people. That Uyai gurl is a fish. The typical girl who has nothing to offer in a relationship than sex. I pity any man that would marry such a low thinking babe

Fake news