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Therock5555:
Due to the various news of the death of former PDP chairman's son who was murdered by his wife, I just thought I should share my own experience with y'all.

I had a girlfriend that was everything a brother could wish for, Rich, working class, beautiful, curvy, and brilliant, it's hard to get all these kind of qualities in a lady but there she had it all.

Her family are also well connected in the Army and Navy forces so she also had backup in case of any trouble, any party we attend, guys would always be admiring me but I alone knew her major flaw, she possessed a fiery temper. I'll just be receiving compliments and smiling but in my heart I'll be praying that somebody comes and snatch her from me cus we barely spend two days without quarreling and she's also quick to raise her hand on me, since I'm stronger than her I'll overpower her and tell her to respect herself.

I came from a home where I have never seen my parents arguing infront of us, they'll go to their room and talk it over without raising their voice so I promised myself that I'll never fight my woman no matter what but that was to change soon.

One evening I hosted her, her friend and boyfriend for a sleep over, they took the second room while I slept same room with my girl, around 5:30am I was awoken by a hot slap, I jumped up in surprise to meet my girlfriend fuming, she started screaming and calling me a cheat, I was surprised, asked her what happened and she claimed that she dreamt that I was having sex with another girl and when she woke up she wanted waking me to tell me of it when all of a sudden I muttered the name "Loveth" twice.

Chisos, I was mortified and tried explaining that Loveth was the name of my manager who is getting married later this year at my place of work and I had nothing going on with her, she kept accusing me, the next thing she slapped me, it was too early in the morning for me to get angry so I just grabbed my jacket and went to the parlour, her friend and boyfriend were already in the parlour wanting to find out what was the matter, I explained to them and went to kitchen to rest, not up to five minutes later she showed up and grabbed my boxer cus that was what I slept with.

When I didn't react she grabbed my balls with her left hand and my manhood with her right, that she was gonna squash my balls if i don't confess. I was in great pains and getting angry while warning her to let me go, managed to drag her to the parlour, her friend wanted to interfere but she threatened to deal with her if she comes near us.

I dragged her to the second bedroom and locked the door, I was trying to reason with her that my balls were aching but she wouldn't hear, out of anger I slapped her twice and yanked her hands off, she came at me again, I grabbed her two hands, twisted them behind her and took of the jacket, tie her hands and pushed her towards the bed before walking out. seems like she fell on her hands cus she screamed that her hand was broken, I ignored the shouts and went to the parlour as her friend went to attend to her.

I heard her telling her friend that if she didn't murder me that morning, she won't rest, when I heard that I went to my room and slipped under my bed with my phone. Ten minutes later she walked into my room with a baseball bat, chai I was laughing silently as she was searching for me, she went room by room searching and threatening her friend's boyfriend to reveal my whereabouts, what made her knew that I was still in that house was that both the front and back doors were still locked and the keys were indoors.

Then it stuck me, I remembered telling her that my favourite hiding spot was under my bed especially when I needed to work on something without interference cus she ran back to my room and slid under the bed, she saw me and tried hitting me but I was too far in. I thought she was kidding so I was laughing and jokingly warning her not to hit me.

Next thing she dragged the bed from the wall and tried attacking me again, then I knew shiiiit had hit the fan, I got up and tried defending myself, whenever she strikes I'll use the mattress to block the hit, she dragged the mattress away leaving me trapped between the bed post and wall, then I looked her direct to the eye and warned her to respect herself but even before I completed my statement she had landed the bat on the center of my head.

It was like I was hit with a tsunami, I was just hearing siren sounds in my ears as my vision became blurry, I was staggering but couldn't fall because I was still trapped beside the wall, my hand instinctively went to my head to check if my head was bursted open and that was my saving grace cus she hit me for the second time but since my hand was on that spot, she connected with my wrist instead, good Lord, I could barely see again as I screamed out, my nose was bleeding as she realised what she did and screamed too, her friends ran in and grabbed me, I told them they needed them to call my family doctor, that was all I remembered before I woke up that evening in the hospital with a throbbing headache and sprained wrist.

She later came to apologise but I wasn't gonna throw away my second chance at living, and we broke up few months later after numerous obsessive stalkings and threats, later found out that fighting was like a sport between her parents.


So my people this is my story, I was lucky, very lucky, please if your girlfriend always goes apeshit at every disagreement, abeg flee for your life.

Thank you

Mod please take it to FP let brothers learn from my experience.

mehn it’s never easy! Especially with girls with hot temper!! They can imagine u missed thier call cuz ur with another girl...

Only girl I ever laid my hands on was abusive!! Could throw knives and bottles when angry so I fight back not cuz I didn’t care but just to suppress her mehn

I hope n believe she will change tho

Blame the uselesss government

People get masters Dey Dey hustle

This bingo Dey yarn trash... boy way never see anything yet!! I laugh u...

Amarabae:
Failed tactics by Nigeria government.
Nnamdi kanu remains the AUTHENTIC IPOB LEADER.
we can never be fooled.

nnamdi is a big fool..,, igbos can’t get Biafra
Cuz the idiots the front are stupid and spineless...... making the same mistakes ojukwu did

You are a fool.. is Chris ur govt?

Edo witches are instigating you abi?

elantraceey:
Someone has achieved his life ambition



Sad thing is there's one guy somewhere that this same lady is begging for attention, this life sha.

imagine o!!!

Nigerians are jobless!!!

Ebuka pls trend as u want since these fools are jobless

Una Dey talk 150 hrs like say na beans! She no chop, shit, pee!! Even mess.....


Okay o!! Iyam coming!

If she can dance for that long I wonder other things she may do in the other room

fpeter:
So i was finally unbanned

sorry and welcome

Person enter plane go Dey business side or sth means jets out?

Idiot

Who’s the person that blurred her face?! Na wa o!! A pic that was posted online already

I don’t understand so because someone is a governor means I should stand!? You are on a long thing

sarrki:
They are same thing

One uses holy book to rob people

The second one uses constitution

still better than those that use holy book to brainwash people

Truth is!! It’s their choice!!

But if my father kept 1m dollars as donation to church, I go steal am

Obijulius:
This is a country where Buhari and Osibanjo allocate billions for their foreign trips but policemen are not equipped with the basics.

This explains d rot in the Police force.

Nigeria is cursed!!!

tomorow they will want to shoot a thief and the bullet will pass the side way dem wield knack bystanders

DrinkLimca:
So because a guy slept with you and stopped giving you attention, is enough reason to turn a lady into prostitution...

She is just using this daft experience as an excuse..

Irrespective of the fact that it's true that guys do that a lot...

But most of these ladies that fell victim never really loved the guys.

They agreed to sleep with the guys because of money and material things..

like if the guy was broke she would have paid attention!!

Probably he spent to get her and has to leave to recover the loss! #najoke o

What’s under pls! Am confused

Theakthedream:
80% of those who hail and call Jonathan their hero,do that because they simply hate Buhari and Apc... Nothing more... Nothing less.

u think?? I don’t hate pmb... I like him... determination and self esteem...

Only problem is that he’s clueless

Lol.. tinubu claims Jona was a thief...! Thief like tinubu actually can be listened to?

Alariiwo:
The worst thief ever in the history of Nigeria..

The fool couldn't even think of any development for SS people, not even road or clean water.
Even the dreaded IBB did a lot in Lagos, Abuja, Minna etc. The infrastructures he built are still standing till today.

he was trying to help the hungry northerners n the uneducated...

Solmax:
Such stories come up when Immature Adults date.
Abeg he should cut his loss and move on.
.
This him post go just make the ration of jollof rice to short that day sef as more people don hear of the wedding and go attend.

ur right!! But when ur a victim ud know what it feels like to love n loose... he’s wrong but he’s hurt! Understand

I remember when igbos we’re making noise! See pmb der o!! Una no reach

Posting it as what?? Okay u Dey see mikel wife post cr7? U Dey craze??

DozieInc:
All them "celebrity freaks".

i tire

HEs a crazy guy! Lack of respect... ur girl is giving him green light... besides why give home her number...

She’s showing u to make u feel good and change the directions!!!

Tell the guy to leave, and stop! Tell the girl to make a choice and walk... infact advice her to walk, so she can be sure of a choice!!

Be careful about women o

Donsammi:
lol

I don't even have hope in this country.
it's spoilt beyond repairs..

spoilt beyond repairs is an understatement

360command:
the truth is, even if nigeria was small as gh, we won't do sh1t. We were once at the same par or better than ghana, we failed to support our failing system. You just said it, ghana had to bring in additional support from Swiss but nigeria failed to bring in support.. They are truly the smart people..

Another example, violence can occur in nigeria at anytime and we won't do anything to stop it before it happens but a country like ghana wud never allow the system to go worse before solving it.

Nigeria uses fire brigade approach but it is always late for us but ghana does not.

thats why I summarized that even in years to come, we will still not go forward!! Lol... naija I hail

efighter:
Buhari hates the South-South and the South-East, yet he entrusted his food and drinks in the hand of one of them Mrs. Anne H. Ewohime. Definitely, Baba is not a nonentity like Biafran pigs and idiots.

ask her if she’s cooked for pmb!! Smh.. u think all this aides actually do anything

A country filled with hiv and xenophobia virus

Donsammi:
nothing special?
they have good infrastructure, security, electricity

do we have this in Nigeria?

I do have steady light here in abj. infrastructure also.
but is it the whole of Nigeria?

i have lived a long time in Ghana.. more than 5years! The steady light they have is powered by okosombo dam(that’s if I got the spelling) till after the overload and stuff the had to bring inadditional support from Swiss and all this for Accra n Kumasi... yea yea yea!!

Truth is, all this can’t even power Lagos, talk more of nigeria!! If nigeria was as small as gh!! This little one we have will power everywhere and change will remain!


Another truth is, even in the next 5years, we won’t have constant light.. sorry